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Riele:
Love
Companionship
Attention
Loyalty
Domestic help

Money :- believe it or not , ladies also offer money .

Financial assistance too ;- let's be honest , most ladies offer financial help to their broke bfs .

Cc: Denreledave

Fake love, fake companionship, fake attention, fake loyalty, fake domestic help.
Ladies only show all these fake love as long as the guy has money and resources to part with.

What else can a lady offer apart from pvssy pvssy is the only thing they can contribute, and they even derive more pleasure from se.x than men, so it’s a win win for them all the way.

pansophist:
My email is on my profile. Write me there, or drop yours and I'll write you. I'll be in nigeria (Lagos) in few weeks time, and surely, we can grab a beer.

Thanks for your appreciation.

I’ve sent you a mail.

Arsenate:
Pansophist is so so intelligent so much so that the ladies on here who pretend to be intelligent don't even bother quoting him
They literally do not stand a chance so they act like they do not see his comments.

I'm a huge fan of his.

I’m also a fan of pansophist, he has a way of articulating words beyond ordinary. He’s actually the only person I’m following on nairaland, I love to read his intelligence laden comments. I hope to meet him physically someday though, it will be great to rub minds with him.

YorubaPrince:
The ALUU 4 comes to mind... The level of savagery in the SE Nigeria is just way too much and out of hands. These people lack civilization, societal values, norms and morals. I'm very, very serious and real!

You wonder why I regard and tag these Okoro pple as Savages and uncivilized.
You wonder why they all run away from that jungle to a more civilized SW.
You wonder why majority of them would never to go back to that jungle (ONLY on very important occasions) and rather live among Yorubas.
You wonder why even their richest folks settle down in the SW where there's civilization and humane treatment.

These sort of behaviors just got to stop for real! It's too rampant among these folks, for real... no bants!

Easy

ornicus:
It is illegal for a person without an Nysc certificate to be employed in Nigeria. You claim to be in IT and you are ignorant like this?

You are the ignorant one here, It is not illegal.

Wow this story is indeed motivating. You can still give relationship a chance, but show less love, because a lady will only love you as long as you have money and resources to provide for her. You need a woman to give you children so you can’t totally rule out relationship. I’m inspired to continue my coding journey and become a pro too. We’ll surely get there.

yinkaOdutuyo:
I sent my girl to UNI with all my money -What do you think can happened later?
Or if you have any experience; kindly share.
My name is Adeyinka Odutuyo Jacobs

She’s gone with the guys already
Waste of investment

Your friend(you) has been DICKmatized

Riele:
You're frustrated .

I ask a general question about men and you had to drag this down to NIGERIAN WOMEN ,even went as far as insulting your mother .

At the end of it all , you didn't answer the question .

It goes to show that you are just a self entitled attention seeking prostitut.e with a lose mouth and borehole pvssy like your mama. Stupid girl without home training.

Because men usually love genuinely unlike women who love as far as the juice is still flowing but show their true colors when the cash dries up. A woman’s love is conditional therefore it’s easy for them to become cold hearted in relationships when the main thing that attracted them to the man is no longer present.
Men will always be the victim as long as they keep loving like mugu

izospindle:
So I was one of them guys on nairaland that could be categories as nice guys.....who insult women and say all de want is money(although I never bash ladies online, just when am with my guys) I bought things for girls and never asked for any thing in return. after I read books from this author(john Alexander and Carlos xuma) I started having better luck with women. the problem now is thatthere is this girl that really chop me in my days of ignorance. I did things for her that am ashamed to say.. Now that I know, the truth is i don't think I love her or any one at that but I really want to down her. I broke all the rules with her and am in d mugu/friend zone for her side. I have used the rules I have used on other ladies I met after my Reformation that worked but seem not to work on her. When I think it is working she start asking for money again. Although I don't give her I just post her or lie to her. Niggas in the house I know you guys have done much advicing already, HERE IS MY QUESTION, is she a lost course ? I really want to eat my share. Is like she really into a broke guy. Should I move on? Will chasing make me a betamale/nice guy all over again? I need answers....FYI....I have life and building a career so don't tell me to go get a job or work hard to make money that is so beta

What’s the title of the book?

Itooweak4una:
Good evening nairalander, my gf broke up with me and used that line on me. I have been confused since then. I asked her what she meant by that she said she sees me as a friend and nothing more. We dated for three years. To make matters worse we are staying together and i love her sincerely. For now we don't have any options than to stay together until i (she) can be able to afford another apartment. I don't want to beg her back. I just want to know how i can survive staying with her and healing from the heartbreak. Thanks

Send her packing immediately, she can’t break up with you and you’re still providing her shelter. Why do guys take shi.t sometimes?!

