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Miracood2:
For those that will be too lazy to read the whole write up, the church is closing down due to low members.

...which directly translates into low revenue by means of tithes, offerings and other donations.

dboY1123:
I just met this beautiful girl, and I'm already all over her.. She's not in a relationship but definitely guys are disturbing her even her ex's.

I asked her to come over to my place and she did, we went out together and get some stuffs and we head back home(my place). So, I decided to ask her out one on one in my place and she said NO, she's still finding it difficult to go into another relationship.. When she left my place for her house just two byke away, someone stole her phone from her bag(she called me to tell me) the bag was open by the time she got home.

My question now is, should I ever think of getting her a phone? I still don't know my stand in her life, I really love the girl but ain't acting like a simp whatsoever.. But the fact that she lost her phone after leaving my house is what bothers me.

Please what should I do?

...do not get her a phone because you want to win her over/make her say yes to your propositions. Only do it only if you can and because it's the right thing to do. Expectations hurt. Don't be suprised when she starts using the same phone you got her to call & text her fxck boys, send them her nudes and all other covert stuffs ladies do. I'm guessing you plan on getting her the phone on your own based on you're nice like that, she didn't ask for it. She might use that against you later on. These girls ain't loyal.

HolinessForever:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pjAH7qbjTEo

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/17056458/russia-ukraine-invasion-world-war-hypersonic-missile/amp/

...you should be very happy now that you’ve finally achieved something in your quest for anarchy and disorder. Blast Off! You no dey shame sef.

NNtv:
Like, why do we even have sex in the first place?
There are some beliefs that sex is bad, some even confuse us with some kind of meaning of sex.

So I need an Honest answer to why we have sex.

Mynd44,
Lalasticlala

...why do you eat?

Idamond:
These couples celebrate 5th year anniversary in prison.
the husband life imprisonment, the wife 5years.

...it’s their height for me

Mille:
On what caused the resentment.

I'm sure you all remembered when MTN network was down until the next day. Well, that day I and my daughter went to bed hungry. It was the first time in my 28 years I have ever gone to bed without eating dinner.

I receive my pay in my dorm account in USD. So I have a BDC guy who I transfer dollar to whenever I need cash. I didn't know MTN will fumble that day because I splurged all my Naira earlier that day. Evening came, MTN was down. I couldn't get across to BDC and it was already too late to go to bank to withdraw. I saw this woman's bank balance that same evening but she lied she didn't have any cash. I didn't challenge her and she chose to allow everyone sleep hungry that night including our baby. Don't even ask about breast milk because the whole night, all I was hearing was her whining that she hasn't eaten and the baby shouldn't disturb her with cries for breastfeeding.

The next morning by 7AM, I was able to get across to my BDC guy and exchanged the cash. That was the first time I have ever confronted her and I lambasted her that morning.

Still it is the same. When I have to pay PHCN bills, she'll rather have us sleep in darkness if my bank has network issues than use her own account.

Now the funny thing is, she will never go out without buying something on her way for me. So I'm a bit confused and resentful.

...I’m guessing you guys didn’t have discussions on finance management before committing to each other maritally. That’s the engine of every relationship. There’s something I always say...love is weakness. Not love in it self, the idea of being in love. Thinking because you’re in love you won’t cheat or get cheated on, won’t hurt or hurt someone, the mentality that because you’re there financially for your spouse, they will also be there for you as well. These are all fantasies to those who experience unrequited love. Some people have it all good, some others just don’t. It’s life. Nature has it’s way of balancing things.
What you’re experiencing now is called reality. Normally I would have said these are signs you should have noticed while you love birds were still dating but then people change and that’s reality.

A wise spouse would guard against every eventuality, think 2 or 3 steps ahead. If not even for yourselves but for your child for goodness sakes. I for one wouldn’t let my little baby girl go to bed hungry. You don’t rely on people in absentia and you don’t apportion blames. Expectations hurt! You fix things and get them working. See there are ways you handle issues people might not like you, every one mustn’t, but they’ll respect you.
Don’t be deceived if anyone tells you on this forum that it wouldn’t happen again. It would bro, however the major concern would be what actions and counter actions are you going to put in place now to ward off such eventuality?
Please that Princess shouldn’t go to bed hungry again, if that happens next time, that’s on you!

PS: by means of possible solutions going forward...get another sim/network/wifi/modem. Don’t rely on just mtn. Dependence without backup plans hurt a lot.
Wishing you all the best in your marital journey!

Mille:
On what caused the resentment.

