 Romance › Re: Wearing Waist Beads Is Not A Sign Of Irresponsibility. by Konquest: 8:22pm On Apr 30, 2021*. Modified: 12:14pm On May 03, 2021 |
bbstarr:
Waist beads are traditional body accessories that consist of small glass beads, decorative stones, crystals or cowries on a string and this is worn around the waist or the hips. Waist beads isn't a new fashion statement. It has been worn for several centuries by Africans and Asians most especially Indians.
Recently, it has gained popularity than ever before among women from all over the world including black American women. What baffles me most is how people think wearing waist beads is a sign of irresponsibility or sign of being diabolic. These assumptions are really surprising and very baseless. Ladies wear beads for a number of reasons I'm going to be talking about in this article.
Most ladies wear it for fashion. Beads are fashionable! Their beauty, sleekness and they way they jingle. They are beautiful to behold so I wonder why anyone will have a problem with them. Ladies wear it to feel beautiful and attractive.
Wearing of waist beads can also be used as a weight gain determinant. Some women wear it around their waist to detect if they are gaining weight or losing weight. Waist beads don't stretch out, so when it tightens, it's a sign of weight gain. When it loosens, it's a sign of weight loss.
Culturally, waist beads are used to determine maturity. In some cultures, when a women sees her period for the first time, she wears a waist beads as a ceremonial right of passage into womanhood. In some other cultures too, parents put waist beads on the waist of newborn babies.
Waist beads are being used as a way to control your posture. It forces you to sit upright or else the string will cut and make your beads scatter all over the place. It helps you control your bad sitting posture.
Conclusively, waist beads is not a sign of irresponsibility or a sign of being diabolic. It's fashion. It's culture. It's beautiful and it's also natural. Every single African tribe has waist beads as part of its cultural adornment, so why is it that recently its receiving negative reviews from men and non users of waist beads?
https://naijacryptogirl.com/wearing-waist-beads-is-not-a-sign-of-irresponsibility/ I love abstract works of art and thin metal waist chains or beads are creative masterpieces that accentuate the femininity of women who've got style. Ankle chains also look great on properly dressed ladies.  |
| Family › Re: Important Fact You Need To Know About Love Language Of Your by Konquest: 7:55pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
henzyword:
The idea behind this psychology is that every partner has a different way that they give and receive love.
The number one New York Times Bestseller, Dr. Gary Chapman; The Five Love Languages for singles argues that these ways can be divided up into 5 simple categories:
Words of affirmation, physical touch, acts of service, receiving gifts, and quality time.
We all can have selfish tendencies. It’s so easy to expect others to show love and affection the same way that we do. When we find ourselves in relationships, success often comes with actively tending to the wants and needs of the other person.
https://www.henzyword.com/effect-of-breaking-a-ladys-hymen-in-a-premarital-relationship/
Understanding your partner’s love language can be an important tool to enhance the long-term health and happiness of your relationship.
When you’re in a relationship, understanding your partner’s love language can make you seem like an all-star.
When couples understand and tend to their partner’s love language it can help with problem-solving and harmony within the relationship.
Words of Affirmation
If your partner values this love language, then they will feel loved when you verbally express yourself. Tell them they look nice or just tell them “I love you”. Heartfelt expressions of appreciation will go a long way with someone who likes words of affirmation.
https://www.henzyword.com/i-want-a-divorce-a-marital-issue-which-ended-up-ugly/
Hearing “I love you” on a regular basis is important to them, and helps them to believe they are loved. Hearing the reasons behind why they are loved is icing on the happy-relationship cake.
Insults are not easily forgotten and not hearing enough words of affirmation will make them feel unloved.
Physical Touch
This touch with someone you’re attracted to releases endorphins in all of us- holding hands, hugging, or pats on the back make you feel loved and cared for.
Physical closeness is directly related to emotional closeness for you, and neglect can be destructive to the relationship.
A hug can lift your mood or take away your insecurities. This person will need to literally feel your presence and will feel unloved if they don’t.
Quality Time
Quality time is pretty straight forward. The more time you spend with someone the more they feel loved. Having your partner’s undivided attention is the time when you feel most appreciated.
https://www.henzyword.com/the-moment-you-agree-to-date-a-married-man/
Distractions during quality time or postponing dates can make you feel like you aren’t important to your partner. Scheduling the time to be together is crucial to the success of your relationship.
Time is something we can never get back, and the person who values quality time most will want to spend it wisely.
Receiving Gifts
Receiving gifts is a love language that can be looked down upon if you don’t fully understand it. It’s not about just getting a gift, it’s about the thought behind it.
This person will really appreciate things that come from the heart. So if you’re catering to this person, think a little out of the box. Don’t get them a gift card for their birthday, give them something that sparks a memory or means something.
All gifts, whether small and daily or big and grand, remind them how much they matter to their partner and how much thoughtfulness and effort they think they are worth.
While the person with this primary love language enjoys receiving gifts, they will also equally enjoy giving gifts. They will be thoughtful in their gift-giving, always trying to give you something that you need or will really enjoy!
https://www.henzyword.com/marriage-counsel-before-calling-the-wedding-planner/
Missed birthdays or thoughtless gifts are their relationship nightmare because it makes them feel like their partner doesn’t care about them.
Acts of Service
If you feel most loved and appreciated when your partner thinks about what they can do to ease the responsibilities that are weighing on you. Hearing “let me help you with that” or “I already took care of it” is more exciting to you than being involve in the responsibility.
Laziness, failure to perform their share of chores, or being unthoughtful with how they can help you are all easy ways for you to feel unappreciated and unloved.
Someone who values this love language will appreciate it when you take over things that need to get done.
https://www.henzyword.com/reasons-why-most-single-are-not-yet-married/
So why is knowing your partner’s love language so crucial to the success of your relationship?
It’s so common for people to feel neglected by their partners. They may think that they aren’t loved and that their partner doesn’t care. In a lot of situations, this can be due to miscommunication. One partner doesn’t show/receive love in the same way that the other does.
It’s very common for two people to have a different primary love language. Understanding your partner’s love language and actively working to show love in their specific way can speak much louder than words.
It will help you and your partner feel more appreciated.
Think about it: if you’re an “Acts of Service” person dating a “Words of Affirmation” person, your partner might shower you with compliments and “I love you”s every day, but you would spend the relationship not feeling truly appreciated because they never offer to run errands or do the dishes.
Understanding your partner’s love language will help you discern how they show their love, so that you do feel loved and appreciated, knowing the way in which they give their love is different than yours.
It will allow you to communicate your needs more.
We’ve all had those little things we wish our partner would just do without us asking; complimenting us when we dress up, bringing home flowers, planning a date night. When they don’t do these things, it can be hurtful because in our minds, those things equate to their appreciation.
We also might worry they’d just be doing those things because they feel forced to if we ask them to, not out of appreciation or love.
https://www.henzyword.com/the-moment-you-agree-to-date-a-married-man/
Understanding that they do other things out of love, and that they just have a different love language, will help you to communicate, “it makes me feel appreciated when you clean the kitchen,” or “I feel loved when you hold my hand.”
