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hadjipapiey:
Swerve

Direct your further mention to your wretched father and lunatic mother. You're a typical small-minded person - bumpkin.

hadjipapiey:
Engage Queen Elizabeth on that

No be me say make you fall your hand nau. You be wan correct am even when you no sabi better pass her.lol

hadjipapiey:
You just shot yourself

Apologise is variant - British English spelling - of the verb word apologize (American English spelling).

Kudos OP. However:

- "Never Play Safe" is rather a very bad advice. To know when and where to give in and when and where not to is better - Act without reservation at your own peril. In fact, this item contradict your number 8 which says "Pride Goes Before A Fall."

- "Experience Is The Best Teacher" you say. Believe you me, it's better to be smart and learn from the seasoned-wise than to experience firsthand. Many have been consumed in the cause of experimenting. . . may this never be anyone's case.


- " As Much As You Can, Mind Your Business" is a bad advice too, because it helps in consolidating vices in particular and evils in general. Being conscientious is better. You'll be remembered for it.


- "Love is Love." This can only holds true so long as you maintain, sustain and retain the attributes that made the affectionate to be good towards you. Always remember that love, just like respect and loyalty, is reciprocal. Love maybe unconditional, but the preferential benefits from it aren't. . . not even the one offered by nature to mankind.

@OP

Love isn't a scam. However, to someone like you and your ilk it may seem so because it's difficult, if not impossible, for one to appreciate and recognize something s/he can't give. He who comes into equity must come with clean hands.

The postulation can only hold true for those who don't discover themselves prior to attaining 24 years of age.

An opportunist, especially one who's not in love with you but still in a relationship with you, will always practice leeching and predatory, whether dependent or independent - so, dependency isn't automatically a problem. And, of course, opportunism knows no bounds. . . a Black opportunist isn't different from a White or Caucasian one.

Opportunism is the problem, it's a vice.

PMB a disparager? Yes - citing his vituperation against the youth of the country. But a racist?You're on your own.

Only death or God can stop Amechi from winning 2023 presidential election.

Don't argue with me.

When manic depression sets in, self-castigation becomes order of the day - this is obviously the underlying cause of her action thus far. Literally, she may neither be wayward as she has portrayed herself nor had slept with any pastor.

I'm sorry for her.

Basic leadership! Teach the older boy how and when to give in (leadership is a call to service) - one who fails to give in (where and when necessary) always lose/become dishonorable. And, of course, when to stand his ground so that he won't become a weakling. Once the older one masters the act of basic leadership and live up to it, he'll automatically earn the respect and followership of the younger one(s).

gadgetsngs:
Can you shield more light on this please, may be we can learn a couple of things from yoy

People are paid for what they do with what they know - no one will pay you just because you know something.

Thanks.

I still maintain my stance that they're running a poor e-commerce model - pre 2000 model - they'll continue to make losses until they do the needful.

There's absolutely nothing wrong in a man being beneficent towards a woman (be it a lover, friend, acquaintance or stranger) - it takes a man (someone) with strong character, an aristocrat, to be altruistic. A thing like this is beyond the understanding of small-minded people.

What's wrong though is paying for love in any guise. Personally, I can give and share anything for love. But I cannot, have not and will never pay for love/for loving someone.

@OP

Lying isn't good for your health. This same balderdash has been in circulation even before you bought your first android phone.

@OP

You need to realize that dreams aren't deducible to waking life experiences - visions are, and yours aren't visions. A death dream for instance has much to do with symbolic end to an affair like a relationship, business opportunity etc.

As for the behavioural vices of your wife, if you can't live with someone with such attributes, kindly do the needful. It's obvious and quite unfortunate that you didn't achieve self-realization before contracting the marriage with her. Even at this moment, you're yet to achieve self-realization - connotation of your message says so.

No need for plenty words. An altruistic and conscientious woman is equal to a wife material.

@OP

You can't genuinely love someone without being a source of comfort to her. I wager you don't have genuine love for your household. Kindly change for good, your household deserve the very best in everything.

Religion remains what it's; opium of the masses in particular and object of subjugation in general.

