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PoliticsRe: Obi Vs Tinubu, Shettima: Presidential Elections Tribunal Reserves Judgement by lonelydora: 5:48pm On Aug 01, 2023
PEPT should do the needful. Time no too dey again. BAT has nothing to offer.

I hope we are all seeing Mali, Bukina Faso, and Niger?
CareerRe: Is The Manager Conniving With The Security To Work Against Me? by lonelydora: 5:48pm On Aug 01, 2023
Onpoint1010:
I worked with two guys and 3 girls as their security chief in a fast food restaurant as contract staffs. The guys were something else but I managed them although we had back and forth arguments because they were trying to disobey my directives.

As time went by, the then manager told me about a vacant position, "Store Manager" and helped me to apply. Unfortunately, he was transferred before I was fully employed so, he handed me over to the new manager and assistant manager.

I was employed and was happy. Those two boys then began to conspired against me, they are psychologically smart and to an extend fearless and manipulative, I like them for that.

Just of recent, they began working against me with the manager, they stopped helping me to offload goods to the store and so, I decided to stop them from entering the store to charge their phones. But they boldly told me that I can't stop them and if I do, they will beat me. They have muscle more than I do. I knew they can beat me but I decided that I won't back down.

Yesterday, I stopped the now security chief from entering the store but the manager told me to allow them. This is the same manager that supported me initially to stop anyone I want from entering the store house and to lock it each time I want to go out.

Right now, I don't know what to do, I feel like the manager is trying to make me powerless in the office.

I want to know, does the manager have the right to ask the guards to keep entering the store room or I should continue to resist them?

Any store man or woman who has had similar experience, how did you overcome it.
Do you have powers to query or sack?

This is why it's good to set boundaries on time in any new environment you find yourself. If you can't control your subordinates and have them do your bidding, you have failed as a manager.

I believe you were too weak initially, now see finish don enter.

Get them the fvck under your control.
RomanceRe: If You Find Out That Your Husband Is Impotent After Marriage, What Will You Do? by lonelydora: 5:41pm On Aug 01, 2023
Merry100:
If you find out that your husband is impotent after marriage, what will you do?
This is the reason I advise "knacking before marriage".

Forget what the religious folks tell you.
FamilyRe: What I Noticed About My Uncle's Child by lonelydora: 2:10pm On Jul 27, 2023
lovediehatelive:
So I decided to spend the weekend at my uncle's place because it has been many years I went there.


In the midnight, around 1am, I heard the television was on and I thought he forget to put it off.


So I went to the living room only to see his son of about 4-5 years old watching cartoon. I was shocked and asked him to go and sleep, which he grudgingly agreed.


Now, early morning around 5am or so, same thing happened. I want to the living room and saw him there.


This time he refused to go to bed.


I later found out that's how he does. I wonder if he ever sleeps at night.

The parents are not even bothered, but I'm worried. When we were growing up, who are you to stay awake past 9pm watching TV? Not to talk about waking up at night. Even in the day time you better not be caught idling away on front of the TV when others are busy.

This one just comes to the living room anytime he likes and puts on the TV.

Is this how kids of nowadays behave?
Your uncle is in the verge of losing that child. He is sparing the rod and spoiling the child.
CrimeRe: Gunmen Kidnap Priestba Anthony-Nwokocha, RSBC News Director (Photo) by lonelydora: 4:45am On Jul 23, 2023
If you reside in Rivers state, follow these tips:

1. If you are a woman, don't drive at night. You are an easy target

2. If you have a child of less than 16 years old, don't send him/her on errand in the evening/night. If you must do, he/she must not go alone.

3. Avoid using korope (Keke bus) or Keke NAPEP at night. It's safer to use the normal Coaster and Hiace buses.

4. Always make your location known at every point in time.

5. Avoid going alone for house search with house agents. Their new format is to pretend as house agents going to show you a house.

May God save us all.
FoodRe: See The Pouched Rat I Killed Beside Our House by lonelydora: 5:29pm On Jul 21, 2023
You no serious, Op.

Is it because of this small rat you carried such a big cutlass?

If na snake, you for carry MRAP
FamilyRe: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by lonelydora: 7:06am On Jul 11, 2023
Oizee:
Some people don't respect boundary at all, there was a colleague of mine that called me on WhatsApp video around 9:30pm when I was preparing for bed o, I didn't pick, the next day in the office I made it clear to him that I don't do video call with non male relatives.
Simple.

Even if it's during the day, you can't just pick your phone and start calling someone on video call. It's wrong
FamilyRe: Why Are People Not Respecting The Sanctity Of Marriage Anymore? by lonelydora: 7:05am On Jul 11, 2023
taylor89:
Be forming what I don’t know

A colleague called you at odd hour and your vagina mind went straight to toasting not thinking if he might be in danger or you might be in danger yourself

My boss once told me that even if we’re 10 inches away from each other like we’re seeing each other that I should never refuse to pick his call

Even if he asked me to come to his house and I’m already at the gate and he calls that I should pick the call and tell him boss I’m at your gate

Because you really don’t know when a call is for safety
I don't agree with you. Calling on video call without prior notice is wrong, whether from relatives or colleagues.