Be not deceived, women only want the ready made men or a man that they feel his financial breakthrough is around the corner. No woman will stay with you if they don’t see the potential in you that you will be financially okay in the nearest future. They are hypergamous in nature and only wait for men who will win or have won, “the winners”.

Men needs to realize that love is a losing game. The one who loves less in a relationship is usually in control and the one who loves more is at the mercy of the other partner.

Some women are cold hearted and brutal, they will break a man’s heart into pieces without any remorse or pity. Men should stop loving with all their heart to avoid getting high blood pressure or becoming suicidal when the relationship hits the rock.

donaldtruman:
I am a 31 year old guy.

I met this babe,now 25 in 2017 while she was in her final year in the University.

We started going out and I developed so much love for her.

Though I observed that she was the kind of babe who loves material things d very month we met but felt that all women love good things and comfort and nothing wrong in taking care of my woman.

Three weeks after we met,she demanded for an iPhone and I bought a brand new iPhone 6+ for her @ #180k then.

Two weeks later,she demanded for #70k to celebrate her birthday.

That she needed it for photoshoot and sit out with her friends which I gave her.

Subsequently I had spent so much on various demands ranging from school expenses, dressing, grooming and others,running into hundreds of thousands at different times.

Obviously, she is someone who loves social media so much and loves to flaunt her beauty and style as she is no doubt very pretty.

There is no day she does not take pictures to upload on facebook,Instagram and her WhatsApp status.Competing in social media stunts with her friends and others.

She is also very used to eating outside as she did not think of going to d market to say she wanted to cook for herself,let alone me.

She was always eating at fast food restaurants and I spent about 20-25k weekly on patronising fast food for her.

Sometimes,she even asked me to buy for her friends and siblings.

I also gave her 15k every weekend to make her hair and nails and #50k monthly as pocket money.

At d end of last year,she demanded for an iphone x which I bought for her at d rate of #380k.

Despite all these,I was still tolerating her until she graduated and wanted to go for NYSC.She insisted on serving in Abuja and requested that I worked her posting with #100k which I gave her and another #200k to get all her materials for camping and pocket money.

When she left camp,she insisted that she didn't want to share room with anybody, that I shld rent a self contain for her @ #700k which I did by withdrawing part of my long term savings to do and another #400k to furnish d house.

Since she resumed in her primary place of assignment she uses Taxify @ #2k daily and instead of cooking,she orders food online to be delivered to her at home.Most times,#1,500 per meal,which is at least a minimum of #3k daily.

I was giving her #70k monthly as feeding & transport but b'cos she eats out,had to demand for more pocket money and I increased it to #100k monthly which excludeds now #20k for her hair and nails weekly.

She also sends her clothes to d dry cleaners as she does not wash her clothes herself.

In the last 6 months she has demanded for a total of #120k in total to buy clothes and I send data of about 4gb to her weekly which she exhaust in no time b'cos she spends most part of her life on social media.

Always talking about d babes who drive Benz in Abuja,how they dress and how she wants to be famous on d social media.She even talks about her friends who sleep with politicians and earn #200k and above.

I just bought human hair of #40k for her last month.

Hmmm

I was already getting tired when she told me on my visit to Abuja two days ago that she wants an iPhone xs max.That she is tired of using her iPhone x that I just bought for her November last year.

She said two of her friends just bought their at #410k

That was her welcome demand from me.

Right now,am so exhausted with her and still love her so much which makes me feel that is d reason she is taking advantage of my love and generosity.

And why I ve been sacrificing all I can to satisfy her needs is b'cos I don't want her to lack anything or go get them from another man outside but it seems she can never be satisfied regardless of what I do.

Moreover,since I arrived Abuja she has refused to pick some calls in my presence and d excuse she gives me is that she does not want anybody to disturb her.That d calls are from her female friends but no names,just d numbers appear.

I spend bulk of all my earnings as a consultant with a construction firm on her and even tampering with my fixed deposits I ve been rolling over in d last five years just for her,to make her happy.

I now feel she is just with me for the benefits.

This is a girl I ve made up my mind that I want to marry b'cos I love her so so much but am beginning to ve a second thought,while I don't want to loose her to another man b'cos I ve sacrificed a lot of my time,emotions and finances on her.

