₦airaland Forum

Gerrard59:
Trust me, no one is begging you to live in China. [b]I personally like it when people lampoon a place while I generate economic opportunities there. I prefer less competition. Just as the Nigerians in the US/UK/Canada dissuade those at home from relocating so they get all the benefits themselves, so do I. Lastly, as a black African, supposedly, terming China a sh!thole is an aberration. Learn to have some shame, at least publicly or pretend to have.[[/b]

Bad man! the game is the game.

KingAzubuike:
The western toy baby called Israel all mouth. Ordinary hamas they can't defeat for over 40 years. With all their western backing hamas is making them wet their pants. Just imagine how America quickly sent a war ship to Israel for support. Shameful.

To those quoting bible for Israel, just be reminded its predominantly a Jewish and Islamic country before you can even mention Christianity.

People are just lucky there's UN... if not, Palestinians will be history.

armyofone:
I like this kind of tray when the meal is free

🤣 🤣 🤣.... I'm telling you.. wooden tray equals money😂😂😂...At restaurants, once u see wooden tray, better check wallet... they will bill u!!!!!!

ahnie:
I just bid you good night!
Thanks for your concerns!
Cheers!

My utmost pleasure.

I was just joking oh..ah

ahnie:
Wetin I du this time again?
To your answer ...Base on believe,it has nothing on me.
Do well to have a nice evening,bye!!!

I no say you do anything!! But, I see you popping soda a lot.

In my house, nudity is our hobby!
Nothing wrong here. Na una pack sex matter for head like say na only sex be crime people dey commit.

It depends on how we break up.... I never for once thought about it that way. Although, I called off the relationship.. We are not friends sha.

ahnie:
Lunch

Beans
Plantain
Black sweetener

i was scrolling from d bottom up. i saw d pepsi nd u came to mind... its u true true.... 😂 😂 😂

u no dey fear diabetes??

lady wearing cowry is mami water, but d one showing boobs on social media is baddie... 😂 😂 😂.

i love the cowries(haven't see a lady wearing one though), a touch of traditional attire is always top tier for me.

cococandy:
Leftovers. Yum

That serving tray looks great.. classic.

Bintdawood:
Ha! Buh e dey sweet na😹 The soft ones should be out by now🤔 the ripe ones before they get dried. Here in the north, we make tea with it fa. Very good samthing.

Wahlahi, I've never heard of it.. tea kuma? wow... Do u have any pic of it fresh? I stayed in the north too... I'm just hearing this for the first time..

Bintdawood:
The way Nairalanders dey call me Hajiya ehnn😹😹
Okay will share it buh first i’d like to ask if you know Doum palm... its called “Goruba” in my language

the teeth destroyer😂😂😂....
Used to hide these in my back in the days. chew small during break, den chew the rest at home... we suffer oh..😂😂 na by force 😂😂😂....
Haven't seen it for a long time though.

purples25:
You have some good points. When people put it this way, then I can ignore the whole virgin thing. I think you reason outside the box. You were able to explain more without it looking like you were just defending your gender blindly.

Thank you for the kind words and that you able to see this as a means for a healthy discuss.

why are you people complaining? She's happy.

purples25:



The only guys that deserve this honor, personal opinion, is guys who truly respect women's wishes.
They have never kept pushing on any lady, only to sleep with her and go.

Guys that will NEVER play hide and seek with a woman, he doesn't go there nor give her any ultimatum until she blatantly says that she is also ready for sex, no funny half assed green light. Those guys that know how to control their dvck.

They NEVER contributed to the so called loose girls. Loose guys deserve loose girls, and disciplined guys deserve disciplined girls.

Indeed, wisely spoken.
But dating is a game, and i approach it like so. We are biological creatures afterall..

The number one advise I give young girls, "if you know you're not ready, don't collect."
By collect, I mean, any gifts or money. Once that transaction takes place, the man's pschye begins to expect something in return.

In the animal kingdom, males get sex, in exchange, they protect the females. Some species even offer gifts. It goes both ways though.