A normal call would do.
CrimeRe: Decomposing Body Of Abuja Man Found In His Apartment With A Note From The Killer by lonelydora: 5:44am On Jul 11, 2023
Offpoint1:
If he was truly guilty of the crime his killer accused him of, then I'm solemnly behind and in full support of Alfa actions. Whoever crossed my family and split any of their blood, I will come for you no matter how long it takes... even if you returned from jail millions years later. I'm incapable of forgiveness when life is involved.

If truly he wasn't guilty, then his family member should traced Alfa and served him justice.

Whoever kill should be killed, jail is an injustice.
Gbam!

This is me too. I don't forgive when life is involved.
An eye for an eye won't make the world go blind.
HealthRe: Fibroid : Natural Ways Of Shrinking Fibroid Group by lonelydora: 3:39am On Jul 08, 2023
Daninya33:
Fibroid shrink in 20days

Fibroid develop in the uterus.the important characteristics of fibroid is that they are not cancerous and do not have potential to become cancer. It is advisable for women with the symptoms to opt in for this natural cleaning to get rid of it in no time.

But before embarking on this 20 days juice fast , make sure you change your eating habits to eating healthy diet because without that,it will be difficult to get result.

There is no magic to that, it takes hard work and dedication.

The first thing to do is thorough detox with this 20 days juice fast. But the rules are :

1. Only liquids are taken for 20 days without solid foods. You will only take

. Water

. Blended juice

. Herbal teas.

The digestive system will be allowed to completely rest so that the body will focus on detoxification and shrinking process.

Juice fast work miraculous well .

Some of the herbal teas to be taken during this period will be the following:

. Green tea

. Dandelion tea.

. Tumeric tea

. Soursop leaf tea

Tea mix with a black seed .

These are the ingredients to be blended for the juice fast:

. Beetroot

. Carrot

. Ginger

. Spinach

. Cucumber

. Apples

Instructions

. Juice will be 2 litres or more

. Water 2 litres or more

. Herbal teas 1 litre or more

And the total fluid in a day will be 5 liters or more.

You may start on the weekend when you are not working so that by monday your body must have adjusted to the new diet.

Exceptions

. Breast feeding mothes

. Pregnant women

. Any one on strong medication requiring them to take food.

. Under Weight.

Take this opportunity to heal yourself of fibroid with 20 days juice fast and be free forever.
Please, after the 20 days juice fast, what next? Start eating normal food or continue with the juice fast?
PoliticsRe: Bulkachuwa Asks Court To Stop ICPC From Probing Him For Influencing His Wife by lonelydora: 9:35pm On Jul 07, 2023
ijustdey:
Bulkachuwa asks court to stop ICPC from probing him for ‘influencing wife’s decisions’




https://www.thecable.ng/bulkachuwa-asks-court-to-stop-icpc-from-probing-him-for-influencing-wifes-decisions/amp
Good!

Let him come and mention names.
Foreign AffairsRe: Video Of Guinean President Mamady Doumbouya And His Security Officers by lonelydora: 8:05pm On Jul 06, 2023
Africa sha
CareerRe: Student: I Can Earn over 200K As An Entry Level Civil Servant in Nigeria by lonelydora: 3:31pm On Jul 03, 2023
Hassanmaye:
My salary is 100k level 9 immigration.
I'm taking about entry. How many years have you worked?

Oh, I remember now..... Buhari increased the federal salary
RomanceRe: "My Wife Is Not My Family"- by lonelydora: 3:23pm On Jul 03, 2023
So this argument don reach here.

Even the Bible said "for this reason shall a man leave his father and his mother and cling to his wife, and they shall become one"

So, the above passage solves the argument.
CareerRe: Student: I Can Earn over 200K As An Entry Level Civil Servant in Nigeria by lonelydora: 3:23pm On Jul 03, 2023
Dimaya:
please what agencies pay more than 200K as starting wages?
NigComSat, FIRS, CBN, etc.
CareerRe: Student: I Can Earn over 200K As An Entry Level Civil Servant in Nigeria by lonelydora: 3:19pm On Jul 03, 2023
Should we tell her?

Level 7 in any civil service is about 67k consolidated
BusinessRe: Bank Of America Urges Nigeria To Hike Interest Rate To 25.5% To Curb Inflation by lonelydora: 3:17pm On Jul 03, 2023
US should focus on their gun control issue and stop chucking mouth in wetin no concern them.

US should know we are bette off with China and Russia. BRICS is coming
FamilyRe: To The Married; Does Money Bring Happiness In A Marriage? by lonelydora: 3:16pm On Jul 03, 2023
I know money brings COMFORT in all form, marriage inclusive but does it bring HAPPINESS along?
Like does being married to a man rich automatically makes a woman a happy woman? Will it make the marriage a happy marriage? A happy home for the kids etc. I know the wife of a rich man would quite be comfortable compared to that of a low income earner.

