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Lalas247:
Happy new month to:
KennyID17, Mynd44
Lefulefu my nigga , sonofluci u eh
achd or na achd anyway joe happy new month ...
Martin0 the pain in my butt
Djeezy just take that , dextology my angel
Luminous wetin be skylowlow name eh insert here
Mapist
DeGuyNxtDoor gosh ur name so long .. u know how to spice it up


And the ukwu crew n Vaseline crew we on strike no vex

Now to the ladies
Shinarlaura , Cherryice , benita27 , sexybbstar , mimzy , sexyk, makydebbie, Aderola15

Tahrah is warming on me
Iamdaisy because u get yansh
Zarzar my SA warrior princess like her bluntness

Twaci ,! Refiner angels
If I forget u no vex o ...

I see u, ma'am..God bless.

The post bashes the male ego but, only the wise will take its positives and turn it to a source of motivation.

I, in all sincerest terms cant settle for a broke lady; you should bring sth to the table, no matter how small.

The post is a thought provoking one and very delicate, especially to a fragile mind.

Lubyna:
Sorry about my statement about you not being able to read. I didn't mean to be rude. That wasn't even my intention.

Women and men aren't the same. Men don't go into relationships for the same reasons as women and men certainly don't have the same needs or responsibilities as women. A guy dating a woman who is hardworking but broke, isn't the equivalent of a woman dating a guy who is broke. Men are conventionally, and I'd argue naturally the providers in a relationship. Women are naturally inclined to want their man to take the driving seat in the relationship, in all aspects. To put it plainly, women want men who can provide and take care of them. It doesn't mean she shouldn't strive to be financially successful, but this is the reality of relationships. On the other hand, no man goes into a relationship expecting his woman to take care of him. In fact, most men prefer to be more financially successful than their partners. I hope I have answered your question?

Don't bring me back to this. I have already explained what I meant. Yes. Being financially successful is indicative of intelligence. Intelligence is a broad them that admits of various definitions, but my definition of intelligence, which subsumes most of the definitions which you'd come across anywhere, is being able to utilize acquired knowledge in solving problems. And why are you fixating on Intelligence? There are other qualities I mentioned alongside intelligence that being wealthy is indicative of. Dino and Evans are intelligent people. Dino is a wealthy politician who has occupied various high level political posts in the past. You have to be intelligent to be able to do this. Evans was able to kidnap lots of people, gain profit from the act and remain hidden and undetected for many years. Only an intelligent person can achieve this. I am not in anyway justifying the morally reprehensible crimes of Evans and the bad things Dino Malaye has done in the past. I am just trying to answer your question about whether or not they are intelligent. When I say someone is financially successful, hardworking, ambitious and goal oriented, and wants someone who shares the same traits as she does, I am obviously not referring to people like Evans and Dino. The kind of women I categorically referred to in my OP certainly aren't concerned about just money. Money is a standard among other standards. Certainly this kind of woman would examine the past and present of her potential spouse. She'd date someone who she knows his source of income, and who she is certain this source of income is safe and won't jeopardize her life in the future. Obviously someone like Evans and yahoo boys don't fit this criteria. You are making it seem like all financially successful men are touts or kidnappers and all broke guys are morally upright.

Evans being intelligent, agreeable but Dino..i disagree. This is because, the political thugs used to carry out his will are brainless, lack judgement and have no focus. They live for the moment. Even the dullest of individuals can buy them over without much hassle.

RaggedyAnn:
I think it was clear. True success is not accidental. It's a convergence of several variables: diligence, intelligence, discipline, drive, focus, and a bit of luck too. These are all desirable qualities in a potential mate (or even just friends). And people who exhibit these traits eventually become successful. Money follows naturally.

Now you might want to throw people like Melaye into the category of successful men, but I don't think he cuts it. He might be wealthy, yes, but how did he get there? We all know that most of these politicians are thieves who have nothing to contribute except the cash. A man who has built himself into a success at his legitimate field may not have the stupid cash these politicians throw around, but he would have a bank of lessons learned, and the character that he's honed over the time it took to get his wealth. It's durable.

The post is not implying that if a man runs into some bad luck, a woman should leave him. It simply suggests that consistent failures should be looked at critically because they may be as a result of a series of bad decisions which may prove a level of indiscipline, immaturity, or laziness. These qualities have ways of affecting a relationship negatively too. And yes, guys are also free to make such inferences.

I think you have hijacked the post from it's owner because you seem to drive home your points with logical explanations bearing in mind the Nigerian landscape.

Lubyna:
Where did I say I go into relationships just because of money? The category of women I am referring to, which I believe I belong to, don't go into relationships just because of money. Certainly they have other standards, but money is one of those standards. Shikena.

I never said money equates intelligence. I said being financially successful is indicative of intelligence. And yes it is. Money isn't easy to get. Only someone who is intelligent can get it. And by intelligence, I don't mean memorizing data and writing an exam. I mean being able to utilize acquired knowledge and inherent skills in solving real problems. Dino Malaye is an intelligent man. Obviously.

