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The way this titles are crafted, they are deliberately written to spike curiosity... 😂 😂

I say it to female friends alot.. 😂

IconicR:
Is this the only thing they are good at?
😂 This is an insult

The greatest simps in Africa..

Omoawoke2:
Lol.

I’ll choose 10 million today over getting 100 million in 20 years. 10 million may be invested to compound annually for the next 20 years may result within 80mm to 60mm depending on the interest rate.
So discounting 100 mm backward to todays value may be worth like 15mm today, let’s assume interest of 10%
That doesn’t worth the 20-year wait. There are many things you can do better with the 10 mm today than waiting for 100mm of 20 years which worth 15mm today's value

That's actually true.

Omoawoke2:
You know the answer

Nobody will buy it for free



Ten million today is worth more than 100million in 20 years

at what inflation rate? 1000%?😂

na African mentality!! People from other parts of the world will gladly tell u how much dey earn, their age, and career.. Ask African black man, and watch keep gate keep it like as if u wan to steal his destiny.

cococandy:
The problem is when the women provide, the men usually don’t step in to fill in the gap that’s left open from the women being away hustling to provide.

They call it emasculation. Taking care of their own family

🤣 🤣 🤣...
Women!

"couldn't afford her lifestyle"

Kobojunkie:
Stop lying!

Where is it indicated in the medical logs or DSM-5 that depression can lead to one having murderous intent? Una go just dey open mouth pla, pla, pla. Having suicidal ideation is not the same as having murderous intentions. This man was clearly bitter and that has nothing to do with depression.

Are you saying there are no exceptions?

A 2015 population study in Sweden found that people diagnosed with depression were roughly three times more likely than the general population to commit violent crimes including robbery, sexual offenses, and assault.
When people with depression do commit a crime, mental illness is typically not the only contributing factor. More often, it’s a combination of certain risk factors that make a vulnerable person feel that violence is necessary. Such factors include:

---Experiencing domestic violence
---Exposure to violence in childhood
---Socioeconomic stress
---Substance use

https://www.verywellmind.com/is-depression-linked-to-violence-1067393
https://doi.org/10.1016/s2215-0366%2814%2900128-x

Islamisformumu:
While as a Christian I understand the undertones of the whole virginity obsession, it has never made sense why most of its strongest proponents only ever apply the standard to one gender. Don't they know that there can't be girl virgins without boy virgins?

Abi oh. Men are smart!! especially when it comes to sex. Like they think generations ahead

The fact of the matter is, who virginity epp? No, really. Who e epp?
Virginity is simply a patriacial something put forth by men to prevent the ladies from doing the same thing they did.

More men are sexually active than women, so, even if she decides to be a virgin, the chances of ending up with a non-virgin guy is high. Does it benefit her? NO! Who does it benefit? The man of course. He is assured that no other man has tasted the woman he has paid dowry on top. That's why virginity is a big deal in cultures where men pay dowries. Compared to that where men don't. it's not about the character or quality of a woman, it's about pleasing the ego of men. Nothing more, nothing else.

PS. the section of the bible that emphased on virginity was written in a time when the children of God were pillaging villages, raping and turning captured women into sex slaves. Dey play!

Omo, no be only naija girls oh. Na everywhere now. The thing is, when sex became easily accessible to men, they over exploited it and bastardize the whole system.

If to say you go knack and stay devoted or at least, not insult the girl that you have manipulated to sleeping with you, the dating scene wouldn't be as messed up as it is. Na wuna cause am and an una con dey make noise pass.

Now, knowing they lose your respect after you don't knack them, it made sense that you too should lose something---your hard earned money.

unfortunately, it's the good guys that are now falling for money for hand, back for ground scam. Bad guys on the other hand know how to trigger the babes release clause. Abeg,, bad guys show us the way.. Good guys are suffering!!

I was on a tiktok live the other day, and didn't realize i had dashed random babe 500+ coins...No be babe wey even they close by. She offered to move our conversation go whatsapp. I said, okay cool.

The red flags started popping up..

She con set disappearing messages.
reluctantly shares any info about herself.
trying to play the hard to get, replying one word at a time..see me see wahala, an you give me your number na..
recently, she started telling me she's broke and they are on holiday that's why...
I kuku told her, it happens to us all.
No be say I get the money self.

jedisco:
On the contrary, being a medic in the west is one of the more assured and beneficial jobs. Yes, it rightly comes with its expectations but the reward is significant. Being a medical specialist in Canada puts you in the top earning quota of a developed nation. Something very few would actually achieve.

Yes no doubt about income. The work load, especially for starters is what I'm hitting at?

sorry.

1Sharon:
You may have been right. OP has come with an update

where? never mind.

1Sharon:
😂😂


The work ethics in Nigeria is poor! In Nigeria, 30 minutes can spent sitting down, another 30 minutes can be spent on the phone

I'm sure he's shook because in the West he actually has to do some WORK.

