Romance › Re: What Is The Most Petty Reason You Refused To Date Someone? by luminouz(m): 9:40pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
hosey: Yes he is a big fool. Why did he then toast the dark skin girl. After sleeping with her and getting what he want, next thing is to dump her because she is dark.
He has a slavery mentality that dark is evil simping for the white. After that nincompoop hypocrite guy will be abusing ladies therefore for being fake in nairaland. It is men like you and him that cause it so you both should shut up. Lol....I can see you're still in your emotions. Take it to easy bro. HBP is real |
Romance › Re: Ever Since I Started Having Sex With My Neighbour,she Has Become Too Clingy by luminouz(m): 9:36pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: What Is The Most Petty Reason You Refused To Date Someone? by luminouz(m): 9:24pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
hosey: You are a big fool. You are the one allowing our girls to bleach.
Despite that you will steal not marry them. Better change your slavery mentality.
FOOLISH FOOL How is he a fool? Y'all up in your emotions tonight ain't ya? He didn't deceive her or asked her to bleach. He refused to date her because he PREFERRED light skins girls, so what's his crime? Are all light skinned girls bleachers or a man should not have preference again? On this same thread, some girls said they don't like short men, others slim men. Why didn't you attack those ones? The fact is, humans always will have a preference. It's who we are. |
Romance › Re: What Is The Most Petty Reason You Refused To Date Someone? by luminouz(m): 9:21pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
SenecaTheYonger: I wish I could have experienced this with someone. I never knew how rare the sight was. I’ve actually had to browse a lot of x rated site to find all those videos with gaping pussy, that’s how I saw something similar. Damn!!! That vivid huh? The only thing close to what you described was a video that went viral on NL some years ago about a guy who was fuqin a girl doggy style and brought the phone up close to her pussy. He shouted 'see toto' The pussy was damn wide and I could literally see the cervix(round with a hole in the centre). I never had the experience myself. Could it be childbirth or huge dick stuffs that caused such cases? |
Romance › Re: What Is The Most Petty Reason You Refused To Date Someone? by luminouz(m): 9:08pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
SenecaTheYonger: When she bent over in doggy position, I could see her cervix. I felt nothing through out the whole time we spent together.
Ladies please practice Kegel. It cost zero Naira and the benefits are much. Your first paragraph is overkill. No way that is true. |
Romance › Re: Can You Allow Your MAN/WOMAN To Go On A Date With Bestie Like This? (pictures) by luminouz(m): 7:04pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 7:04pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Warrgidanairala: The campaign for redpill(cult) is real.Mr Churchill go and eat shit K |
Romance › Re: Can You Allow Your MAN/WOMAN To Go On A Date With Bestie Like This? (pictures) by luminouz(m): 5:09pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
Besties are the easiest to fuq na... Ask luminouz,he will tell you  |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 3:59pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
TheRealestGuy: You clearly do not understand how an analogy works.
Also, your head is so deep in your ass you think redpill has made you figure out women.
I laugh at your naivete. Forgive me darling!!  Bye Felicia |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 3:48pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
TheRealestGuy: Lol.
Why do people who wanna stop heavy drinking or smoking avoid bars and smoke joints?
Of course it doesn't mean it would make them stop but there is a good reason.
I suppose going by your logic even married people can decide not to live together, cos it really doesn't matter?
Stop all these idealism and whataboutism and get real man.
Cheers. Who is the idealist here now? I just gave you a real life scenario and you dey tell me I should get real. What's more real than what I have said. Whoever will cheat will cheat, long distance or not. That's the real deal nigha. You don't want your fiancée to go to serve far from you because you fear she will fall. To have that fear(that's not precaution) means you have already lost her. You don't think you are good enough,man enough, worthy enough for her to stick with you,despite being in camp or doing NYSC. There are girls who would, that yours let you down didn't mean all other girls WOULD lose their discipline. Witha guy like me, my gf knows that my fear is never if she cheats or not, she knows once I detect any misbehaviour,I simply upgrade to the next beautiful babe on my list. She knows I have options. So if she fuqs up,I won't start crying and wailing, I will simply get another girl. Once a woman knows you fear losing her or such BS, you are telling her you don't have options and that makes you undesirable to her. A woman whose man is desirable by other women is always quick to stay in line,so as not to lose him. I'm telling you real shiit hommie. Tested and trusted stuff. My personal experience. N.B: what dafuq are you on about people who don't want to drink avoid bars and such? How does that tie to relationships stuffs about long distance or NYSC? Are the bars far away or the men fuqin their drinks? You on some weird shiit nigga. |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 12:48pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
TheRealestGuy: If you see taking precaution as fear, then knock yourself out bro.
Precaution is not same as fear.
And it's the same way a woman who wants to keep her man never agrees to long-distance relationships or marriage.
