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Shikena:
Avoid this type of mindset in your personal, family, work and public life. Let your conclusions and utterances be based strictly on verified facts.

There are thousands of possibilities that can cross any mind here, they are not facts. If something never happened, one million imaginative thoughts cannot make it a fact.

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READ MY COMMENT AGAIN AND STOP WORKING YOURSELF UP OVER SOMEBODY ELSE'S OPINION.
Did I say what I said is what actually happened? Among the thousands of possibilities you mentioned is what I said.

frankson1:
READ! READ!! READ!!! [font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font]It doesn't kill.

READ MY COMMENT AGAIN.

Alaigbo:
And your father as prove to this claim or as LASMA performance been wonderful to question the sacking ?

Na your mother tell me. Read my comment over and over and over again if you can't grab things one time.

WealthyNigerian:
Why Kolawole Olawuyi and Gbebga Adeboye Should Be Immortalized With Gian Statues in Every States of Nigeria

The Story of Kolawole Olawuyi and Gbenga Adeboye shall surely Help the next Generations to strive to eradicate the societal ills and make their own Generation of Humanity to become better Huamne. Since most of us couldn't have achieved what these 2 achieved, if we don't allow myopic Selfishness and subconscious wickedness to prevent us from immortalizing this 2, we too would have done unselfish selfless part by letting next Generation know that our Generation gave Produced this 2 exceptionally humane Souls.

These two men came and made a great impact through their chosen career. Their names will not be quickly forgotten in the minds of the generation that witnessed their time.

Probably one LASTMA officer has unknowingly harrased a low key person close to the Governor, now Oreagba and perhaps few others are paying for it.

maasoap:
That doesn't mean your choice could be better, Obi or Atiku could have been worse. Sorry that we may not be able to find out.

I just hate APC and whatever APC produces. Nigeria has never had it this worst under PDP or even military rule. I don't care if LP, APGA, SDP, AAC, ADP or PDP wins, any party but APC.

I'm sure majority of these migrants are either from terrorists-ridden countries or Africa. You enter a foreign land only to come and pour your anger and frustration which you cannot express to your government in the countries you were coming from, and then you start destroying properties and attacking people in the host country. The police in Dublin should give any immigrant who wants to constitute nuisance a shoot-at-sight treatment. Attacking innocent children who don't even understand what is happening is senseless and devilish.

My greatest challenge in the year was that some people went ahead and voted for BAT after 8 excruciating years of Buhari. Now, nobody has to explain to them that they made a wrong terrible choice and they will have to suffer for it.

FalseProphet1:
I see those Lions eating that man before the end of this year.

This I have seen.

Na so so bad things you dey like to see.

That generator na thief magnet.

seanfer:
Election was taking place in 3 states and Kogi happened to be the biggest debtor whn it comes to salary and pension... Ajaero and NLC didn't go to Kogi or bayelsa to protest, but he choose his state Imo because his political party is going to benefit from the protest...

Modified..... For those crying under my comment... Ask your self why only Imo state was the only state NLC President pick interest when the other 2 states having election same day with Imo are owing more months than Imo?

Imo state or No Imo state, NLC has already given a 30 days ultimatum to FG at the expiry of which they proceed to strike action without further notice. The Imo episode only coincide with the end of the ultimatum.

NdubisiCharles:
Good day pals, I have a sister whose husband abandoned for the past 8 yrs now,
with kids, male and female, the boy is now 9yrs, while the girl is now 8 yrs, my sis was abandoned after giving birth to the little girl.
She single handedly took the children far away and keep raising them up till date, now this is happening.

Yesterday, I received a call from my young sis, saying that her forgotten husband just called and was pleading for her return, that what will she do, that she needs my advice as senior, for me not to fall into conclusion I gave her 48 hours to reply to her, .....

Today I called the man (husband) he sounds so calm, "he said he need them back, he told me that he never chase my sis away, that it was my sis that carry her bag and left his house. Ran away with the 2kids, that he paid my sis bride price, he has visited my family for reconciliation but sis said she ain't going back that hunger is in the house, he admitted that then he was broke, "that he is not a drunker, womanizer, fetish, or never lay hand on my sis, and that he is God fearing man" only that he has no money when asked my sis she confirmed it.