I'm sure you all remembered when MTN network was down until the next day. Well, that day I and my daughter went to bed hungry. It was the first time in my 28 years I have ever gone to bed without eating dinner.

I receive my pay in my dorm account in USD. So I have a BDC guy who I transfer dollar to whenever I need cash. I didn't know MTN will fumble that day because I splurged all my Naira earlier that day. Evening came, MTN was down. I couldn't get across to BDC and it was already too late to go to bank to withdraw. I saw this woman's bank balance that same evening but she lied she didn't have any cash. I didn't challenge her and she chose to allow everyone sleep hungry that night including our baby. Don't even ask about breast milk because the whole night, all I was hearing was her whining that she hasn't eaten and the baby shouldn't disturb her with cries for breastfeeding.

The next morning by 7AM, I was able to get across to my BDC guy and exchanged the cash. That was the first time I have ever confronted her and I lambasted her that morning.

Still it is the same. When I have to pay PHCN bills, she'll rather have us sleep in darkness if my bank has network issues than use her own account.

Now the funny thing is, she will never go out without buying something on her way for me. So I'm a bit confused and resentful.

...I’m guessing you guys didn’t have discussions on finance management before committing to each other maritally. That’s the engine of every relationship. There’s something I always say...love is weakness. Not love in it self, the idea of being in love. Thinking because you’re in love you won’t cheat or get cheated on, won’t hurt or hurt someone, the mentality that because you’re there financially for your spouse, they will also be there for you as well. These are all fantasies. What you’re experiencing now is called reality. Normally I would have said these are signs you should have noticed while you love birds were still dating but then people change and that’s reality.

A wise spouse would guard against every eventuality, think 2 or 3 steps ahead. If not even for yourselves but for your child for goodness sakes. I for one wouldn’t let my daughter go to bed hungry. You don’t rely on people in absentia and you don’t apportion blames. You fix things and get them working. See there are ways you handle issues people might not like you, every one mustn’t, but they’ll respect you.
Don’t be deceived if anyone tells you on this forum that it wouldn’t happen again. It would bro, however the major concern would be what actions and counter actions are you going to put in place now to ward off such eventuality?
Please that Princess shouldn’t go to bed hungry again, if that happens next time, that’s on you!

Mercychen:
We ain't all the same .

...thanks, it means a lot.

Mercychen:
Hahahahaaaa.. it is, some how

...I respect a lady with a matured sense of humor. Some other ladies would have taken offense to my initial comment.

Mercychen:
Banga. Not because I don't like it. I'm just not a big fan. So I hardly cook it

The other three are a staple for me.

...you’re sure it’s not because of the same reason your gender hates to cook moi moi?

KillIgbohoN0W:
Okra soup is the most useless soup in the world.

...secondus sorry seconded!

nairaman66:
The NORTH, always avoid it anywhere! North America, north Cyprus, north Nigeria, north etc!

Flee away from north!

...north sudan, north korea

sthar:
My husband and I have not had the best relationship. The past two years has been really tough for us, we've had to struggle to make this marriage work. Although we have two kids, My husband talks down on me all the time.

He calls me an ordinary female, a useless creation and believes he owns me. He believes women should not have a freewill and are properties to their husbands. He calls himself my Alpha and omega. I sometimes wish he would hit Me rather than say all sorts to me.
Last week he started as usual. He called me names and Went on to talk about how he would teach me a lesson someday. I really don't know what came over me. I slapped him.

I s.wear it wasn't intentional, I didn't mean to hit him. I thought he would hit me back but he did not. It's been a whole week and he acts like nothing happened. He goes about playing with the kids , he greets me and makes sure we have food to eat too , but it is so unlike him.


My husband always reports to my parents. He tells them everything I do wrong and they always end up calling a meeting. But this time he's silent , he doesn't want sex too which Is so unlike him. I don't know what to do , I feel like he's planning to hurt me really big. I want to call my parents but everyone would blame me. How do I tell the world I slapped my husband?