It will show you and your partner what you both should do without being asked.
Knowing your partner is a “Physical Touch” person will make you more thoughtful about holding their hand in public or hugging them when they’re down, and you will be able to understand the meaning and importance behind these little acts that, for you, would otherwise be insignificant.
Your partner will be more conscious about what they can do to show you how much they appreciate and love you.
When you and your partner both know how the other gives appreciation and wants to receive appreciation, it makes for more thoughtful decisions and efforts that make you and your partner both feel loved and valued.
You and your partner should take a love language test. It will help you identify the ways that you can better make each other feel loved. It’s something you should talk about and help each other work though.
Be honest about what you like and what you don’t like. At the end of the day, relationships work best when there is open communication. When you can be open about the things you need. it’s much more likely to yield a positive outcome in your relationship.
Source: Henzyword.com
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| Family › Re: Understanding Your Love Language by Konquest: 7:42pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
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| Family › Re: The Relationship Between Time And Money by Konquest: 7:38pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
biggboy:
Release Date: February 20, 2021
Title: The Relationship Between Time and Money
Money and time are resources, but as time is finite, it is a more valuable resource. We can make more money, although we all differ in our abilities to do so.
We can’t purchase money, but we may buy other people’s time for various services.
This Episode will expose you to the relationship, importance and difference between time and money.
You will also learn how to better manage your time to get more money and how to manage your money to get more time.
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| Family › Re: Feelings Is Not Enough In Making Financial Decisions by Konquest: 7:29pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
biggboy:
Release Date: April 24, 2021
Title: Feelings Is Not Enough In Making Financial Decisions
Feelings are usually influenced by so many factors and thus never enough in making any Financial decisions.
Before making that Financial decision, you need to know what's at stake and how your decision can affect you positively or negatively.
This episode will help you better make informed decisions before making any Financial decisions.
PS: We are not Financial advisors and this episode if for education purpose alone.
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| Romance › Re: 7 Ways To Identify A Female Narcissist by Konquest: 5:20pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Muurian:
Identifying a female narcissist is not as easy as it seems. Some of us may be living with one and not even realise it.
To refresh your mind, a narcissist is an extremely selfish person who are in love with themselves, worship themselves and care only about themselves. Don't get me wrong here though, loving oneself is a wonderful attribute everyone should have. However, for narcissists, extremism and obsession is the case. They may be in a relationship with you, but they are only in it for themselves. When they do something for you, there is always a hidden agenda.
In this article, you will learn some of the common attributes exhibited by them which will help you stay off their track.
1) SHE IS MOSTLY OBSESSED WITH HER PHYSICAL APPEARANCE
This attribute screams very loud, that's why it is the first on the list. Most dictionary define a narcissist as someone who is incredibly obsessed with their looks as well as their physical appearance.
If you don't compliment their looks, that will automatically be an issue. Their number one concern all the time is how they look, and they pay less attention to anything else.
Once satisfied their looks are perfect, that's when they finally remember you exist in their life.
2) SHE IS EXTREMELY MATERIALISTIC IN NATURE
This is an offshoot of the first one above. Being obsessed with their physical appearance ensures that
they love to be trendy with the latest clothing, bags, shoes, etc.
It doesn't end there too, they also ensure that there trendy wearables are noticed.
If by chance they cannot buy this things on their own, they cling onto someone who can, a rich guy or man. Their main purpose is to make sure that in the end, they feel superior to their female counterparts due to their assumed worth from wearing the latest in town.
3) SHE LOVES ATTENTION
When it comes to being the centre of attention, the number one on the list is a narcissist. Call her a drama queen and you are on the right track into understanding just how big she adores being the centre of attention. She yearns for it like air, it's what keeps her going. They will do anything within their power to be in the spotlight, and will fight whoever is on their way for it. This is a good trait, but for a narcissist, it is extreme as most of the things she is fighting attention for are mostly worthless. For a female narcissist, every other female is a competition and they will not mind making you feel inferior about yourself. They get high from such acts, infact, they live for it.
4) SHE USES EVERY NEGATIVE MEANS TO SMEAR
A narcissist derives great joy from tormenting others emotionally, physically or by psychological means. She easily resorts to abusive languages and cruel actions to make sure they torture you, and to see you shattered just to get off of it.
5) EVERYTHING IS ALWAYS ABOUT HER
Somehow, she finds a way to make everything about her. Try telling her about your day, she will find a way to make it seem unimportant because she wants to talk about herself. Nothing you do is as important as her hairstyles which she thinks the hairstylist didn't do right, or the make ups she bought the other day has too much oil.
She will boast about all the accomplishments she has achieved, about her success, about her life and how gorgeous she thinks she is. She will make you know that she is doing you a favour for being with you, like she is totally superior to you.
Nothing about you is her problem, but everything about her is your problem. She is her number one priority at all times, and she will make you understand that your needs are not as important as her own.
6) SHE IS EASILY IRRITATED AND WILL THROW UNNECESSARY TANTRUM
If you happen to be in a relationship with one, sooner or later you discover that little things are usually the things that riles her up.
Minor things that shouldn't be an issue are always the things that escalates into serious problems with a female narcissist.
She will always leave you wondering about your own insanity, always imagining what you said or did that was wrong. Did i also tell you that they're the mistresses of silent treatment for no just cause?
She will through a fit if she doesn't get what she wants all the time.
7) SHE IS A RELATIONSHIP NIGHTMARE
She will use her features to flirt with a lot of men just to make you jealous or create a leverage with you so as to let you know that you are privileged to be with her.
There are also many other attributes which is peculiar to them, but at the centre of it all is self-obssession and looking down on others because she feels she is better than them.
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| Romance › Re: 8 Red Signs You Should Lookout For Before Taking That Girl To The Altar by Konquest: 3:59pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Kcconcept:
8 RED SIGNS YOU SHOULD LOOKOUT FOR BEFORE TAKING THAT GIRL TO THE ALTAR
Research has shown that love can make partners look high or act madly in love especially earlier on into the relationship. But with all these powerful emotions happening, be careful, your judgment can be beclouded. Most importantly, how do you tell or identify that your partner is a good choice for you, well a lot of study and many therapists has found that there are a few general signs you should be aware of in a relationship. Some people otherwise call this red flags. If you are looking forward to building a relationship that would take you to the altar, then these are the 8 red signs you should look out for in your partner.
1. HOW COMMITTED IS YOUR PARTNER
Watch to see how your girl follows through on her commitment In all aspect of her life. It is important to study your girl, once in a while create a task for her and watch how she follows it up. Check out to see if she’s a flake.
2. HOW DOES SHE TREAT STRANGERS
You can glean important information about a person from how they treat strangers, especially those who work in public or social places. Waiters, staff etc. If she’s too nagging in a social environment or towards servers. Then this is a sure sign you should be careful.