There are women in some societies that are so protected theu no longer have human rights. Men dictate what women should be, can do and not do. Middle easter countries are one example.

From a scientific perspective, women are stingy with sex, because they want to have healthy babies who would take the species to the next phase of development. Nothing about virtue.. that's man made.


Let's not forget that men did wait.. however, they weren't waiting until they turn 30. Life today is different from that of our parents.

In the past, no one cared for female orgasms(bar a few tribes, e. g. romans and greeks).. Men care today.

In the past, a man will rather commit suicide than allow his tongue touch puna..

In the past, women didn't really choose; they had no choice.. Men choose whom the women married. Hold on, here's the twist: No man will want to pay money to marry a woman who has been "touched" by another man.

Virginity is not about the value of the woman to herself, it's about her value as a second hand being to the man she'd marry.. That's all virginity has ever been about. Nobody checks the man's virginity.

There you are reinforcing old beliefs? What's honorable in knacking a virgin? Is a non virgin, any lesser? Shine your eyes.

That said, I'm not a fan of promiscuity. The thing is, it could be both men and women. Infact, science claims, some folks are genetically predisposed to be promiscuous. So, i don't judge. Will people get hurt, yes. Are men more promiscuous than women? it depends.

Should virgin boys marry virgin girls? Did that deter men from abusing their virgin wives in the past or today? Of course not. Will it guarantee a happy marriage? Probably. But how do you know, you're happy, if you've only being with one man all your life?

A woman who chops beating once every Saturday can tell you she's just as happy as the other woman who her husband treats like diamond... 😂 😂 😂

PinkNature:
Sharap!!!

Nigeria doesn't end in your village. Take a stroll into any Nigerian higher institution and you will see a lot of beautiful, innocent and untouched maidens.

Was dat even necessary? Mad man

There's an old saying, "your gender will disappoint you." In my case, this has turned out to be true.

Persephone1:
Lol... I work with NGOs, help them with volunteers, fundraising and all . Believe me when I say majority are own by women and women turn up most both in funds and labor. Men support no doubt but they hardly pioneer.

Yes, I do belive you. Even, if I didn't, it doesn't dispute that this is a documented fact. I'd be stupid to disagree.

You hear "oh go ahead we will support wherever we can" and if you mistakenly forget to acknowledge them, you are on your own No more money for you or your agency

We want our appreciation. It's not too much to ask.

While you can still appeal to a woman sponsor and she would consider a second chance. It's why we take extra measures in acknowledgment. For the female sponsor it is accountability and result, you will give an account of how her kobo was spent.

I see.. In other words, men give and take their mind off of it. "hey, here's the money" "don't mention"...As opposed to "the money i sent you is what you're using to buy phone"?

When you say "cheerful" I hope you don't mean "lavishious" people tend to mix up these words and use them wrongly. You make it seem like women give grudgingly, like i stated early women give with purpose which is there is a need and it should be met. Men are lavish, women are prudent.

corroborates above. I see. "don't mention"

Lol and it's the reason Nigerians are where they are. No love, compassion and kindness.Life is not all about toto and prick.

Yes, definitely. I guess, this is another pointer to the undeniable fact that the concept of Cisgender and gender identification is ridiculous. As studies show, Men donate more in other spaces, like work environments, and political campaigns. It's not surprising, at least to me, that women will gear towards charitable courses, which have "nurturing" written all over it.

All hail Women!!!!

I wonder, how can i get ladies involved with NGOs? Or where can one find them in the country.

Persephone1:
This is for your brothers.. lol do you know how many NGOs are run by women? In a group of volunteers 95% are women. Guess what they take care of both boys and girls, women and men without expecting anything in return.

Whereas just yesterday one of our Nigerian brothers created a thread that he doesn't see anything bad in requesting sex for favour and our amiable men support this reasoning.

