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If only people like jackal would listen to Lady, this world would be a better place !!!!!!!

It wouldn't hurt for women to listen to, ya feel me.

Some times i feel it's not right to show a lady how much u truely love her because they end up abusing or taking advantage of it against you.

My ex had the same mentality, well guess what he's ex and I'm with someone man enough to show he loves me. I loved him dearly and I knew he loved me, but I couldn't stand being treated like shit, I couldn't stand being put at a distance, so I left.

I love my babe now and he loves me too, and we're happy expressing our love for each other.
We're upfront with each other and don't beat around the bush. So there's no guessing of how we feel about each other. We clarify everything. We're honest with each other.

Women grow tired of dishonesty, especially those who wish to settle.

If you think keeping your girl at an arms length and refusing to show you love her will keep her, then you are mistaken. You will loose her, so what's the point again?

Her first guy is responsible for her school fees and errthing because her dad is one of them crazy type with 100children. . .he doesnt send anything to her
Please tell me why does she need to cheat again?? ?? what in the heck is she looking for??

Your answer lies within your quote. Look really hard



Ok guys, I know some women who just can't help but to cheat, just like there are guys who just can't help but to cheat.

There are women who don't believe in cheating and wish to slap all the women who give women a bad name, just like there are guys who don't believe in cheating and wish to slap every guy that gives men a bad name.

So how about we stop generalising and stop calling women names in a derogatory manner.
Please have respect for your mothers. They're women o.

so you will take a child from his mother because of a man issue? if someone did that to you.

If there are distress calls every week and the child doesn't have a vital illness, then yes. It means she is ill-equipped to take care of the child.

It is what it is. Not every woman is fit to be a mother, not every man is fit to be a father.

If she feels she's equipped enough to take care of the child then she should stop making distress calls all the time or she will loose her child . I think at this point she will get the message and stop.



My guess is Okafor's law is engaging in sexual intercourse or the likes of it.

um how does this relate to politics?

1. Will I use driving license issued by Lagos state government in Ogun state?
2. How will a police officer or FRSC officer in Kaduna state know that the Lagos state driving License being carried by a visitor to Kaduna is not fake?

It will force them to move in the right direction. The problem with that is?

Don't be silly. in Nigeria there would be no trial at all. What happened to those policemen that killed those Igbo men in Abuja?

Point out where I said it doesn't happen in Nigeria.

Point is it happens everywhere, not just Nigeria. I know several cases that never went to trial in America too. So you don't be silly.

The issue about Catholic priests being made to be celibate is totally wrong in Christianity

No it is not. Was Paul married?

My wedding need not be expensive. I want to do it in Naija because the things will be cheaper (for me).
I will be spending about $20,000 that's #2,340,000. I think that is enough.

My dress will be made. I have three designs already.
For my traditional, I will change about three times (I just like to dress, lol)

Honestly, I don't think it will cost much (well not for the quality anyway)
It will definitely look like I spent #50,000,000.

You don't have to spend that much to get the billion naira, dollar, pounds wedding o.

his carelessness pisses me off he can be very careless wt things,and keep looking for his things everyday,ive told him one day he will forget his name

the worst of all is he's sometimes disorganised ,i don't know it wasnt like this when he was single,ever since we got married i don't know if he thinks he brought a house girl into his house ,when he comes home he flings his shoes to d toilet,his shirt to the parlour,ties to the bedroom and the trousers he flings on my face

LOLOLOLOLOL OH SO LOUD.

Mine does the same thing. We're not even married yet. When I visit him, I see clothes everywhere, even his underwear. I point to it and his excuse is "it's a boy's room"
I just hissssssss and walk away.

Have you tried flinging the shoes, shirt and so on into the trash can as soon as he's flinging them around the house

Very easy! he flings the shoe, you catch am with right hand and fling the sh**t with left hand enter trash can! simple

LOL. I will remember this when I say "I do"
If he continues in the marriage like this, I will do just that and when he has nothing left, he'll stop.