Please friends advice me on what to do

If there is no record of domestic violence or husband beating and molesting her, emotional trauma or anything that can negatively impact on the children, she should reconcile with him and return to her husband.

seunmsg:
And that's enough reason for the entire country to be grounded with a nationwide strike? And what are the demands? Removal of the Commissioner of Police and area commanders. How will the removal of Imo state commissioner of police and area commanderschange anything? Are you guys even serious at all?

If Ajaero feels he has been unfairly harassed and brutalized, the sensible thing to do is to go to court. Sue the police for whatever claims the brutalization is worth and not throw the entire country into an unnecessary strike.

I know you you are an ardent BAT disciple but Try and reason beyond the surface. Ajaero has always been a threat to this government and the fracas that happened in Imo has given the APC central government an opportunity to covertly instruct the APC state government in Imo to deal with Ajaero with all available forces, the police is the ready instrument to do the dirty job. Why did all these arrest and "safe-keeping" happen when the 30 days ultimatum issued by NLC is about to lapse? Dont be surprised, one serious allegation will soon be cooked up to remove Ajaero and replace him with a government-appointed NLC president.

When Godswill Akpabio passed through the Lagos-Abeokuta expressway and witnessed the terrible state of that road, he swore that the expressway would be fixed. Now instead of getting the road repaired, his solution is to get SUV for himself and his colleagues to defeat every bad road in Nigeria and leave the people plying the roads to their fate. Isokay.

From the onset, I knew that Hamas has made a huge mistake by choosing a wrong battle against Israel that had hitherto been in hibernation mode. Hamas did not let the sleeping dog lie in peace but has decided to stir the hornet's nest, now the hornet is stinging them mercilessly at every angle and they are now paying dearly for it. It will soon get to a point where Israeli soldiers will array themselves along the palestinian borders and any civilian that wants to escape must pass through a thorough scrutiny so that fighters will not sneak out among fleeing civillians.

The robbers know the right places to go for robbery such as houses of their Local Government chairmen who are hoarding their palliathieves and House of Rep members who have never had any positive impact in the development of the state, but the robbers dare not go there, it's the hostel of harmless and innocent poor students some of whom are sponsoring themselves to school, that the foolish cowards prefer to rob. They should be burnt alive when caught.

I would have prefered the Toyota but that tiny light is a 1999 car but the Honda according to you is 2006. The Honda is a newer model compared to the Toyota and should be able to serve you longer than the Toyota since it's younger. Mazda does not have enough technicians that can handle it perfectly in this part of the world.

[quote author= post=126558162]Praise Da Living God Almighty, Say AMEN ooo

Don't Forget, Bring This BETA News[/quote]BETA News of a narrow escape from death, abi?

[quote author=senatrpaichulo post=126537383][/quote]I just like your demeanor, you never take offence by all the comments people have passed on your "product", you are good sales person with nice interpersonal and business culture, keep it up bro. Good day sir.

I never changed engine. When I noticed the engine was overdue for replacement, I sold the whole car.

Rtk4:
I give my wife #500 everyday to cook for the house and yet she complains, it's really annoying.

Do you know that the #500 is even too much because there's everything a woman need to cook in bulk in the house. Meat, crayfish, Maggi, salt, seasonings.....

I mean everything. All she buys is things we can't buy in bulk which is tomatoes and pepper. Please guys what's your take?

Here in the north all these perishables are too cheap, she just steps out of the house and buy them from women selling just in front of our house.

Before some people start saying I'm stingy, you must also know that she doesn't lack anything. I give her pocket money and also buys her anything she needs as far as i can afford.

Are the only one eating in the house and your wife doesn't eat? Is your wife a handicap that cannot work or contribute money to cater for the expenses in the house? Is there an agreement that you will be bringing money while she will be bringing something else for the family? And you bring your family issue to Nairaland for judgment where there are kids and kindergarten? If you lose your job or you die, will your wife stop eating? Anyway, I dont know the agreement or arrangement you made in your family with your wife. It's your home, deal with it.

Alexiiydon:
US is a stupid country supporting genocide

Where were you on October 7 when Hamas was shelling the Isreali civilians and going from door to door killing the Israeli natinale among them?

90dbest:
Hunger in Af0nja land. Yorubas respect their elders but insult their king. Stupid people.

Those basterds learned that from the IPOB miscreants that dragged out a traditional ruler in the south yeast and burnt him in the public square few years ago.

preshpraiz:
It's 2.47 am here but I can't sleep, I hardly sleep these days.

My whole world is crumbling.

