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mental health issues!!!!

To a thousand grain to the middle class, most will eat the grain immediately and go back to being poor.

LordReed:
Most people seem to conflate what is known as general AI with the current models of AI we have. Chatgpt is a Large Language model (LLM) AI it's not a general AI so it cannot do tasks that a general AI would be able to do. All LLMs are capable of is language manipulation so anybody trying to hype it beyond should be seen as not knowing what they are talking about.

OpenAI itself doesn't even make any claims that paint its AI models as anything other than LLMs so no they don't do finance or crypto or whatever else apart from language manipulation. The buzz around them is mainly focused on expanding content creation capabilities, you heard about the Hollywood writers strike right? AI was a big part of that issue. Imagine if AI could be trained to replace all those writers, you can practically see the dollar signs in studio executives eyes. Stuff like this is the reason you have the big businesses wanting their fingers in the AI pie.

General AI itself is still a thing that resides in sci-fi. I'd argue that LLMs are closer to GI than we think.

LordReed:
That's because it is not actually creative, it is merely manipulating the information at its disposal to simulate human speech. It probably does not have access to data on the Nigerian music industry in the 1920s.

SIRT ee15, I'd argue that, that's because you don't know how to use it. copy paste the instruction you used, and i'd refine it for you. Let's see the difference.

If it doesn't have data for Nigerian music in the early 1920s, that's because it's not fed with such information. That's not ChatGPT fault. I have no idea of that too, like 99.99% of us on the forum or in Nigeria.

LordReed:
Oh this is what Greg Brockman was referring to when he resigned.

Oga FreeStuffsNG, shey you dey see am. LoLz.

So many thoughts running through my small head... e wan explode....Is AI more advance than they pitray it to be? Imagine my shock when i learnt how to use ChatGPT to create a prompt which I'd then use to create other prompts, for other tasks on CHatGPT!!!! 🤣 🤣

Of course, it can be trained to be biased..Was it d revenuing sharing program? Investors don't want to share the cake? 🤣

Finanace scams? just what is it?

Nothing more glorious than catching mummy doing mid-night runs... You think say you wise Sleep walk ko, you for talk say make them bring pope exorcist come na..

Kukutente23:
God remembered Abraham was to imply he remembered his deal with Abraham. The deal never involved saving Lot. Again, you've misrepresented the facts of the scripture. The bar was set at 10 righteous people. But God couldn't find 10 righteous there could he? If Abraham begged God to spare the city, and God went ahead to destroy it, does it not imply that God did not grant Abraham's request?
Let me just tell you how the men of Sodom knew of the visitors. It is there in the bible only that you're adding your conjectures. Read:
Gen 19: 1-3

Bro, Sir, Oga, I'm at the point where I will start pulling my hair if I have to explain to you that Abraham had no business with the sodomites. So, why would Abraham beg to such an extent for a City he had no business with? Please, open your eyes and read what is written here: The verse below specifically connects Abraham's plea to Lot.. how's that difficult to understand for fvck sake? If you count Lot, his wife, their daughters, and future son-in-law, brother in-laws, Father-in-laws, etc. They'd be more than 10. So, do you see Abraham's foresight? Be wise like you foster father Abraham.

Genesis 19:29
NLT---But God had listened to Abraham’s request and kept Lot safe, removing him from the disaster that engulfed the cities on the plain.

KJV---And it came to pass, when God destroyed the cities of the plain, that God remembered Abraham, and sent Lot out of the midst of the overthrow, when he overthrew the cities in which Lot dwelt.