I also hate that he takes 4 hours to cook one pot of stew and rice. When am I supposed to eat. Lol, it's funny he surprised me with a date. I wasn't able to go out dancing after my accident. So he brought dinner, movie and dancing to me but at his place. This man started cooking at 3:00pm, 5:30 pm the food never done.
My mother called me to come home. I didn't taste the food till the next day.

I cannot stand when we get into an argument. He thinks he's always right. When I get angry, he'll apologise. I can't stand that he apologise when he doesn't know what he's done. What's the point of apologising? He'll do it again, and he does.

na wa o. nothing wey my eye neva see for this forum

Exercise is good, particularly boxing or anything to do with hitting

LET IT OUT.

My bf calls it "acting funny"

Everytime I snap, he asks me why I'm acting funny. I know he knows why I'm "acting funny" but he dare not mention it.

Healing as in contracting top auditing firms to scrutinize government's {executive (federal, state. local) , legislative, judiciary} account records since 1960 and publicly prosecuting corrupt leaders as well as 'followers'.

Healing as in adopting the Chinese system of hanging corrupt government officials i.e. stiffer penalties for corruption.
Case study:
US, where Martha Stewart went to prison for insider trading.

Healing as in drastically reducing benefits of holding public office. We treat our presidents, senators, governors etc. like royalty and get little or no results.

@ Topic

Nigerians (like you) want the country to split for selfish reasons such as 'resources are not evenly distributed'. They are ignorant of the fact that the bulk of the so called resources are obtained from the highly under-developed Niger- Delta region.

The pot bellied governors of the Niger-Delta states struggle for an increment in the derivation percentage for qually selfish reasons.

RUBBISH!!!

The problem with Nigeria is the Nigerian system where the local and state governments collect rather than give to the federal government. We need to get rid of the 'Abuja Syndrome' . States need to be autonomous i.e. generate more internal revenue (by more effective revenue collection procedures), have their own Police, Fire Service etc.

A fraction of this internally generated revenue will be remitted to the federal government. Under developed states will receive loans and other forms of assistance from the Federal or fellow state governments.

This system will promote competition among the states thereby increasing productivity. If such a system can be implemented, our leaders will have more productive things to do than globe trotting and attending 'owambe' parties.

God bless Nigeria.

Wow, I really like this post.

By far this is the best I have read.

I agree with your first point of Healing. I keep wondering why auditing firms sch as KPMG, PWC, Deloitteand Touche are not auditing the government. They need to assist EFCC.
Honestly when you bring in a third party (not tied to politics) that doesn't have an interest in the entity they perform better audits.

No one who has a stake in the government should be allowed to be on the auditing team. There should be seperate auditing team for basically each section and they shouldn't interact with each other.

The government should not be auditing itself.

They just remain in the campus and read books

This is a blatant lie.

Speak of what you know of and not what you don't.

Stop giving Nigerians in Nigeria too little credit.

@Poster

I understand you, but instead of looking, just go on about life and let God take control. You'll find it when you least expect it, and it will be even sweeter because your'e not looking. You may be looking too hard.

Also look back on your past relationships. How have they been? Check YOUR habits and not someone else's. Don't look at what people did to you, but what you did to them and how you reacted to them. Look at your past mistakes so that you won't make it again. Grow as a person.

Sometimes we feel the world has turn its back on us, but when we turn around we'll see that we may have turned our back on the world.

Basically the problem may not be someone else. It may be you.

Why would you continue a relationship with someone who didn't respect you enough, to stay faithful to you? Why would you want to continue in a relationship where the other party didn't have enough discipline or principles to keep his or her passions (or lust) in check, while they were actively dating you? Why on earth would you want to continue in a relationship, with someone who doesn't value his or her body enough to reserve it exclusively for you, but prefers to share its' carnal delights with others due to a lack of self-control?

Why would you want to stay in a relationship where someone didn't care enough about your feelings, to restrain herself or himself from fooling around behind your back with another party, while dating you?   Does that act of cheating show respect, love or understanding?

