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Zxcvbnmghtr:
Sincerely, this woman is a symbol of STRENGTH. Many wouldn't have been able to move on with their lives since that episode lots would have committed sucide. May God continue to bless her and us and forgive us all.

Modified: Tiwa Savage is the one on my mind. Got carried away. luminouz

Lol...ok

jaxxy:
dude ure back. always on the other side of the argument and calling names ..Lolz

Lmaooo...I love you bro....happy holidays!!!

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Sincerely, this woman is a symbol of STRENGTH. Many wouldn't have been able to move on with their lives since that episode lots would have committed sucide. May God continue to bless her and us and forgive us all.

Forgive you and who? Are you this classless?

Take ya black ass and get dafuq jor!!!

adieora:
The answer is no, however you won't be getting PR in the next 5 to 7years because she is on a student visa. She has to get a work/care visa to be eligible for PR which takes about 5 years to get. If you are concerned, you should aim to get a care worker or a skilled worker visa,that way you are independent of her visa.

You sound like you are in the UK....

And what da hell is own your profile? Gross!!!

jaxxy:
Serving breakfast isn't a big deal and anybody can serve it including u but it is ridiculous to eat breakfast b4 it's even cooked talkless of served.

Any small thing u start to think of walking because u don't know how to resolve the issue. the next marriage u may run out. Lol

Doesn't all marriages have issues bt it's how they handle it.

Jaxxy go and sit ya black ass down ..simp

Oluwomonext212:
Make peace with her and make ur marriage work like before. At the same time, brace up as a man and prepare ur mind for the worst. But in all, if she decide to give u a red card today u won’t be asked to leave the UK immediately except u committed an heinous crime. You would only be asked to switch ur visa within 3 months or go home. So if you wish you can from now start looking for a job with sponsorship to at least be on a safer side.

Y'all still not reading right

Which one is make peace with her? Was he fighting with her? You lots still don't get it...once a woman wants you gone, nothing you do pacifies her!!! You are a goner. I prefer his approach. Build in secret and shock your shocker when the time comes

Thastie:
I like how you ended this. Everyone just wants to make it seem like women are always the problem every time. The patriarchy system in Nigeria has cuddled men so much so that when they move to another climate they start thinking the world is against their gender. We all are humans and there’s something called human rights even though it’s not practiced in Nigeria.
When I wanted to bring my husband to UK, I was very concerned as well. I had to have many conversations with him. But he is here and it’s still not that easy as well.

I hope OP and his wife will be able to navigate their issue. I like the advice of that visa thing

You don't love that husband biko. You had to have conversations with the man you married for naija...for what? You married an abusive man or what? Unless you married him from the UK and una never date for naija.

I thank my stars for the redpill. A nurse who got sponsored visa moved heaven and hell to marry me and kept dangling 'i will take you to the UK' before me. I refused and told her NO. She is rude, classless and lousy. Someone who abused her own mother in front of me won't change when she gets to the UK. And I am no woman's bîtch. She is still single as we speak and I am onto better things.

The point is, if you can't be submissive to your husband even while in the UK and expect him to do what's right by you, that marriage has failed already. Why is it that a woman starts earning money and she feels 'Oh! I have arrived and don't need a man'!!!

Mike008:
JAPA can be a double-edged sword. Do not allow the reason for Japa destroy your marriage.
You sound as though, Japa is more important than your marriage, so you should be on a mission to save your marriage not save your Japa.
Those who are advising you to create a backup plan, have you imagined the consequences of what will happen if your wife discovers your motive?
It's good to have an alternative plan, but carry your wife along and make her part of the plan.
Try as much as possible to save your marriage first.

P.S.
You don't need Japa to have a happy marriage.

SIMPDERMORT!!!

10thTenthMan:
The thing is most men do not know.

And when I say so, I am not exaggerating. Many of us do not know what our women will do once they have financial power and autonomy. A place where they are far away from societal and cultural demands, controls and expectations. A place where divorce isn’t frowned at and in fact the woman stands to gain from the separation.

No MAN CAN COME HERE OR SHOULD COME HERE TO VOUCH FOR HIS WIFE OR SPOUSE OR GIRLFRIEND.

E GO SHOCK YOU!!!

That women you think you know in Nigeria IS NOT THE SAME PERSON Abroad. Na two different people. It has nothing to do with Church, religion, denomination, tribe or ethnic group. We don see separation within all forms from Catholic, Deeper Life, Jehovah’s Witnesses, Hausa, Yoruba, Ijaw, Igbo etc.

IT IS A RISK THAT ALL MEN MUST PLAN FOR, ACCEPT AND KNOW PROPER MITIGATION MEASURES TO TAKE.

My advice. Factor this possibility of your spouse (husband or wife) misbehaving when you sponsor them or both of you support yourselves to go abroad.

The one wey I hear recently, Husband ask wife “Are you Mad” for not answering her calls for almost 6 hours and the kids were stranded outside the house in winter.She was no where to be reached. The man was afraid that neighbors might call child protective service people which will lead to questions and issues.