May God help us

There are also many NGOs ran by men and they don't post pictures on Social Media about it every day. I'm sure If i pull up the statistics, i'd find that men are more cheerful givers than women.
Women support their own, because, they get emotional value in return. Emotional exchange takes place. And the day, that emotional transaction is broken, they vilify you. This is no new news. "After everything I've done for you" is a woman's anthem, not men.

But, we men are wising up. We don't care about emotional value; we are, however, concerned about the tingly feeling between the flesh covering the Femurs. Which we have all right to demand for because, even the lord who loves you more than us has his own "terms and conditions."

I'm sure If i pull up the statistics, i'd find that men are more cheerful givers than women.

Tsk...Tsk... Tsk.....
With my tail in between my legs, It saddens me to say:

It does seem by numbers, y'all win this race.
You WIN! or Y'all are catching up.

budaatum:
The oga of the slaves is a demigod? Okay, I accept you think that way.

Adam was an ignorant naked enslaved demigod who was freed by the rib Eve who used her own senses.

All hail lord Lucifer, the serpentine who deemed EVE worth to receive enlightenment.

Persephone1:
Women are prudent with money and would spend on others when necessary unlike men who help and spend to impress and get in return (sex) women give wholeheartedly without expecting back. Women will spend on who matters (husband, father, mother, siblings, poor people, less privileged, orphans etc.) . Women don't throw money around like men do.

Men take care of their family ( immediate) Women take care of the community. Do you expect a lady to start spraying her hard earned money just for attention and cheap fame? Lol . That her friends didn't spray her doesn't mean they don't spend on one another, try attending a bridal shower or ask about who sponsor it from a bride and you will be surprised how much ladies spend on each other without being LOUD about it. Lol to start I know of my sisters bridal shower where friends contributed money to surprise her. And when she was billed 75k for another friend. Personally I know how much I spent at a cousin's wedding. But all these remain strange to most of you because we don't make NOISE about it.

Ladies spend on each other, Women help each other financially too they don't just talk about it like men do.

Coughs! Tsk...Tsk....Tsk.... Brings out the bible.

According to our lord and savior,

31. Do to others as you would have them do to you. 32 If you love those who love you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners Men love those who love them. 33 If you do good to those who do good to you, what credit is that to you? Even sinners Men do the same. - Luke 6: 32

Closes bible. Swaggerliciously drops Mic.

sukkot:
cheap life. sapa

No bring Oyinbo ideology come here oh.... When u start dey identify as SAPA.. stop am oh😂

sukkot:
i dey tudun wada

Weytin u dey find there?

advanceDNA:
How do u women say it again ooooo...

"Were u forced"

I gave him this, I gave him that, I paid rent.....

Did he force u??

tit for ta ta

37 year old son. It seems the Jazz you were using has finally failed. Now, it's to resort to physical means abi? 🤣

Silentgroper:
Oh! so what gift do we long for? Boxers and singlet ... U must be joking

Personally, a 400k sneaker won't freak me out.

Some female students wrote me letters when I left their school some years ago. trust me, I almost fought my sibling one day when he pranked me that he had thrown them away. haha.

One gave me a wristband. Omo, when that thing was loss, I scattered my room, went out to trace my footsteps in search of it. The little not-so-cliche stuff is what really matters.

The naija ladies that do this are genuinely in love with you.. Plus, they are very empathetic. So, if you find one, don't dull. She's a keeper.

Kobojunkie:
1. According to your story, the man was unable to speak or eat. How could you tell that his mind was intact even with all that? He remembered places and faces is no confirmation that a mind is intact.

And you say an adult man died out of hunger in 3 days. That's almost impossible since a human adult can exist up to at least 11 days without food and still function OK. And your insistence that his body being found in an open place means he must not have need murdered is baseless. That makes no sense at all.

Sadly, since no autopsy was done, we won't know what really happened or why a man died in such a way.

2. There is possibility that your friend may have been poisoned,yes, but that does not mean he was and since no autopsy was done to determine actual cause of death, there is no telling. All your narrative does is present a possibility for many things including murder.

And water?