3. SHES TOO VIOLENT
It can be quite worrisome to have a lady who is violent. In fact, a study has it that women are most likely to initiate domestic violence. If your girlfriend gets violent while you argue, then that should signal to you as a bright Red Sign that you need to halt the relationship immediately.
4. SHE ALWAYS LIKES TO BE TREATED SPECIAL (LIKE A PRINCESS)
Be on the lookout for subtle and overt clues that your partner has that princess mentality. When one person has a sense of entitlement and expectation that her needs should always come before any other person, resentment and anger are usually the results.
5.YOUR PARTNER ARGUES ALL THE TIME
There is nothing wrong with conflict In a relationship, it's completely normal and in fact healthy at times. But when all she does is argue then there is a problem. Especially when is slightly over little things like being late for dinner, etc. then all of a sudden she starts feeling her mind with the thoughts that you are not committed to her.
6. SHE NEVER APOLOGIZES
Psychology calls the ability to recognize and take responsibility for a bad behavior CONSCIOUSNESS. It's an important attribute in maintaining a relationship if you can’t even apologize for doing something wrongly then what’s the need of loving.
7. YOU DON’T SHARE THE SAME GOALS OR CORE VALUES
It doesn’t matter how much you love each other, when you and your girl aren’t on the same page when it comes to things like values and life goals. Just bear in mind that things are so going to be rocky.
8. LOOKOUT IF SHES THAT DRAMA QUEEN TYPE
Beware of women who not only proclaim themselves to be drama queen but also revel in the roll. Study has it that they also swing from one emotional extreme to another when life seems a little boring or flat. They will go out of their way to stare up controversy. Example, when both of you are together, you can see her lamenting over you checking out another girl which necessarily might not be true.
Source:http://www.kraftypedia.com/2017/12/8-red-signs-you-should-lookout-for.html This is a stellar post! Well said. |
| Romance › Re: 5 Signs You Are Dealing With A Dangerous Female Narcissist....... by Konquest: 3:11pm On Apr 30, 2021*. Modified: 3:42pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Ilekokonit:
5 Signs You Are Dealing With A Dangerous Female Narcissist
A narcissist’s greatest fears are exposure and a victim that they cannot control.
It is quite easy to overlook female narcissists and their even more ruthless cousins, sociopaths. Since female narcissists engage in the same type of relational aggression that teenage girls do, they can easily fly under the radar as the “mean girl” motif coming to life in high definition – something we all assume they will eventually grow out of.
Yet research indicates that adolescent girls who use high levels of relational aggression also demonstrate low levels of empathy and caring towards others (Centifanti, et. al 2015). This suggests that the behaviors of gossiping, exclusion and sabotaging relationships may actually be more common among those with existing narcissistic and antisocial traits.
The problem is, the malignant female narcissist rarely outgrows her excessive sense of entitlement, lack of empathy and thirst for interpersonal exploitation – she merely adjusts these traits to her changing environment. The female malignant narcissist is not just vain and self-absorbed. She is also a covert bully who ensnares fellow female friends, relationship partners and family members into her toxic web.
The female narcissist (or sociopath) is just as dangerous as her male counterpart and yet she is protected by prevailing stereotypes of the “gentle young girl,” the “maternal mother,” the “sweet old grandmother,” or minimized by archetypes like the “catty best friend.” No one suspects the older woman, assumed to be nurturing and sweet, to be vindictive, cruel and ruthless. Nor do they expect mothers to abandon, neglect or abuse their children.
Yet what happens when the demented narcissistic mother drives her adult children to suicide after years of chronic childhood abuse? Or when the catty best friend from middle school becomes the conniving co-worker in the corporate world, employing underhanded tactics to sabotage her colleagues? Or when the malignant narcissistic girlfriend uses her harem of male admirers to terrorize her significant other?
Female narcissists do not “grow out” of their childhood aggression; eerily enough, they evolve into even more effective aggressive behaviors in adulthood, using their manipulative tactics to serve their selfish agendas and to exploit others.
While it has been estimated that 75% of narcissists are male, this may be due to a bias of women being more likely to be labeled as borderline or histrionic; it may also be due to confusion resulting from differing presentations of certain disorders due to gendered socialization (Sansone & Sansone, 2011). It’s becoming clearer from survivor stories, however, that there are a far greater number of female narcissists than one would assume.
Female narcissists, especially if they also possess antisocial traits, can cause just as much psychological harm as male malignant narcissists. Here are the top five traits and behaviors to watch out for if you suspect someone might be a malignant narcissist and some tips on how to cope:
1. A sadistic sense of pleasure at someone else’s pain.
Perhaps one of the most understated qualities of the female malignant narcissist is the pleasure and joy she takes in bringing down others. She enjoys making covert jabs and watching gleefully as the formerly confident victim looks crestfallen, shocked and offended. She displays a lack of empathy when the conversation turns to more serious emotional matters, engaging in shallow responses or cruel reprimands that invalidate her victim’s reality.
She is ruthless in her ability to first idealize, then devalue and discard her victims without a second thought. She cannot engage in healthy, emotionally fulfilling relationships, so she enjoys sabotaging the relationships and friendships of others for her own personal entertainment.
2. An insatiable sense of competitiveness, due to pathological envy and the need to be the center of attention.
Relational aggression is thought to be a more common method of bullying among girls, who are socialized to be less physically expressive in their aggression than their male counterparts. The female malignant narcissist is no different; in fact, perhaps some of her most abusive tactics are deployed in the realm of female friendships.
In her group of female friends, the female malignant narcissist scopes out who is a threat and who is a blind follower. Those who threaten the female narcissist in any way (whether it be through their success, appearance, personality, resources, status, desirability or all of the above) must be extinguished, while those who are obedient will be kept around until their resources have been sufficiently depleted.
Those who present a threat are initially placed on a pedestal to keep up appearances in the social circle, but later set up to fail and promptly thrust off. The malignant female narcissist’s starry-eyed admiration of her target is soon revealed to bear an undercurrent of contempt, envy and rage.
As psychotherapist Christine Louis de Canonville puts it, “When it comes to envy, there is no one more envious than the narcissistic woman.”
3. She sabotages your friendships and relationships, stirring chaos within social groups.
The female narcissist may use her affiliation with her target to gain access to resources or status, but as soon as the idealization phase is over, the devaluation and discard follows. She then engages in rumor-mongering, smear campaigns and creates ‘triangles’ where she feeds others false or humiliating information about the victim. She may pit her friends against each other by claiming that they are gossiping about one another, when in fact, it is her falsehoods that are actually manufacturing conflict within the group. By subjecting her victims to covert and overt put-downs, she is able to then confirm her own false sense of superiority.
You are probably dealing with a female narcissist or sociopath in your group of female friends if:
You notice an uncomfortable silence, a covert exchange of looks or odd energy when you enter the room. The friend who is overly friendly in contrast, happens to be the very person who is speaking about you behind your back.