From verse 3, it's obvious that they had a long talk at the gateway of the city before they agreed to stay with Lot. It's very obvious that such argument would have led to some passers-by taking notice of the men.
The claim that it was Lot's wife who told the men of the city is pure hogwash. The men knew through the long argument Lot had with the visitors. Arguments attracts people.
Lot's wife turning to salt was as a result of her inability to keep her mind off the things of Sodom. That's why she looked back. They lost all in Sodom. Friends, properties, money etc and those things caused her to look back

So, you're assuming Lot and the Angels were shouting at the top of their voices abi? Or was the city of Sodom a face-me-I-face-you compound? Abegi!! Please here https://www.sefaria.org/Gen.%20Rabbah%2050:6

Lot is no better than the wife because, he too didn't want to leave the city. Remember, this are people who have no business with YHWH. So, when a bunch of strangers come to your land (two men oh, not an army!!!!) and tell you they want to destroy your city, you'd take them serious? Bros, put 2+2 together na. The biblical passages clearly indicate this, but you simply don't to accept that you weren't taught to that extent. Learn and grow! No harm in learning.

KingCold:
Yawn. This is really played out
.you're busy talking IQs and EQs here but Nigeria remains a slum my friend, a place where nobody wants to reside, a truly underdeveloped African slum .

I strongly believe if we take the minority white folks away, you'd go back to wearing animal fur.

Only about 20% of femicide cases in South Africa are reported, even so, you're killing your own women 6 times more than in Central and South American countries such as Venezuela, Honduras and El Salvador. These countries are the most terrible places for women to live, yet, you men kill 6 times more women than each of those countries.

You call us underdeveloped, but, even with all the efforts from your white counter parts, you dumasses manage to retain the title of having the 5th most highest number of people living in poverty in the whole of Africa. spits! Shame! Technically speaking, 55% of your population are poor! Shame! If it weren't for heavy foreign influence, maybe, other African countries will be coming there to see how our ancestors looked like.

KingCold:
First of the Zulu language is one of 11 languages spoken in South Africa, not everyone I'm South Africa is Zulu

Secondly, South African women don't prefer Nigerian men, that's a lie.

You don't know what you're talking about

Yes. I'm aware, Zulu isn't the only tribe, but it's most popular. Secondly, SA has one of the highest Femicide rate in the world.

This tells me that the average Nigerian man has more IQ and EQ than a typical SAn..

If you level the playing field, I can bet my two balls that SA women will choose Nigerian men over your Misogynistic assess, anyday, anytime. It's just common sense.

We've seen onlime rants from SA men about Nigerian men, but we've never seen same from Nigerian men about SA men. You see, we are better in every ramification bar voting for the right government.

Kukutente23:
KJV was translated out of original Greek and Hebrew manuscripts. All of this contemporary translations still use KJV as their reference so talking about errors as if other translations are superior is pure fallacy. .

Genesis 19:29
NLT---But God had listened to Abraham’s request and kept Lot safe, removing him from the disaster that engulfed the cities on the plain.

KJV---And it came to pass, when God destroyed the cities of the plain, t[b]hat God remembered Abraham, and sent Lot out of the midst of the overthrow,[/b] when he overthrew the cities in which Lot dwelt.

If you didn't have a problem comprehending English, you'd find that both passages indicate that on Abraham's account, God decided to give Sodom a second thought. God remembered Abraham who pleaded on behalf of the sodomites. Abraham, again, didn't want to overstep his boundaries. Rather than make demands, he sort of, interceded. Since he was in no place to tell God to spare Lot, his only option, was to beg God to spare the city even if one person was found righteous.. Lot, following his tradition, welcomed the guests. This was against the tradition of the Sodomites. This was what brought the people to his door. How did they know? That's your home work. You'd find that Lot's wife turning to salt was indeed connected to how the Sodomites knew there was a guest.

Kukutente23:
Your NLT translation is wrong.

My NLT is wrong? I hope you know that the KJV has the most errors of any bible.

Because righteousness is not genetic. That they were going to marry the men of that city showed they agreed with the men's vile practices. Note that Lot spoke to his intended sons-in- law about leaving the city and they refused. Can two walk except they be agreed? Amos3:3

The act of kindness was what was counted as righteousness in the case of Lot, sir. He himself is not a man of good character, the daughters knew this and exploited it. Remember, they had him drunk before they took turns in raping him.
Lot's wife had more to lose than Lot. Lot had no family there, the wife did.
Lot didn't agree most of the time with the customs of the people, but he chose to remain there. Why? He chose to marry from there. And gave his daughters out(all 4 of them) to people from there!