I am still here in Abuja but so unhappy. No peace at all.

I am just tired,confused and need ur advice pls.

Is this for real?!
I can’t believe what I just read! If it’s true, you’re the biggest maga of 2019! She will keep demanding till you can no longer give her what she wants and then she will dump you like hot coal.
I hope you spend on your parents and siblings like this o, if not God will not be happy with you o.

Two weeks break to go and collect kondo from the guy
She’s gone already bro

Dump her and never call again

pansophist:
Being conscious of the environment I thrive in and autodidactism.

Just want to ask... are you based in US or Canada?

swaggzo:
Forget about her. That's the part. It's a Lil difficult for me. I've had many of them but there's none like this person. She has shown limited interest in us.

For me I'm available to make things work. For her she's willing to forget about everything.
She's willing to stick around and see if it'll all come back, even though she says she currently feels nothing. She's like on and off.
When I'm off she calls and texts and comes to me, while saying she feels nothing and would like that there's no us.
She'll be coming to spend the night today. I feel I'm a tennis ball hit here and there. I wish to keep her. She's undecided, and I don't know what to do.

She knows you can’t do without her that’s why she’s toying with your heart.
I also want to ask, have you guys had sex before?

swaggzo:
Elder0001, Martinez39, tintingz, seun
Jeff1607, lordreed, just4fun, rottennaija, banjicom, Michellekabod2, Joseph1013,
Tillaman, JONNYSPUTE, 1Sharon, astrog

After this thread was made she came around again and it felt like everything was on it's way to be alright, in the last 4 days.

However, yesterday, she has gone back to the old things again, trying to say it won't work and we can't be and stuff. Her excuses are the old things from months back which are even insignificant. She says she's scared and "there's no love for me in her".

There's no love for me but you started to text and call last Sunday.. After I had moved on pretty well, and we've hung out pretty much since then.
What is wrong with this person? I'm in a maze right here.

Then right now, I get a good morning text from her. I'm a soccer game now.

She’s just playing with your mind by coming back, she doesn’t love you at all, that’s it. She is surprised that you finally have the balls not to beg her again and it’s hurting her ego, so she came back so that you can massage her ego once again with another round of begging and profession of your love for her.
You just made another mistake man, when she came back, you should have sent her away immediately and bullshit her for the way she treated you like her slave.

pansophist:
Some years ago, the romance section of nairaland was littered with misandrist forming woke and enlightened, regurgitating feministic psychobabbles, and there were few red pill apostles to counter them. Meanwhile, lots of the apostles were underdogs breeding themselves into metamorphosis. Right now, the romance section has been fummigated and their points debunked.

Ubunja was the spearhead that turned things around hence, the constant glorification by the mention of his name.

I remember that period, there was a nigga named sexkillz, woman wrapper in chief.

swaggzo:
Broke up with me one time. Reason was I slept off without her

The last break up.. She told a lie. Refused to tell the truth. I said the truth I knew was right. She started laughing.
I left her presence to my house in the calmest manner you can ever imagine.

No apologies from her. Only for me to call a million times before finding out that she's broken up with me over so many allegations that has never existed. This is what really happened. It's confusing till this moment.

The last begging was last night in the street. I made sure I entertained onlookers for close to 2 hours with tears and catarrh. I'm not kidding

I'm a very funny fool.

you went too far bro... why?! On top woman matter?!

Nesso:
Men don dey hear am from women since. Red pillers have taken it upon themselves to turn the tables before breaking it las las

We must break the table las las o

Martinez39:
Well spoken. Don't mind him. Just like a weak child, swaggzo wants sweet illusions instead of reality. Whether you like it or not, no woman can love you except what you can provide and how you make her feel (the is very secondary as what you can provide is her top priority). To a woman, a man is always a utility. Once that utility cannot perform it's duties anymore (provide), it is no longer welcomed or loved. A woman will always end up with the highest bidder she can lay her hands on. I say this not because a woman hurt me or because I learnt the hard way but because this is the reality of things and I accept reality whether it turns out to be what I like or not. In fact, I have never had a girlfriend in my life or spent money on a girl since I consider romantic relationships to be overhyped and a pure waste of time and resources.

