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PoliticalUpdate:
I thought they said Obidients were wailing because they lost, and that their presidential candidate won "Fair and Square", so what is all these rantings for? Are they hoping for a Re-run? I bet you if there was to be a rerun, APC won't have a candidate; because he would have been locked up behind bars. The election will be between Obi, Atiku and Kwankwaso - the real Northerners vs the only genuine Southerner. Guess what Obi by then will have a landslide victory - because those doubting his capabilities by this singular act of courage at the election tribunal will cue up behind him.

So between LP and PDP, who will the angry supporters that initially voted for APC queue up for? Don’t forget that they are mostly Northerners.
I don’t know why this Labour Party members are so attuned to dilutions and deceiving of themselves.

CallmeTrinity:
Do you have a job at all? Yesterday I counted 135 posts by you?


Even a jobless teenager doesn't spend such time on the internet !!

Your account was opened just 2016 and you have made over 25000 comments !!! 25000?!!!!!

I know accounts from year 2010 that don't even have 10k comments yet.

You need a job bro what are you doing with your time for goodness sake?

Ok what actually prompted you to find out the number of comments he has made on NL! You’re accusing him of something you seem to be guilty of.

Samantha124:
If I'm being emotional, then it also means that you're emotional too..

But doesn't it takes two to tango though? Do those women have sex by themselves? Do they impregnate themselves? And who gives them money to do those risky backdoor abortions?

You guys also allow yourselves to bang different girls, impregante them, and give them money for backdoor abortions, knowing that they could claim their lives, making you heartless and a killers if they die... How does that make you any different?

And as a woman, why will I care about what other women are doing with their bodies too when I'm not going marry them

It's also the decisions that you guys make too that will concern me, which will also make me think that it's also risky to settle down with a man that says yes to different women easily, because it makes him a womanizer and he'll end up bringing different women, STDs, and a damaged dick into our marriage and still blame me for it because most of you guys don't like taking responsibility for your actions.

You'd still want women to take responsibility for your own wrong doings.

You’re just making his point for him.
He’s saying that if you’re a woman that falls for men like that, then you’re not worthy of him.

Samantha124:
If it's every normal man's dream to marry a virgin, then why do you keep disvirgining girls before marriage?

Why can't you zip up your trousers until marriage? In that way, all women and men will be virgins upon marriage.

This your excuse doesn’t sound sensible. Everyman is not the same. Just as we have virgin girls, we also have virgin men.
Most of the time, those men seeking for virgins to marry are virgins themselves.
It is hypocrisy if you want someone to be something that you cannot be.

That’s why you see that most promiscuous men do not really care about marrying a virgin wife.
But a good number of decent men will go for virgins over non-virgins.

Samantha124:
Honestly, how does virginity guarantees a successful marriage?

I'm very sure that if the op leaves this woman that he's currently dating for a virgin, he'd still cheat on the same virgin with this woman because because he'd have settled for someone he doesn't love in the name of virginity.

And how come those that are married to virgins keep cheating on the same virgins with women who are already sexually active to a point that some would even leave the same women they met as virgins to the ones they met as sexually active

Answer that for me because I'm curious..

Wow! These ladies are funny o.
I don’t know why you keep trashing this virginity issue.
Everything you said can conditionally happen. Marrying a virgin cannot stop a cheating man.
But does that mean men shouldn’t prefer a virgin!

Look, it’s every ‘normal man’s’ dream to marry a virgin

Geovanni412:
A girl can be a virgin but have a body count of oral action of more than 20 guys.

Big lie! If one can do MouthAction, then vagina penetration must be ‘child’s play’.

ItisWell22:
I personally nursed a woman who died of depression following diagnosis of HIV.

She kept telling me, “He’s the only man I’ve known all my life”. 😢
She couldn’t believe her very godly, churchly, super-deacon husband was sleeping around to the extent of bringing home the deadly virus.

He married her a virgin. She had 7 sons for him.
Yet, he was popular outside for womanizing, despite being deep into church activities.

She died within few months of diagnosis…

This has nothing to do with the issue here.

It’s the choice of the man. It is only natural to choose a virgin over a non-virgin.

CuriousStudent:
then they should remain single. The very thought of marrying Nigerian men that look like Godzilla is hard luck. So you should pay. Except I am cripple or physically disadvantaged I will not pay a dime for a wedding to a Nigerian man.
Men that suggest this are broke and should be avoided

You don’t get it. When it comes to this particular issue, almost all men reason alike. Nobody wants a liability anymore.