You are idealized by your female friend, sweet-talked, admired, praised and shown off in the beginning of the friendship. You might have found yourself sharing your most intimate secrets early on, due to her disarmingly sweet and trustworthy demeanor. Later, you find yourself being excluded by them in group conversations, social events or invites. You hear about your deepest secrets being spoken about with derision among the group or rumors based on vulnerabilities and fears you confided in your friend about. You also notice a chilling smugness when your female friend talks down to you or as she devalues your accomplishments.
You bear witness to the narcissistic female friend frequently speaking ill of your other friends in an excessively contemptuous tone, while appearing friendly and engaging with them in public. This is evidence of her duplicity and ability to deceive. An authentic person might vent about others occasionally in the event of stress or conflict, but would not engage in excessive gossip or indiscriminate character assassination. He or she would be more likely to cut ties with those they thought were toxic or address it to them directly rather than bashing them unnecessarily. Make no mistake, the way they’re speaking about others is the way they’ll eventually speak about you.
4. She has an obsession with her appearance as well as a high level of materialism and superficiality.
This could also translate into a haughty sense of intellectual superiority, if the narcissist in question is more cerebral than somatic (focused more on her mind rather than her body).
As Christine Hammond, LMHC (2015), notes in her article, The Difference Between Male and Female Narcissists, the female narcissist “battles with other females for dominance” and while male narcissists use their charm along with their appearance to achieve their goals, “females use it to gain superiority.”
Female narcissists fit the ‘femme fatale’ stereotype quite well. Many of them are conventionally attractive and, much like the male somatic narcissist, use their sexuality to their advantage. Since females in our society are also socialized to objectify themselves, the female narcissist follows this social norm to use whatever physical assets she has to assert her power.
Hammond (2015) also observes that while males are more likely to obtain money, female narcissists tend to excessively spend it. This may result in a highly materialistic female narcissist who enjoys adorning herself with the best designer clothing, indulging in luxuries at the expense of her loved ones or allowing herself to be excessively catered to by a wealthy significant other. Female narcissists can also accumulate their own wealth and use it as an indication of her superiority as well.
For the more cerebral narcissist, the female in question might use her accumulation of credentials, degrees, and accomplishments to control and terrorize others. For example, a narcissistic female professor may routinely subject her students to hypercriticism, bullying and cruel taunts under the guise of “constructive criticism,” usually targeting her most talented and brilliant female students in the classroom. This is because, despite her own expertise and position of power, she is still threatened by any other female whose intellect might surpass hers.
5. A blatant disregard for the boundaries of intimate relationships, including her own.
In keeping with typical narcissistic behavior regardless of gender, the female narcissist is likely to have a harem of admirers – consisting of exes that never seem to go away, admirers who always seem to lurk in the background and complete strangers she ensnares into her web to evoke jealousy in her romantic partner. She frequently creates love triangles with her significant other and other males (or females, depending on her sexual orientation). She rejoices in male attention and boasts about being the object of desire. She engages in emotional and/or physical infidelity, usually without remorse and with plenty of gaslighting and deception directed at her partner, who usually dotes on her and spoils her, unaware of the extent of her disloyalty.
She also crosses the boundaries of her female friendships by attempting to “make a move” on the partners of her friends. She is disappointed and envious when her “seduction” falls flat or when her friends enjoy more attention from their partners than she does. To a baffled outsider, a female narcissist’s betrayal is incredibly hurtful and traumatizing – but to the observant eye, it is a clear sign of how far the female narcissist’s pathological sense of entitlement goes.
Understanding Female Narcissism
I suspect I am dealing with a female narcissist. Now what?
If you are dealing with a female malignant narcissist in a friendship, relationship or in a formal or professional setting, be on guard. Remember that they can “turn” at any moment, so don’t be fooled into thinking you will ever be the exception to their interpersonal exploitation. If you are dealing with one in a professional context, stick to e-mail or small talk that can be easily documented. Do not reveal personal information in the early stages of a budding relationship that can later be used against you.
If a female narcissist wants to spend all her time with you and is pressuring you to spend time with them constantly, minimize communication and slow things down. According to life coach Wendy Powell (2015), this can be an excellent way to discourage narcissists from dating you as well. In addition, it can reveal her ‘true self’ more quickly, whether in a relationship or friendship.
A female narcissist’s response to your boundaries will tell you all that you need to know. Most narcissists cannot stand to be ignored; they feel entitled to your constant attention, so they will continue to make persistent efforts until they get it or attempt to sabotage you if they fail.
If you notice that a female friend of yours tends to spread rumors or engages in malicious gossip, try to cut the interaction short and excuse yourself – remember that the toxic person will try to convince others that you are the one speaking ill of them, so anything you say in agreement can and will be used against you.
Stay calm whenever a female narcissist tries to provoke you; your indifference and courage in the face of their threats or insults is actually your greatest ‘tool’ against their tactics. It unsettles them when a target is not so easily rattled, because that means there is something more powerful about their victim than they expected.
If you’re being smeared by a female narcissist, calmly state the facts of the situation to your friends and take note as to who stands up for you and who believes in the female narcissist.
Remember that in the presence of a persuasive narcissist or sociopath, there will always be a few people who are fooled. Do not waste your energy on trying to convince them; if they are that easily fooled by someone else’s claims rather than your track record of loyalty and support, they do not deserve your friendship. You’ll find that they will uncover the truth for themselves eventually – and even if they continue to enable the narcissist’s behavior, they still get the short end of the stick because they chose the fake friend who can turn on them at any point.
Detach from the narcissist’s harem and stick with the people who do support and defend you. Do not be swayed by flattery or charm in the early stages of any interaction – if it is genuine, it will be given as positive feedback throughout your friendship or relationship and you will not be blindsided by a sudden personality transplant.
Remember that a narcissist’s greatest fears are exposure and a victim that they cannot control. So long as you are deeply grounded in your own self-validation, any narcissist – whether male or female – cannot truly use the threat of tarnishing your reputation or friendships against you, because they know you will see any loss of such disloyal friends as a gain. They also know that deep down, while they will spend their entire lives trying to protect their false image, your own integrity will continue to speak for itself.
Culled from :-
https://thoughtcatalog.com/shahida-arabi/2018/01/the-female-narcissist-is-just-as-dangerous-heres-why/ This is deep! I didn't want the post to end.  I recommend this timeless post for anybody in business and/or romantic relationships. Watch out for the "mean girl" at a high school, and some adult female introverts who display haughtiness and self-entitlement. Men have been falsely accused of rape or harassment by these devious female narcissists if they get a hint that a man they like or love is not giving them attention! Female narcissists are bad news to mankind. But then some of these people might actually be bipolar (manic-depressive) and may need psychotherapy or brain electroshock. |
| Romance › Re: Is Your Partner A Narcissist? Checklist by Konquest: 12:47pm On Apr 30, 2021 |
Ilekokonit:
Is Your Partner a Narcissist? Checklist
1. When something goes wrong, does your partner blame everyone but himself or herself?
2. Does your partner refuse to be accountable for his or her bad behavior? (For example, “You made me so mad that I couldn’t help . . .”)
