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FamilyRe: Marriage: Does The Length Of Courtship Matter ? by meine: 10:34am On Sep 16, 2013
@ Sagamite

Some of your conclusions are wrong even though i respect some of your views.

Have you ever asked if our parents courted for donkey years before marriage? Yet the divorce rate was low. Men simply ask the brides father to give their daughters to nurture! In those days people knew their responsibilities and their priorities were well defined. Girls knew how to keep their legs together,men knew they must take care of their wives. grin NO games. Most wives grew to love the man they married and they are still together till date.

When 2 adults who know what they want meet,length of courtship doesn't matter. What works for MR A may not work for MR B. Overall, Integrity,flexibility and giving are the keys to success in marriage. Age also has a role to play in courtship, a guy who wants to date a 30 year old girl for 1 year before making up his mind to marry her isn't doing the girl any good,within one month a smart guy will know whether she is good for him or not no matter how she pretends. And for starters a marriage material wont even pretend,so there goes your first clue! If she is below 25 in fact you can court her for 5 years like sagamite holy book says.
FamilyRe: I Am Confused My Ex Or My Current BF by meine: 10:52pm On Sep 13, 2013
whoever your friend is tell her she is still a baby who shouldn't be in a serious relationship yet. she cant eat her cake and have it, with time she will lose them both and have the wisdom to make better decisions in the future.
PoliticsRe: Lagos Police Command Rank Top In Africa by meine: 2:03pm On Sep 11, 2013
This is an expensive joke,someone should be fired for posting this. shocked shocked shocked grin grin grin
FamilyRe: Caught Red Handed! by meine: 10:38am On Sep 11, 2013
@OP

I can hang myself (Never)

I can sit him down and talk to him

I can ignore his wayward ways

I can get a divorce

I can go down on my kneels and pray if i feel the relationship is redeemable
PoliticsRe: Ubah Set As Anambra's Otedola by meine: 9:11am On Sep 11, 2013
Not surprised this article was written by thisday, someone has been well paid to write...lol
Christianity EtcRe: Nigerian Naira Is Full Of Masonic Symbols by meine: 7:59pm On Sep 10, 2013
I hope some people never run mad with all these problems in naija, dem fit make person dey see orisirisi grin grin grin
FamilyRe: X by meine: 10:21pm On Sep 04, 2013
@Poster

Let this young and growing girl be in peace, i was sympathetic with your case before but with the way you are ranting, i think you are the one with the problem because if you write these epistles over 8k and 9k,what do you want people who propose to girls with range rover do? grin

I am really worried for this poor girl and i wish i know her,so i can warn her because you are coming across as a potential nag and bully. See your analysis everywhere. She is a 20 years naive and broke Nigerian girl facing peer pressure,which part of the script don't you understand here?.I swear if you marry this girl and find out she isnt a virgin,na to divorce am be that. grin
FamilyRe: X by meine:
@OP
This is why I don't advise guys to be too serious with girls who are below 23 or still in a nigerian university. At that stage they don't fully know what they want yet,their emotion is fickle etc. Except for few girls.

That said, if your girl is from a broke home,you need to teach her contentment. Does she really need to buy aso ebi?NO. Will she understand that considering her age?NO.

About the virgin stuff,my guy you are on a long thing. During my younger days,I dated 2 different undergraduates who told me they were virgins. It was when I insisted on getting down that they confessed they were open. Your girl may be different though. Virginity and character aint same though. She may be a Virgin and be very rude,stingy etc.

