₦airaland Forum

[quote author=Raphsays post=127856602]the guy said he couldn't afford the wig. But he could come up with options that could make up for the particular wig she asked for.
Well many guys deny their ladies what they can afford if they feel she doesn't worth it.



From her outbursts u would know he has done that already. Communication doesn't just boil down to sitting ur lady down and start talking. Even when she asked him for the wig, he could suggest something cheaper and nice too. This is also communication.



I am very sure the guy is always not giving the lady many things she wants, (her outbursts clearly states that).
After all he didn't state she's materialistic because if she was, he wouldn't engage her.

The guy got fed up because he was so sure he couldn't maintain the lady even as a husband. FOR THE GUY, IT'S NO MORE ABOUT THE WIG, IT'S BECAUSE OF THE CURSE SHE WAS PLACING ON HIM IN THE NAME OF GOD.

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It feels good to collect money from your man, every woman loves that sense of financial security, but you won't have him break the bank for you. Especially when he doesn't have and it's not a life threatening situation. All through the yuletide season, I no make any hair o, I just comb my hair in a bun and I'm ready to go, it was my best Christmas ever cause I didn't lack anything. I just made the hair this Saturday in readiness for work this week. This is a big, huge, humongous red flag. Thank goodness he had the sense to leave.

Moreso, she should be able to buy the wig herself, that's what real slay queens do.

Women should be up and doing on their own. What if something happens to the man - sickness or death - will you go a begging for the rest of your life?[/quote]Wow, such a lady like you still exist? Blessed are you among women, wish I can know you better.

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Tinubu that is acclaimed to be very intelligent has proven to be no better than Buhari who has no idea about economic policy. The painful thing is that, it is the people that will suffer the ineptitude of these policy makers by way of job loss, poverty, inflation, insecurity, poor standard of living and shortened life span.

okoIYAyin:
Y'all should please stop already! Making it look like it's such a big deal for a wife to cook for her family. Lot of people have been doing it for ages and we didn't hear a noise.
Nigerians and trending nonsense sha!!!

It is because civilisation has turned many africans against their culture and values, and gender equality and feminism have made nonsense of our moral values.

mrpablo:
This one he didn't put peter obi name in the talk. It's like he's still typing

but you have already put peter obi's name, don't you think something is wrong with you?

saphiere:
I have nothing to say.

This is 2024.

The saphiere we all know on Nairaland would call a wife stupid for cooking for her husband, are you seeing a counsellor lately?

She is setting a trap for you, it is left for you to either enter her trap or avoid it.

I don't understand how the achievement of a movie producer will make a whole tribe feel intimidated.

COMPAQ:
Which nonsense doubled. I beg say the one you know for sure. I work in a multinational and we never see a any increase yet. Though our annual pay review is ongoing now but I hear it we see 30%sef we go dey lucky.

My sister in law in zenith got like 60% from N700k to N1. 1m

I can bet you are working in either an indian, lebanese or chinese company or one of those companies headed by useless expatrates, so hold your management well.

Jogs1900:
I'm not trying to ridicule the movement..We in the private sectors see NLC as government staff movement. They only use us to achieve their aims. A salary increment is not the solution. But if they insist, the government can pay the 200k and after like 2 months, devalue the naira. Additionally, salary increments will lead to inflation if you understand my point.

Truth is that federal govt workers are the most miserable in Nigeria. Banks, multinational companies, conglomerates etc have doubled the salary of their staff and everyone has moved on while govt workers are still begging for ridiculous palliative.

saphiere:
WOMEN ARE HEROS.....

I'm disappointed in you, you are supposed to call her fuulish for cooking for her husband.

Hambivert:
When did 'The Nation' reduce itself to a blog site?
Imagine the kind of article by a supposed Newspaper outlet. This is underwhelming and a big dent on the national journalistic landscape in Nigeria.

When did honorary doctorate begin to equate with Bachelor degrees? Their main highlight is even a deviation from the original context.
This is clearly a hurried article that is intended to tap from the topical issue generated by their fellow media outlet.

Shame on The Nation for even considering to publish this.