When infidelity occurs, it breaks down trust, loyalty, respect, and honesty, as well as all the essential ingredients that are necessary for a good relationship to thrive. It also promotes lies, treachery and deceit. Is that what you want?

Rebuilding trust in a relationship that has been cracked by cheating, lies and unfaithfulness is sheer, hard work. Both partners need to strip down their defences and be as transparent as possible in their dealings with each other, especially the cheating partner. And unless that cheating partner is prepared to forsake all others and cleave only to you in deed and in truth, it really isn't worth it. Simply because there is no guarantee that it will not happen again. A lot of those who cheat often feel sad, when their antics are revealed. But if you dig deep enough, you'll discover that they are only  ever 'sorry' that they got caught, but are not sorry they ever ventured into the act in the first place!  

Too many people are living a lie, and pretending to be in a 'solid' relationship. Who do they think they are fooling?  

Those who are married may not have much of a choice, but to stay in the union with their cheating partner and pray for such a spouse to have a change of heart and a change of habit.

But those who are not married are far more lucky! They have loads of choices. They should get down on their knees and thank the Lord for revealing their partner's cheating traits to them, and bale out as fast as they can. Morning shows the day. . .

I am assuming you're religious.

Now I want you to ask yourself these same questions, but look at it from this view: God as the one who loves you. Think about what he does when you are unfaithful to him and don't respect your body for him. I wonder how God rebuilds trust with us.

2000 years!!! ol boy! When Jesus die? You dey tell me say CC start 8 years after Jesus die abi? e be like say Jesus self na catholic hin be

You dey dock my question o! Is it because i did not tell you I was a catholic ?

Yes he founded it. He wasn't called Catholic in the Bible and he wasn't called Christian either, so why are you a Christian?


Ok good, so you were a Catholic, so make I ask you something. When u were still a member, did you worship idols and the wafer and wine?

oby, viee, lindiwe and lady, where did u guys run to now?

I have two jobs, they take up my time.
I will be done with one next week.

I am very tired.

Lady, how u doin?
Momsie nko?
glad to know she is gettn beta, His name be praised!
i will continue sayn the rosary for her complete healn. . .
hope your kool

I'm good, just very much tired,but the Lord is my strength.
Mumsy's betta, infact she's acting as if she didn't have surgery.

I really thank you all for the Prayers.


Hope all is well with everyone.

I probably won't post all weekend o, who knows.

JeSoul and Olaadegbu

Did you read my post?

They may be voted in but a President decides in the end what goes and what does not go. If the senate or cabinet try to do what he does not agree with, the president has power to override such the way he can and he will go whatever mile he has to, to do this. So that whole PRESIDENT is limited by the people around him crap, I don't buy . Currently, we have enough laws to help get us more than half way where we need to be. What we need now is a leader who is able to take what we have and see that it is implemented or enforced at all levels to help pave the way for innovation and development in that country. I don't know why in Africa, that seems like one is asking for too much.

I agree, I was just pointing out that doshbrass mentioned senator and governor and thay they're voted in.

I don't think that is asking too much. It is asking exactly what needs to be asked.

hey, i invite you to Atlanta Airport. So amazing

No it's not

Nnamdi Azikiwe Airport
Murtala Muuhaamad Airport
Mallam Aminua Airport
Port-Harcourt International Airport
Margaret Ekpo International Airport


ahhh how could I forget my very own BENIN AIRPORT, simply the best

I completely disagree. That to me is an excuse made in the pit of hell to allow the evil we have seen over the years in that country continue. A good leader knows to surround himself with people who are able to do the job and he/she will have no cause to allow any ineffective persons continue should he be found wanting. If the president can not himself find and appoint the right people then it simply shows he is not the right person for the role that he has been selected for, simple

I agree with you but that is limited to his cabinet. Note doshbass mentioned senators and governors, those people are voted in and they do surround the President.