My conclusion is that you and this girl are not on thesame page. You are also over analysing her which is not fair to her,cut her some slack that's what most girls in her position and age range do. We live in the BB age and the dating game has changed but most guys don't know it yet.
PoliticsRe: What Atiku And The 7 Governors Did Not Know. by meine: 6:59pm On Sep 02, 2013
anuoro: I agree to this. Goodluck Jonathan for 2015. Just in 3 yrs of ternure He have achieve 70% of his transformation agenda
Chai? Which one has he achieved? No be same country we dey? What exactly?
PoliticsRe: What Atiku And The 7 Governors Did Not Know. by meine: 6:49pm On Sep 02, 2013
@OP
I don't know where you got your analysis from.There is something called NUISANCE VALUE.If these governors are trully serious on defecting he had better watch it,because more northern governors may follow. The new faction has all the momentum right now. If anything he can't be sleeping with all his eyes closed.

Why is GEJ suddently romancing OBJ? I thought he had anenih,clark and all the power brokers? GEJ a political neophyte who will engage in needless battles and dump his allies at will. Even Asari warned him to stop stepping on the wrong toes.

All these wouldn't have mattered if GEJ is a performer. The Nigerian masses would have been his strong hold. But if it comes to the games of tribal politics he should watch it,history shows that when the North and SW align its always a touchdown.

He should go back to the drawing board, seek settlements and put his wife on the leash. That woman is attracting more enemies than friends. He shouldn't seek automatic ticket,let there be primary. There is nothing to be afraid of.
FamilyRe: What Do I Do To This Kind Of Wife? by meine: 1:38pm On Sep 02, 2013
betterline: Exactly, She never even mentioned what is it she was going to do when u got out of the house. Now, I am really scared of her. Poor fetus! just a week or so old. My love for her has since gone away with the action. Can't even make love to her again.
@OP

Sorry about the loss of your baby if true. I will advice you to do some medical checks to confirm the truth. Meanwhile did you notice this temperamental attitude during courtship? Only patience can sort this right now,its too early to fall out of love with her. cheers
FamilyRe: Nairalanders, Kindly Help Me Out With This Coz I Am Confused... by meine: 1:25pm On Sep 02, 2013
@Poster
Am sorry to tell you that You are confused and you cant make the best decision this way. My advice to you is to marry your friend, enough of pastor said this or that. When the chips are down, friends stick together and that's what the concept of a life partner should be about. Stop paying too much attention to dreams or allowing people choose for you. If i tell you the number of babes i have seen in my dreams,you will be scared grin grin grin. Also note that in most cases we dream about our thoughts pattern, you had thought about the 3 girls at some point hence your dreams.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor J Reacts To Pastor Biodun's Sex Scandal by meine: 12:08pm On Aug 31, 2013
The one that pained me most was when Mike Murdoch claimed the COZA pastor was being attacked cos of the anointing he carries,have forgotten the exact wording. I be like "did mr murdoch take his time to investigate the matter? Are men of God infallible?"
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor J Reacts To Pastor Biodun's Sex Scandal by meine: 12:04pm On Aug 31, 2013
These are the type of issues that the PFN should be correcting but they will rather devote themselves to politics and justifying why they bought private Jets. I sense and fear that their silence means that many of them have similar scandals.I have stop following men from way back,my trust is completely in christ.
Christianity EtcRe: Ese Walter Releases Affair Evidence With Pastor BiodunTo Respected Minister by meine: 11:50am On Aug 31, 2013
[quote author=m-ployer]She is being used by d devil and will live to regret this. There are better ways to stardom, She is simply on d wrong route. All these people sympathizing with her on this 'tales by moonlight' will not be there when the wrath of God will descend on her. This piece may not make much sense to her now but wen it does, do let me know. #my2cents.[/quote]You must be hallucinating, so because a girl demands that one randy pastor should correct his ways,she has invited the wrath of God on herself. Your type are the ones who will follow pastor into hell. Has the pastor admitted or rebuffed it? NO. My God is a just God,I guess you don't know your bible.
RomanceIn Support Of #ESE Abuja Pastor Calls Out #COSA Pastor B,getting Messier by meine(op): 10:22am On Aug 31, 2013
In Support Of #Ese Walters...Abuja Preacher Calls Out Pastor Biodun Of #COZA,


This is getting messier than evisaged.I dont know what to make of this...Please read the report of an abuja based preacher who in trying to get pastor Biodun to repent,recounts all his dirty deeds...THIS IS MESSY!