If you’re not adding anything, you’re as good as being absent.

Even a man that has heaven and earth will not put you in his house because you are of the opposite gender.
Nowadays, the rich marry the rich,
The poor marry the poor,
The industrious marry the industrious and
‘The lazy’ marry ‘the lazy’.

sharone21:
Be careful madam when a typical Nigerian man compliments u as a wife material. They want women to die early but are not ready to work as men without dragging women along 50:50 income formula saying men will be overstressed.

My mum worked similarly 8-5:30pm, leaving home almost 6am daily and while she wàs pregnant( we are 6 kids) had 2 or 3 maids at once. This did not stop my dad from doing house chores and compound cleaning.... Dad travels as a rare Professional in his field and mum too travels and may stay up to 1 month leaving my dad with 5 daughters and 2 or 3 females extra. We do ask our mum why she never for once felt agitated leaving my dad alone with 'many women'( lol) and my mum would respond that: your dad is a HONORABLE MAN.....He may have his faults but it is a NO NO for him to have anything to do wrongly with anyoñe under his care. And this man is someone his daughter's will DIE for if need be. I thank God my brother is walking in his footsteps( though big).

Men these days need mentors from elderly men who succeeded in their marriages. I know Pastor Taiwo Odukoya used to run something strictly for men in his Fountain of life church.

Women, marry men u love but he MUST love u MORE so that where he needs to make sacrifices for u, he will do it effortlessly.... Men marry when u are READY for the hassles of marriage...

Let your husband get his own female relative to help u.

Good things are not easy to find and she’s a diamond.
I don’t expect you to be happy for her because a good wife can only recognize a good wife when they see one.
People like you will see her like ‘mumu’.

She deserves every compliments given to her.
If you’re still young and wise, there’s alot of lessons you can learn from her.

Silentgroper:
what you're going through is nothing compared to your husband is going through, yet like you females usually say .. " he's man, he should bare it...
well you're a woman, bare it..


if you can't , get the househelp if you can afford their salary ..


don't come and add more burden to his neck..he already has 3kids and one baby adult to cater for ...



Abeg, bare it . they're your kids too




Next!!!!

Omo you just spoke my mind.

You’re not working and you’re still looking for help?
Who’s going to pay for the house-help service?

If she was working or have a job, I can understand that.
Na wa o!

babywhite:
You are around and helping a lot but in op case her husband is rarely around she does all alone...some of these people ranting may have grew up with an extended family or even a help in their homes... physical strength is not the same when it gets to a point you are losing it you speak up there is no award for the strongest woman...a man that will cheat will cheat with or without maid

Did you miss the part where the woman doesn’t have a daily job?
She has 24hours to do the domestic chores alone o. 5year old and 2year old goes to school.
With a house help, she does nothing else in the house. Haba!
The husband is a very nice man to not be pissed

obinna58:
Your husband knows you’re lazy which is why he’s trying to strengthen you up, in due time you’ll adjust

You have a whole 24hours to take care of kids and the house yet you think it’s stressful and wanting a helper, a work you can do for 4hours and have 20hours to sleep if really serious.
What about mothers that have 4-5 children and yet working and doing every chores

I’m sure it takes you 2hours to sweep ordinary room, please don’t teach your kids laziness

I don’t know o. A whole 24hours to do domestic chores and you’re complaining.
She’s not even working o!
Wow! 😱

Teema4720:
My sister i can feel what you are feeling, i was there so i know.
My husband also never wanted me to get a house help, my kids are 6 and 2+ and i am currently heavily pregnant. I am doing a 8-5 job and my kids stay in school till 6pm when i return from work before i go pick them.
When we get home, i prepare dinner, do home work, unpack their bags, etc.
Every morning i wake by 5am, cook and start washing clothes so it would not have to pile up , then by 6am i wake the kids and prepare them for school which he drop them in school before i start getting ready for my work place. Once they leave the house by 7am, that is when i will hurridly clean the house and continue with clothes if i am not done. Those day i alway report late to work but because i am prenant, i was alway pardon. Remember i stil do market stuffs, etc, etc. My Husband comes back by 8:30pm, and by then the kids are already asleep, food is set house is arranged so he just feels "you are doing it nah, so no need for house help" I have tried to make him understand that between when we return from sch and when he comes home i go tru alot....
I was dying daily from stress, i had to stand my ground and told my husband that if i die now, he will only mourn me atmost 1yr and move on with his life, i can't kill myself. I have had to turn down many helps i saw, so if you are getting someone, you need to do it prayerfully and screen alot. If you are not working, i make it easier for you but i am working so my case was really something else.DON'T JUST BRING ANYBODY INTO UR HOME, i took a lot of time to search for months, i was searching... So pls be careful and watch before you decide if you must bring in a helper.
To cut the long story short, i got someone , but my husband said i will be the one to pay the girl, i accepted because i need help and may put to bed soonest.
My dear you own ur body, advise yourself, stress has killed a lot of people, pls make sure you don't die carelessly. Love you sis