To each his own. Precaution? That's outright fear. Your so called precaution is based on the premise that the closer,the better but you are wrong. Because husbands and wives living together still cheat. So what you on about? |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 12:31pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
TheRealestGuy: Haha.
I find it amusing when y'all keep expecting women to be saints.
They, just like we men, are humans and can slip at any time.
It's so funny how men expect commitment but sleep around without any care in the world.
There is a reason why couples should actually stay together.
Humans are fickle and body no be firewood.
Leave redpill and face reality man. What he actually said is reality. No need to fear losing anyone. And if you can't trust a gf for one year in service,how will you trust her in the eternity of marriage? This is the reality. |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 12:29pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
emmaodet: I will rather allow my gf to go for NYSC than to be scared of losing her. Rule number 1 - Never be scared of losing a woman. If a woman will misbehave because she is far away from you, it is simply because she is a loose woman. Don't try to cage her or slow her progress down just for a selfish reason that doesn't worth it. Good point. Make she even go sef let's see how she go behave na. Whether she cheats or not, I'm on my own game,doing my own thing. Na person wey no get time reason his own matter dey reason women own. If she misbehaves there, why, I get better girls to replace her na. So why worry my head on her camp trysts. |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 12:26pm On Apr 07, 2021 |
SaintAlbert53: she was used to save my life when i almost lost it by God almighty. If only you can imagine how that is, I was partially dead but she didn't give up, she ran helter skelter to get some solutions. After some days, I woke up to see myself in the hospital with her alone crying. She borrowed money to fend for the bills and all, but something just went wrong after sometime. I get your point now. She saved you and you now trusted her completely. Humans can change. Never trust anyone 100% |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:35am On Apr 07, 2021 |
Karleb: O boy! This is saddening!
I don't get why you ladies form abstinence only to masturbate.
I mean, why not just have the sex with your boyfriend and enjoy it rather than seeing your body as the price for the highest bidder?
Not as if you give the sex as often as possible in marriages. She watched porn and masturbated for 4 good years. That meant that at least adekunle did something well. He knew how to please a woman. I was thinking she would abstain from sex for 4 years too but I guess not. I can't imagine doing that for 4 years when I can get a girl. It showed she hurt really badly. Adekunle did wrong. Cutting her off like that was coldblooded as fuq. But it's not an 'only men' thing, just as the thread as shown. Women are even more ruthless. I just pray the masturbation stuff doesn't persist into her marriage. The last thing I wanna experience is coming into my bedroom with a hard dick,only to see my wife using fleshlight. She will go back to her father's house that night biko. N.B; if you know just how many women do masturbate and pretend they don't need men ehn, you go shock. Them plenty that I know personally. Funny thing is,they get guilt feelings afterwards. I come ask them 'shey e no better to kuku fuq a living breathing diick ni, you dey suffer like this na' |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:28am On Apr 07, 2021 |
SaintAlbert53: believe me or not, when you constantly give excuses to the wants of your woman everytime and can't afford to meet up in anyway, my brother another man will help you out. Trust me, no one hates money and women who are most idle tend to fall for this. They want someone to take care of them so they won't be feeling the other way round when they see their mates outside too. Just two questions for you. Are you in this world solely to cater to the needs and wants of a woman you never even married? Are you not deserving of love and attention and money and gifts from these women as well? N.B: you are afraid of losing her because you don't value yourself as the king. No one is saying you should be very stingy to a generous gf. But to a woman who never contributes anything to your life apart from pussy, what's her monetary worth then? |
Romance › Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by luminouz(m): 11:21am On Apr 07, 2021 |