  God where are you?your church is under attack....


For the leaders of this people cause them to err; and they that are led of them are destroyed.”Isaiah 9:16 . Let them alone: they be leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch. Matt 15:14

I was going to be silent on this sad, pathetic but true (in many shades) allegation against Pastor B and his popular and trendy ministry. My silence was borne out of respect for the kingdom of God and things that pertain to God. But all this changed when I heard the horrific tales of people who had been through the mess of this blind man, and the fact that he had no moral motivation to deny or accept the allegation; all he showed on Sunday was a demented swagger and perverse talk.

My sole purpose in writing this piece is to open the eyes of the world and believers to the hypocrisy and nonsense behind the pulpit, and to plea that these wolves and blind men stop deflating the faith of people who Christ died for. I am a Pastor, a full time minister at that, and I shall not sit back whilethe name of my God, the ministry, and the works of other shepherds is brought to disrepute by the activities, action and inaction of a few blind men behind the pulpit.

I am tired of the nonsense of religion crying out, “touch not my anointed”; does this mean we cannot rebuke ourselves when we err, this much Paul did to Peter when he erred in Galatians 2:11 “But when Peter was come to Antioch, I withstood him to the face, because he was to be blamed”. It is therefore pertinent that I rebuke the wolves in shepherd’s clothing’s. It is time to set the record straight, and please don’t sell me the bullocks of judge not, I haven’t said anyone is going to hell, but of course if they don’t change, they have only one path.

It is high time we told the truth, which is plain, simple and without coloration. The stories of Franca and Ese is not only true but they are just a few tales of the tantalizing sex escapades of this clergy. This has been a recurring decimal in the ministry of the clergyman. This wasn’t the first time these stories will come forth, for those old COZA members, for those who were there when he was in Ilorin, when the church moved to Pipeline Road, Ilorin, having left Kwara Hotel, they will remember there was a time when the Pastor was suspended from ministering by his Father in the Lord, Rev Oset of Canaan Ministries. Rev. Oset sent guest ministers to the church every Sunday after that, but still Pastor B in his deceit will still minister in the pretence of introducing the guest minister, while he exhorts for minutes. I therefore laugh in mockery when He says his wife loves him, the woman has no choice. His core circle of Pastor Wole (Ilorin Chapter, the only man who maybe clean), and Pastor Flo (COZA, Lagos) knows of this fact, little wonder Ese said Pastor Flo said he knows about their adventures in that hotel room in London.

This is not the story of a hater; I don’t want or envy anything he has. He cannot ever have what I have and carry; neither do I crave for what he has. I am sure no one in the city of Ilorin, where this man started is bemused by these stories, no one who finished from the University of Ilorin during the period of 2003-2008, and was not a blinded COZA member can be mightily shocked at these revelations. I have heard tales of many more victims, I even heard from a woman who knows five friends who were victims, I saw it online the other day of a guy who said he formally works for him and he knows up to 130 people, outrageous as it may sound that too is true. Rev Oset in true conscience cannot deny the knowledge of these negatives. But we are a nation of hypocrites and religious folks; we ask no questions of leaders, so they can hide under the canopy of religion, even when they are filthy. Anyone who asks is rebuked by those who say, the bible says pray. It is sad that those who say pray themselves have not prayed. But Pastor B is just a decimal in an ever mounting number of wolves in the Church of Christ.

Someone told me yesterday that this can’t be the end of him and his tyranny, because even in Ilorin in those days, the allegation was rolled under the rug. On Sunday, August 25, 2013, the man leading certain blind men under the veil of religion and ‘spiritism’ said God told him not to say anything, he then said they are preparing a robust response. Who is fooling who? We must not keep quiet and watch the bride of Christ, the church, rubbed and undignified in mud and slime by a filthily rich pastor who thinks he can do anything and get away with it.

