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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 7:34am On Jul 04, 2022 |
erico2k2: Please share more insight on how to make money when driving please |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 11:36am On May 21, 2022 |
Hello house, pls someone shared a site where u can check vehicle MOT details sometimes ago. Can it be share again please. Thank u |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 7:34pm On May 11, 2022 |
humbleprof19: Go to Post Office, after u must have address the DVLA envelope, there is a form sent to u with the earlier pre addressed enveloped. Add the filled form to the new addressed envelope. At post office, tell the attendant that u want to buy a registered envelope (it is polythene in nature) write ur address on it for the return of ur BRP. And remember to add ur BRP to the envelope before sending. U can buy priority stamp, normal stamp or u decide to register the whole. It is better u register both the going and the returning envelope. Hope this help 7 Likes 6 Shares |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 9:07am On May 11, 2022 |
humbleprof19: Yes u need stamp on the envelope and u can register it if u want. But make sure u put registered return self address envelope for the return of ur BRP |
Family / Re: Lady Receives The Shock Of Her Life 3 Years After She Divorced Her Husband by lightest(m): 5:10pm On Apr 23, 2022 |
Kobicove: This kind of stories are not new to those that are abroad. In UK a girl of 16 year old lied against her father just because she wanted to have her own apartment fron the council so that she can gain freedom. She lied that her father was sleeping with her and the father was arrested and during the cause of investigation the man killed himself. Only fornthe girl to say that her friends told her to lie against him and she never forsee him killing himself. Very sad. For the OP, I will always blame the woman and at the same time not because the girls can lie against her if she doesn't belive them too. I have a case right now, a young boy that was just brought to England from Nigeria in less than a year is lying against the father just because he want freedom which might end up destroying his life. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Help! A Man Is Threatening To Release My Nudes, I'm Depressed! by lightest(m): 1:10pm On Apr 07, 2022 |
This story made me remember a girl i once dated and later passed on to my friend. She loved my friend so much that she narrated all her life to him and just imagine even told my guy that I was no 28 that slept with her and that made my friend to be no 29. Behold, there is this guy in the neighborhood that she has dated and did video with. The guy came threatening her and she told my guy and my guy told me. We and the father of the girl set the guy up and the guy being foolish enough played along. We first beat this guy and later handed him over to the police. The girl sabi nak sha and I guess the guy have not seen something close. He was asked to do undertaken which he gladly did and the funniest thing is that the guy's wife is very very beautiful. AT OP, go and report to the police as advised. |
Crime / Re: 28-Year-Old Nigerian Man Jailed For Raping Woman In The UK (Photo) by lightest(m): 10:36am On Mar 25, 2022 |
I have read with kin interest all responses and I will like to tell u that I live in UK. Here in UK, some girls use this as a way of making money from the government because if ur case is prove and the govt win the case the will pay her over £20k. That's y to sleep wit a woman here involves wisdom and discrete which the guy did not applied. Even here in UK, your own wife can accuse you of rape and if during investigation , ur sperm is seen on her private part, u automatically earn 6 to 7 years in prison. So before u condem this guy of rape just know that he might be a victim of circumstances which me and all of u can fall victim. I have witness a case where a 16 year old daughter accused her father of sexual assault just because she wants freedom from home and the father in question eventually killed himself only for the girl to come out and said she was lying against her father. A friend was accused of rape and he was given house arrest for close to 6 months only for the police to realised the girl was lying against my friend after thorough investigation and the girl was eventually jailed. Note here that it was just one cctv that proved my friend right and if not for the camera, he would have being in prison. The lady was eventually jailed. I will pray for the guy to see God face if truly he did not rape the lady. So many experiences and to the potential JAPA, this are one of the odds of living abroad. 10 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 2:56pm On Feb 05, 2022 |
Chreze: U are right, I once have such experience a d I was like wao. My bicycle tyre got flat amd ripped out from.the rim while trying to manage it inside the Bbush while going to work early Sunday morning around 6.15am. I was so confused and ran to the nearest houses knocking dia doors so that I can atleast keep the bike safe. Behold this woman came out to not only keep my bike but to drop me at work . I was at amazed and couldn't keep my mind off the help through out the day. 8 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 10:49pm On Jan 12, 2022 |
kaylov12: I posted that message here and someone bluff it off instantly. Thank u for trying it. It has being working like magic. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 4:50pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
deept:Thank u noted |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 4:49pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
wonlasewonimi: Thanknu |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 3:13pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
wonlasewonimi: Thanks I am on PAYE, and I worked for another agency for 3 weeks and I told the agency to be deducting the tax when I see that they were not I heard to stop only for HMRC to send me a letter that I am owing them. Since then I have being calling to ask how I will pay back. Is dia no way I can pay them back once ?. |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 2:18pm On Jan 07, 2022 |
Good day to the everybody in house, thanks for the support always pls if someone is owing HMRC, how can u pay them back as they refuse to pick their phone. Thank u |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 3:26pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
[quote author=Pacypatty post=108908734] Pls kindly read my write up again. Thank you[/quote U need to read ur message again. Is it u or ur husband as ur "I" look confusing. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Help Advise Me On Relocation Plan With Money Saved. by lightest(m): 10:06pm On Dec 23, 2021 |
SARSCoV2: It's obvious this guy has not travelled out of Nigeria. Come to UK and see so many managers doing care work. There is no country u go to to without paying ur dues before u climb the success ladder. Common relocating from Akure to Lagos u will pay ur dues how much more travelling abroad. My brother the trophy dia is the blue passport as he has said. When u have it, u know u have life. Till then that guy is ur super bros. |