3. Does your partner believe he or she is always right?
4. Is your partner unable to tune in to your feelings or your children’s feelings?
5. Does your partner seem more concerned about how your behavior or your children’s behavior reflects on him or her than on understanding and accepting who you and the kids are as people?
6. Does your partner seem to be out of touch with his or her own feelings or seem to deny them?
7. Does your partner carry grudges against you and others?
8. Is it all about your partner and his/her money, time, parenting time, property, and wishes/demands?
9. Does your partner seem unwilling to listen to you and to hear your concerns?
10. Is your partner constantly telling you what to do?
11. Does your partner make you feel “not good enough”? Have your partner’s constant put-downs caused you to internalize this message?
12. Does your partner never ask about you, your day, or your feelings, even in passing?
13. Does your partner need to go on and on about how great he or she is and how pathetic you are?
14. Does your partner lie?
15. Does your partner manipulate?
16. Does your partner tell different people different stories about the same event, spinning the story so that he or she looks good?
17. When your partner talks about his or her kids, is it about what the kids do rather than who they are?
18. Are the children uncomfortable with your partner, love your partner, but at the same time are reluctant to spend time with him or her?
19. Have you come to realize that the kids protect themselves by not sharing their feelings with your partner?
20. Does your partner mistrust everyone?
21. Are the kids always trying to gain your partner’s love and approval?
22. Has your partner spent minimal time with the children?
23. Does your partner typically skip the children’s events if he or she does not have an interest in that particular activity or does not value it?
24. Does your partner push the children to be involved in activities that your partner likes or values and discourage or forbid them from pursuing activities that your partner does not value?
25. Have others in your life said that something is different or strange about your partner?
26. Does your partner take advantage of other people?
27. Is your partner all about power and control, pursuing power at all costs?
28. Is your partner all about image and how things look to others?
29. Does your partner seem to have no value system, no fixed idea of right and wrong for his or her behavior?
30. After the divorce, does your partner still want to exploit you? Or has your partner never calmed down?
31. When you try to discuss your life issues with your partner, does your partner change the subject so that you end up talking about your partner’s issues?
32. When you describe your feelings, does your partner try to top your feelings with his or her own stories?
33. Does your partner act jealous of you?
34. Does your partner lack empathy?
35. Does your partner only support things that reflect well on him or her?
36. Have you consistently felt a lack of emotional closeness with your partner?
37. Have you consistently questioned if your partner loves you?
38. Does your partner do considerate things for you only when others are around to witness that good behavior?
39. When something difficult happens in your life (for instance, an accident, illness, a divorce in your family or circle of friends), does your partner react with immediate concern about how it will affect him or her rather than with concern for you?
40. Is your partner overly conscious of what others think?
41. Do you feel used by your partner?
42. Do you feel responsible for your partner’s ailments or sicknesses?
43. Do you feel that your partner does not accept you?
44. Is your partner critical and judgmental of you and others?
45. Do you feel that your partner does not know and value the real you and does not want to know the real you?
46. Does your partner act as if the world should revolve around him or her?
47. Does your partner appear phony to you?
48. Does your partner swing from grandiosity to a depressed mood?
49. Does your partner try to compete with you?
50. Does your partner always have to have things his or her way?
Culled from :- https://www.psychologytoday.com/gb/blog/the-legacy-distorted-love/201412/is-your-partner-narcissist-here-are-50-ways-tell Massive red flags. |
| Romance › Re: Pls What Can I Discuss With A Babe On Phone Call For Her To Know I Love Her by Konquest: 11:12pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
Uzomacharles:
Just converse with her like you're there and make her happy and be a little funny(no over do am b4 u go enter Friendzone...
Just be yourself
Don't answer her questions directly,twist it with fun....
No go dey call her everyday cos she might see you as obstacle and that's a huge turnoff.. Neediness is a big no. |
| Romance › Re: Pls What Can I Discuss With A Babe On Phone Call For Her To Know I Love Her by Konquest: 10:54pm On Apr 29, 2021 |
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| Business › Re: Why You May Lose Your Unregistered Online Business! by Konquest: 8:57am On Apr 29, 2021 |
babaonpoint:
In Nigeria, up to 70 percent of people who call themselves ‘entrepreneurs’ do not own a registered business, the numbers are even scarier for online businesses.
How can anyone say they own a business when it doesn’t really and legally exist?
For some of these people, it’s just plain ignorance; they don’t know or understand the importance of getting a business registered. The others, who aren’t totally ignorant, just choose to avoid the upfront cost of registration when they start their business, you really should not be like that.
If you have been running an online business you should know it is really different from being a freelancer or dabbling in affiliate marketing. An online business has more depth and you will most likely need more people ton to help you in the future. You really ought to get your online business registered soon. However, if you plan to start a business soon, the reasons in this article will prevent you from missing out on the benefits of a legally registered business.
I can hear some people saying things like:
"Oh but it is an online business, I do not need to register it".
You are more susceptible to copyright theft and even brand theft when your business is out there without any legal backing or protection.
What Is A Registered Business?
The best way to describe a registered business is to tell you a short story.
Tobi is an entrepreneur who makes very beautiful clothes for men and women with the best quality cloths. This has been his line of work for seven years now and thousands of people love his clothes.
In fact, his clothes have become so popular that people commonly refer to it as ‘Tobi clothes’ (a brand). People actually go to the market and ask for ‘Tobi clothes’ or shop online. Most of his customers are so loyal that they order or come to buy from a long distance (local or foreign) to get his clothes.
Just last year, one smart entrepreneur (let’s call him Kelvin) got a bright idea and decided to register a company and named it “Tobi Clothes Company”.
It cost him time, effort and money but Kelvin went through the hassle to register his new company. Guess what? His new company makes clothes too. These clothes are also of high quality but they’re not as good as the popular Tobi Clothes.
But the interesting thing is, Kelvin’s company’s clothes labelled ‘Tobi Clothes’.
As you may have guessed, Tobi finds out that Kelvin’s company is selling its clothes with a ‘Tobi Clothes’ label. What can he do?
If he does nothing, these new clothes that carry his name will confuse his customers and he could lose sales. So he decides to sue Kelvin’s company “Tobi Clothes Company”.
Who do you think will triumph when this matter goes to court?
The facts of this case are quite simple:
One person (Kelvin) owns and runs a business that is legally registered and recognized by law. The other person (Tobi), although running a very successful but unregistered business, has become a victim of his own mistake. He owns and has been operating a business that doesn’t legally exist and in the war of law, he will have lost the brand name "Tobi Clothes" and will be revoked from using it.
This is a sad example of the kind of unfortunate things that could happen when a business is not properly set up and registered.
It is often tempting to postpone or think that business registration can wait or is not really important.
The truth is, you may be building something that could become very big and popular in the future. However, if you don’t do something as basic as registering your business, all your hard work could easily be wasted, or worse, taken over by somebody else.