It is a pity that we run sensational press and media outfit in this country, and that our press is blinded by religion. If this were to be ‘saner’ climes the press would by now be researching, there would by now be investigative journalism. The truth would be dogged up and resurrected to life. For this is not about a mistake that a Pastor made, it is about a filthy man’s way of life.

And then about, “teaching a new level of grace’; please be reminded that Grace is not a license to sin, rather it empowers us to live above sin. Romans 6:1-2 says, “What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?” In my years of being a Christian, studying God’s word, preaching the gospel, listening to sound teachers, I have not heard of a grace that gives permission to sin. Stop being deceived, grace is the new dispensation, according to Hebrew 8:6-12, and under grace we do not follow any written code, law or traditions. That is done away with. The tablet of Moses is over with. But we are not reckless sinners; we are under a new covenant based on better promises. God’s law is written in our minds and hearts. We live according to His dictates. The Holy Spirit and our conscience convicts and judges us respectively. This is the only way we live a holy life. God’s strength and empowerment is the grace to do according to that written by God in our hearts and minds.

I write this with a heavy heart, though I wish I never had to write this, but I pray this madness stops. I know many who have stopped going to church, many whose faith has been derailed by the act of madness of this man, and many blind men like him. If they are not going to heaven, let them stop taking men out of the straight and narrow. No one understands the pain in meeting a man, whose faith has been derailed by a man who was supposed to help establish him. For such a man, words can’t bring him back, the best we can do is to pray and hope. I indulge the clergy to be of a higher moral standard.

My candid advice to the church at this end time is that the church must grow in knowledge; it’s high time we stopped bamboozling you. You must stop making idols of men. You must stop making men such as I, substitute for the Holy Ghost. Honour us; revere us… but that is where it ends. Without the Call, the Oil, and the Holy Spirit; we are mere mortal. But know for sure that this too shall pass; only the truth of the Gospel of the Kingdom abides forever.

For Pastor B and his sense making COZA people, remember the word of Christ in Matthew 15:14. How many of you even live life bearing the fruit of righteousness. Stop being blind, the ditch is close by. Look into this case, ask your pastor questions, seek genuine answers and not emotional rhetorics, hold him responsible, and do not forget the word of God, “then shall they know if they follow to know…” I am sure evidence abound. Seek to know from some key PCU members (who may need to be deposited in Gods ICU). Its time you hear not only about grace, but HOLINESS without which no one will see the Lord.

Finally don’t bother praying against me, I can say like Paul, “For me to die is gain, to live is Christ”, but I cannot even go now, because I am yet to fully finish the task set before me. Don’t waste your time using misguided scriptural interpretation. This I write is true, and I am sorry if you don’t like it. Your Pastor, and every other wolf whose conscience is not seared knows it is the complete true.

God bless you.
God bless His Church
God bless Nigeria
From
Pastor J
God’s House

Source: http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2013/08/in-support-of-ese-waltersabuja-preacher.html?m=1
Christianity EtcIn Support Of #ese Walters....abuja Pastor Calls Out #coza Pastor B,more Messier by meine(op): 10:10am On Aug 31, 2013
In Support Of #Ese Walters...Abuja Preacher Calls Out Pastor Biodun Of #COZA,


This is getting messier than evisaged.I dont know what to make of this...Please read the report of an abuja based preacher who in trying to get pastor Biodun to repent,recounts all his dirty deeds...THIS IS MESSY!

  God where are you?your church is under attack....


For the leaders of this people cause them to err; and they that are led of them are destroyed.”Isaiah 9:16 . Let them alone: they be leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch. Matt 15:14

I was going to be silent on this sad, pathetic but true (in many shades) allegation against Pastor B and his popular and trendy ministry. My silence was borne out of respect for the kingdom of God and things that pertain to God. But all this changed when I heard the horrific tales of people who had been through the mess of this blind man, and the fact that he had no moral motivation to deny or accept the allegation; all he showed on Sunday was a demented swagger and perverse talk.

