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Odaveboy:
Your last sentence though....lol

You sef see am

Anuoluwapo23:
Loool, thanks for the compliment BTW i am in my late 20s so i want to assume i am legible to speak to my peers that is not a new thing, you get it? And for lecturers? yea you can lecture with your Bsc just that you will still be a Junior Lecturer. . and

And what?lol

Okay you're eligible to speak to us.

Well, institution differs.I initially said that because one needs atleast a MSc degree to lecture in my institution.

FarinolaFrances:
there is one here that has been sending me signals and greenlights for the past 1year now and it's obvious to people around my street and house......but we haven't talk ooo....can I send her letter making my intentions known coz I'm so so shy to go meet her at shop?

Letter??

You never ready?

ukaface:
you know there is a country also known as Benin?
So how did you come to the conclusion of Benin, Edo State?

Not country is called Benin.We only have Benin republic.

StPete:
The steering wheel is locked to a particular direction. If you drive a car, you won’t find it hard to tell

Well, I don't drive.

Thanks.

Amarisco:
God punish you x10 for not putting any warning about the following pictures.

You’re very very very wicked and desensitised

Calm down!!

You're on a cultism exposé thread, what were you expecting?
You no get mind, you dey enter cultism thread

StPete:
The ignorance has reached Nairaland from Instablog. How we got to promote this low level mentality on a national forum beats my imagination.

Here’s what really happened

So why is the vehicle going round in circles?
Who is turning the steering?

DaddyNimo:
Shut up and stop mentioning my post,

This one no get brain capacity to engage in intellectual conversation oh.
He quickly use insult port am!

DaddyNimo:
You're mad very mad, sole provider kill you there

This isn't necessary at all!

There is nothing wrong if you share bills with your wife.But you mustn't expect her to submit herself to you.

NotKnown:
Any job that exposes them to many men.

The worst of them is any woman who hawks on the express.

You see those ones that hawk bottle water and mineral or bread or biscuit? Infact anyone hawking in lagos traffic cannot listen to a man at home.

Na hardship, no blame the hawkers.
How much profit do they realize in a day upon all the running after vehicles?

killmods:
It is. U come on holidays or some weekends with thier grand kids. They come visiting and spend werks or months as the case may be. U all communicate . But if u don't do these things then ur parents are silently regretting having u...Fact

Well that means your children must not live abroad.
Abroad,majority of elderly people are placed in retirement homes.Their children are busy with family,work and life in general.

ZIMDRILL:
not everyone follows the bible, the behaviour has nothing to with being biblical, its human behaviour were power through money controls people

aka most men as breadwinners arevable to control wives due to the fact that most
women are dependants ( he who plays the piper calls the tune)

most men have been controlling women through being the breadwinner and women have been disabled both mentally and financially by this idea of " a man should look after me " hence when he starts to abuse you simply becoz you feel entitled to be looked after but if a woman was equally able to put money on the table, none of this hungry of power and control would be less becoz you equally value each other

A woman having more money than her husband is different from a woman dropping money in the home.

If a woman if richer than her husband,she has to drop her ego and still be submissive.
But when a woman starts dropping money in the home, she and her husband are now equal.

DaddyNimo:
He will soon die of too much pressure, let him continue

If you're not fit to enter marriage, don't enter.
A man is the sole provider and shouldn't concern himself with his wife's financial resources.

bukolaademi001:
In essence what you are trying to say is "there's nothing wrong if he throws her out of the house simply because he's a man and he's dominant"

As a man, why will you move into a woman's house? Did you expect her to leave her house for him? Or if it was his house, do you think she would have thrown him out?

Let's not complicate things.

Whoever packs into the house of another gets thrown out during separation.

Vyolet:
This is human behavior and never a woman behavior.
Most human feel superior once they earn more.
Most men are quick to throw their wives out of their house at a slight provocation.
Men cannot take half the things they dish out.

Did Funke Akindele not throw her husband out of her house?

A man is dominant and a woman is submissive (biblically).Once a woman has more money,she stops being submissive.('unbiblical').

Amotolongbo:
Only an insecure and lazy man would reason like that.

A working wife should bring two things to a reasonable man;

1 financial support in the home
2 A challenge and motivation for a man to work harder to increase his source and level of income


I understand that kind of man won’t like to marry an intelligent lady cos he won’t be able to handle her and think she may be egoistic but a “sit-down-there” kinda woman.

Which financial support is that?
A man is a provider,that is his role in the home.A woman too should perform her own role and is not expected to provide.