In summary, this story teaches us (with a hard lesson) exactly what a registered business is. It is one that legally exists and is recognized by law. It is one that enjoys certain rights, benefits and privileges that an unregistered business cannot enjoy.
In a later section of this article, we shall look at all the other reasons why you just have to register your company.
What are the options? What are the types of business registration available?
Before we look at the reasons why you should register your business, it’s important that you know the types of business entities that exist and how they’re different from one another.
This will help you to decide on the right type of business registration that best suits your circumstances.
Sole Proprietorship
Partnerships
Private Limited Liability Company
Public Limited Liability Company.
We will be discussing more about these types of registration, where and how to register tomorrow.
What experiences have you had when you or someone close to you did not register their business?
You can run an online business and still get extra cash from Freelancing and Affiliate Marketing.
In fact, we recommend you sign up to Fiverrcashng and learn more about Affiliate Marketing from me
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| Business › Re: If You Learn How To Trade Forex, You Will Lose Your Money by Konquest: 8:14am On Apr 29, 2021 |
myforexsolution:
If you learn how to trade, you will lose your money.
The truth is that that is just the learning curve. The forex Learning curve involves losing your money.
No one gets to the point of consistency in profits without losing some of their hard earned money
along the way.
That is the price of learning.
The question is... "Are you willing to pay that price?"
If you are, then you need to connect with someone who knows what he is doing so he can teach you and then you work on to consistence in your personal performance.
But...
How long it will take an individual to achieve consistency, no one can say before hand.
It will take some 3 months (the fast ones). It will take some 3 years. It could take soe more.
It is during this period that people quit. Anyone that persists, tries to find out why he is losing, and tries again and again, each time coming with a new/modified psychological approach, will eventually be successful.
But only few can endure this period and that is why only few are succeeding with their trading (it is said that 91% of all traders suffer a net loss).
BUT WHAT IF YOU COULD CUT OUT THE LEARNING CURVE, and all that period where the new entrant typically loses his/her money in the course of learning and start being profitable right from your first week?
That is what my (temporarily) free strategy does for you.
You do not need to lose when you start. While learning, you do not need to lose.
I have encoded this strategy into an EA and you don't need to execute the strategy as the strategy is faithfully executed for you (everyday) whether you are available or not...
...And I am giving it away for free between now and the second of January 2018.
I provide free support for the use of my EA and it is accessible only in my forex group, www./myforexsolution/
Please do hop over there right now and download your free copy now. It is programmed to not be free anymore from the 2nd of January in 2018. Auto-compounding EA. |
| Business › Re: ::::::::How Anyone Can Be A Millionaire Doing Any Business With 50,000:::::::: by Konquest: 7:55am On Apr 29, 2021 |
myforexsolution:
It has been said that it is better to receive 10 naira (which will be compounded at 50% daily)
than to receive 500,000 naira, which will not be compounded at all.
The reason is clear - compounding 10 naira at 50% daily leaves you with over N1.9million after 30 days while the N500,000 remains the same, just the way it was. It perhaps even depreciates with inflation.
So I did some simple math some time ago to look at what becomes of N50,000 when we compound it at 20% every month.
After the 1st year, it becomes N445, 805
After the 2nd year, it becomes N3.97 million
After the 3rd year, it becomes N35.44 million
After the 4th year, it becomes N315.987 million
Maths don't lie.
Take out a hand calculator (or the calculator on you laptop or desktop)
and hit 50,000 X 1.2
Then hit the "enter" button once to see the interest (at 20%) for one month.
Hit it twice to see the compound interest for 2 months.
Hit is thrice to see the compound interest for 3 months, and so on and so forth.
It doesn't matter what business we do (whether we sell groundnuts or import steel for income) if we are able to continuously compound N50,000 at 20% per month, those are the resulst we will get.
So why are we not all millionaires?
I think among other reasons, there are 3 easy-to-identify reasons why want abundance but have failed (generally speaking) to employ the powers of compounding interest in our personal finances
1). We just do not know. Our attention has not been drawn to it.
2). We think it is too slow. Really, at first the growth is slow.
3). Many business models get cumbersome to manage if we keep scaling up at 20%/month and at a point will hit a point of diminishing returns, the only way to circumvent which will require a really high of dosage of extra financial, emotional and other investments that most are not willing to make. Even if these investments are made, these investments are not made speedily. Deep thought is taken within what is usually an organisation to determine if it is the right time for a major expansion. Cut long story short, with many business models, it is H-A-R-D. Compounding @ 20%/50% |
| Romance › Re: Problems With Handsome Guys by Konquest: 7:13am On Apr 29, 2021 |
It's a gift to be an attractive and handsome guy that girls can't resist. Less attractive guy's may think the grass is always greener on the other side. Being handsome sometimes has it's downsides too. I'm sure a lot of guys can relate to these things.
Your appearance is intimidating: imagine a girl has a crush on a guy, it's hard enough for her to have to make the first move. But even worse, you're the cute guy that makes her nervous whenever you're around. She's simply intimidated by your appearance, which really sucks for you, just because you're attractive.
Women presume they are players: All just you're a good looking stud, you are guilty without even being tried. Women believe most handsome guys are nothing but heartbreakers at the first glance. They believe you're probably hiding a devil beneath the surface.
You are a threat to other guys: Automatically, other guys might be aggressive and resentful towards you, because they know you might be giving their girl some looks she might not resist.
Presumptions that you're empty inside: Many people, especially women might assume you're nothing but a pretty face that's Intellectually shallow, and they probably don't need a good looking idiot as their man. Some people even believe that the smart and nerdy people aren't always the handsome type.
Your looks aren't enough: Though, you might be blessed with great genetics. Your looks just aren't enough. Women prefer men with status and financial stability to a guy that's just handsome. Nothing beats a handsome and successful man.
Women want you as a Prop: Some women just want you for your looks. Though, they might not be deeply emotionally attached, but hey!,You're good-looking, and who wouldn't want a handsome stud as theirs. They just don't want you for who you really are.
People think you take too much pride in yourself: A lot of people probably have lingering speculations that you take too much pride in your looks.You can't dress too well, because you look to good and people think you spend a lot of time and efforts in making yourself look good.
You might be seen as more of a boy than a man: Some women prefer men with more manly and mature looks that are a few years older. To them, It brings a sense of Alpha-male dominance and responsibility compared to boys who might play around with them and waste their time.Don't be too surprised when you see a young lady marrying an older man. Ewwww... |
| Celebrities › Re: Dija And Her Husband Rotimi On A Lunch Date (Photos) by Konquest: 6:28am On Apr 29, 2021 |
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| Celebrities › Re: Meet Di’ja's Husband, Rotimi (Photos) by Konquest: 6:22am On Apr 29, 2021 |
seunmohmoh:
Mavin artist, Di’Ja is one of the few celebs we know, who don’t put their personal life on social media – it literally took months before we could get photos from her private wedding.
She who doesn’t share much photos of her husband or her baby, has in a new social media post, shared photos of her soulmate as she describes as her best friend.