My sole purpose in writing this piece is to open the eyes of the world and believers to the hypocrisy and nonsense behind the pulpit, and to plea that these wolves and blind men stop deflating the faith of people who Christ died for. I am a Pastor, a full time minister at that, and I shall not sit back whilethe name of my God, the ministry, and the works of other shepherds is brought to disrepute by the activities, action and inaction of a few blind men behind the pulpit.

I am tired of the nonsense of religion crying out, “touch not my anointed”; does this mean we cannot rebuke ourselves when we err, this much Paul did to Peter when he erred in Galatians 2:11 “But when Peter was come to Antioch, I withstood him to the face, because he was to be blamed”. It is therefore pertinent that I rebuke the wolves in shepherd’s clothing’s. It is time to set the record straight, and please don’t sell me the bullocks of judge not, I haven’t said anyone is going to hell, but of course if they don’t change, they have only one path.

It is high time we told the truth, which is plain, simple and without coloration. The stories of Franca and Ese is not only true but they are just a few tales of the tantalizing sex escapades of this clergy. This has been a recurring decimal in the ministry of the clergyman. This wasn’t the first time these stories will come forth, for those old COZA members, for those who were there when he was in Ilorin, when the church moved to Pipeline Road, Ilorin, having left Kwara Hotel, they will remember there was a time when the Pastor was suspended from ministering by his Father in the Lord, Rev Oset of Canaan Ministries. Rev. Oset sent guest ministers to the church every Sunday after that, but still Pastor B in his deceit will still minister in the pretence of introducing the guest minister, while he exhorts for minutes. I therefore laugh in mockery when He says his wife loves him, the woman has no choice. His core circle of Pastor Wole (Ilorin Chapter, the only man who maybe clean), and Pastor Flo (COZA, Lagos) knows of this fact, little wonder Ese said Pastor Flo said he knows about their adventures in that hotel room in London.

This is not the story of a hater; I don’t want or envy anything he has. He cannot ever have what I have and carry; neither do I crave for what he has. I am sure no one in the city of Ilorin, where this man started is bemused by these stories, no one who finished from the University of Ilorin during the period of 2003-2008, and was not a blinded COZA member can be mightily shocked at these revelations. I have heard tales of many more victims, I even heard from a woman who knows five friends who were victims, I saw it online the other day of a guy who said he formally works for him and he knows up to 130 people, outrageous as it may sound that too is true. Rev Oset in true conscience cannot deny the knowledge of these negatives. But we are a nation of hypocrites and religious folks; we ask no questions of leaders, so they can hide under the canopy of religion, even when they are filthy. Anyone who asks is rebuked by those who say, the bible says pray. It is sad that those who say pray themselves have not prayed. But Pastor B is just a decimal in an ever mounting number of wolves in the Church of Christ.

Someone told me yesterday that this can’t be the end of him and his tyranny, because even in Ilorin in those days, the allegation was rolled under the rug. On Sunday, August 25, 2013, the man leading certain blind men under the veil of religion and ‘spiritism’ said God told him not to say anything, he then said they are preparing a robust response. Who is fooling who? We must not keep quiet and watch the bride of Christ, the church, rubbed and undignified in mud and slime by a filthily rich pastor who thinks he can do anything and get away with it.

It is a pity that we run sensational press and media outfit in this country, and that our press is blinded by religion. If this were to be ‘saner’ climes the press would by now be researching, there would by now be investigative journalism. The truth would be dogged up and resurrected to life. For this is not about a mistake that a Pastor made, it is about a filthy man’s way of life.