Madam, women like you are very rare. You’re a typical example of what a woman should be. This Lady in question is not even working o. Or did I miss where she mentioned that!
Young girls of nowadays are so impatient and lazy.

randymirrors:
I see that you've been carefully selecting weak women for relationship/dating all your life. That's why you're still flapping wings anyhow, yapping nonsense about how you treat your woman. Surely, you've never been with a woman who will deflate your overbloated ego in one fell swoop. I like dealing with men like you. You will eat your own shit if we cross paths. Nonsense!

I can bet my balls that women like you are ugly!😂😂

grandstar:
Xerona

It is sad that there are men who don't realize that taking of a baby in itself is a full time job.

It is best you bring this matter up with your parents and in-laws. Let them be the ones to talk sense to your husband.

I would also suggested if you could, abandon the kids with your husband for a full day and let him see what you face. Hin eye go clear.

By the way, who’s going to pay for the house help?
I think they should switch places for maybe a year. Jesus Christ!
It’s not like the wife has a job o. She didn’t mentioned she is working. She only has 3 kids, 2 of them probably goes to school everyday. You think making money is easy Abi!

IyaebeTheGreat:
Fact that is centred around your penis and how careless men should be with their penis is a stupid fact. Obviously your penis and your brain have exchanged position.

The funny thing about you is that you don’t appear dumb enough not to know that it’s a mans world.
I know you’re more loyal and submissive in reality than most of the people you advise online.
Because you do seem intelligent. I know!
I only fear for those who will take you seriously.

IyaebeTheGreat:
He's a selfish husband. Two househelp no go do me sef because I won't have strength for any other thing aside breastfeeding my baby. He's a selfish and wicked husband

That’s if anybody go wife your kind first. 🙂

webdevprof:
Local boy, oya go and drink ur ogogoro.
You're so pained... Next time don't insult people who are above you!

I'll stop responding to your comments now. You can keep quoting yourself and ranting.

Adios!

Omo that guy finish u!😂😂😂

eeetuk:
They stated that, ‘’despite the failure to so transmit and several complaints for review, the 1st Respondent’s chairman refused all entreaties and applications for the suspension of the collation exercise and a review of the complaints before declaring a winner of the election and repeatedly off-handedly dared the petitioners to go to court"

Wrong ground to challenge the February 25,2023 presidential election. No Court in Nigeria or anywhere in the world can prove voting irregularities. I mean none. There is no precedent for the Court to rely on or follow. I was hoping that Atiku Abubakar campaign was going to election Tribunal to prove that Bola Tinubu did not meet the constitutional requirements. That is because Bola Tinubu got 19% votes in Abuja instead of 25% required. That is the only winning ground against INEC and Bola Tinubu campaign.

Honestly, Atiku Abubakar campaign is wasting time. The Atiku Abubakar campaign is asking the Court to prove impossible. That is not going to happen. Right now I am ashamed of why Atiku Abubakar campaign has hired incompetent lawyers to handle this matter. Very reckless in my view.

That is only a winning ground for people who don’t understand English Language.
Why do you think Atiku didn’t go that way, knowing fully well that some ignorant people are gloating about it!
The only possible case to make here is failure of INEC to transmit the results live as promised and that’s what Atiku and his team are pursuing.

chuksville:
Atiku should just forget about this case, he definitely will not make any headway.
Obi even stands a better chance than him!

How? This Labour Party people mumu o!
How can someone who finished 3rd stand a better chance than the one that finished 2nd! Jesus Christ!

SpecialAdviser:
Father ko, mother ni.
Let me ask you kid? Is it only Obi that is in court? Abi you no see Atiku name up there.
Did Igbos not back Obasanjo? Abi Obasanjo na Igbo man? Shame on all of you. Shame

Why the so much attention on Obi?
Chai, this Obi is a lion aswear down

This talk is childish. Don’t you read? The Onni also mentioned Atiku. Atiku that came second is not talking and that clearly explains how annoyingly disturbing, the noise coming from Labour Party.