emmaodet: Rather than constantly putting myself on unnecessary pressure to perform and please a woman, i will rather pump and dump them thereby putting them on pressure to secure my commitment. Bro,life is hard enough, don't let us add women's issues to it. Most of my life, have always been in a position to impress others. Always trying to get their attentions, to be in their good book so as to receive praise from them. From our parents, to trying to impress our teachers in school so that they will like us, to our pastors so that they will recognise us, all the way to our boss at work so that we will be in their good book, down to our gfs/wives/women so that they won't leave us or start considering other guys. Enouuuughhh!!!! I am fuuucking tired of trying to impress others. Who will impress me? Or is that a taboo? Am i not human too? Ever since i realized that pattern, have made a reverse, a U-turn. I don't impress my pastor again - he has been giving me cold shoulder lately because other members are falling over to buy him things, raise money to send his family on vacation etc At work, i just do my thing. No more among workers trying their best to be boss boy - worst case scenario - you sack me or not promote me when due. Solution - i mind my business and alternative sources of income. Women - i even enjoy there own more, ever since i stopped trying to impress them, i noticed there is this peace of mind, no more pressure to impress, i just do my thing. I f you like me fine, if not faasii. Even if you like me, na your problem. I just pump and dump. Now all i hear is am arrogant, pompous, feeling to high or big, wetin i get sef, i qm stubborn etc i just don't care anymore. To hell with them all I'm your new pastor. Impress me.  So your old pastor gives attention based on material benefits from members?  ... Nawa ooo I pity the poor people in that your church. They are so on their own. N.B: Loving yourself is the best thing you can do for yourself. Impressing others ain't my kinda thing. I have seen just too much to think another person's opinion will make my life better. It won't,just my opinion is enough. |
Travel › Re: Upclose With Iceland's Volcano Eruption That Has Been Dormant For 6,000 Years by luminouz(m): 11:13am On Apr 07, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:12am On Apr 07, 2021 |
josite: i am mr arinze. are the corpers in issue adults?,i didnt even know u so i could not have intended to hurt you in any way.since my wife has not got to know about my escapades,why dont u give the info to her.if the adult corpers are not complaining ,who are u to complain. Arinze my guy. How far?  Oya link me up with one job in Abuja oh.  |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:09am On Apr 07, 2021 |
CutieMya: He stopped calling me that was in October even when I called but he picked once but later he both didn't communicate since then. This year february he called to apologize that he was sorry for everything that he knows he has offended me not until March his wedding was announced in Church that was how it all ended after three years of waiting....Well, life goes on and I hope for a better life. So how is your relationship life now? You hooked up yet?  |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:05am On Apr 07, 2021 |
SaintAlbert53: pretty right sir. Thank God it happened earlier. She was in the church, a devoted protocol and also a prayer warrior. She never had the chance to explore actually, she was the best girl in the world, she became wild when she left for camp. She actually got what she must have been praying for, to be free and live her life to the fullest. My brother one of the lessons i actually learnt from it is that MONEY rules. If you ain't bouyant financially to settle the enormous wants of your woman, another man will penetrate into her with the so called money. Your last paragraph is so wrong. So you use money to settle a woman's enormous needs?  That's a wrong mindset. Because it shows she is all for the money. What kinda prayer warrior is that? You can never use money to buy a woman's love,just her attention. A woman who can't work for her own money but depends on a man is a leech. She doesn't deserve me 100%. That's why I never use money to start off relationships. I never do it. Shows she was pretending to be good all the while na. Look bro, people don't change that drastically,they just manifest their innermost desires,that's all. |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 10:46am On Apr 07, 2021 |
spiceadole: I was 22. 3rd year in medical school. I had my first boyfriend. He was about 32,a resident doctor in the university teaching hospital.
I thought I had found love... Finally.
He started pressurising me for sex barely a week we started dating. I wasn't ready.. I was a virgin and wanted to maintain myself that way till after wedding.
3 months later, I thought he was for real.. and I gave in.
I grew to love and adore him. Spent my little spare time in his house, cooking and cleaning.
I spent Christmas and New year with him..He drove me to the airport that morning and I travelled home to my parents.
Next thing,he stopped picking my calls,or calling me. He barely responded to my messages.
He gave excuses as being too busy at work. I returned from home and he wouldn't see me .. Continued same way for about 2 weeks.
Then,I visited him unannounced .
He told me he was no longer interested.
He never loved me...He was sorry for everything.
That his friends made him place a bet about sleeping with me since I was too reserved and proving to be too decent,not involved with anybody within university and hospital environs.
He went on to say he was supposed to show them videos of our knackings and my nude pix...but he found out I was indeed decent and didn't do it.
He had somebody he wanted to marry from his tribe(Yoruba).
That broke me!
That I didn't commit suicide was a miracle.
It took me 4 years before I had another relationship , after graduation...and I made sure Sex was never involved.
Instead,I watched porn and masturbated in my closet to relieve sexual tension.
I dated 2 more guys .. Got married to the last one(a colleague too) and we relocated to the UK.
