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OP, i think u may consider respecting the girls opinion. but you can give asking her out a try. just don't over do

Kocham Cię - Polish

i'm not sure this fact is completely true

The society still makes it okay for men to cheat, so most cant help the habit since there is no punishment attached to it (this reason applies to most Nigerian men exclusively)
Other reasons for cheating that applies to the rest of men regardless of country include;
1. personality issues (low/high self esteem)
2. delusion
3. weakness ( physical, mental and emotional weakness) . . . .

xynerise:
21. You dont know how to bleep. (geez!)

Think that's the one i've used from the list. haha, kidding!  

Actually the line I always use is not on the list
"It's not you, It's me" 

Works like a charm and saves me from further explanation.

most times, when i'm bored very late at night and feel like being a nuisance, i just give him a call at the time when i know that he's obviously sleeping. i kinda like the tone of his sleepy voice and him begging me to let him sleep. God! you need to see begging. I even make him say whatever and anything I want him to say. wicked but funny.

he's mostly unconscious, so when he wakes up in the morning, he has very little recollection of the conversation. have to replay (of course I must record the conversation) for him whenever he goes like "Hell! I could never say that!"

shooze:
For you to be married to a nigerian man shows how hot our men are because I am certain you are one helluva fine ,strong black woman and only a correct man can hold u down

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=735499.msg8930579#msg8930579 date=1313441110]Who said Mr. Chima is Nigerian?   [/quote]LMAO

razznaija:
Nigerian men are in high demand

yup, development
and i prefer now to then when they harvest crops and rear animals to make a living.
Now is soooo much bera

edlion57:
why is it dat u need money before u can woo a beautiful girl unlike our forefather wen der mouth will do all the magic and d gal will be drawing sumtin on ground with our leg

because if people don't strive to make honest money, they are being irresponsible. and our fore fathers in their agricultural days, still had to work hard to make a living! Even in the days, i don't think any parent would be comfortable giving away their daughter to some irresponsible/lazy man 

^^^OP, You didn't answer the most obvious question here 
are YOU are virgin? 

offer?

@OP, plz DO NOT wait to get good advice about Nigerians from other people or even Nigerians themselves. Its all bad bad bad news.
Just take the guy as an individual. Analyse him the way you see him, and judge him for who he is. stereotypes about Nigerians will deceive you big time
Leave 9ja matter out of it; our wahala plenty abeg

i am not an advocator of any one being in a situation that involves another person getting hurt. 

but after speaking with a few reasonable people that have indulge in semi or full blow adultery and seeing how they seemed fine with it and even defended themselves; how they claim the person who they were having the affair with felt really unhappy in their marriage, and they out of pity and love, offered themselves! They actually see the other man/woman as the enemy.

Well after hearing from these people, i thought to myself that maybe people are just different you know 
But i still think it's wrong because i usually would want to put myself in the shoe of the other woman/man. not a funny situation to be in if you ask me!

i don't think there is any gift out there in the market tagged "apology gift". but anything that you know your lady will appreciate; maybe any jewelry that is not an engagement ring will do!
make sure it is straight from the heart and that it's not too obvious that you're using the gift to cover for being a lost puppy. that will be insulting i think?

Genevieve Nnaji Says She Will Not Marry?
and how does it concern ANYBODY?

although I don't hold her views, I don't see the reason why people will be this judgemental. Most single people end up being happier than their married counterpart. The most important thing is that one is contempt and happy with whatever decision they have taken.
and when did not wanting to get married become a crime? - hmm, i wonder!

Do younger men have any form of deformity?
if not then, Fo Shizzle 



------oh, and as long as he is not underaged though

OP, get you act together
Secondly, i don't know why I have this feeling that you are still this crazy and scared about her because you guys have not sle/pt together yet. Fear of the unknown? .

SAFO:
Ignorance must be bliss.

Do you think it's any different with other races?

True talk.

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=713141.msg8729157#msg8729157 date=1310833622]That's what happens when you date girls who may or may not have the funds to feed themselves.  If you are that pissed about a girl YOU ARE DATING asking you for food, try dating a girl who doesn't need YOU unless that would be too hard on your pride, huh? Broke and needy people beg, and that is normal maybe you need to find out why you keep getting broke and needy people?
MANY OF YOU AFRICAN men know damn well if a woman tells you she doesn't need you and she can provide for herself WITHOUT YOU.  You guys would a bleeping conniption and called her a FEMINIST or a man eater.  Let's keep it real.[/quote]WELL SAID

The truth is that most 9ja men (a large percentage of them) cant stand the thought of their female counterpart doing the "taking care of", and most 9ja females have noticed this about them and have therefore decided to take advantage of the situation. These girls can easily fish out these pathetic losers and over time, they decide to date them exclusively because of the benefits they derive from dating such men. a clash of two low self esteem humans.

very pathetic situation!

[quote author=BABE! link=topic=735610.msg8922676#msg8922676 date=1313353035]The problem is that you've not found the right one.[/quote]fact!
[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=735610.msg8924298#msg8924298 date=1313381395]maybe you dont like commitment.[/quote]so true!

OP, i don't get it  

i don't know why I don't believe this OP

OP, how can the things people say about your girlfriend bother you?
who is in a relationship with the girl? YOU, or THEM?
i think your problem is that you worry too much

Nice one

i have wondered about this too.
i've always thought that its a bit wasteful  
but then, when you don't follow the crowd, people might start thinking that you're either broke or downright stinky.
so . . . .

@Post
Nobody should

lateef2009:
am a young nice guy (working class), tall dark and slim just got heart broken by my ex any interesting lady should give me a call on 08068467201 or send me an email via sweetnanya2009@yahoo.com, pls no flashing,

LMAO @ plz no flashing

pay back is wrong in my perspective, because people's feelings may get hurt in the process.
if she knows that she will still be going back to the guy, why the parading.
pay back is just downright insane, wicked and hateful.
But if the girl feels fine and doesn't feel guilty for what she has done, then cool
cos most times, pay back can give people closure.

priest2u:
I'm in love with a girl from one of the middle east countries, this babe is so cool, very pretty, humble, sincere, infact are personality is great except that
I never knew the girl that will love me as I do is not going to be Naija or christian.If I have found a girl like this while I was in Naija I will be married by now.
Aside are[b] religion[/b] she is the perfect kind of woman I want. But I'm scared I may not marry her because of [b]cultural [/b]differences.

OP, next time just stick to the people you're comfortable dating/marrying. no need to discriminate   
Secondly, she may not be interested in marrying you either, so you may not have much to worry about.
Now since you are not comfortable marrying her, just be over with her already.   

@topic
NOPE!

LOVE!
hmm, if i see love, i will bury it alive! 
yeye love