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She felt i am very romantic because I call her up every two hours to hear from her, I call her at night before she sleep to tell her I love her and to wish her goodnight and sweet dreams.

Dem !!!, this is serious o. Didnt know that such lovers exist. Interesting. I hearby vote you, for the most romantic guy in Nairaland.

i am sure there are lot of guys here, that are quiet comfortable with php. All you have to do is ask a question and you would see the stream of answers to help you out.

But sharing ideas? what kind of ideas? please explain.

Confused i am honestly. . What is romance? someone help me out please

if you do not want the guy or the girl say no and that ends it. breakone's heart takes alot of time to heal and which is not good for one

Lol, this is serious. i guess you havent fall in love yet.

I wish i could construct the "I Need a Woman" version, hehehe, but i dont know what i really want in a lady. Perfection is not humanity, besides we dont always get what we want. We always manage what we have, in any situation.

Abi o, who want second-hand (No offence)

Maybe if you say the easy way to break up.

Hum this is the way i do it.

I try to avoid the lady for a while, as in seeing each other, and also at the same time maintaining the distance i am creating, and being kind of trying to avoid long conversations on the phone. By saying i got to go, after talking for a while etc.

The next step, after like a week of that, i would just call her for lunch or dinner, and tell her what i feel about the relationship and the reason i want it quits. And that way i have tried to avoid a lot of drama.

hum Male or Female? I dey look for wife o. But i no want old nairalander. Freshies only.

As 50 Cents said in his 21 Questions and i quote

If I was with some other chick and someone happened to see?
And when you asked me about it I said it wasn't me
Would you believe me? Or up and leave me?

Some times we just create things in our minds based on what we are told. Are you very sure, that you are not reading him too much, that all of a sudden you begin to realise every single thing that he does, especially saying some patterns weren't just right?

Since he swore already that it wasn't true, I think that issue should be forgotten already. I think you should work on his recent behavior, not his past, stop linking the past and the present please. It never helps a relationship.

Fox:
a quick but very dirty way to find out:
say something really mean about her good friend, like her breath stinks and study your girl's reaction.

Ask your man or woman to lend you a good amount of money (make sure say dem get am first o) and if the person comes up with excuses just run as fast as your legs can carry you. If you can't trust me then how can you love me?

First of all saying something bad about her good friend, under any circumstance, is totally wrong, and shouldn't be done at all. What of if she is the sensitive type? you just end up losing the precious sensitive lady.

Trust develops with time. Even in marriages. So you might want to consider that. Have you wondered why the wife gets worried when she smells a ladies perfume on her husbands clothes?

The best way to know someone really loves you, is by being patient and let time has its way. In times of ups and downs, everything would reveal itself.

And Mind you trust is not love .

Dem is there a special procedure? . You guys are funny sha. Honestly speaking the issue of cheap and not cheap, or class or even hierarchy is childish. No offense intended.

If you wanna date a guy cos of money, date him. If its because of his words, whilst wooing you, date him. If its because of his looks, date him. Whats wrong with that?

I think 90% of the ladies here would fall for a snobbish, good looking and rich guy, that doesn't even know how to pick his words whilst wooing her. The whole procedure crap, just doesn't work.

Matured ladies dont have a problem, with someone confessing his interest. They treat it maturely, they don't analyze the words you use, or your procedures, for christ sake. Ladies common whats all this "Wooing for dummies" lessons. Be Real.

Nigerians and money related issues!!. Does it really matter? And if its just a plain relationship, is there the need for a provider?

i am 2005-1983* years old.

*5th Dec.

Well for me yes, i have to get married. Because if i dont, and many people dont. Thinking that it is not compulsory although they are able (especially the guys). The human race is doomed for extinction.

Easy for you guys to say, as if jobs are lying on the streets for you to pick them, or even business are just something you just get involved in and you make a huge amount of money. Or even its that easy for a husband and wife to be working together.

I think we are deviating from the main issue here. "Housewife or working woman? and why ?" not "Tufiakwa" "Olon Maje" or even "Allah ya Sawake" or whatever. We are in the real 3d world. how possible is it, for a husband and wife to work together? How many homes do that? Are we watching too many hollywood movies?

In the typical or even "Elite" Nigerian home, I would say almost all the families, where there is working woman, the woman does the house wife's job too, alone in fact (dual task). Its really rare and I am yet to find the husband sharing with the wife, in terms of the duties at home.

Maybe it might be possible, that you find new married couples sharing the jobs, but with time, the lady would be the only one left in doing all the odds, especially if the man has a mother, that visits once in a while. Or if I might ask? in your house, does your dad go to the kitchen? Tell us? Culture plays a very important vital role in this issue. Its left for the guy to make the decision, I think the lady doesn't really have a say in relation to whether the guy has to participate in the house chores, if she wants a happy family. Men have their pride, and it would always be there.

Every single Nigerian citizen, has the freedom to vote and be voted for. Its not for us to say who should and shouldnt come out to contest for presidency. We can react by not voting for that person. Saying that that person should not contest, is totally absurd.

why christian leaders? Why not you and I. Curious?

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Imnakoya:
And most importantly, what are we doing to those that stole us blind?? Go to some colleges in the UK, you will find many Nigerians paying cash for the school fees/tuition...has the government ever thought of investigating where the money comes from?

what does someones parents ability to afford his foreign fees has to do with corruption? Do you know that most Nigerians do not depend on their salaries for a living? They are very enterprising, they have businesses here and there and therefore could afford it. Besides honestly about the issue of corruption in Nigeria, we can only tackle it if we start scrutinizing ourselves. Are you corrupt? Am I? Charity begins at home, besides, is the greatest OBJ corrupt? I wonder

hum i just hope, this is not a way to futher encourage us to borrow more money.

It would only be a good news to me, if this helps us to grow tomorrow. By the way when did we last pay our debts?

Well as for me. I would prefer my wife to be semi housewife in relation to my "MEALS" but that doesn't mean we cannot have maids or house helpers etc. The most important thing is the meal has to be from her (if she is strong and able), except in the condition that maybe she cant cook. hahha.

Well a working lady, works for me I mean you wouldn't want your wife to be complaining of boredom, especially when it comes to seeking for attention. So i would say a working woman, with a house touch, would be perfect for me.

Set boundaries and rules, and see how much the guy or lady abides by them. For example no sex before marriage, no intense kiss for 6 months, i need you to stop smoking etc, the reaction and seriousness thereafter would say it all.

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how can falling in love be accidental? I wonder

Do they exist? i wonder

Hum,

I would ask for forgiveness for all my sins, and treat myself the best food ever. And take some sleeping pills and doze off

It would be great to know the day you are going to leave the world.

Maybe because he speaks pidgin in public? . Well Frankly personally i do not have anything against him.

My weekend was spend in front of the computer, doing what i best know of..........

Nigerian Billing addreses? interesting......well may i know whether my cards would be accepted? and which merchants for example?

seun:
Why do you have to promise a lady 'everlasting love' and pressure her for sex,[/b]?

Han? Seun you are living in your own reality. In the real world people are not that obsessed, and going into relationship because of sex. Goodness what is it with this three letter word, that you guys treat with such a big deal!

And by the way stress is not pain or headache !! what are you talking about?