I once read a novel that entailed the perils of being in the Healthcare sector.. I was thanking God i didn't do medicine.. Doctors in the west are suffering abeg😂

😂 😂 😂 😂
SBF naija version

It surprises that women and men follow bash you oh.. 😂.. Is Nairaland changing for the better? it's in the west they have surrogate mothers, so i dont understand why they want to cut your head.

Men and women often come home to marry, go tiktok and see people queuing for Nigerian love.. so, i know the market is tuff for you guys.. ehyaa🤣.

Men that don't allow thier wives achieve anything follow bash u.. 😂 😂😂 😂 😂... the funniest part..

Kriss216:
Na this OP fit una

😂 😂 😂 😂

50 Million jobs 🤣 🤣 🤣

I don't see any different from what our "heroes" in Naija, aka dem davido them are doing..

If it will elevate her standard of living, I think it's a good deal for her. But, who's going to be raising the kids? You just might end up shooting yourself in the foot.

Send her packing bro.. If i had her kind of confidence, I'd be a millionaire now!

As a pedestrian, If i count the number of times i was almost hit ehn while going to school.. Not with the roads full of people who are eager to cut corners to get ahead..Even if u make seperate lane for bikes, drivers will invade it... Unless, gov. is willing to spend more on making road dividers.

vaxx:
it is complete sir . Just decord the words or you drop your line instead

zero five five zero zero two three eight two eight.

vaxx, number doesn't look complete.

rickleye:
What year 1985 ?
Plus you were not trekking alone but with a group. Let the child be a child until he/she shows the capacity to do.

2000s sir.

lawrenzoo:
Good day, Nairaland families. I would appreciate it if mature and responsible families in the house could enlighten me on this. My son is only 7 years and 4 months old, and I allow him and his 5 year old sister to do minor chores such as making their beds when they wake up, sweeping their rooms to some extent, taking their plates to the kitchen after eating, and brushing their teeth at night. However, there is one thing I frown upon in the house, "Sending a young guy of his age on street errands," but I discovered that my wife finds it so easy to do so.

Most times my wife would want to get simple stuff like detergent and so, she calls him which i do stop from happening most times since i am of a personal opinion that it is rather too unsafe for him and he should not be sent on an errand alone until he is at least 10years old and above.

Please i want to know if I am simply the one overreacting and too overprotective OR a child of that age should not be sent on an errand?

7? Is ur child mentally incapacitated or what? I was trekking for almost 30 minutes to school at that age.. Take it from someone who's watched 4 younger siblings grow.. You're stripping your kid of confidence.

vaxx:
my days in jos back then . Off unijos old campus, just right there at semchark hotel. The kind of flexing no be here ......

hey, know anything about or anyone who knows about linings? Some one was asking me they are interested in buying from here nd moving to Naija..

Hope you're not looking for excuses to complete your hit and run game?

I haven't heard of such cultural practise before.

Avast:
Would you have come here to ask same question if the person is your girlfriend?

Just asking though.

facts.

ecolime:
Ohhh... Busted

Probably someone practicing creative writing ✍️

Or NL mods trying to generate traffic from contents.

to be honest, most threads on marriage nd relationship are fiction here😂.

But, i see stuff like these on reddit or quora.. so, i think whoever is conjuring up these tales is just picking here nd there from aforementioned sites.

Why not? I'm hoping the mistress isn't going to be one of your students. Please, don't do that.

I'm also hoping you've shared the reality and not your twisted versions of it. I'm afraid, I don't particularly fancy lecturers since I hold a prejudices that they are mostly "sex for grades" scums othe earth. This leads me to ask, did you have affairs with a student of yours in the past and your wife caught you? If so, then you deserve what you get and some jail time. Amen. Scum!!!

Otherwise:

If you've tried to find out what the problem is from your wife and there is no change. Sure, feel free. Just don't let it affect your daughter's life.

Don't mind kobo, They are mostly biased against men.

You can't be starved of love and affection, and channel that energy to gym whatsoever. Biblically speaking, kobo, has allowed their bias, cloud judgement. What happened to---i paraphrase, "the body of the husband belongs to the wife and vice versa, "

Scientifically speaking, there is such a thing as "high or low libido" contrary to the claims of kobo; associating your need for affection as the lack of self control.

Self control for 2 years? come on mehn!

PS: I'm about half your age. 😉😉😉

In opposition to Klass's assertion that "men haven't needed permission to cheat," men are also humans. Seeking out a mistress given the social background of OP would be considered "cheating." Before a man cheats, alot of processing happens internal as well. Plus, most men don't cheat.

The OP is at the corner of the wall, and possibly, doesn't want to hurt his wife. But... But, it seems the wife has no regards for his emotional needs, which my biology informs me is a crucial part of human life.

We all can be fall victims to frustration where our cognitive abilities fail us.