He said he can never work in a private company again. His target is multinationals.

I encouraged him to pick up a job with private company while hoping for a bigger fish at least to support in taking care of the needs at home but he said no.

I'm left with taking care of our 3 kids, feeding, school fees and virtually every need at home. All he does is press phone, gamble and sleep.

Now our rent is due, no money.
I married as a virgin, married for love and not money, work my ass off, doing so many side hustle to shoulder the expenses at home. I'm tired. I regret all .

When I see my "unserious" classmates on social media and sometimes offline, I weep. See them living large. I thought all the sacrifices I made way back will pay off now.
I have made up my mind that if he doesn't fix the rent, I will move back to my parent's house.

Kindly feel free to advise or bash me. Tankio

Hello, never mind all those people insulting you, know that many of them would be worse than your husband if they find themselves in his shoes. How can a married man leave the responsibilities of taking care of his 3 children, house rent and all other bills to his wife while he wastes his own life away in this APC terrible time in Nigeria?
I will advise you let him know that if he will not make attempt to better his life by looking for a job to support you, you wont be able to cope with the financial burden any longer. What you plan to do is a right step, move with all your children into your family house, regard him as a dead man. He may want to manipulate you emotionally bu telling you that you want to leave him in his trying times, na lie. Tell him that when you see him become serious with his life, you may reconsider to come back.
The only thing I will condemn you for is that you are measuring yourself by what you are seeing people post online, never look at that. A lot of people are living miserable lives but put up a fake happiness on the internet. Many even suffer domestic violence behind the scene, some are in huge debt, a lot are living a fake life, dont ever make the mistake of looking down on yourself because of what others are posting online. Peace be unto you.

Thanks for this. Dont be surprised some people will begin to come out one after the other to tell you that it is a lie and that you are being deceived by a fiction book called Bible. Remember, the gospel of the cross is foolishness to those that are perishing.

Africans are seen as the lowest in all human race and less deserving of being human. Our desperation to japa at all cost and by all means even reinforce this fallacy among the people of the world that have not gone out of their continents that africa is most likely unliveable. No thanks to bad governments in africa that is forcing people to seek greener pastures oversea.
The unfortunate truth is that africans have the best of brains, reason why we have them excelling in other countries in areas of science and technology, medicine, business etc where there are enabling environment to operate and thrive unlike the destiny killer environment in most african countries.

You won N100m in BBNaija and ran away from your family only to come out and tell us you are having mental issue because your father cried out that you abandon your family because of money, whose sentiment are you trying to beg for?
The reason why God leave some people to remain in poverty is because when they have money, they will lose their right sense, kick against God Himself, become proud, misbehave, neglect those that have always been there for them and mismanage their wealth.

The truth is that many of them are only looking for either poverty alleviation program or someone to rescue them from shame or family pressure.

Sofria, Jennyclay pls take note.

Pierocash:
Watch how that foolish he-goat named Omockery will link it to Peter Obi and igbos

Don't you think you are more foolish than Omockery for thinking like this in the first place?

Brazil, Mexico, Colombia, countries where mafians are more powerful than the government.

Saviourplease:
Good evening house.

I am in a dilemma and I need advice on what to do.

A bit of background about myself: I am a 29 years only child from a very poor background. I work for an IT firm which i joined in 2019 as a graduate trainee.

My total income is around 490k (400k from main job, 90k from a writing side gig).

My challenge:
Recently, My host have told me to look for my accommodation and I have been searching for houses. Unfortunately, the places closer to my places of work is expensive.

I work in VI and the cheapest mini flat I have seen in close vicinity is 1.2M at Ajah.

I also have have a building project I am undertaking in the village that is at roofing stage and my parents have been pressuring me to settle down as the only child.

My dilemma is this, If i go for the house at Ajah, it will eat a bulk of my savings, thereby making it impossible for me to complete the building project or even start the process of settling down.

If I go for a cheaper but farer location, I will be spending more time in traffic.

Please, how do I manage this?

And the best liar of the year goes to "Saviourplease" You are earning 400k and make extra 90k from side husstle but you cant afford an accommodation close to your office, kudos to you. Everybody just want to post on Nairaland and get attention.
Even people earning 120k-180k are working in VI and living around Ajah, Sangotedo, Obalende, Lagos Island, Oworonshoki, Gbagada, Ketu etc and are still able to set something aside for their own project without coming to post nonsense online. Shior.