@Poster

What kind of rubbish question is that? Who told you the white man's way is the right way?
This is has self-hatred all over it. BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL

lol. I thought things like this only happened in NIGERIA!!!!

Lets be specific Lady Jane. Kindly choose from among the following what you meant by your post above.

a. I will stay with him for the rest of my life despite his status. (i.e without having sex with and without commiting adultery)

b. I will get infected too by having sex with him, then bear healthy children with the use of drugs available.

c. I will stay with him, not having sex but occationally play around

d. We will seek mutual divorce, and start a fresh

e. I will stay with him for a specific period with the hope that a drug will be available to cure the virus.

Please Lady Jane, your anser must be from among the above.

First of all, there are married couples that have sex when the other one has HIV. There are HIV infected women that have given birth to children without the virus while they had the virus. There's something called medicine. There re medical advances that help.

So when you add this to the list:

f. You will stay with your husband and have sex with him and not contract the disease because of the advanced mdeications he receives, I will choose it.

But since I HAVE TO CHOOSE FROM THE ABOVE, I will choose A. Like I said marriage isn't all about sex. There are impotent men out there and their wives still stay. Besides he has a finger and a mouth, don't be at this response.

Hello all

Have a wonderfully blessed day. God is all merciful and all powerful.

Peace be with you

The Protestants attempt to defend their rejection of the apocrypha on the ground that the early Jews rejected them.

However, the Jewish councils that rejected them (e.g., School of Javneh (also called “Jamnia” in 90 - 100 A.D.) were the same councils that rejected the entire New Testatment canon.

Thus, Protestants who reject the Catholic Bible are following a Jewish council that rejected Christ and the Revelation of the New Testament

Pay them no mind.
They're blindly following a liar.

When I pointed out that it's because of pure hatred thay think I'm lying. Well now they know. If it wasn't pure hatred and jumping on the bandwagon, why didn't they look up the passages and read for themselve before they took the words of a liar to be scripture.

Better is the wickedness of a man than a woman who does good; and it is a woman who brings shame and disgrace." Sirach 42:14

Here are the actual words from Sirach 42:14

"Better a man's harshness than a woman's indulgence, and a frightened daughter than any disgrace"

People where does it say that the womand brings shame.

Here it is in the whole context.


Sirach 42: 9-14 "A Father's Care for His Daughter"

9 A daughter is a treasure that keeps her father wakeful,
 and worry over her drives away rest
Lest she pass her prime unmarried, or when she is married, lest she be disliked;

10 While unmarried, lest she be seduced, or as a wife, lest she prove unfaithful;
Lest she conceive in her father's home, or be sterile in that of her husband.

11 Keep a close watch on your daughter, lest she make you the sport of your enemies,
A byword in the city, a reproach among the people, an object of derision in public gathreings.
See that there is no lattice in her room, no place that overlooks the appraoches to the house.

12 Let her not parade her charms before men, or spend her time with married women;

13 For just as moths come from garments, so harm to women comes from women:

14 Better a man's harshness than a woman's indulgence, and a frightened daughter than any disgrace.

Tobit 6:5-8: If the Devil, or an evil spirit troubles anyone, they can be driven away by making a smoke of the heart, liver, and gall of a fish, and the Devil will smell it, and flee away, and never come again anymore.

FINE!!!!

Here is what it says:

2 When the boy left home, accompanied by the angel, the dog followed Tobiah out of the house and went with him. The travelers walked till nightfall, and made camp beside the Tigris River
3 Now when the boy went down to wash his feet in the river, a large fish suddenly leaped out of the water and tried to swallow his foot. He shouted in alarm
4 But the angel said to him, "Take hold of the fish and don't let it get away!" The boy seized the fish and hauled it up on the shore.
5 The angel then told him: "Cut the fish open and take out its gall, heart, and liver, and keep them with you; but throw away the entrails. Its gail, heart, and liver make useful medicines."
6 After the lad had cut the fish open, he put aside the gall, heart, and liver. Then he broiled and ate part of the fish; the rest he salted and kept for the journey.
7 Afterward they traveled on together till they were near Media. The boy asked the angel this question; "Brother Azariah, what medicinal value is there in the fish's heart, liver, and gall?"
8 He answered: "As regards the fish's heart and liver, if you burn them so that the smoke surrounds a man or woman who is afflicted by a demon or evil spirit, the affliction will leave him completely, and no demons will ever return to him again.