Wherever you are,I hold nothing against you,ADEKUNLE
I am thankful your act shaped me. You people are not called DEMONS for no reasons. I learnt how to close my legs and place value on my body. Will you please stop calling my name upandan?  |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 10:42am On Apr 07, 2021 |
SaintAlbert53: Lol yea exactly. Bro, let me tell you something, when this all happened i was in my finals in school, she was already a graduate two years ahead of me. She just couldn't wait for me to finish, serve and then get a better job to start a better family. She wanted the best for herself, you know all those plans when preparing to go to camp thingy. She played her role the best way to her, she isn't regretting letting me go bro. No one wants to associate with a destitute, but soon i am very much sure she'd regret it in no time. I can never in my life hurt her or pay her back in return lolz. Alaye,e don do na All these lovey dovey stories don Taya us na...u can't hurt her, but she hurt you. You still love her but she doesn't love you. She broke your heart and now you break innocent girls' hearts. You are chasing a shadow that has long passed. And you are still acting like she is the best meal after sliced bread. Wake that fuq up hommie. That girl doesn't love you. If she does, her age, status or anxiety to get married won't just make her leave you 2 weeks into NYSC camp. Can't you get it? She already made up her mind to leave you. I always wonder why men say'she says I'm the only and one and she will die if I leave her' bullcrap. What else will she say to convince you na? Ogun or Thunder will faya you or I hate you? They tell you what you wanna hear to calm you down. A woman's words are severely vetted before belief and even at that,it's their actions that you need to focus on,not their words. Stop hurting innocent girls' whose only sin was loving you because your ex hurt you na. Where is the sense in that? I'd rather hurt that little cheat but hey she is so peeeerrrrrfeccctoooo that you can't even take revenge abi? Better realise that with women, you are either Mr Alpha or Uncle Redpill or you are just the MEAL. Damn!!! I'm tired of talking. I just can't save everyone. |
Romance › Re: Coping With Office Romance Aka (coprommy) by luminouz(m): 10:26am On Apr 07, 2021 |
Tatashi: Office romance landed me into a sham marriage. Met this rivers golddigger during my nysc and we got married. Little did i know he was only out for money and himself. Im happy we are over and out I can.now see why you are alway so bitter and yelling at me all the time. Pele Mai dear. |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 9:11am On Apr 07, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar: Like I asked you to yakk me ( whatever that means) K |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 9:08am On Apr 07, 2021 |
irijuola: Good morning. Please I saw you on a nairaland thread about domiciliary account. I'm about opening one with GTB and I need a reference. Please kindly help. I'm really in dire need of it. I'm ready to supply any information to prove myself. Thanks. Morning. I later didn't open miss/Mr. I simply used a friend overseas for the transaction. Sorry that I won't be able to help. I wish you luck in your endeavours. |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 9:06am On Apr 07, 2021 |
Jaqenhghar: You really need to grow up. People dissapoint people all the time ( men and women) but you still have to interact with them if you want to succeed in life . Choosing to become a nuisance or allowing your experiences make you a bitter person doesnt make you exactly smart. *Sighs* Wasted my time yakking you. Do have a nice day. |
Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 12:05am On Apr 07, 2021 |
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Romance › Re: What's The Coldest Way You Found Out Your Relationship Was Over? by luminouz(m): 11:46pm On Apr 06, 2021 |
Leetika: Met this girl in Abuja whilst serving. She was serving too..well she claimed she was a virgin and we should not do anything sexual.. I agreed . I would ask her to kiss me at least , she wouldn’t . She just didn’t wanna do anything sexual. But she is so quick to ask for money . Like I turned to her father. Money for hair , money for pad , money for data money for everything walahi..minus other embarrassing thing I did for love. I sha noticed that there’s no way this girl loves me. She is just in it to drain me. . She even asked me for iPhone 12 me that just finished serving. Struggling to get on my feet. We fought on this request. She told me to touch my savings so I can buy her the phone.. I said she should chill so I get money from another source as I can’t touch my savings .
Everyone told me this girl was using me sha but I still stayed. Anyways 2weeks ago she was in my house and one way or the other I found out she was sleeping with one of her bosses where she was working as a corper. I wish I can mention the name of the company cos the foolish married man is here on Nairaland also .
This evil soul told me she was going for a work trip to Enugu last December , said it was her job people taking her there and it’s by flight. And I should send her money to buy stuffs. I did but I wasn’t comfortable With it. I did not know they went to knack my girl in Enugu.. and I went to pick her back from the airport after dem don knack her.. the so called virgin wasn’t a virgin after all . I broke up . I put it to her that she cheated but this girl swore with her life that she didn’t for some reasons I could not show her my evidence.
Mr Arinze... I got nothing against u .. but u got a habit of chasing corpers posted in your office. How your wife doesn’t know u re cheating on her baffles me. I don let the girl go . Chop her. Na small thing make me change my mind do wetin my guys wan do u and that girl together. The. U know the debt is paid You already told the world his name na abi no be Arinze?  No wonder the geh duped you. Why on earth would you blame Arinze and not your own gf? You scared or just that plain simping? You are very slow. If Arinze no fuq am,even me luminouz go fuq am, cuz you are just too slow. You attacked the man and left your own gf as if the man forced or raped her! You forget that the agreement lies on the woman to say yes or no. She already started cheating on you when she saw you are slow. How can you not know the 'i'm a virgin format' is as old as hell. No real nigha will give any woman so much without vetting her first. Even people told you but still you no listen,come dey blame Arinze. That old fuq cheated on his wife, yes but never forced your babe or raped her. Come to the redpill. That's the only thing that would save you. Check the romance thread and you will see the redpill thread. If you don't take this pill, your next gf will have luminouz name on her lips and give you heart attack |