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People like you help fuel the same domestic violence with that kind of nonsense submission in your last paragraph; instead of encouraging women to always do the right thing, here you are making excuses for them as if they are robots that cannot control their mouths, even when you ought to know that verbal abuse is as destructive as physical, emotional, and psychological abuses.

SayNoToAllTypesOfAbuses

Gender equality encourages expressiveness, tends to enable justice and fairness which breeds positive energy, and reduces the chances of being meted out pernicious acts unaware - among other positivities. In fact, it is inhumane to even conceive the idea that human beings, regardless of age and gender, are unequal - different in some aspects, yes, but definitely not unequal.

The ambiguity of love notwithstanding, yes, it is possible to love your children equally, but it is quite difficult, if not impossible, to wittingly or unwittingly show them love equally.

Yes, unless you are married to an unscrupulous woman and have a rouge as a cousin.

brownemmanuel43:
Tell me more about that bitch on Nairaland bcs she carry the case like say na her mama case

Just pity her. Some of them know how to provoke someone. Someone who despite not promising her anything immediately after sending me a DM was already getting jealous of my British female PA because she mistakenly noticed that she was by my side while on a business trip; someone who was so desperate and willing to join me in the US even if it entails not telling her parents. Someone who had always claimed to base in Lagos State Nigeria and worked in a bank, only for her to loose-guard and told me that she had not been to Lagos but rather was based in Osun State and was jobless and depressed due to circumstances. Lol. If you have had an encounter offline with someone like her who always form woke, strong, successful and beautiful online, you will laugh tire at their desperation and shallowness.

Don't mind the dwarf that has a short fuse. A screenshot of her DM is attached here, yet here she had claimed that I was the one that sent her a DM.

Fountainofyouth:
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Your are really pained, I never sent pm to you, you sent pm to me first, so have sense, stop trying to whitewash yourself like one handsome dude when you're next to a chimp, do not let me go low like you, respect yourself and stop mentioning my moniker everywhere.

Lol. Lying machine. The evidence still abound in this forum showing that you begged for days before I could reply to your DM. The same person that after I was tired of listening to her lies, slavish and desperate acts blocked her on my contact list. It's only in your dreams that I sent you or anyone a DM. Jobless dwarf with a short fuse.

I always laugh whenever I remember that you and your likes are always quick to loose-guard and off pants and everything once a handsome and established man gives you lots a little attention.

Ishilove:
Only God knows which year you will have sense.

Lol. Dem go de pose. At least despite Fountainofyouth aka Biglittlelois usual deceitful, bigoted, hypocritical, and disingenuous self, she did not deny outright like some of her likes of sending DMs and begging the man you and your likes cannot afford to have but cannot stop wishing to have offilne to marry her. Lol.

By the way, I hope you know that P, your main ally, now has a new moniker "Redpillar."

Nisiw365:
E pain am. Ashewo kobokobo olobo rirun

Just pity Fountainofyouth aka Biglittlelois. She has always been a frustrated and desperate woman looking for whom to blame for her woes. If you act based on her provocation and that of others urging her on and waiting to laugh at her after being ridiculed, you might send her to everlasting depression.

Fountainofyouth:
You should respect yourself, seeing as you obviously have nothing on me, I have spill it all, and now I am married, so what exactly do you think you have on me? Prove to me that all I said is lies let's see.

Somebody wants to have endless cries. Lol. I will pity you just for one single reason. Respect yourself and others for your good to avoid had I known. Be warned.

Redpillar:
Tiri gbosa for you!

Whatever a blackmailer has on you. Spill it first!!! I stan you from today.

Before you cry again, remember I know your main monikers. This is how you and your likes always deceive each other to go to battle you will lose in the end and then cry betrayal and murder when the heat becomes too much. Be warned.

Fountainofyouth:
Lol we had a fling years ago on phone, we never saw, I specifically told you I was tired of my bank job and wanted another which you said you can provide, you said I can be your p.a if I can speak French, I can't, and I moved on, so pray tell, what exactly did you want to reveal that will be so bad? My beautiful face of what? Or what exactly is paining you

Keep lying and deceiving yourself and maybe some small-minded people. Respect yourself, and don't provoke me further.

Fountainofyouth:
But I am married, so why are you fighting with yourself? When did I ever tell you I want to be your concubine? Or when did I tell you I want to marry you?

Don't provoke me further before you cry betrayal. You all are always quick to insult others; if I should post your messages and photos here now to prove my point and debunk your lies and false claims, it will be as if I am wicked.

Fountainofyouth:
So Anita is now the strange woman not Lola? Lmao the God of Lola never sleeps indeed

I sincerely pity other tribes marrying Igbo men, honestly.

The same you that was begging to marry an Igboman offline and didn't mind slaving for him or if he keeps his PAs as concubines. Hypocritically bigoted, opportunistic, and disingenuous element. Every one of you is always woke, successful, strong, and beautiful online while offline is otherwise. Lol.