I like how the Authors wrote it like this though.. How'd drunk did he have to be to not realize he was knacking his daughters? The only females around him for a long time? Comon man!

Again you've mixed things up!

LOT WASN'T A RIGHTEOUS MAN IN THE SENSE YOU'RE THINKING OF. iNFACT, THE ANGELS FORCED HIM OUT, see below:

15 With the coming of dawn, the angels urged Lot, saying, “Hurry! Take your wife and your two daughters who are here, or you will be swept away when the city is punished.”

16 When he hesitated, the men grasped his hand and the hands of his wife and of his two daughters and led them safely out of the city, for the Lord was merciful to them. 17 As soon as they had brought them out, one of them said, “Flee for your lives! Don’t look back, and don’t stop anywhere in the plain! Flee to the mountains or you will be swept away!”

As you can see, Even Lot needed a little persuasion from the Angels. He was someone of High social status. He couldn't get there if he didn't adopt some of the traditions of the Sodomites. For instance, throwing out his daughter to be raped to death.


Abraham loved his nephew Lot very much.. in earlier encounters, we see Abraham risking his lives and that of others for the sake of Lot.

13 A man who had escaped came and reported this to Abram the Hebrew. Now Abram was living near the great trees of Mamre the Amorite, a brother[b] of Eshkol and Aner, all of whom were allied with Abram. 14 When Abram heard that his relative had been taken captive, he called out the 318 trained men born in his household and went in pursuit as far as Dan. 15 During the night Abram divided his men to attack them and he routed them, pursuing them as far as Hobah, north of Damascus. 16 He recovered all the goods and brought back his relative Lot and his possessions, together with the women and the other people.

While people may want to paint Abraham as a loving man, I'm more inclined to deduce that his plee was solely to save Lot and lot's family. Abraham knew the sodomites very well.

Kukutente23:
This your question is funny. Maybe you should ask God who said he got the reports

What you have done is to limit God's knowledge to Abraham's intervention. Don't forget that God knew of the evil in Sodom. He went there on a fact-finding mission to see if what was reported was as bad as it sounds.

Abraham only wanted to know the standard against which Sodom will be judged and how his nephew will be saved. He begged on behalf of Sodom based on his belief that there are righteous people there and not Lot alone. Abraham assumed there will be five righteous people in Sodom. Unfortunately, God found only one, that is, Lot. So Sodom did not meet the bar and was destroyed.[/quote]

Genesis 19:29
NLT---But God had listened to Abraham’s request and kept Lot safe, removing him from the disaster that engulfed the cities on the plain.

KJV---And it came to pass, when God destroyed the cities of the plain, t[b]hat God remembered Abraham, and sent Lot out of the midst of the overthrow,[/b] when he overthrew the cities in which Lot dwelt.

Lot saying they were virgins does not imply he was right. Every father will always assume his non-pregnant unmarried daughter is a virgin.

So, the daughters were already doing withdraw method? If indeed Lot was a righteous man, why would you assume his daughters were unrighteous?

It's funny your say Lot was not righteous meanwhile Lot prevented the men of Sodom from doing something vile to strangers whom he saw homeless and offered shelter.

So, you see, the angels had intended to destroy the whole place completely. It's because of Abraham, who knew Lot was living there that they came in the form of Men to inspect the town, which they had already planned to destroy. Abraham's plea was only for the sake of Lot. Abraham already knew that the land of Sodom was a bad place. You see, it was against the tradition of the Sodomites to entertain foreigners, so, when the Angels came and lodged in Lot's house, that caused the whole town to become vexed. This custom is, of course, different from that of Lot. It was not "Righteousness" per say, that saved Lot, it was his strong adherence to his own cultural practises just as Abraham. Read more here in link below:

What righteousness can be more than this? Note that the mother was saved as well even though she later turned into salt due to her inability to let go of her lust for the pleasures in that city. Are you saying the mother was righteous as well? No!