And then about, “teaching a new level of grace’; please be reminded that Grace is not a license to sin, rather it empowers us to live above sin. Romans 6:1-2 says, “What shall we say then? Shall we continue in sin, that grace may abound? God forbid. How shall we, that are dead to sin, live any longer therein?” In my years of being a Christian, studying God’s word, preaching the gospel, listening to sound teachers, I have not heard of a grace that gives permission to sin. Stop being deceived, grace is the new dispensation, according to Hebrew 8:6-12, and under grace we do not follow any written code, law or traditions. That is done away with. The tablet of Moses is over with. But we are not reckless sinners; we are under a new covenant based on better promises. God’s law is written in our minds and hearts. We live according to His dictates. The Holy Spirit and our conscience convicts and judges us respectively. This is the only way we live a holy life. God’s strength and empowerment is the grace to do according to that written by God in our hearts and minds.

I write this with a heavy heart, though I wish I never had to write this, but I pray this madness stops. I know many who have stopped going to church, many whose faith has been derailed by the act of madness of this man, and many blind men like him. If they are not going to heaven, let them stop taking men out of the straight and narrow. No one understands the pain in meeting a man, whose faith has been derailed by a man who was supposed to help establish him. For such a man, words can’t bring him back, the best we can do is to pray and hope. I indulge the clergy to be of a higher moral standard.

My candid advice to the church at this end time is that the church must grow in knowledge; it’s high time we stopped bamboozling you. You must stop making idols of men. You must stop making men such as I, substitute for the Holy Ghost. Honour us; revere us… but that is where it ends. Without the Call, the Oil, and the Holy Spirit; we are mere mortal. But know for sure that this too shall pass; only the truth of the Gospel of the Kingdom abides forever.

For Pastor B and his sense making COZA people, remember the word of Christ in Matthew 15:14. How many of you even live life bearing the fruit of righteousness. Stop being blind, the ditch is close by. Look into this case, ask your pastor questions, seek genuine answers and not emotional rhetorics, hold him responsible, and do not forget the word of God, “then shall they know if they follow to know…” I am sure evidence abound. Seek to know from some key PCU members (who may need to be deposited in Gods ICU). Its time you hear not only about grace, but HOLINESS without which no one will see the Lord.

Finally don’t bother praying against me, I can say like Paul, “For me to die is gain, to live is Christ”, but I cannot even go now, because I am yet to fully finish the task set before me. Don’t waste your time using misguided scriptural interpretation. This I write is true, and I am sorry if you don’t like it. Your Pastor, and every other wolf whose conscience is not seared knows it is the complete true.

God bless you.
God bless His Church
God bless Nigeria
From
Pastor J
God’s House

Source: http://www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2013/08/in-support-of-ese-waltersabuja-preacher.html?m=1
FamilyRe: My Uncle Is A Wicked Man! Helep Me!!! by meine: 10:56pm On Aug 30, 2013
Its Obvious the OP is just acting up. Someone just wanna make you guys laugh. tongue tongue
FamilyRe: Loosing Ur Virginity 2a Man After Marriage Dose Not Make Him Value U D More by meine: 12:27pm On Aug 28, 2013
@OP, you are typing lies from the pit of hell. That V thing commands respect from guys . A guy may choose not to marry a V COS of his preference,its his choice but it doesnt cancel the cold hard truths about the prestige around virginity.

Like mysticgal said, Kindly call your daughter when she turns 18 and give her the reasons she should lose her virginity and sleep with everyone, spare us this. Thanks
FamilyRe: My Fiancee Dated Her Professor: Please Advice Me by meine: 12:07pm On Aug 28, 2013
@OP

Please i am begging you in the name of Christ and i am talking from experience here. No matter how much you love this girl and irrespective of the time you've spent on this relationship. PLS LET IT GO.

You see that thing called Trust,its like a Beautiful Chinese Ceramic Flask, when it crashes it cannot be fully fixed , even if you patch it with adhesive glue it wont be as Beautiful as it once was. You wont be able to beat your chest for her anymore. When people say no relationship is perfect and you can work on it, please and please Trust should be off the table because it is the foundation. You can work on her cooking skills, yes! you can work on her spoken or written English,Yes! You can even work on weight, spiritual growth etc. But dont toil with trust,its gonna be a major issue in marriage.