I didn't say a lady should leave a man she loves if he becomes broke. I said a lady can date a broke but hardworking and ambitious guy who has potential, but can choose to leave him if he isn't making progress. Abi can't you read?

Dino Melaye intelligent? Lol..well, you are entitled to an opinion.

Lubyna:
So if a woman has financial standards, she should now lower it for some guy because of what? What does the guy have to offer that more financially bouyant and ambitious men don't have? Is it by force to date somebori? It's not like she sees men as lower status, it's just that she can't date them. Shikena. Is it your life? Is it not her life?
Most wealthy men are ambitious, intelligent, well informed and successful, and when they marry, they marry equally intelligent, ambitious, well informed and successful women. Stop watching Nollywood movies and engage with reality.

Oh please. It's not only the women who marry rich men that suffer domestic abuse. Women who are married to broke men also suffer domestic abuse. Domestic violence occurs across all boards.

Lolzzz. Sorry to say this but you are so ignorant about reality. Who told you white women aren't concerned about financial status? How many white women do you know? There are women of different races who have financial standards, and so can't settle for less. And they have the right to. Instead of complaining and abusing them, why don't you strive to be financially successful so you can meet the standards of most women?

I beg your pardon ma, in a Nigerian setting, most wealthy men arent what you quoted on your second paragraph. Look around you and think objectively; you ll get to agree with me..Evans is an e.g, the political class is another. Only very few rich men here are enterprising, genuine and sincere except perhaps, you are looking at things from the perspective of the Nigerian middleclass.

Lubyna:
One thing I have realized from reading comments on this website is that a lot of men do not understand that some women have certain financial standards when it comes to dating, and nothing can make them lower those standards. So guys, when a lady says she can't date a broke guy, try to first ruminate on the information I want to pass across before deciding to label her with derogatory appellations.

When I say some ladies, this "some" constitutes a certain category of ladies. This category includes ladies who are ambitious, hardworking and goal oriented. They are aren't idle or ignorant. They are intelligent, well informed and most times are financially bouyant. These are the kind of women I am categorically referring to. If this kind of woman says she can't date a broke guy, then she is justified in making such statement, and any guy who insults her for making such statement or tries to refute her statement with the kind of pathetic comments I read here, is indeed pathetic.

How does anyone expect a woman who is working towards being financially successful and expending time and energy towards this goal, to settle for some guy who earns WAY less than she does? How can a financially ambitious woman lower her standards and spend years waiting for some guy "who has potential" to make it? Let me unpack this last statement because it's a bit radioactive. There are different gradations of potential and that's why I used quotation marks. There are men who have an education that confers a high competitive advantage in the job market, or skills that can catapult them to high rungs on the financial ladder. If a financially ambitious woman meets this kind of guy and he is working hard everyday to become financially stable and secure, then she can lower her standards a bit and grind with him, but only for a while. If after few months or years and this guy isn't making any progress and she decides to go, no one should blame her. Maybe the guy isn't smart enough or isn't just lucky enough. She has the right to leave him and find someone who is financially compatible with her. Yes.
But this only applies to men who have real potential, not some guy who just has a degree or skills and isn't taking diligent steps to improve his finances.

What most guys don't realize is that being broke or just having enough money to subsist, are indicative of certain traits women in general aren't attracted to. Traits like laziness, unintelligence, lack of ambition, bad luck, and a lack of good education. It's not the fault of a financially ambitious woman who is financially bouyant herself if she doesn't want to mingle with broke people, let alone date them.

Instead of dating a guy that has good qualities, the kind of women I am referring to would rather find financially bouyant and ambitious men like themselves, and then proceed to look for these good qualities. And YES they are justified in doing that. Abi is it only broke guys that have good qualities?

Lastly, if any guy is asking out women who don't fall into the category of women I am referring to, then such guy has low standards and deserves the rejection he is receiving from his fellow broke girl.

...but, you ought to remember you/so called buoyant ladies were once broke before you started to make this money. Are you saying you/such ladies do not deserve intimate relationships with men at this point of your/their lives?

henryanna36:
The leader of the Indigenous People of Biafra, Mazi Nnamdi Kanu travelled back to the land of Biafra origin,the Biafrans ancient home, where we all Biafrans are believed to have originated and prayed to the gods of their forefathers: the real OBU GAD in Umume, Umueri in Anambra state.

Source: http://www.trezzyhelm.com/2017/06/nnamdi-kanu-on-his-kneels-praying-to.html

Publicity stunt

Airforce1:
Congrats

But Amnesty was Gej idea

Nope, late Yar'adua.

KahlDrogo:

Na you we suppose flog like dat.

Lanceslot:
Fake life everywhere..

No b say the mumu fone go tk u go heaven. Most of them use it for functions an ordinary Tecno ll perform, dats wat hurts the most.

eezeribe:
She has every right to speak because she was among the intelligent few,who didn't subscribe to the APC change mantra.
In other words,she didn't vote for the Dullard.for those who voted for the change(chain) continue enjoying your captivity.
lalasticlala,Mynd44

Does the fact that i voted for PMB mean i'm dull? Perhaps, since u dint want change, one could assume you vied for PDP who dint achieve anything in 16 years.