Crime / Re: How Policemen Extorted N22M Worth Of Bitcoin From Young Men At Gunpoint In Lagos by lightest(m): 10:33am On Dec 19, 2021 |
All this boys claiming realtor up and down, how are we sure us nit karma that is following them. I know a yahoo boy of almost 10 years steady scam that selling big big cars now. If police arrest him, he will be claiming he is a car dealer. Karma is a batch and it's always catch up back at the end of the day. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk-life Of An Immigrant (part 2) by lightest(m): 5:47pm On Nov 18, 2021 |
Hello to the seniors I want to say u people are so wonderful and I still find it difficult to believe how u guys have the time u give out to answer our unending questions. Thank u for dedicating ur precious time to us on this thread. God bless u all 7 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 1:22pm On Aug 14, 2021 |
Chukwuka16:I understand bro, but at times problem talked out is half solved irrespective of the opinions given. It's left for me to seive and take what benefits me. I must tell u that everybody here have given a sound and matured answer to my problem. I will cross the bridge it's just a matter of time. 14 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 1:17pm On Aug 14, 2021 |
fatima04: I will rather sign the consent letter and go back to Naija than seeing those innocent kids go back. I understand ur statement, but doing eye for an eye will not be good for her, myself and the kids. Nevertheless, I wil first consult my agency if they can give me sponsorship asI have being having a lot of appraiser from them. Just on Thursday they insisted on paying me bonus even when I said they should not worry because the guy that suppose to take over did not come in time making me missed 2 train. It will end in praise 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 11:40am On Aug 14, 2021 |
justwise: uhm, a lot going on in my mind. I know I am not the first person and would not be the last on this issues. I really appreciate every one for dia contributions. Both the positive and the negatives comments are reshaping and making my spirit high. I hope to have a good news in both ways sooner. God bless Seun, the moderators and all the contributors because who knows if my brain would have reset to default. this thread keeps is keeping mycompany for the time being |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 11:40am On Aug 14, 2021 |
justwise: uhm, a lot going on in my mind. I know I am not the first person and would not be the last on this issues. I really appreciate every one for dia contributions. Both the positive and the negatives comments are reshaping and making my spirit high. I to have a good news in both ways sooner. God bless Seun, the moderators and all the contributors because who knows if my brain would have reset to default. this thread keeps is keeping mycompany for the time being 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 11:12am On Aug 14, 2021 |
justwise: Okay, I will look into that too. Thank u 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 11:11am On Aug 14, 2021 |
fatima04: Thank u, it's like u read my mind. I do care for now and I will start looking for sponsorship if ADR does not work out. |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 11:05am On Aug 14, 2021 |
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Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 11:04am On Aug 14, 2021 |
justwise: U make me cry bro. 4 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 10:11am On Aug 14, 2021 |
justwise: I have being trying to engage her in talks, and I think most of her grievances have being the issues we have dealt with over and over in Nigeria.that I felt it has being erased in her mind was never erased. Not adultery issues o b4 bash me. I believe communication gap has being created for a long time which I believe most part was my fault I wil say but nevertheless, there is no way u can read minds even when u tried to ask what is wrong all the times She is a kind of woman that wil rather bottled up issues rather than say it out. In what she has being saying so far, she said I should give her time to think. Though I am proposing we walk more on our communication but she believes am doing that because of my visa. I will soon conclude what to do if ADR does not work. The worst that could happen is going back to Nigeria but the fate of our children is my fare right now. Please note, she is a good woman that would rather bottled issue up than say it out untill it explodes I believe a thread on living in marriage should be open so that we can all learn from the good, the bad and the ugly of marriage in UK. What I have realised so far is that I still love my wife and my family as a whole. Thanks to all advices 20 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 9:56am On Aug 14, 2021 |
Owlette: Well u don't know me and if u must be told I work 66hrs with 6hrs unpaid break in a week and I pay what she ask me to pay as bill and apart from that I spent extra £s every month. Anyway, thanks for the advise and the polite insult. It's well appreciated 6 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 9:29pm On Aug 13, 2021 |
Ticha: Thank u so much |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 5:29am On Aug 13, 2021 |
RalphJean: Men, only if u guys know what I do to make my wife happy ehn. But its not my case to say as it will look like I am praising myself. But my question is what would make a woman bring a man to UK and refuse to put her name on the bills, house rent, electricity, water and Co only for her to say I should be paying into her acct even when I pointed it out to her that in case of visa renewed in the nearest future?. what will make a woman open an account for her children without her husband knowing when she knows I can contribute to it without any argument? So many hiding thing going on that when talked about resulted into argument. Anyway, I really appreciate the love on this forum as I have learnt a lot from everybody including the person that wants to hear from my wife side of the story. if I say, I have being stylishly enslave I won't be wrong with some things I have seen. But I have open up a conversation channel and hope to resolve this as quickly as possible and I will be coming back with resolution and proposal of having a better home in the nearest future. Once again, God bless u all for ur wonderful contributions. 16 Likes |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 7:01pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
RalphJean: Point of correction, I am no a Baale of Norwich and I don't even have friend I only try survive where ever I found myself. Advice appreciated with thanks |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 6:57pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
Mrtruetalk: Thank u, well appreciated |
Travel / Re: Living In The Uk/life As A UK Immigrant by lightest(m): 3:34pm On Aug 11, 2021 |
fatima04: Thank u so much for the love. the dialogue is going on and I hope it will come to good point. U guys are really making me to man up. thanks so much 7 Likes |
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