₦airaland Forum

Obinoscopy:
I think the best options for we guys is to enjoy these contemporary babes while we're bachelors and then when its time to marry, go to the village to marry a virtuous lady with all the wifey qualities.

And you think the village girls are the virtuous ones?
As you are there in the city, humping from one babe to another, so are the local boys humping your so called "virtuous" potential wives in the village . . .

The world is round and Most times, we get what we deserve! It's only fair

whenever one is matured enough to handle the consequences. .
as for all these religious gibber gabber, na una sabi.

As for pregnancy and other bla bla bla, most people still use contraceptive even after marriage. either because they don't want to keep having kids, they are beginning to suspect their spouses and don't want to catch disease , for medical reasons etc.

^^^ good question
op, so? how many?

NICE! Well, to all those that think being unmarried will make one unhappy, you are soooo WRONG!

Marriage is and should remain a personal choice of an individual. Whatever rocks one's boat

For me, The thought of "marriage" just gives me goose bumps. So for some personal reasons, I've decided to remain in domestic partnership.
_{B4 anyone brings the bible into this, Mind you, Doing Good is my Religion}

I still respect the marriage union anytime any day. But It's just not ma thing.

well, both of them have issues.
i can cry oo, but not more than once in a year, the second time he makes me cry, na break up be that. No Time!

Adebisi33:
he told me that he had three children living in Lagos with his sister, as he divorced his wife last year for infidelity.  

He also informed me that the kind of man I wanted did not exist (a man with a job and his own home), and at the moment, he is living in a shared apartment with many other Nigerians.

He suggested that I married him, sponsored his professional education and "trained" him to be the kind of gentleman I want.  The training would involve career coaching (he wants to be a lawyer), polishing his writing skills, and giving elocution lessons in order to get rid of his accent.

He also said that women should be submissive to their husbands, which left me very confused, 

How can a human being with sense vomit all these nerve wrecking and disturbing info in one date. hmmm,  At the point where he said you would remain single forever with your attitude, that's the mentality of most idiotic men; they go ahead feeling all high and mighty about themselves and they think that if u don't date them, no other guy can date you,  Very Empty threat my dear! 

Adebisi33:
Although his profile stated that he was single with no children, he told me that he had three children living in Lagos with his sister, as he divorced his wife last year for infidelity.

I'm almost 99% certain that he has not legally divorced his wife.
The guy is a low life. Thank God you bounced him!  

First and foremost, to all those claiming that Nigerian men have been proven to be the best, i wonder in which dream you people got that statistics. . 

well . . . even if a guy is not good, he can learn, so i think most times the problem is that the women don't complain. there is a difference between a terrible guy in bed, who wants to learn, and a terrible guy in bed, who doesn't want to learn. if he is bad, i go tell am point blank . . .  no time to hide mouth, especially if he is all these bragging big head guys. . . . they deserve to know the truth!period! . . .

well to answer the op's question, "yes, there are African men that are good lovers".

So a woman should cook and clean to be able to take care of a man?
Hmmmmm, There is notin someone will not hear in this world.

wife material my beautiful behind  

well, i cook and clean because i think it's a principled thing to do,  not because i want to use those qualities to gain access into a man's house. In recent times, I've seen that most guys are willing to help and contribute in house chores one way or another. most times, when u wake up, and before you finish stretching your sore and stiff body, the bed has already been made by a loving male partner. then before you take a lick and come back, the room is already tidy and sparkling. As you are about to go look for him to tell him what a great job he has done, there he is again, bringing in breakfast
The ladies on the other hand, are up and about. If the man cannot meet up with the house rent or children's school fee, the woman can gladly contribute from her own pocket. No one wants to wait for another to shower them, feed them, clothe them etc,  No time
So i believe this post is from the past or from the great beyond; but definitely not a post from someone living in the 21th century. Only a lazy man/woman will be waiting for someone to cook, clean, blablabla. . . . . . . . Again No time

The world is evolving. . . . I don't know about you, but I think i'm loving the revolution

@ post. i know i like white and light skinned guys, but i really don't know about albino!
well, still thinking about my answer. . . . .

pro01:
^
Yet if they break up tomorrow for whatever other reason, and she feels shortchanged, she would label him a 'woman beater' - and scream to the press that that was the reason behind the failure of their relationship/marriage. And yet one would want us to take these sorts of creatures seriously or give them the benefit of the doubt? Smh.

i'm just saying different strokes for different folks. . . . .
as long as the blood from her beatings is not dripping from my body , whats my skin pain
whatever rocks her boat. . . . .

@poster

well . . . .
what is done is done
best thing you can do is to try and keep both of them away from each other . . .
and you stay away from that your friend as well, so he doesn't taunt you about his experience with your gf. . . .

@topic
for sure, as long as there has been no past, present or future s.exual tension between them,
i can't be bothered

i've never gone back to my ex's so,  does that make me insane,
not even my first love,  we chat, gist, have a few drinks (only when i'm single sha), and no extra emotion attached whatsoever.

i always end up with someone better so why go back to my past poo?!
the past is in, over and done with and i don't look back,

@ post: so whats d point people are different you know,

if i have a well paying job, then fo'shizzle!!!, we can both eat from my pocket until he is up and about,

ehie:
why are u girls so touchy
is it now a crime for a person to say what he thinks and has experienced?
Nigeria and hyprocrisy

hypocrisy?! emmm,  i think the hypocrisy here is d part were tuface, a father of five children from diff women, is fussing about never meeting a virgin?!
nobody is getting touchy,  believe me girls these days no longer give a damn about dis double standard BS,   

in either case, don't give a damn about tuface and his wishful thinking!

Tosinville:
Lindabon

Are you virgin? [b]cos am a virgin [/b]and i would love to mingle with someone who's still brand new lets have a happy married life.

nah,  i don't go looking for virgins, i make do with what i've got,   

and why will i go broadcasting my virginity status on a forum filled with faceless poster   

@ topic,
notin new here,
People like different things,
as long as she is not complaining and even admits she likes it, who cares,

yinchar:
whao, even all the ladies on nairaland no fit talk am loud or defend that there are virgins nowadays, what is this country turning into, so most of our unmarried ladies are no more virgins, i think i beta listen to Tubaba advice,

is it a crime for men to be virgins too. why so much fuss about d woman's virginity? i just don't seem to get it  
so basically all men are expected to be sleeping around why d women aren't? WHY? Like i really don't get the double standard!  

hmm . . . . b.sexualy gist, na today!

gree212:
@poster, goat! it is people like you that marry village girls and at the end of the day tell them that they are not classy enough become they are not presentable.

Must u buy recharge card for her ?

[quote author=obo_man link=topic=714596.msg9009478#msg9009478 date=1314326432]I'm in Coventry 2, where are u?  [/quote]Oh, that's cool. stay @ Coundon.

SMH! well what can I say; either "What ever you believe works for you" or "What you don't know cant kill you"

LMAO!!!

OP, You just MURDERED English language!!

Anywho, if you don't like getting her calls/text messages, go ahead and tell her. Unless you are enjoying the attention!