She calls him her ‘best friend’ and ‘life partner’… See below: |
| Celebrities › Re: Dija And Husband, Rotimi Welcome 3rd Child, Ayana Wura (photo) by Konquest: 6:08am On Apr 29, 2021 |
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| Celebrities › Re: Juliet Ibrahim On Vacation, Shares Hot Photos by Konquest: 5:45am On Apr 29, 2021 |
weIMPORT:
Ghanaian actress Juliet Ibrahim, who is currently on vacation in her home country Ghana, has shared hot photos of herself from the experience.
Ibrahim is currently having the time of her life in Aburi Mountains, a town in the Akuapim South Municipal District of the Eastern Region of south Ghana famous for the Aburi Botanical Gardens and the Odwira festival.
Sharing pictures from her holiday, the 34 year old mum of one and author of ‘A Toast To Life’ penned a note thus ‘Stress less and enjoy the best…Just Get out there and live a little…’
https://www.instagram.com/p/CEi45RNDMt7/
https://lailasnews.com/juliet-ibrahim-on-vacation-shares-hot-photos Lovely scenery... |
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| Business › Re: Business by Konquest: 4:46am On Apr 29, 2021 |
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| Romance › Re: If She Does This Things, Then Marry Her Coz She Will Make A Good Wife. by Konquest: 3:56am On Apr 29, 2021 |
metformin:
In the 21st Century, It is believed that men and women are constantly trying to find their right match, or more like “perfect partner”. While all we are trying to look for is someone who only compliments about our personality Not who we can share our good or bad news with. Should that be the case? Absolutely not.
Being in the shoes of someone is yet different as love can never be defined easily it takes so many challenges that are being faced by both the mates. These points can make you find your girl easily and if you find the one with all these qualities then it’s congratulations, you’ve found the one!
‘She’s beautiful, and therefore to be wooed; She is woman, and therefore to be won.’ – Shakespeare
1. IF SHE BELIEVES IN YOU
Love is something that makes any wise man, insane and beautiful women, ugly… It depends on us how we deal with it. Being loved by someone is a very beautiful feeling. You all need a girl that believes in you and supports you in any matter.
Remember love can make you do things reaching extremes from both sides, This can be constructive as well as destructive too. Choose your girl wisely, Choose the one who sees a hero in you and would do anything to keep you motivated.
2. IF SHE KNOWS HOW TO DECREASE YOUR ANGER
Everyone in the world can get angry, It’s normal; we all have different lengths to our toleration can persist. It’s easy for the ones who are chill but if anyone is short-tempered then it won’t help. Your girlfriend’s way of dealing with you while you are angry may matter a lot. If she knows how to deal with your anger instead of being annoyed, you have found the right person, my friend.
This can be her greatest quality if she can bring you down from the “I’m going to leave you” state to “I love you” state. If she can understand you and keep quiet listening to you then that’s a blessing.
3. IF SHE TRUSTS YOU
Nowadays, It is quite easy to get know about a person’s life by either visiting their timeline or by going through the WhatsApp statuses they write. But if we look closely, these things hit relationships in a very hard manner. Lack of trust can be as harmful as the poison of the snake.
Also, it can take more time to earn someone’s trust but trust is like a glass.It can be easily be broken. While trust is the very beautiful thing to have, it is more adorable if your lover has it in” you”. It’s very fortunate to have someone in life who can completely trust you with everything. If your girl trusts you and wishes well for you. You are a lucky guy.
4. IF SHE COMPLEMENTS YOUR HUMOR
Humor is what girls are attracted to, in most cases seen the guys with good humor have the better understanding with their girls. Different girls react differently to the joke you crack during your daily routine.
When you are in a relationship with a girl, there a lot of things that count. These things determine whether or not you should carry on your relationship for a long term. If she goes crazy when you crack a joke, and well, if she adds sugar to the joke you made, she is a keeper, Never let her go, She is yours for a lifetime.
5. IF SHE SHARES YOUR TASTE IN MUSIC, MOVIES, ETC;
Boredom can fade away by listening to your favorite song or by watching your favorite movie and if all these things can be done with your lover then it adds up more value to it. A good relationship requires valuable time together. You can often go to the cinemas if girl has the same choice as you. When it comes to films, music, and TV shows these things will matter because in your long run you both will be doing these things frequently.
6. IF SHE DOESN’T APPLY ‘ELASTIC BAND THEORY’
The famous movie “Men are from are Mars, Women are from Venus” by John Gray depicts a concept called “Elastic Band Theory”, Men need their space and sometimes it can be huge. Women should treat them like rubber-bands. For say, When men need space they go way far away just like when you stretch a rubber-band. Then, When they’re gone they start to realize their girl’s value more and more. It’s just the same as when you stretch the band, the faster it will come back together from both sides.
7. IF SHE MAKES YOU ACT, NOT JUST DREAM
Behind every successful man, there is a woman, You’ve been hearing for a long time that men are dreamers, If your girl can put off all the breaks and wakes you up with energy that you can achieve your dreams into reality.
Some people are blessed with the ones who make them awaken with all the energy to accomplish their ambitions. What reward would it bring to your girl? You will be the one achieving all your dreams, Your happiness will be her reward. She is not a stone to be thrown away from your life.
8. IF SHE RESPECTS YOUR FAMILY
Taking your girl to lunch sometime with your family is a good idea. If she gets some good laughs around the corner, your parents will like her & even your siblings may enjoy her company. Then seriously! She is precious and you should care about her smile.
These days, when many families have their highly selective choice criteria that make dating unpredictable. You never know if your family will ignore the fact that your girl doesn’t mind the stains on your shirt or likes to do laundry in the middle of night. Therefore, If she plays the family card right and everyone in your family ends up liking her, genuinely keep her.
9. IF SHE RESPECTS YOUR PRIVACY
We all have one that friend who got lost somewhere when he found a girlfriend for himself. Girls are like devils-with-horns who cuff their boyfriends up to a pole and don’t let them come out from their rooms. It depends on both the boy and girl to decide about their privacy and freedom.
In most cases seen, girls are possessive, they persuade their men to spend the golden(spare) time with them. That we should call an excessive love and care, but it’s not healthy. Everyone in this world needs some time for themselves, So, if your girl understands that and lets you have some “Friendly time” with your buddies, then your girl is an Angel sent by God.
10. IF SHE FIGHTS YOUR BAD INTENTIONS
You might want to quit smoking but can’t because it’s just too hard and you’ve been doing it for a long time and can’t find the strength to do it but then this amazing girl comes along and changes everything. Sometimes, It’s a matter of your intentions. Your intentions can lead you to get the best in you but then, your girl comes along and makes space in your head, heart, and soul and then your realize that you can easily fight those demons.
11. IF SHE EXPOSES YOU TO INTELLECTUAL THINGS
You might think why I added this here. Well.. when your girl exposes you to things like new books that make you think of things you never thought before. Or to poetry that can make you feel the different emotions or even to music that you never knew you would like so much you are required to keep her in your life because she is creating good sources for you to build your character even more stronger than ever.