Real men don't know how much their wives earn because it doesn't matter.

killmods:
Any girl that wants to be promiscuous should go ahead. I'm done looking for a good girl sef. Worst case scenario I become a baby daddy las las but will be very active in the life of my kids so they won't leave me lonely when I'm old. The time and attention given to all these women threads has become too much here. E done do

My parents are old yet,we children are in different places all over Nigeria and outside....living our own life with our families (wife/husband and kids).

Having children is not an escape from loneliness when old.

BoredBerry:
I edited your post to include women... It's tough for everyone... But I know men have it harder... Societal expectations and sh**... Just want you to know that single women are hustling too...

If it were to be only women,you won't include men too.

Ginaz:
yes it does work for me. i was having issues with my sleep habits and that was how i came to know it. do research on the benefits of onions and red palm oil in the body and see for yourself.

my boobs feel fuller whenever i take it. I'm not joking. maybe its my body though, I'm having a cup right now as I'm typing this. you can use red palm oil to massage the boobs too, helps in making it supple and fades off stretch marks.

Wahala oo.
Why do you want fuller boobs?
Aunty leave your boobs alone

kingthreat:
Sad. Gone at 20 years. Excess obesity is not healthy. If you have the tendency, fight it.

Is the guy 20?

pepperdemzombie:
It is an automatic change by Nairaland for words commonly used but they want to stop its usage.
The word is Porn_star, type it yourself without the hyphen, it will change.
Flat_head without hyphen turns to Igbo
D_ick is cock
The funniest is Dullar_d, check it for yourself.
Just make a new comment and Check the words out after you hit the submit button.

satandeterrible:
Dullard

erniok:
Dullard

It is Dullardin.ho

RealityKings:
i couldn't sleep last night. How can a young man make it legitimately in a country like Nigeria? lets be sincere...

I kept thinking, to make it in a country like Nigeria, not for yourself but for your children. How can you secure an assuring future for the children (even if unborn) ? It feels like we are trapped in the same cycle of debt and blames; blame the government, blame religion, blame bad economic policies then blame the political class... as if its not being influenced by the people themselves

The trap is even harder to escape when you are overtly religious.
In the market when you hold Nigeria's highest currency, hold it to the sky and look at it very well: it tells a story you most definitely understand. Its not even entirely about the money, there is just something not right with the country

It's hard to make it in Nigeria without connection.

Leave Nigeria by all means.First go to a less Developed country in asia through study route.Scholarship should not be difficult.
Work there,gather money and move to a better country.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Y'all even have the time in responding to Dumbos who keep asking silly dumb questions...
I mean how can you be trolling this same dude just for declaring his ambition..vile words.. insults ain't the way to promote ya candidate..so sick..

I can bet ya..with this information some Dumbos will keep disturbing the whole place with their unnecessary noise..

He claimed to have graduated at the University in 1971 whereas the school claimed he graduated in 1979...find the discrepancy.

We don't want BUHARI II to rule us.

Transcriber:
fine gal

If you're in surulere axis and you need to release...her contact is in her signature.

Threesha you go pay me for this advert o.

YohaUnknown:
The thing is you say that last sentence but apart from the “atrocities” we have done back then in the 1980-90

All this “if you know pc well” okay speak and inform because they’re some people here who don’t this page was to spread awareness Oya spread awareness

Yes we were the role models and the cause of all the frat starting but really and truly was that why Wole soyinka made pyrates? But no you’ll include him in that bunch when it went downhill because of how it degenerate throughout the years, if your friend jumps off a bridge you too will you go and jump ? You see these guys doing fraternity does that mean you too you should go and create your own.


I’ve already warned those not to join NAS but Omo when it comes to this say no to cultism please let’s talk actual facts not all this he say she say or “if you truly know”
I wouldn’t want people to read my text and say Omo let me join NAS


Yes I know people who have killed
Yes I know people who have been killed
I know people who didn’t even make it through the initiation and have died in bush. Yes this is what you signed up for the day you decided to belong to any frat.

You see guys fighting thinking “ahn ahn why are these guy fighting like this why do they hate each other” really and truly you would never understand you can sympathy with them oh I know how it feels too lose a friend but Omo you can never really feel their pain.
You may join cult and never even fight you may learn yahoo you may pass exams and become great in life or your life can ruin anyway any how that would be your burden to carry.

Everything has a dark side.