Don't dare me; anyway, you already know that I hardly spare anything when handling people who refused to be sensible.

DNA might fail in this instance, even though it ought to be the best means of proof in this regard, assuming that the deceased did not have with any of his living offspring a matching one before his death. This is so because, if before his death, he did not do a DNA test with the assumed firstborn, or with all of his assumed known children, that turned out positively, then there is a possibility that the assumed firstborn might actually not be his biological child, while the girl might be instead. So, in the event that the assumed firstborn isn't the deceased biological child, it means that his DNA will not match with that of the girl, and by extension, will make it impossible for the girl to substantiate her claim

I do not hold a brief for your girlfriend; however, the fact that you have done all that you listed does not automatically mean that she is the one at fault between the two of you or that you have been genuinely good to her/source of positive energy to her. Assuming that you have always been in the position, be it in business or intimate relationship or friendship, where most people you relate with are always ready to move mountains for you, then you might be able to understand my point better in relation to what has transpired between two of you.

Two things are obvious from the connotation of your submission, you neither know her for whom she is attributively nor have been relating with her from a selfless position. The same things might be said of her too. If you care, wear the garb of discernment, start relating with her from a selfless position and be conscientious in your actions and inaction generally for at least one month; a discerning person in your position will, within the period, be able to establish whether you or she is the cause of the trouble in the relationship and undeserving of the other.

Bornsinner7:
It is a pitiable dismal pismal

No such thing as genuine love.. in every relationship, two things are involved; money and sex..

When you talk about sex, the ladies will counter it with money.. when you talk about money, the guys will counter it with sex..

The world is obviously a market place but it is unfair for one party to want to always cheat but never want to be cheated..

According to you "No such thing as genuine love." Honestly, I wonder where they breed people like you. You and your types should stop seeing yourselves as standard for everyone.

Quasi-balderdash! Those who stand for nothing fall for anything. There is a thin line between indulgence and condoning; the latter ought not to be encouraged as you did because it is one of the easiest ways people usually use to destroy themselves (health-wise and economically) and society in general. If only you know the depth of damage condoning of nonsense in a bid to be in the good book of everyone does to one's well-being and society in general, you will discard this notion and idea with alacrity.

Always strive to do what you know is right at any given time, whether palatable or not, and damn whatever any unscrupulous entity thinks or how hir will react. Build your life around justness, your hope around your occupation, and only have hope on others without building it around them.

One of the highest and most fulfilling points of living is reaching the height of not minding losing anyone/anything in principle and staying conscientious.

You've tried. A good wife deserves the best of everything from her husband.

Embrace owning up the outcome of your action and inaction because that is part of the things that make you a man in particular and a sane human being in general. Blame-shifting drains energy more than anything else in this world; avoid it. Meanwhile, the best way to avoid avoidable negative occurrences in one's life is continually striving for goodness while eschewing nonsense either as an enable or perpetrator.

yenereal:
Festus Keyamo comes with reciepts and add Activist by day hustlers by night.


This dragging is childish to say the least. Someone who is a SAN should not be engaging like someone who just exited the BBN house. Even going ahead to release his phone number to the public space is a new low.

There is nothing childish about the dragging. Expecting one to condone nonsense in order not to appear petty and as a show of class of attaining the zenith of their educational and or professional calling is a sign of mental parochialism. You all should stop all this open or tactical support of the normalization of abnormalities in all the spheres of life.

Well done to Festus Keyamo.

Most of the people who will glow and justify this alleged heinous act of an ex-girlfriend, regardless of who caused the problem that caused the breakup, are the same people who had cast aspersion on another woman who chose to celebrate loud her divorce from an alleged toxic union the other day; talk about posturing.

Well, if truly the ex-girlfriend carried out the heinous act for dumping her unjustifiably after being in a long committed relationship leading to marriage, she probably did what she thought was the best in the situation; rightly or wrongly, it's nature that can judge. If, however, she is truly the one that carried out the heinous act and did so even though he dumped her as a result of her own wrong-doings, may her soul never have rest.

By the way, it's appalling that most people are in the habit of seeing nothing wrong in women dumping men unjustifiably but are always quick to cry murder when men justifiably dump women. Evil is evil and should be condemned no matter who perpetrates it.

Good if she is celebrating the extrication of herself from an abusive union, but shame on her if she is celebrating a divorce from a man who had a good intention for her and done his best for her.

It's ridiculous that some people will still believe this fiction. A supposed real-time news without a real-time image.

Give the girl her due credit. If you go through the chat with an unbiased mind and thought, you'll see that she places principle above expediency and is capable of faithfulness in particular and love in general, all things being equal.

It's all about self-absorption, and it is not female gender exclusive, just that is more prevalent among them. The truth is that if you enable a self-absorbing woman or man that doesn't have an altruistic interest in you or consider you part of self but has a desire of having you as a pawn in hands, they will make life a living hell for you if you share closeness with them.