When she eventually picked and he told her the situation she did not bother to hurry. She said she is in Walmart. He informed her that Walmart has free Wi-Fi and he has been calling her on WhatsApp for over 6 hours and she didn’t pick. He informed her that the kids are stranded and neighbors are seeing them outside.
When he called her back like 30 minutes latter she was still claiming she is at Walmart and had not made any efforts to go home to the kids. He scolded her and asked if she is mad to not have immediately gone home to open the door for the kids.

The “Are you Mad” don cause quarrel wey people Dey pray Dey watch and hope say the woman get her sense back.

Lmaooo ..Walmart for 6 hours!!!

Mama don go collect better prick!!!

mariahAngel:
Compliments of the season to you too. 😝

😉

ednut1:
Delulu. Most of the recent invents and advancement still come from the white man. Covid vaccine for instance na white countries first crack am. The chinese are good at copying but not innovating. As regards their population decline they can solve that one easily by creating artificial wombs in future and clone as many as they want hahaha

I disagree. Delululaa!!!

Clarendon:
Many people jump on the thread, screaming “your love will go sour soon”, “how are you sure she feels the same way about you?”.

These people - sadly - do not understand the meaning of love. I do not love her because she loves me. I do not love her because I want her to love me back. This is not a game of reciprocity. Newton’s third law, though impressive, does not apply here. “Action and reaction are equal and opposite eh?” That ends in the physics class - or could be extended to the math class, or whatever other class. However, In the “love class”, the rules are a lot different. The rules are fluid.

I love her because I love her - it is that simple! If she reciprocates, that’s a plus. If she doesn’t, that’s my cross.

*Sighs*

Clarendon, will you kindly shût dafuq up?

Geovanni412:
Bros, you no try and i'll tell you why

Never tolerate what you don't like

The first time she slapped you, you should've ended the relationship there and then.

All these big problems and disrespect you are seeing started because you didn't kill it when it was small.

When she started acting up while you were
greeting other people, that was your exit point right there.

Sha, at this stage, the deed is done.

Treat her wounds and dump her asap. Na like this all these women wey dey cut their husband prick dey start.

A stitch in time saves nine

He should treat her wounds? Lmaooo..una simps dey taya me

iamsense:
I didn't read through because there is no excuse to lay hands on a woman when you can just end the relationship but the sex you are enjoying will not let you... now you have turned to a beast. I only pity the innocent woman that will marry you and suffer from your actions today.

I speak from experience; I have once date a girl who told me to beat her once in a while.... after just one deliberate attempt from her to make me do so..... I jejely run and never looked back without laying hand on her because I understand that if I do it once it becomes an habit future girlfriend and wife will suffer from.

She is psychologically fūcked. It's either due to her seeing her father beat her mum or her ex broke her like that as a stockholm syndrome victim. Women like that can be
rewired but it takes too much time and energy and frankly you are better off without them.

kooyanbliss:
Thanks for your supportive word. All the same i wasn’t proud that i did that. What pained me the most is that this girl had scattered my room before i came back in. She broke my TV, my fan, took away my cartier wristwatch, took 3 of my shirts, my iphone charger, power bank, Scratched my Refrigerator with a sharp object and also with some other few gadgets in the house. Na me really lose but life goes on….

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣.

Now this is really funny

Bradford111:
That doesn’t make you a woman beater because you did the right thing else she would continue abusing you on the guise that you are a man and she is a woman(weaker gender)….. So anyone calling you a woman beater is a crasy… no gender has monopoly of violence because someone is a female doesn’t give you the right to go slapping people without expecting retaliation



Nice one 👌

Why do you entertain that dude? He is a clown.

kooyanbliss:
Bro i was helpless i tried my
possible best to leave the scene when the second slap came in but she wont stop locking my cloth not to leave and hitting me hard on my chest, stomach and some other vital part of my body. I tried to be the most gentleman by not raising my hands on her but she brought out the monster in me by continuously hitting me. If i am a man it doesn’t mean my woman should be hitting me all the time. If i hadn’t done that i might have gotten seriously wounded by now coz she wouldn’t stop hitting me.

Lol...you are a clown.... SIMPDERMORT!!!

Silentgroper:
it's already stated in his post ...