She can easily outsource whatever she needs thereby making her comfortable in her home. From washing machine, maids, full dstv subscription, driver, Gateman, shopping, vacation and all good things that money can buy; does all these bring true happiness?

When a distance sister of mine got married to her husband years ago, we were definitely not too happy for her. We thought she'd suffer in a marriage without finance. The truth is they still have finance issues till now, but not something beyond their power.
It's close to 10 years now and I realise she is happy there, herself and her husband are low income earners yet they found happiness in each other. See her looking younger than her age with two kids to show for it.

I have also come to realise(from observation) that most times, it's likely for a woman to eventually marry a low or average income earner(as against the illusion of a millionaire husband). As long as the woman has something doing, they usually end up doing well. You see them looking better than they were when they both got married cheesy lol
Seems like a good marriage brings out the beauty of both sexes, little wonder why young ladies dont mind dating married men grin

So married men and women, what is your take on this? Does money bring happiness in marriage? Is finance all about the comfort it can bring?
Let singles like me learn something new
A big Yes!

Money brings happiness. Look at Ned Nwoko and Regina Daniels.
CareerRe: Valuable Lessons From The Corporate World by lonelydora: 3:12pm On Jul 03, 2023
24. Invest disproportionately between your high performing and low performing staff.

25. Retain your high performing employees with mortgage.
PoliticsRe: Lawan Did Not Let Me Finish: Bulkachuwa Makes Clarification Over Comment by lonelydora: 8:03pm On Jun 17, 2023
Ihateheadslamer:
Senator Bulkachuwa’s statement at the valedictory of the 9th senate is a monumental disgrace for our institutions. This man deserves to be taken up immediately by the authorities tongue
Did he lie?
PropertiesRe: Soakaway Collapses At NPA Quarters, Nyanya In Abuja; 3 Rescued by lonelydora: 4:47am On Jun 16, 2023
Even if I am a government worker, one thing I can never do is to stay in any government quarters
PoliticsRe: Tinubu Hosts Emirs Of Borgu, Kontagora In Aso Villa (Photos) by lonelydora:
BAT just dey feel himself for Aso Rock
Foreign AffairsRe: Havard Medical School Morgue Manager Accused Of Selling Body Parts (Pictures) by lonelydora: 4:57pm On Jun 15, 2023
Ah-ah!

Ritualists dey US?

Check well, e fit bi Naija person.
TV/MoviesRe: Nigerians Marvel At NTA's Sudden Revitalization by lonelydora: 4:55pm On Jun 15, 2023
Haa!

If NTA can change, Naija go change.

You can't tell me otherwise
CelebritiesRe: Ayra Starr’s Childhood Dance Video Emerges On Her 21st Birthday, She Reacts by lonelydora: 4:53pm On Jun 15, 2023
Fine geh!

The young shall grow. Whatever your hand finds to do, do it well.


But Don Jazzy dey enjoy sha
PoliticsRe: President Bola Tinubu Inugurate National Economic Council. Photos by lonelydora: 4:52pm On Jun 15, 2023
Na wa o.

E bi lyk Tinubu serious to work o.
CrimeRe: White Lady Who Killed Nigerian Mum Of 4 In Florida Appears In Court (Pics/video) by lonelydora: 10:06am On Jun 15, 2023
We will not accept this. Nigerian lives matter

Seems Owen went to gba ogu nwa.

She carried her Nigerian mother default setting.to Susan's house.

May her soul RIP
PoliticsRe: EFCC Summons Ex-Aviation Minister, Sirika Questions Nigeria Air Officials by lonelydora: 9:49am On Jun 15, 2023
Better late than never
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi Mourns Victims Of Kwara Boat Mishap by lonelydora: 9:29am On Jun 15, 2023
Okwute Ndi Igbo!

With the way Tinubu is dismantling the unserious, incompetent, and wasteful government Buhari enthroned on Nigerians, e bi lyk say you go calm down small with tbe PEPT o.

Emefiele gone
Bawa gone
Hadi Sirika in the process of going

Next on the list are Mele Kyari, Malami,
PoliticsRe: Abdulkarim Chukkol - New Acting EFCC Chairman’s Profile by lonelydora: 8:58am On Jun 15, 2023
Mods initially followed the poor journalism
CareerRe: How Do I Retrieve My Pension From My Previous Employer by lonelydora: 1:00pm On Jun 12, 2023
Ozodinmo08:
G
I have been looking for you, but sha I got someone else
CareerRe: How Do I Retrieve My Pension From My Previous Employer by lonelydora: 12:59pm On Jun 12, 2023
Not a big deal.
Write PENCOM and get a lawyer (as backup)

That company will be the one calling you sef.

Contact me for more easy way out.

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