No matter how much you showboat “we are fine boys we are show guys we are fresh boys we don’t fight” all of this is a lie

Every deck needs a butcher every nest needs a dove every ship needs a Kman because of WHAT OTHER FRATERNITY WOULD DO TO YOU

Cultist wouldn’t have these OFFICES IF THEY DIDN’T NEED THEM.

If Ayes didn’t have a butcher and a chief butcher and one SM falls what would happen? Everyone in that temple would renounce aye and talk say “ahn Omo I was one an aye they killed my friend o ahhh John rip yes even as an aye they made me do this and that” that’s how they’re renounce and cast the whole frat orientation.


You can live your whole life as one gentle guy come and sail for Seadogs not trouble anyone but just because your a seadog someone will Fall you.

Now you have just spoken well!

Your last paragraph says it all.But why will one deliberately decide to be a walking target?(rhetoric).

samuel051:
Bro yes he is very active but my point is he never hyped it or promoted it or asked anyone to join. He rather stated that they are fewer in numbers in some locations and someone quoted him that what's the point of belonging if they can't protect him with their less numbers

My point is the guy could have exaggerated their numbers and strength but he rather spoke less of it and still advised that he isn't asking anyone to join.

In as much as we are saying no to cultism, let's still applaud those cultist coming forward to condemn cultism than trying to make them feel bad, it edges the devilsh ones to keep promoting cultism. Peace bro..

In as much as he wasn't promoting cultism,he still wasn't condemning cultism.

We can only applaud those who condemn cultism and not those trying to tell you their own frat is peaceful.

GermanPoison:
prior to that buhari is a bsc holder because NDA was not doing a bsc programme so he had to do the normal course done for in those days so why is buhari name among notable alumni that went to NDA

Buhari attended NDA to undergo military training and not academic training.
Irrespective of whether the mission of the school changed or not,he is still a notable alumni because he graduated from there.

If you claim Buhari was a B.Sc holder prior to that, which academic institution awarded him the Bachelors degree??

GermanPoison:
he went to United States Army War College (USAWC) that is U.S. Army educational institution

At first you claimed he earned his B.Sc degree at NDA which I debunked.Now, it's USAWC.

Well, which degree was Buhari awarded upon completion?
Note that he was only there from 1979-1980(one year)

samuel051:
You did with the post I quoted you.. even the original op was condemning it when he started this thread

Y'all should stop condemning those coming up to sharing their stories. This thread have saved many lives.. do you think its easy for those exposing or going against oaths sworn and risking their lives, spiling details that can lead to their deaths just to save others.. abeg make una relax nobody holy pass, everybody get cultist for their family. Deny all u want...

The PC guy wasn't making any exposé.He is still an active cultist.He has not said anything against cultism.Even if he is condemned,that is what we are all here for....To condemn cultism and active cultists.

Meanwhile,I didn't condemn him personally.But I am condemning cultism.Shalom!

samuel051:
He is not painting them good, he said in his other post that he is not asking anyone to join, he even stated they never dominated any territory, if he was pointing them good or indirectly promoting his group, he will claim they are well equipped and have the capacity to chest anything that comes up anywhere, but he clearly stated the opposite.

Y'all should stop quoting people who comes out to speak out of context, reason so many people won't want to share their experience because some people will openly condemn them instead of pray for them after realizing they took the wrong path of life and realized rather too late. Those who died won't come here to share their stories, let the living advise the wannabes. Even if u no be cultist no mean say u never fuckedup maximum fuckup b4 wey some cultists never even dare to fuckd. I know person wey no be cultist wey don kill 3persons. Some people are just cultist by name and don't indulge in those nonsense, while some Jew or 48 or civilians are cold bloded murderers, robbers and criminals.


SAY NO TO CULTISM, but don't condemn those that took the risks to share their stories, some have been hunted and killed for it just because they come to help others avoided making same mistakes the made.

Understand before quoting.
Where did I condemn him?

I only said I like as he is painting them good because he only magnified their good aspect but barely talked about their bad side.

If you know PC well,you will know it's much more than what he said.

PINKYandBRAIN:
PINKY: Dude is so tall.

BRAIN: Yes, Just like Tolani.

PINKY: I See... So, what are We Here for, BRAIN ?

BRAIN: I don't Know PINKY. We just got out of The Nairaland Moderator's Jail. Someone banned us claiming we were spamming the forum. So, Wait....Let Me Think.



PINKY: Tell Me The Moderator's name, Let me give him a Solid uppercut.

One person acting as two.
Na like this madness dey start o.