...he calls you names and reports you to your parents and does what someone i know would term nagging. If he’s talking to just your people it’s because he sincerely wants you to change and be better. Instead of you focusing on him starting out again and you planning out strategies to curtail/confront his many talks how about you look inward and change for good. Nobody loves to complain and talk especially on the same matter. You think it’s fun talking? The mental energy and sometimes regrets even sets in. If he’s still reporting you to your parents/friends, it’s because he’s still interested in the relationship. The day he reports you to his own parents/friends be rest assured the relationship is nearing it’s end as they would advice him on the contrary and you don’t want to be on that side of the divide.
Now If he’s gone cold you should be worried, even more now that you slapped him. I just hope you’re not one that belongs to the “if you love me you’ll accept me the way i am” school of thought. That mentality has created more problems in relationships than solutions. I understand how frustrated you must have been to the extent that you had to raise your hand at him, however that happened because you’ve been barking on the wrong tree, trying to confront the messenger instead of confronting the message. I understand believe me - the many repeated silent nights, awkward quietness et al. Everyone has got a breaking point, where they just can’t take shit no more. For your sake i just hope your husband hasn’t gotten to that point hence his silence towards you and happiness towards others around him. You care about him and you’re scared of loosing him it’s why you brought it to this forum. Put whatever issues you have with him aside and apologize sincerely. You know the things he nags about, stop or change them constructively. Even dogs don’t bark for fun. I wish you all the best in your reconciliatory efforts.

And on the sex aspect which you clearly outlined...i want to believe you understand how it works...women offer sex to get love and men offer love to get sex. He’s not interested because he’s got no love to give and that’s because he doesn’t have peace of mind whereas you on the other hand now would be clouding your head thinking maybe he doesn’t find you attractive physically anymore because you’ve been offering sex to get his love but it’s not forthcoming. Peace of mind is everything my people, there’s the real world and there’s Zeeworld. Let’s be guided

alanto:
Welcome to Lagos Mr President.
You are in the center of excellence even though na corner Lagos dey for map

...cenTRE nor cenTER.

Rtk5:
This is really disgusting to me. She bleach alot yet cannot look for a good cream that can eliminate ths stretch mark, if this is her breast i wonder how the rest of the body will be.

...oga wonder wonder wanderer! Jobless man!

Righteousness2:
Wow! So beautiful!So much Joy and Happiness from the lovely dogs!

Quite Similar to the Joy, Jubilation and celebration we are gonna have at the feet of our Master, King and Savior, JESUS CHRIST when we cross over to Heaven. When we get to see our all our Loved ones who died in JESUS Christ and the saints .

It is going to be a Huge Blast!
Guys! Do not trade your Heavenly Race for anything or anyone. Not for cash, Not for vanity, not for family , not for anything!
Nothing is worth missing Heaven for. Absolutely Nothing !

...just shut it already!

chatinent:
These days, teachers and other members of the staff of a school could be in a cult group with students because I see no other reason why they were hidding the truth and shutting dorm mates off!


It is the truth because I saw the video and saw a small boy in severe pains. I could feel it. I could feel the pains.



The school should explain how the students got the substance given to the boy since they were boarders.


Those names mentioned should be interrogated! They could have forced Sniper down his throat!

He snitched on them? What were they up to? Did he catch them in a cult meeting? ...a gay sth?

If the teachers don't want to speak up but had to sugarcoat his death and attribute it to football, does it mean they have a hand in it? Their silence is total BS.

Is sb else paying the piper for the tunes? Sb who wants to remove the only-son figure from the family?

Many questions!


Bullying is of evil! A lot of kids are going through this and dying silently.

Bold steps need to be taken...not mere talks! Parents should be close to their kids! I do not support boarding schools from day one. I like a school I could be seeing my child everyday!

Tems graduated from Dowen but has chosen to be silent. Anyways, I am still available for Turnitin-friendly research writing services.

...not just Tems, Moet Abebe also.

Nemere2020:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/regional/ssouth-west/499215-eight-children-found-dead-in-parked-vehicle-in-lagos.html

...another tale of failed parenting. This is what happens when one isn’t conscious of his/her immediate environment. You only notice something is out of place when the need arises. RIP to the dead.
But then on the other hand, how’s a parked SUV left unlocked? We see gross negligence from adults on the regular and we feel it’s normal. Let’s be conscious of our environment, it saves lives!

slickycee:
Thought I was the only one with this phobia.

Have never slept over in any of my opposite friends place.

Even the ones that would cook sweet food for me, on Gen and buy drinks.

I go still waka leave you .

No matter the time or situation, I'll just have to leave .
I suspect it's because I love my space and peace of mind.

I feel so uncomfortable being in someone's private space , talkless of the opposite sex.

It's really hard for me

...this is soooo me

Shabaleen:
bluetooth things

...infrared

Penguin2:
Am I the only one that remembered Dowen College?

...and that’s a joke to you?

Tokskob2008:
Saw this on FB and nostalgia kicked in........

What movie or movies comes to your mind when you see this old video cassette player?