If you take books for example; Last Saturday, you answered one diplomatic thing that others can’t and will make you well-known among people. These things may seem to be boring but there is always more than that which meets the eye and it is helpful for you in a long-run.
CONCLUSION:
Being in the shoes of someone is yet different as love can never be defined easily it takes so many challenges that are being faced by both the mates. Well, These points can make you find your girl easily and if you find the one with all these qualities then it’s congratulations, you’ve have found your Missing rib. Timeless! |
| Celebrities › Re: PHOTOS: Popular Film-maker's Wife Shows Off Hot Body by Konquest: 1:28am On Apr 29, 2021 |
VivyGift:
Popular film-maker, Jeta Amata's wife, Mbong who is also an actress shows off hot body in a bikini.
Jeta Amata hails from a long line of family filmmakers (Ifoghale Amata, Zack Amata and Fred Amata).
Hot or not?
http://news.naij.com/42196.html Ex-babe. Mbong. |
| Politics › Re: Historical Pix Of Female Police Officers by Konquest: 12:56am On Apr 29, 2021 |
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| Business › Re: Blockchain Help by Konquest: 12:02am On Apr 29, 2021 |
Wealthhaven:
I am having issues with my blockchain account. Goes thus: Trying to keep it simple;
I sent payment to 1G2QAhELX7okbLuX8yHEBRugvuPwQb12Hd which was the bitcoin address generated for payment.....I give mine for refunds after due period.
At refund period, I am credited but no payment made to my wallet
I try to check and found out this:
I paid to address 1G2QAhELX7okbLuX8yHEBRugvuPwQb12Hd...but
Payment was recieved by 1FMiU78WXPP5Pi7ePwNHGG5Y6tPjc81bwV and forwarded to1G2QAhELX7okbLuX8yHEBRugvuPwQb12Hd
my payment went to ......1FMiU78WXPP5Pi7ePwNHGG5Y6tPjc81bwV
1FMiU78WXPP5Pi7ePwNHGG5Y6tPjc81bwV transfered to .....1G2QAhELX7okbLuX8yHEBRugvuPwQb12Hd and ultimately, my refunds was paid to 1FMiU78WXPP5Pi7ePwNHGG5Y6tPjc81bwV not me.
need someone to help explain what is happenin and how to stop it.... |
| Business › Re: Blockchain Help by Konquest: 11:59pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
nnachukz:
No problem with blockchain, the problem is where you invested. You may have been scammed. I lost huge amount to a particular investment platform, so I don't trust any of them anymore. If you have any other wallet, send money to it and see it go smoothly. Send it back to your blockchain wallet and see there is no problem with your wallet. It will cost you some fees but it will clear your mind to understand you have been thoroughly scammed. |
| Agriculture › Re: Tiger Nuts Export Business Class by Konquest: 11:29pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
ExportResource:
You very right bro... lots of Agro foods we have here also find their way there and are sold at exorbitant prices. Though most have undergone the basic processing, it is still worthy a venture to exploit.
Also, lots of grocery stores on Dagenham shelf these packs.
welcome on board... |
| Agriculture › Re: Tiger Nuts Export Business Class by Konquest: 11:24pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
Baroba:
I was walking past a market in Chelmsford Essex ( UK) and I saw this, had to take a pix.. the first thing that crossed my mind " chai, this thing Hausa people the hawk around like pure water for naija" is worth this much abroad.  so much value.. following op.. 2 Brit pounds = 200g |
| Events › Re: Ever Heard Of A Google Doodle? by Konquest: 10:01pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
Rocktation:
If you've attempted to run a search today on google's engine, you may have noticed that the "Google" is looking different from what you knew. It's only google, doodling their logo.
Google Doodles are pictures and animations that occur on the search engine “Google” on special holidays, birthdays of famous people, and google events such as Doodle For Google and Google’s Birthday. Today's doodle though, no doubt celebrates the leap day.
Doodles were started in 1998, and continues to improve through not only motionless pictures, but also games, Ai software, moving characters, and more. These doodles commonly appear in place of a letter or two in the google word, while some make the entire word “google” bouncy, a different font, size, or color. Most update or change every day or so, while some days simply returning to the typical logo.
In addition to celebrating many well-known events and holidays, Google Doodles celebrate artists and scientists on their birthdays, including Albert Einstein, Mahatma Gandhi, Nikola Tesla, Leonardo Davinci and very recently, our very own Ameyo Stella Adadevoh, the Nigerian martyr who curbed a wider spread of the Ebola virus in Nigeria by placing the patient zero, Patrick Sawyer, in quarantine despite pressures from the Liberian government.
Interestingly, these combinations of facts and history to create over 200 doodles each year that are seen by billions of people every day, are done by only a team of five full-time google doodlers (Yes! It's a real job role). Stimulating facts. |
| Travel › Re: World's 10 Scariest Bridges by Konquest: 9:32pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
purplesummer:
These bridges are utterly bewildering. Why were they even built? Has anyone ever crossed them? And why are two of them in France?
The good news is, despite them being utterly traumatizing to look at, let alone cross, none of them is in Nigeria so the chance of you taking the scenic route home from your aunt and uncles’ and ending up on one of these monstrosities is pretty unlikely.
Go on, take a look at the world’s most terrifying bridges…
http://metro.co.uk/2014/05/02/10-terrifying-bridges-that-will-make-you-squirm-4716590/
1. Hussaini Hanging Bridge, Pakistan
Known as the world’s most dangerous bridge, this walkway crosses Borit Lake in Pakistan and looks absolutely hideous. Not only that, but an older, tattier one hangs next to it – as if a sign of what might happen whilst you cross the Hussaini. Splendid. ... Whoa! |
| Travel › Re: How Did You Feel The First Day You Travelled Abroad? by Konquest: 7:41pm On Apr 28, 2021 |
monfizzy:
Moving to the UK didn’t really know what to expect, I just had dreams and desire to change my life fortune. So when I landed at Heathrow I got my first scare when immigration told me to step aside after asking me why am I in the UK and who am I coming to see. Told them I’m not coming to see anyone but moving permanently to live with my wife (now ex) and they requested for her number and I gave. Then asked me where she is I told them she’s waiting for me at the arrival lounge. They delayed me for about 30mins but throughout the entire time I acted unworried coz I knew cameras were on me to observe my countenance.
Was just playing music with my Beats headsets and nodding my head to the rhythms, but I was worried inside me. I travelled with a residence permit and had all the confidence in-between the worries. So they later let me go and on getting at the arrival lounge saw madam and my brothers waiting for me, immediately I stepped out at Heathrow cold almost blew me off coz it was December period.
I was excited but the airport experience almost destabilised me. Sha thank God, my fortune has indeed changed forever. Now a naturalised citizen with a decent job and with an even promising future. No regrets whatsoever. The environment was a sight to behold. Nigeria would have killed my dreams. Well done bruv! Your post was mad cool and evocative. That's the true warrior spirit. All the best.  |