The mother is an indigene of Sodom, plus,

Why Salt?
Another explanation for Lot’s wife being transformed into a pillar of salt is based on her having four daughters, two married and two betrothed. The two married daughters and their husbands remained in the doomed city, as did her two future sons-in-law (Gen. Rabbah 50:9; see also “Lot’s Daughters”). When Lot and his wife were saved from the destruction of the city, she took pity on her married daughters who had remained in Sodom and looked behind her. As soon as she saw the back of the Shekhinah (Divine Presence), she was transformed into a pillar of salt (Pirkei de-Rabbi Eliezer, ed. Higger, chap. 25

https://jwa.org/encyclopedia/article/lots-wife-midrash-and-aggadah

pansophist:
Reading.

If you don't find pleasure in books, then you actually don't know what true pleasure is. Smoking, drinking, and sexing are pleasures of the body, but not of the soul.

If you havent paused while reading a book, to think deeply about a particular line, then relate it to lots of experiences before, then get super confused, drop the book, enter Google, and begin to read commentaries about that line, get confused further, then maybe in a week time, it now clicked, you just understand everything.

If the above havent happened to you, you havent started feeding your soul. The more you read, you more silent you become, hence people confuse nerd with boredom.

Like every woman's favorite muderer, Nikolas Michealson, once said, "Reading eddifies the soul." He learnt this from his elder bro, Elijah Michealson.

The age of internet has destroyed me sha. Plus, there's the study smart not study hard mantra. Why read a 500 page book, and come to the same conclusion as someone who watches a 5 minute book review? That aside,

I listen to music. I'm a day dreamer, so I spent most of my time doing that.

Goldmaxx:
Why do they use sodomized when you anally penetrate a male (most times in times of rape)?

Because we associate the event that took place when the strangers came knocking at the doors of the Angel with the name of the town it took place. See below for you education:

kkins25:
Ezekiel 16:48–50 compares Jerusalem to Sodom, saying "As I live, saith the Lord GOD, Sodom thy sister hath not done, she nor her daughters, as thou hast done, thou and thy daughters. Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom: pride, fulness of bread, and careless ease was in her and in her daughters; neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy. And they were haughty, and committed abomination before Me; therefore I removed them when I saw it."

zhirkovrado:
So what is your point now??

The only reason Lot was spared was because he attended the Angels. Giving your daughters out to strangers to fvck is just another tuesday for someone living in sodom.

Ever8090:
the question to your claim that God did not destroy Sodom and Gomorrah for homosexuality is, " why was the visitors there in the first place, ?

Ezekiel 16:48–50 compares Jerusalem to Sodom, saying "As I live, saith the Lord GOD, Sodom thy sister hath not done, she nor her daughters, as thou hast done, thou and thy daughters. Behold, this was the iniquity of thy sister Sodom: pride, fulness of bread, and careless ease was in her and in her daughters; neither did she strengthen the hand of the poor and needy. And they were haughty, and committed abomination before Me; therefore I removed them when I saw it."

Goldmaxx:
What's the meaning of Sodomy?

"Sodomy" was derived from "sodomiticum," "Sin of Sodom."

Kukutente23:
Stop twisting the Bible to suit your bias. Read Genesis 18:20-22

The three men were God's messengers to find out if what was reported to God about Sodom and Gomorrah was true.

I wonder who was doing the "reporting," after all, God introduced himself to only Abraham, and not Lot. but...Okay!

As to your second claim that Lot was not righteous, same Genesis established Lot's righteousness. Lot offered the men his daughters because he was sworn to protect his visitors as custom demands and he knew no other way to stop the randy men from violating his visitors. To his mind, it was better to bear the pain of rape of his daughters than look on while his visitors were violated under his roof.