💦💦💦💦

Yeah....all that sacrifice for a slice of pussy

kooyanbliss:
Good day to you everyone I wont be bias with what i want to say coz i don’t need no validation i just want to air out my plight…My Girlfriend of 4months has always been nice to me ever since i went broke a month into when we started dating. When she started helping me she didn’t count it as anything and still respected me as her boyfriend which i do give back to her anytime i see small change for aza too coz i appreciate her effort a lot on me and her eagerness to see me succeed…..My Girlfriend started behaving anyhow to me when it got to a point due to my broke life which i understand that most women won’t stay with a broke/managing guy but i was putting all my effort to make changes. The last time my girl came to visit she started raising her standard between us. she would talk to other guys on the phone beside me and some would even send her money which i totally have no issue with but once she sees me chatting a female friend or see a female friend’s picture on my phone she accuses me of cheating and all and she does that rigorously/vulgarly . As if thats not enough she doesn’t want to see me greet any of my neighbors male or female to the extent that she nagged at me and slapped me two nights before the day i beat her over an argument that why would i be greeting so so so person beside her bla bla bla. I used to tell my girl not to frustrate me to the point of me thinking of raising my hands on her that anytime a lady angers me to the core i just like to go out of that house to calm myself down. thats my nature but it seems this girl just wanted to dare me. Two days after, We had another issues that led to an argument again which she went out of the house and i did the same
some minutes after just to go grab some local drinks at a local liquor shop. About an 30mins later she started calling me to ask for my whereabouts which i told her not to bother about me coz my head dey hot due to wetin she dey follow me drag before we both left the house. As i came back in i didn’t want to pour out my anger by saying any harsh word to her i just went straight to the bathroom to take my shower but this girl wont let me be she kept stalking me and i was avoiding her she kept on doing the same all in the name of settling things with her but i was really angered i just needed some lone time because the anger kept aggravating so i took my cloth and decided to leave the apartment again to the balcony this time around but this devilish girl wont let me. there comes another dirty slap again on my face (2nd time slapping me within three days) telling me i am very stupid for wanting to leave the room for her. i was seeing stars but i still endured again and continue struggling to leave her so i can go outside rather than raising my hands on her but this girl wont leave me na my cloth she dey drag and also hitting me hard multiple times on the chest which i still have the mark till now. I kept on begging this girl not to push me to a point where i would do what i don’t want to do but it seems she was bewitched already that time that she won’t stop hitting me hard all over my body and holding my clothes not to leave. I had no choice than to give her what she wanted coz i was really provoked. I didn’t want to do this, she pushed me and i’m regretting now!

SIMP.

someone you should have corrected the first time she raised hands on you.

I don't believe this story sha

Scarrr:
Ori e buru

Lmaoooo...on Xmas day? E pain you niyen o...

Come lemme give you two chicken wings....don't be shy

Sharatan:
Shey na based on breakfast?😁
Plane fit crash no mean say we no go dey enter flight bro…
In as much as these girls can be deceitful, we still need them to keep body and soul in harmony.
You gerrit?

Yes I gerrit buy why spend so much on top pucci...

Scarrr:
Ode ni boy lipopotamus yen😂

Your own lips nko... Liposuction ni e

Sharatan:
True love, kindness, compassion and understanding.
I can take care of us both so I don’t even need her to gift me anything.

Mtchewwww.... You go soon learn!

Sharatan:
I got her braces last week and a pair of Nikes yesterday. I haven’t shown her the kicks yet
I’m still going to give her the best give ever 🍆💦 tonight being Christmas night

Then watch her flood like a 🌊

😈

And what did she give you?

mariahAngel:
Do you think your emotional blackmail is fair to those who have to eat?
What do you gain by making people feel for what they have?

I haven't eaten since morning and y'all posting these?
God will judge you Mariah carey!!!

bibianna:
Yes o.

Merry Christmas to all the sweethearts!

What's doing this one?

Where the rice jare? Who merry Xmas help?

Show me the rice!!!

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
Try dey do simple google searches.

You dey mind that OLODO ni?

Imagine asking of the meaning of 'hang'

aremubabs:
What do you mean by one more fight?




Except you mean one fight against Andy Ruiz, I don't see Joshua being ready to take on any of Fury or Usyk.





AJ beat Otto Wallin because he was already familiar with Wallin. He had beaten him twice as an amateur and they have sparred too, as professionals.





Put AJ back in front of Andy Ruiz and you will see the scared AJ again.





AJ needs to conquer his fear by fighting Andy Ruiz again. Fighting Wilder will not help him because Wilder is as good as finished. Wilder has never been a boxer, and now he is 38 years old.





Before AJ can be ready to reclaim his belts, he needs to face Ruiz.





And I tell you, right now, Ruiz will demolish AJ.

He already beat Ruiz in a rematch na. Why must he fight Ruiz again?

Aremubabs ..wetin you dey yarn na!

finallybusy:
Congratulations to Joshua. I already wrote him off as a hack. It’s good to see he’s a legitimate boxer. Wilder’s loss is, well, surprising. When a power puncher meets a granite chin, it’ll be a long night in the office. A third loss in his record, nothing to fear. Boxing in entirety takes athletes serious after their first loss. Ali had many, yet is considered as one of the greatest to ever grace the sport.

You wrote him off... Why writing him back on now?

Funny thing is most of you guys always follow the bandwagon and when something new happens, you always find a way to justify yourself. AJ doesn't need your opinion. So Can it!

ednut1:
what will you gain supporting AJ. Is he paying you Usyk has been him twice already, life must not always be about sentiments. Some of us prefer reality. By the way AJ is British

Egbon...no disgrace yourself the more na.... Shuuu!

Boxing is like football, you can't predict outright winners!!! Usyk can be beaten. Fury can be beaten. Anyone can be beaten. Parker was beaten by Joshua and now Wilder was beaten by Parker... Life is like that

Chariett:
Broke girls left the group

Dem no even dey before sef