All women are like that. Even the one that you think is good, churchy, and descent is like that. Just like true friendship, romantic love doesn't exist instead it exists only in the heads of men. Women are brutal survivalists and no matter how much you sacrificed for her, she will dump you cold without remorse when you can't provide and she has found someone else that can. Even if you donated a kidney or lost an arm to save her life in the past, you get the same thing. If she is married to you with children, have lost her sexual market value, and can't find a higher bidder, you get to face her disrespect, loathing, irritability (she gets upset and mad at you at any little thing) and nagging. It's worse when she making massive money and you are broke.

For many men, they will never learn early and in the easy way. They will wait until they learn the hard way after investing so much and close to drinking sniper. Good day.

Omar09, healthserve, CAPSLOCKED, Ubunja, astroG

Martinez is bursting my brain with hard facts! Iove you bro, no homo

IHate9jerianss:
@swaggzo
In all my days and all my experiences in life, no woman will ever love you except for her personal interest.No woman born in this world is worth it.The only woman that truly loves you without personal interest is your mother besides that it’s all about personal interest.If men understand that, they wouldn’t be killing themselves over woman and just live with it so don’t expect anything short of that from a woman
By a nlander

You are right brother, only a mother deserves all the care and love a man has to give.

Martinez39:
You don't want me to tell you about red pills? Now listen very well. If you had taken the red pill to know that as far as relationship is concerned, no girl is special, irreplaceable, indispensable, and the best thing to happen since slice bread, you would probably not have opened this thread. It's foolishness and degrading for a man like you to follow women to label Ubunja, myself, and others as women bashers when you clearly haven't taken time to read our messages. Isn't it stupid to cast judgement on things you know nothing of?

The fact that no woman, no matter how beautiful or educated, as far as relationship is concerned, is special, irreplaceable, indispensable, or the best thing to happen since slice bread is a common sense that weak and foolish men are yet to grab. Women are nothing special and they are just another human. There is no law in the universe that doesn't apply to them. Never, I repeat never, beg your fellow homo sapiens (especially one that you are providing for and hence needs you more than you need her), who isn't interested, to be in your life and love you. Get some sense of self respect. If a woman says she is not interested, let her go and don't beg her to stay. In fact, close the door on her for good and let her be the one to beg if she wants to come back.

Only foolish men put women on a pedestal. I know you will discard my advice like many since you love your sweet illusions of romantic love instead of reality. If you are crying, weeping, creating a scene, and rolling on the floor to beg your fellow human being to love you, you are a big fool and a disgrace to manhood. Mtewwww.



Omar09, healthserve, astroG, Ubunja, CAPSLOCKED

Martinez you’re great.

Gaggi:
This place smells of estrogen, can someone give me a spray? Everyone experiences heartache at one time or the other but as a man, a lot is expected from you in terms of how you handle it. What's all this talk of crying and begging? My ex called me to break up a relationship. I was really hurt but I refused to show it. Never called her again, she was the one who kept calling later to check on me, and even when she claims she misses me, I just tell her thanks, I don't ever say, I miss her too even though I did. She still calls till date after many years and both parties have since married.
Men should learn to control emotions if you want to be taken seriously. Women will prey on your weakness if you ever let them see it. Go and hang out with your guys, let them tease you and make fun of your situation, it helps. Stop crying like a woman and put yourself together. Time heals all wounds no matter how deep. I don't frown at you grieving but the way you are handling it is messed up. Grow some balls son.

You nailed it sir

lonelydora:
Ohhhhh, Igbo man again?

The way naija image is being destroyed daily ehn... na wa

drips8:
Igbo kwenu

He’s developing Cambodia

lexdino:
I work Monday to Fridays (and some Saturdays) too and it's 4 months now since I became single again but I have successfully placed 6 girls on rotation at the moment, calling each one of them just once per week. Some weeks, all 6 flakes, other weeks I get sex from 2-4 among them. Among these 6, I only had to approach 1 when I got the right opportunity. The other 5 were girls I met through social network. Two of the girls journey from a very far distance when coming to my house and one of them doesn't complain about t-fare but the other is always demanding for t-fare and even went as far as snatching my wallet (jokingly) one time to confirm if I really don't have money because I always complain about not having money each time she demands for t-fare.
The funny thing is that 2 among these 6 are already demanding for exclusiveness from me but I'm not willing to clip my wings just too quickly. In 2017,before I became exclusive with my ex, I had 11 girls on rotation despite working 5-6 days a week too.
The reason I'm telling you all these is because being busy with work makes you scarce and increases your value to women if you know how to play your cards right.
If you need any help on how to improve your game, you can ask me and I will assist you with the best of my knowledge.

Kindly shed more light on the bolded part, that is, being busy with work makes you valuable