It was not any custom to take care of the guest. If so, the people wouldn't have come knocking on their door. Lot probably saw men who looked like they had power(Lot was no ordinary civilian himself: real recognize real) and wanted to entertain them. The angels refused--remember, they don't even know Lot. If Abraham hadn't pleaded, Lot would have been destroyed along side them. Abraham knew Lot was there and begged on his behalf and his behalf only.

Secondly, it is possible Lot's daughters had already become part of the immorality in Sodom which their father was aware of. This can be seen in their behaviour with him when they were left alone with him.

Of course, typically misogynist. Blame the victims...

Here you go: Gen 19:8 Behold now, I have two daughters which have not known man: let me, I pray you, bring them out unto you, and do ye to them as is good in your eyes: only unto these men do nothing; for therefore came they under the shadow of my roof.

There were innocent girls. Bear in mind that Lot has no agreement with YHWH whatsoever. So, righteousness is out of the question. Lot was a high ranking official in Sodom. That's why the Angels met him at the "gate."

Mind you, there's speculation that Lot had other daughters who didn't follow him.

zhirkovrado:
Yes God destroyed Sodom and Gomorrah because of homosexuality. The visitors as you have said were actually angels who were sent by God to destroy the city. Their attempt to sleep with the visitors was rather an accelerating factor that prompt their destruction.
So it's right and safe to profess that the city was destroyed because of homosexuality because the angels didn't went there to lodge but rather to destroy the city.

There were many homosexual people among many tribes scattered across the globe, why only Sodom and Gomorrah? It was Abrahams plea that saved Lot, not Lot's righteousness.

23Then Abraham came near and said, “Will you indeed sweep away the righteous with the wicked? 24Suppose there are fifty righteous within the city; will you then sweep away the place and not forgive it for the fifty righteous who are in it? 25Far be it from you to do such a thing, to slay the righteous with the wicked, so that the righteous fare as the wicked! Far be that from you! Shall not the Judge of all the earth do what is just?” 26And the Lord said, “If I find at Sodom fifty righteous in the city, I will forgive the whole place for their sake.” 27Abraham answered, “Let me take it upon myself to speak to the Lord, I who am but dust and ashes. 28Suppose five of the fifty righteous are lacking? Will you destroy the whole city for lack of five?” And he said, “I will not destroy it if I find forty-five there.” 29Again he spoke to him, “Suppose forty are found there.” He answered, “For the sake of forty I will not do it.” 30Then he said, “Oh do not let the Lord be angry if I speak. Suppose thirty are found there.” He answered, “I will not do it, if I find thirty there.” 31He said, “Let me take it upon myself to speak to the Lord. Suppose twenty are found there.” He answered, “For the sake of twenty I will not destroy it.” 32Then he said, “Oh do not let the Lord be angry if I speak just once more. Suppose ten are found there.” He answered, “For the sake of ten I will not destroy it.” 33And the Lord went his way, when he had finished speaking to Abraham; and Abraham returned to his place.

Take a close look at verse 26..

26And the Lord said, “If I find at Sodom fifty righteous in the city, I will forgive the whole place for their sake.”

"If I find..."

You see why SA women prefer Nigerians? Their men are still the Zulu-beast that once danced in the Savannah..

Wisereborn:
This pope seems to be legalizing what God Himself loathe

Just like that of the old, when Abraham was pleading for Sodom and Gomorrah, if God should ask Abraham again, can we even find 5 righteous people in this world

Word of advice: don't depend on man. Depend on God's words and his teachings, know your Bible inside out. So that you can stand firm at all times for the end time is near!!!

Take note, God didn't destroy Sodom and Gomorrah because of homosexuality. The people wanted to rape the "visitors" as a means to humiliate them. I wouldn't even say "God' destroyed, but rather the "visitors" destroyed.