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TheRealMalcolmX:
Shut up your mouth you slowpoke. "Why are you crying?"...yen yen yen.....As if Atiku was better......Nor try me oh.

Who’s crying now! Asiwaju is your President and will be for 8 good years. Thanks to your disloyal and desperate Peter Obi.
Atiku wasn’t better but defeated him with all your noise making.

shiwex:
You are an Idiot..........very backward thinking fool.

See you with forward thinking insulting someone you don’t even know.

TheRealMalcolmX:


There has to be a way for nairaland to place a permanent ban on nincompoops. I blame the internet that enabled every Tom, Dick and Harry to think their worthless opinion matters.

And for the record....not all Obidients are Igbos. I have never been to the east but I voted for Obi and did that unapologetically.

So why are u crying now. You and your cohorts are the reason why we have a drug dealer and terrorist as President and Vice. You divided a block vote that would have confirmed defeat for APC and you’re here crying. You never see anything.

socialmediaman:
My job on nairaland politics section is political commentary. The hardest part is reasoning with people who voted for Buhari twice and still voted Tinubu again, hoping he will do better

If you voted for Peter Obi then you’re indirectly one of those people you can’t reason with. Because the biggest reason why Tinubu won was the emergence of Peter Obi on the poll.

HeartlessMan:
I support the beating.
Women need discipline.

Me too. Some of these girls don’t have home training. You know what you’re supposed to do but you want to prove stubbornness.

novia22:
This Axe swings both ways. Society always makes it look as if the must be the woman to suffer when she leave a cheating man. My dear, If a woman is financially stable and has a cheating spouse, and decides to leave, all this story here will not befall her. And if truly the man knows the value of what he lost, he is going to be a side cock too. The woman can comfortably move on with her life and her children. It's the man's loss and since she can afford anything she wants, she can also afford to get a side cock to do her bidding.

See eeeh in this life, Just have money, alot of problems won't be problems anymore.

You’re obviously less than 25years. Let me break it to you sweetheart. Society didn’t make anything up. The world is already unfair to the female gender, that’s why they always get the benefit of any doubt when there’s a case with the opp sex. This article is only trying to explain why you should pick your demons carefully.

Maobichek:
You should assign Obi's evaluation to people who saw Anambra before Obi took over down to his expiration as a governor.

The year you listed above as a student at Awka didn't qualify you to talk about Obi's performance because you didn't see Anambra before Obi took over down to when he handed over to Obiano, thank you.

I’m sorry but you seem like one of those people I was talking about. Don’t make an excuse for him with his past. Just tell me you believe in his promises and I will try to listen. I said I was in UNIZIK from 2006-2011(I wrote 2016-2011) but you know what I meant.
Obi was sworn in as Governor of Anambra State in 2006. I was there in Awka. So if Anambra was in a deplorable state prior to Obi’s swearing, I saw it.
Friend, I’m not trying to pick a quarrel with you. I’m from Delta State and not in support of Tinubu or giving failure a 3rd chance, but I need us to be wise in the next election because this obedient movement ruined this one.

PROUDIGBO:
Dude, you're just spoiling for a fight when you're not even understanding the argument! Look at the bigger picture: resources available; security situation met on ground; partisan/political situation confronted with while trying to govern; infrastructure met on ground; etc! Peter Obi had a lot of handicaps and challenges he met on ground when assuming office, yet he still delivered creditably well, especially on HDIs!

I’m sorry to break it to you, Obi’s name will not be mentioned when we are talking about Governors who delivered. While he was not an ‘Ikpeazor’ or a ‘Kalu’, he didn’t break much grounds in the state that one can trace. I was a student of Unizik from 2006 to 2011, so I know his government to an extent.
I don’t hate Obi, I hate the way people are making excuses for him to force him down our throats. He’s also the reason why APC was not kicked out of power after what we went through in the last 8years.

slowice:
When I remember what that overrated Fashola said about electricity prior to 2015 election I laugh because we told them nothing would come out of it.


Today same gangs of failures have brought in a bigger failure as president with more promises and nothing will come out of it as usual.

I hate the PDP but they are by far more reasonable and accountable than APC.

And yet you contributed in the failure of PDP towards winning the Presidential Election.

lexy2014:
You supported buhari for 8years. How has Nigeria fared under buhari?

Now you can't wait for Tinubu to become president. How will that make Nigeria better?

I voted for Atiku, but I honestly think Asiwaju will make a better President than Peter Obi. I never believed in him. He always uses that ‘Us against the world’ mentality. But I’m not someone that can easily be deceived by emotions.