We ought to stop the blame game, unite and put forward a good tactic we can use to oust these old idiots from power.

Lalas247:
Not really into naija politics .. if that's what you mean ..
I just follow most news on here

Well, i follow passively and due to the nature of wat i do, i just have to mind it. I go buy food 2 weeks b4 d D day

Lalas247:
Mama why when their bank accounts are smiling


Anyway hope u are ok sha

Smh..yea, m cool jare..watching confederations cup..wats ur take on 2019 elections?

Lalas247:
It will never happen .. u know some chics hold theur bill payer to get the channel solely for Kardashians

I know sef. Just thinking out loud. But, i wonder if dey dont do reality check.

Lalas247:
Even the Pali turn to woman so he can do his own men I don tire for them
Poor Rob just eating himself to oblivion

My concern is, Multichoice shud move that useless program out already even if it means removing "E"..a program that you ll just keep struggling to come to terms with no matter the number of times you watch it.

kilode100:
she is an entertainer. What do you expect to see?... You sha wsnt her to stoop to your level abi?


Tontolet is a classy babe and she is for select few

What is your definition of class? I wont condescend to arguing with you..However, you could google Halle Berry, Jada Pinkett, Vivica Fox if you wish to have a pragmatic e.g of the word "class".

See the arm of somebody's mother and former wife. Some men and their choices, tho.

Lalas247:
Very soon she too will drop one single .. I tire
It's like these days hardwork means nothing .. instagram n social media paying some ppls bills
Sad sha

Honestly, u have said it all ..dat Kardashian family..complete write off..dey shud just bring dem here n take 4 to 5 reasonable Nigerians there.

Lalas247:
I blame kim sha

The most untalented female celeb..

nototribalist:
We need to supply them with serious weapons against our enemies from SW and Northerners.



In case you don't know these security guys are called agulere. They look simple but extremely dangerous. They're the same agulere group we use in dealing with touts that come to disturb ladipo market in Lagos.

When fashola was showing himself, trying to destroy igbo markets in Lagos he didn't know the boys protecting our boys are agulere. If you wan try agulere boys go to ladipo market and start trouble. Afonjas know how far, them no dey near that side. Cowards!!

You are as naive as your write up.smh.

kuuljay:
I no generalize oo

Lmao ..i don help you na..

Lalas247:
When I see her Instagram I just begin very inside
And a lot if young girls wanna be like her sha

Exactly @ I.G..she just full everywhere with that nitwit called TYGA..the sad part is these little gals are looking up to a wasted lady..smh..

kuuljay:
After knotting 3 straights she asked.... "Are you tired" that was the first time I went to work at 11 pm due to emergency,from there I travelled,sent a friend to collect my keys.thunder fire uromi girls!!!

Edo gals

Sagamaje:
Thank you all for your last advice. I told my wife that I masturbates most times because she turns me down most times when I want sex. I was shocked when she told me that it's because of my dick size, that it scares her most times. Now am lost o. I married my wife a virgin but me have truncated a lot of labia. Now I think about those girls I truncated formerly cus they give me all styles even with my big dick. Now I am lost o

Lalas247:
Brains should come first like Sofia's said be intelligent be a boss, own your own shit .. the bra u dey wear na another female use brain manufacture , market and retail . While some slaying yet bank account zero till next Man funds it nonsense
U can always be thin, fat , boobs , yansh but at least have ur own business or get a good job with that brain

But then again this is the west .. they think differently
Its like asking Kyle Jenner brain or looks ..

Dat Kylie Jenner..her case weak me.smh..

Safiaa:
Rather be 'thin' than be intelligent because it would help your career

With Intelligence you won't even have to work for anyone. Your intelligence will enable you to be an entrepreneur. Top entrepreneurs in the world, are very intelligent. Thats the blessing i need. If you're working for yourself do your looks even matter? . Some women can be so shallow.

Intelligence doesnt necessarily mean u wont work for anyone; it's about making accurate decisions most of the time either as a student, employer, employee or even as a random street guy. Basically, it is more of acquisition and application of knowledge n skills.

Benita27:
Linus!. Why are your threads centred around girls/women disturbing you?. If one isn't disturbing with her countless nudes, another is for sex. Mtcheew!.

No chill

Papiikush:
You'll get over it.

Perfect response. No need to quote OP..

9jakohai:
So, when are you marrying the boy's papa?.

Before the boy begin dey say ' Mama , my mates are making fun of me because I no get papa'.


What this woman is doing is wrong. Having a baby out of wedlock is wrong.

Besides, what happens later when the child looks for daddy?

Her caption even makes it worse - "my pride and joy"..smh..it's a pity.

paulchineduN:
Nnamdi Kanu is one person who can and will never compromise his stand based on truth. I do hear some people say that the agitation started because Buhari won election but I can tell u that it's a big lie sold by the beneficiaries of the present skewed system of Nigeria. But my worry is that some people failed to grasp the truth from the message he is passing of how Britain manipulated the present system to favour the North because they felt that they can be easily compromised. Nnamdi Kanu is a very intelligent man and u need to listen to him to understand his position and how he yearns for equity and justice.

Pls, where are his children based?