Don't you question why lot was willing to give up his only daughters to be raped to death? As a matter of fact, it was not righteousness that saved lot, it was simply his connection to Abraham. That was all. I've seen Christian authors try to concert shenanigans (subconscious infiltration of thoughts kobo!!!) to claim that lot was righteous. Will a righteous man throw out his daughters like that? Think godamnit! Think!

janeedema:
If it doesn't work, is simply because the man is playing the role of husband but not one of the leader.

There's such a thing as a husband-leader.

You aren't a leader by virtue of installment, you are one by virtue of training and process.

Most men are planning to head a home with no idea about what it means to be a leader.

Ladies are wired to naturally submit to a leader. That's why they admire their boss and appreciate their pastors.

If these guys prove to he anything less of a leader, their submission diminishes. A smart man should submit to acquiring leadership skills, that's what wisdom should tell men. But no! They bump into marriage forming husband without a clue as to the demands of husband or leader.

You can't go against principles and except success. Principles are universal.

When men spit words that are profane, I simply shake my head.

For a morsel of meat, Esau said what's his birthright to him and we are in that generation, where men are selling off their birth rights to women and using their own mouths to say, they should share responsibilities because of hunger which is akin to the hardship in the land.

Headship comes with demands. Don't be fooled. It does.

Your wife is paying the rent as her responsibility in the home and you want her to automatically submit. The same woman you took from her dad to fend for and be her dad, you are insisting she pays rent by living with you.

Weren't you supposed to be living somehow before you married her?

You want to embrace western culture, and you are asking why we are having divorce rates skyrocket that our forefathers never experienced.

You want to lead, your wife, then he smart to know that she is your primary responsibility. When you can't fend per time, acknowledge it. Let her know you could have handled what she is tackling but for financial constraints. That's what a leader does.

Don't just keep mute and make her run the home and attribute it to the economy. You are selling your birthright.

She is the female partner in the relationship. But you are the head of the union. Then, act like the head.

You don't act it by screaming, " I am the head of this house", you act it by taking responsibility.

If Adam was punished for not taking responsibility, and we still suffer the brunt of his leadership flaws today, you won't be spared either. Don't become another failed project.

Embrace the skills needed to lead. Don't assume you can automatically lead hike wife because you are the prayer band leader in church.

Marriages are continually attacked by the enemy due to knowledge gap, not because the couple aren't praying. Be determined to make your marriage different.

The wife is the crown In her husband's head. She is not the head.

If anything that has two heads is a monster, then rise and lead, so she doesn't have any reason to challenge your headship.

Yeah! You can be a husband with traits worth emulating. A husband-leader, indeed.

Hmmmm.. Good point.
Nothing, I hate more than being put below the authority of pastor.. Id it is her boss self, i can manage. but pastor? Na.........

ednut1:
If you start feeding wild animals like lion, hyenas , tiger etc . They will lose their ability to hunt. Nigerian men were the one that spoilt the women with money till they became entitled. If you hammer today you will still use your money to snatch another man babe. Why blaming the women

Nigerian men have also carried that useless culture outside and using money to entice women in other african countries. A female friend from mali/france was doing uber food delivery with her bike in Toronto part time. Guess what Nigerian men she has met are telling her. That a fine babe like her should not be doing such hustle, she should come date them so they can take care of her.

Omo!! You're right oh! This plays out in Match making TikTok... I See beautiful babes being turned down and well to do guys being turned down.. Dating game is actually tougher than we make it to be..

To address your point, when both genders are asked, "tell us about yourself, they begin with their jobs. These set of people keep coming back day after day without match..

So,I stumbled upon a serria leone match making stream.. My lord!!!! It was completely different... Instead of the typical Nigerian" how much are u making, " both genders were tasked to say seductive stuffs.. 😂😂😂... As in, single mother was sitting with her three kids dropping rizz to another guy. I was more than flabbergasted.. On the flip side, One time a lady matched with one guy, and she had to first drop disclaimer that "sorry, I have one kid already."...

The naija dating scene has become completely transactional....Money for hand back for ground.