I'm surprised to see that some of you are trying to differentiate btw honourary and academically awarded degrees. The point is that whatever be the case, those universities are no more recognised in the Nigerian system henceforth, therefore their certificates or awards are no longer credible, case closed.

landmark86:
So surprised our government eyes are just opened to this. Many of my colleagues from the north attended some of this schools and you hardly believe they graduated from University. They can't read or either write. There spoken English are so poor because some of this countries are not English speaking country.

wow, all you wrote up there is full of errors, your own english is poorer than that of the northerners.

femi4:
Yes

You hear stuff like

Get me pregnant. ....pour everything and I will change your car

Alakoba!

when i saw ur moniker, i was not disappointed, most femi are masters in the act

Vickismith:
Brand new and no fault

I work at idi-araba but i'm currently away for now for xmas/newyear break, will contact you soon.

I support Honda Accord 2011. If you want to buy the toyota camry, buy the V6 engine. People often complain of oil shortage in the V4.

Baztardidiot:
When u know you stay in the slums. Is it a must u park your car outside. Don't u guys have a gate into the entrance. Are there no security guards around. Next time. Don't be riding car into slums. Look for a bank close to u. Tip the security men 10k or even 5k. When it's getting late.drive there and park it. Or better still remove the tyres and forget about car.i thought camry 2.2 was only prone to theft at delta. Times are hard and tokunbo cars are extremely high.imagine camry of 1.7m is now 3.5m. A whole camry 2.2. Pele o. I'm sure it must have been raced to owode onirin or ladipo for immediate butchering. And the camry still clean o.men count your loss .if u had used steering lock.highest will be brainbox...

Some of you are just ill-mannered and totally uncultured.

Dafemo:
I am not married, not planning on getting married soon, i want to get my first car, looking for something that can move if i want to(speed), any suggestions on what car i can go for?

Honda Accord 2012 V6 (Evil spirit), you will collect change sef and thank me later.

GAZZUZZ:
Most Nigerians do not calculate .

My Hyundai ix35 costs 35k per week and 140k per month fuel.

I have had the car since 2012 still under 110k km

What is more expensive? Using petrol or converting to CNG ?

Is this not the Hyundai ix35 that you drove to and fro Akure on CNG? If it is, how come it has not clocked up to 110km?

Vickismith:
Urgent sale!!!
It's first come, first serve o

I'm interested. Did you buy it brand new with receipt and any complain or fault with the phone?

Jennyclay:
The whole story is just confusing .

All I know is that Nigerian men can’t be trusted.

It's confusing because a woman stabbed a man to death, if it is the other way round now it will be crystal clear to you and you will easily pass a judgment of capital punishment on the man.

ogawisdom:


Just a stupid institution to kill a man with billing after which the kids n wife will abandon the foolish man once he is old.

We need home of the aged in Nigeria ASAP for people who wants to think outside the box.

It is a poverty alleviation programme for most jobless and hungry ladies, that is why they are desperate for it.

You are either a product of a dysfunctional home or you obviously have a terrible experience about marriage, it is easy to know people like you.

Turquoiseee:
As if you will not cry 😭 like the day you were born if given an opportunity 🤣

tufia kwa. cry that how did I descend so low to be offered this kind of luggage? but wait, what opportunity?

Renman:
Looking for customers like you with an enhanced behind!!!

Then she has missed the road, not here.

Turquoiseee:
Eyaah! Check me out. Do you like what you see?

What I see is a beautiful lady carrying one big unnecessary load behind her.

Lanretoye:
Playing 2023 in 2024?

I'm still wondering too

EmperorCaesar:
I've always said it that Atheits arent logically thorough enough to tackle well-reearched theists

So cause say she pray and still die, e mean say God no exist

To people like u, u want to keep seeing things going outside the normal natural law(Miracle) at all times to believe God doesnt exist

Its like saying that cause prayer couldnt heal a sickle cell patient, then there is no GOD


I swear, Most of u half-baked logical thinkers dont think deep enough to counter the God claim with logic

Albert Einstein and Stephen Hawkings(In his book "Big Answers to Brief Questions" are the two reatest scientist of last century yet claimed that going by their "knowledge of cosmology and seeing the multiverses obey Natural laws, they find it hard to believe that a random explosion brought about this highly complex designs"

Same Hawkings wrote The Big bang theory, same Hawkings hinted on the possibility of a creator and even affirmed he couldnt disprove his existence

Na one randy Nairaland guy wey dey vex for religion cause of poor doctrines i go con dey take seriously

Those so-called atheists are mere disgruntled rebels from the generation of lucifer. They think God should work in line with their frail logic and if this does not happen, they begin to question the existence of the Almighty but fail to question the existence of their own mortal being and all the organs that function collectively within them.