Judith 9:10,13, says that God, assisted Judith in the telling of lies

Why don't you stop telling lies.

This is what it says:

Judith 9: 10

With the guile of my lips, smite the slave together with the ruler, the ruler together with his servant; crush their pride by the hand of a woman

11 Your strength is not in number, nor does your power depend upon stalwart men; but you are the God of the lowly, the helper of the oppressed, the supporter of the weak, the protector of the forsaken, the saviour of those without hope

13 Let my guileful speech bring wound and wale on those who have planned dire things against your covenant, your holy temple, Mount Zion, and the homes your children have inherited


This is a prayer by Judith to God. Go and read the Book of Judith to know why it is she's praying.




Seriously people read the book before you condemn.

Ecclesiasticus and Wisdom teach that morality is based expedience. In other words it is right to sin in some situations

Wow goes to show you have not read the books.

Wisdom 11:17 teaches that God made the universe out of pre-existing matter instead of "ex nihilo" (out of nothing) as Genesis 1:1-2, John 1:1-3 and Hebrews 11:3 plainly state

This is what is says

Wisdom 11:17

For not without means was your almighty hand, that had fashioned the universe from

formless matter

, to send upon them a drove of bears or fierce lions.

formless matter is not pre-existence matter, it is matter not formed as in matter was not formed, as in God created from nothing.

My dear Lady, THE WICKEDNESS OF A MAN IS BETTER THAN A WOMAN WHO DOES GOOD really makes sense to you abi? You'll always find a way to make sense to senseless statements abi.

Since I am senseless, make sense from the one I posted na.

The man was formed and not deceived, but the woman was deceived and became a sinner.

So na only woman dey sin?

That you have a family does not mean you can give your best to God

That is your conclusion not ours.

Men and women of Gods who have moved the world with the Gospel of Jesus were and are married

We know that and don't dispute it. We have married men who serve in the church. We have married women who serve in the church. Man get knowledge first.

The catholic priests that can't even move a pin with their low or high mass claim they can only be truly fulfilled while being celibates! Imagine that!

Stop trying to build your own church out of the ignorance of men. There shouldn't be a church other than that of God's.

Even Paul stated that married people are concerned with the world. Point is God is their only concern. Look at it this way, they are married to God.

But the question is irrelevant. He can't remian my Pastor if he does that out of selfish and fleshly desires. I will disown him and leave the church. That is however lame compared to the calling of celibacy friend! Once a priest tastes that thing, he seizes to be celibate and is no different from the man who has a wife at home. Well, like i said earlier, it is legitimised once in a month in the Catholic church for him to taste this thing. So, he wont probable be dismissed or something. Ask ~Lady~. She dey read the book Dignity & Duties of the Priest

Oh but the question is very relevant. Lol, you absolutely know nothing about the Priest's calling.

I have a question. Do you all think that only "virgins" can become priests?

They only usurped a power they never had. Of what use is their so-called "approval"?

Then go and burn your Bible na. It is just their evil logic that was used to compile it anyway, abi no be so?
Go and get your own, sho, na by force?

Even when the cartoons/comics draws verbatim from your canon and catechism laws. How mischievous you are then.

The so-called comics lifted directly form the Council of Trent with a strong reference to Vatican 2 and you feign ignorance here. Rest in your obvious falsehood then. At least you know the truth that you worship idols and do extremely unbiblical things.

WOW!!! _{(not really)}
So your idea of truth comes from comics and cartoons. Oga tell me where 'mickey mouse' (_{not some guy dressed in his suit)} dey live for earth make I go visit am, I am his fan o. lol

"Ye shall not add unto the word which I command you, neither shall ye diminish ought from it, that ye may keep the commandments of the LORD your God which I command you."