Nigeria match makers have on several occasions broke shamed men who came up to shoot their shot.. So, I think, as people, we have a very long way to go. Once the background of your home is lit and you have strip lights... ahhhh.... you score 100 points. 😂😂😂.

Why sis this now trending? 😂
You people should leave us alone oh! We were raised as hunters😂😂😂.. Hunt for food and hunt for women.

GloriousGbola:
You are even more stupid than the average red pill ediats. Or maybe your jizz flows upwards? Or maybe your head is actually full of sex and nothing else. You actually sound like the kind of fool that will kill yourself over 10k.

It is what it is.

YEP.. I dey break back to make 10k oh.. 😁. Y u so frustrated sha? 🤣 thinking with ur Gbola again abi?

folake4u:
I kuku like being the red flag oh.

I know na...
na y u add small blood to d red drink i see for yr diary so.. vampire... real red flag😂😂😂

😧

Persephone1:


So it is real

yes indeed... BLESS THE DAY I DISCOVERED TIKTOK..😁 😁 😁

Persephone1:
So this ceiling challenge is real!

Kkins

folake4u:
It is oh. Very foolish challenge.

girls that dont like ceiling challenge <<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<<..... red 🚩 🚩 🚩 🚩
😂

Persephone1:
Oh.... I get

I thought ceiling challenge nah another new craze

ni

GloriousGbola:
I understand that you are a poor bastard who has no idea what it is like to have money. You think 30k is a big deal to a person earning in the range of 1.5 million per money allowances exclusive?

That is not even weekend money to an actual oil worker. That is lunch money. It is only hour fellow league of broke ass niggas who will swallow this stupid story.

30k is too small for a high earner to be degrading himself. I can understand that you will Para over 1k,but that's why they say different strokes.

Nonsense and ingredients. Revenge over 30k.

Try dey nut sometimes... the cum is leaking into your head.

Persephone1:
Which one be ceiling challenge again?

oh perse u knw na😂😂😂...

baddies that do tiktok challenge >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

folake4u:
Hmmm. Another angle actually.

I avoid situations that put my reputation at stake. I avoid it so much like plague.

Reminds of one time one time around 2010 when my proprietor blast 15year old me for staff meeting that I'm too "playful" with d kids... 🤣🤣.. i went home to cry...

Deeper life people ehnn... 😁

Have i outgrown it? Na.. Rumors were spreading some time ago that i was into one of my ss2 students.. 😂.

Apparently, she used my name to escape punishment... 🤣. of course, trust female staffs to start carrying rumors up nd down... I started avoiding any sort of contact with d student outside of class,that is in school compound oh.

I envy ppl wey no get shame sha😁

pansophist:
The guy could have avoided wasting his 30k for Uber if he booked a card trip for her ride from his own Uber account, so she is sure he has paid. If she chose not to come, then he didn't lose, since his money would be reverted to him.

Prevention is better than cure. No point in taking revenge, when you can direct the movie to play in a way that protects you from loosing in the hands of these karashikas with wigs and makeup.

But since he missed the first step, he felt owed, that she played on his intelligence, then revenge was what he was after. Then the shameless hungry girl didn't even think that the dude might be harboring anger for swindling his 30k.

She foolishly showed up in a restaurant and also ate 70k food. On a good day, she won't spend more than 3k to eat at a restaurant. How some girls see dating as an opportunity to display their gluttony is beyond me. You no dey shame?

I saw when one girl on tiktok was saying that she doesn't go on coffee dates, that she is too classy for that. And I ask myself, being classy means being able to afford what you want as an adult, not being a leech that wants expensive dates with zero financial contribution.

But a typical feature of a low IQ is to think others are as dumb as them. If you don't like a man, leave him alone. Stop converting good men to maga. You just unlock a monster in him that either you or another woman will suffer from.

To those who are still looking for partners in this cesspit of romance marketplace, my prayers are with you.

Hahaha.. partners plenty ohh... na d ones wey dey do ceiling challenge we want.. the baddies.. 😂😂😂