For me it's Jackie Chan's POLICE STORY PT 1,2 and 3.

Share yours.

...THE HARD WAY, THE ONLY WAY

Righteousness2:
The Speedy CONVERGENCE of Bible Endtimes Prophecies is Fearful.

Wars and rumors of wars
Middle East Crisis; Ezekiel 38 alliance in place, Isaiah Damascus set to be Destroyed.
Calls of 2 state Solution in Israel
Earthquakes, Volcanoes, insane Winds and Weather patterns, the sea roaring, Signs in the Heavens,
Global Vaccine Mandates; Nations/ People being Deceived by Soceries( Pharmakeia),
The abominable all about me Generation- the Noah Generation,
The Beast System in place- Transhumanism, Metaverse, Luciferase, the Great Reset, 6uild 6ack 6etter,

This is it Folks! This is not a Drill! The RAPTURE of the Bride of Christ is Here!
If you Value your soul, you need to WAKE UP! REPENT! ACCEPT JESUS!GET READY! JESUS is Coming Quickly

...you don rush come comment again after posting

Gospelpreacher1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_CBtM0d1IpQ

https://www.thesun.co.uk/news/16927086/russia-drills-700-expert-snipers-close-ukraine-border-putin/amp/

...i know it’s still you but carry on Mr Righteousness

Viraltrends123:
We are all the same, they are also trying to empty it.

...we are not the same at all jare, our naija brothers would have uploaded an already emptied container. Na for people head and hand you go see the contents.

Kolasola:
I can’t find else where to turn to as I’m loosing my mind currently
I live in a flat apartment with my wife (conceived) and brother( younger) ... but of recent it’s been one fight or the other in my so called union .. the matter is always escalating due to my younger sibling (guy) interferences, I am quite busy and wife due to her condition has stopped working so she is always at home with my brother ( he’s yet to gain admission)
Guess this made me the stranger .. yesterday a misunderstanding broke out (between wife and I) and while trying to solve it ... the younger brother came in again and matter worse started cursing me with my wife support ... Now I am just confused as every one has been advising I let her deliver before I take any action ... can I even wait till then
Has anyone been in my issue and how is this best handled

...it’s spells all shades of wrong for your younger sibling to haul curses at you in the presence of your wife to the extent of gaining her support in your own house. There’s something you’re not saying bro.

Righteousness2:
Ladies and Gentlemen, the Handwriting on the wall is so clear to read and Understand.

Just have a Conscious look all over the world, the News headlines & everything happening and you will see that,
We are the Generation that will not pass away.
We are the Generation that saw Isreal become a Nation again.
We are the Generation of Matthew 24.
We are the Generation of Rapture.

Folks! JESUS is Coming!!The RAPTURE is Imminent !
Come out from the Crowd of Unserious folks and make JESUS Christ Your Personal Lord and Savior.
Also remember that your life is not in your Power. Repent Now! The Next Moment could be Late.

...only you posted as HolinessForever, only you commented as Righteousness2. Your love for anarchy and chaos is unrivaled.

Righteousness2:
Simply put some cloves of garlic in there from time to time..

...tell me why God no go bless you now for writing something relatable and practical? Abi the snake and garlic too na end time sturvsss?

Righteousness2:
The Signs of the times are Everywhere just as JESUS Christ said it will be.

And there shall be signs in the sun, and in the moon, and in the stars; and upon the earth distress of nations, with perplexity; the sea and the waves roaring;

Very very soon! A Mysterious Mystery will Shake all the Corners and Nations of the Earth. The Rapture is upon us.

Repent , Believe the Gospel of JESUS Christ and be Saved so as to avoid Unnecessary stories and Wailings.

...you never fail to disappoint nairalanders with your folly, religious insipidity and gross misrepresentation of natural phenomena.

femi4:
Wrong narrative

The video is about a boy eating from the kid sister's meal even as he fed her

...you obviously don’t know jack about spoon-feeding kids. He was licking spillovers from the bottom of the spoon, that way there will be no stains or crumbs falling on his baby sister also making for smooth passage into her mouth without the food touching her lips.

Naso them dey take know last born o cos if you had spoon-fed your siblings you would have known this fancy little trick taught us by our mothers.

10mobile:
Chain him while saying, "I bind your spirit in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth. Be and let others be". Make sure to say the full name of Jesus Christ as I said it. Come back and report to us what happened after that.

...i hail o Oga resident nairaland spirit binder. Even Righteousness22 dey learn for where you dey

blackmamber:
More pictures

...this your dog pose pass some nairaland models o