How does the Catholic church add again to the Scriptures?

Well, I've just discovered among other things you doubt the integrity and reliability of God Almighty, that he would be so foolish to contradict Himself, that you could have even done a better job than Him im writing the bible. Oh, He was so silly to put 'contradicting' scriptures in the bible. Isn't it? This is not dogmatic, right?


I told you, if you don't understand why they are like that, ask for wisdom. He said He will give you freely. It CERTAINLY cannot be that He contradicts Himself. Like you say, learn to live with it.

I can't believe you guys don't see the song that Imhotep is playing.

The poster came here to say that the books that were deleted from the Bible were contradictory. Well the other books that remain are considered contradictory to those who are not in the spirit (atheist muuslims) not so? This is why they have a thread about it.

Well since the poster posted Scripture, Imhotep decided to post scripture to refute or ridicule the thinking of the poster.
Then you all jump on to say that scripture doesn't contradict itself. Well that is Imhotep's point.

The words in those seven books are no different from the rest of the Bible. It supports it.

Basically after reading the posts, I notice that a lot of people who have posted, have posted out of hatred (as in they see a thread that will give them a chance to bash and they join the bandwagon without looking into the issue) or they are not in the spirit. They clearly fail to see that what they are doing is EXACTLY what the atheists and muuuslims are doing, but they call them lost in the spirit. How can criticise someone for doing the EXACT SAME thing as you.


A_K_O

I think you are sensible (from your posts), so I ask you have you ACTUALLY read the books that were deleted?
When you find the contradiction come and tell me?


Don't forget that the mussslims use the verses where in one place Paul says that those who were with him when the Lord appeared to him heard the voice but did not see the. In another passage he says that the people with him saw the light but did not hear the voice. (I'll have to get the passages)

Point is before you speak, do your research. Get knowledge first. It is better to be thought a fool, than to be known as one.


@JeSoul

Have you read the books you condemn? Muuslims condemn the Bible without reading it. Even if they read it they don't understand it. Well, you claim to be in the spirit. My dear, read the books and tell me it contradicts the Bible as a whole.


People the Bible doesn't contradict itself. Go and read the books. Imhotep is not trying to show that the Bible contradicts itself, but that it is taken out of context.

2 Kings 2:11 => "And Elijah went up by a whirlwind into heaven."
John 3:13 => "No man hath ascended up to heaven but he that came down from heaven, , the Son of Man."
RE-READ the previous verses leading up to this verse and understand what Jesus is saying brotha, No man started from earth has gone up into heaven, and come down to teach on heavenly things. Jesus is saying no man left earth to go to heaven to gain this knowledge and come back down to teach it. Jesus Himself came from heaven, hence there's no one but him who has descended to the earth.
Jesus is NOT saying no one has even gone into heaven! Then that would be calling Christ a liar! God forbid such a thing!

That is EXACTLY the point. Imhotep is showing how ridiculous it is that the poster, picked one verse without looking at the bigger picture. If we were to do that to every verse in the Bible, we will definitely find contradiction. But we all know that if you read the whole, you will not find contradiction.

lafile

Oh, I just discovered a statement of profound truth form the Apocrypha.

"Better is the wickedness of a man than a woman who does good; and it is a woman who brings shame and disgrace." Sirach 42:14

your point is? look below


1 Timothy 2: 11-14

11. A woman must receive instruction silently and under complete control.
12 I do not permit a woman to teach or have authority over a man
13 For Adam was formed first, the Eve
14 Further, Adam was not deceived, but the woman was deceived and transgressed (should I say "was deceived and became a sinner as in the New International Version)

Once again your point is?

Love is patient, love is kind. It is not jealous, it is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

But since we are of day, let us be sober, putting on the breastplate of faith and love and the helmet that is hope for salvation.

Peace be with you