Religious proponents and practitioners are simply being ungrateful to the sole creator of the world over their continual refusal of making proper use of the brains he gave to all human beings.

Balderdash. Aminu Kano died in 1983.

Submission - both in words and actions - will always requires servility to achieve and sustain. And, of course, only small-minded men (people) expect submission from their women (others) - in personal and romantic relationship. Here impunity reigns supreme because the small-minded man would like to eat his cake and have it. He isn't a proponent and practitioner of reciprocation.

Meanwhile, submissiveness - both in words and actions - simply requires trust and loyalty to achieve and sustain. An aristocratic man (person) will always expect submissiveness from his wife (others). And, of course, he knows that honesty, politeness, beneficence, conscientiousness (in fact goodness) is a sign of strength, and that strength from a man begets the loyalty, trust, respect (goodness in totality) his wife will give him. The saying "he who comes into equity must come with clean hands" validate this assertion.

The simple distinction between submission and submissiveness is that while the proponent of the former expects unearned goodness, the proponent of the latter expects earned goodness. Importance of euphemism can never be overemphasized.

The problem always is that the world is almost filled up with small-minded people; proponents and practitioners of "right without responsibility." People who long to be treated as royalties while they behaves like commoners.

Small-mindedness knows no gender or race, however, what's true is that it's more prevalent among Africans in particular and blacks in general.

Only small-minded people see politeness as a sign of weakness. And, of course, only them too are in the habit of abusing any privilege.

To say sorry when you wrong someone (irrespective of the offended person's gender, class or age) is simply a sign of dignity - strength.

However, the deliberate and continual act of hurting someone with an aim to offer sorry in the end and go away with it is a true sign of small-mindedness - perfidious people are good at this.

@OP

I share in your stance of being an absolutist. However, don't forget the importance of diplomacy. Believe you me, your refusal to mediate at this juncture will only mean that you've neither forget their unfairness towards you nor forgiven them. The former is justifiable but the latter isn't.

Forgive them thoroughly. Go ahead to mediate and remember to do so conscientiously. The feelings that usually come from the final result of living life on the offensive side rather than the defensive side is always so pleasurable.

The postulation can only hold true if the person possess grit.

So long as the tenants don't pay house service charge (I don't mean house rent), it should be their responsibility to repair it and its ilk. The written agreement in place should be able to clarify an issue like this.

@OP

Words betrayed you. Lies can never be a good thing, therefore, will save no marriage. However, diplomacy is the ingredient required to garnish things in order to achieve harmony in marriage in particular and any other kind of relationship in general.

The difference between a lie and diplomacy is that while the former is detrimental to the recipient and at the advantage of the propagator, the latter isn't detrimental to the recipient but it surely protects the interest of the propagator.

All lies are detrimental to others but diplomacy isn't.

That's how conscientious people behave, it's nothing to do with the religious faith he professes. Kudos to him.

Someone must have mistaken conceitedness for smartness.

Conceitedness remains God's gift to small-minded people. She's simply a small-minded woman.

Miss ambission!

Good one. However, I hope he'll not turn around tomorrow to mete out ingratitude towards the Mavin empire after he might have tasted some good sides of life. I don't want to hear him contesting any clause in his contract or shout of being exploited by then - he'll surely have small-minded people to lend him voice in particular and support in general to disparage them (Marvin) peradventure it happens.

A wish for contract improvement after personal upgrade and emancipation from dependency is good but contest on any clause of a subsisting contract (when you didn't sign it under duress) is an act of ingratitude. People should understand how not to always bite the fingers that fed them.

Picking someone up from the gutters and brushing him up isn't really an easy task, it requires so much effort financially and much more. A worker deserves his wages. . . Kudos to Marvin. And more grace to both parties.

He's a typical small-minded man. His kind of person and impunity are inseparable - he'll raise hell if he catches his wife cheating on him. Hypocrite.

Go closer to him and you'll find out that he's a submission rather than submissiveness propagator.

America land of opportunities, YES. But land of opportunists, NO. Trump's stance is clear and direct. Only the government is allowed to practice opportunism where and when necessary.