Now back to the story, Your girl is not as innocent as she claims,she has probably been seeing other guys too. Like many people said,if she had come forward to confess the act before she was caught then you could have given her the Innocence Alibi. Personally, i will never advise guys to be serious with any young girl that is below 23 and still in school at that point they cant fully figure what they want out of life yet. Values also matter because some are still virgins at that age.My sister had 1 extra year in school because she refused to sleep with a lecturer. Take the good from the relationship,forgive her and just move on but i hate to dissapoint you man, you will never forget. Cheers
FamilyRe: My Wife And Her Ex- by meine: 11:26am On Aug 28, 2013
@OP

From all indications there are foundational problems in this marriage and you partly brought this on yourself but i still feel sorry for you. When a girl truly loves a guy, a discerning guy will know and you wont have been asking your woman if she really wanted you. This woman doesn't respect or love you and something tells me its already too late to correct things. You married a former runs girl, its a 50/50 thing some do change for the better while some usually miss the good old days. You see this runs thing is not as simple as people see it, In life there are some lines you don't cross and when you cross them you cant be the same person except repentance comes from within. That applies to murder or runs with married people. Once you eat the forbidden fruit, your eyes will open like EVE and you wont fear or hold somethings(Marriage institution) sacred again. That being said......

Its time you man up and stand your ground. What your woman is involved with is dangerous and you shouldn't treat it with Kid gloves, this issue may even take your life God forbid. Go and watch "fatal attraction" and "deadly women" on Discovery Channel,you will find stories of lovers who conspired to kill their mates.

Dont complain about anything you tolerate man, God hates divorce same way God hates marital abuse in any form. Its not black and white ,there are always shades of grey. Protect your life and that of your kids.
PoliticsRe: Boy Stowed Away In Arik Flight To Lagos by meine: 7:59am On Aug 25, 2013
grin grin Abeg make them leave my guy,nothing do you. He deserves a national award in gymnastics.
PoliticsRe: Amosun Launches 150 Taxi Cab In Ogun by meine: 7:08am On Aug 23, 2013
Where is this guy getting all the money from when others are complaining of paucity of funds. He dey vex ooo. Weldone man
FamilyRe: How To Manage Domestic Violence In A Relationship by meine: 4:10pm On Aug 19, 2013
yeye person there is nothing to manage in an abusive relationship
FamilyRe: What % Of Married Women Would Use Their Body To Keep A high Paying Job? by meine: 4:05pm On Aug 19, 2013
I don't know where some people get their percentages from on nairaland cos most times its not backed by any researched data. Besides, all of us are human and we can fall if we don't have mechanisms in place to handle temptations.

Whether, its 1%, 10% or 60% the most important factor is the value of the person involved and how important they view their marital vow. Many girls would play all kind of games as singles but after marriage they are so focused on their homes and sometimes you see the former good girls falling anyhow. Also, I would have thought that any one who gets to such high position can start her own business if pressured with sex?

My woman recently asked me, if i would allow her to take a huge paying job with the downside of closing quite late. In fact the job will make her earn more than me, i told her its fine by me. As far as she is fulfilled in her career and our standard of living rises, gone are those days when i will be scared of guys hitting on my wife. AS far as i give her what she needs in our marriage the burden of fidelity lies with her and its not my headache.
PoliticsRe: Buhari - Only Death Will Stop Me From Contesting In 2015 by meine: 11:42am On Aug 15, 2013
And only death will stop GEJ from flogging you again in 2015 Mr Buhari.

I campaigned for this man at the last election and am not a PDP apologist but I hate it when people blindly pursue ambition to the point of obsession. My arguement is what has this man learnt from the past elections to boost his chances in 2015?. Has he built new coalitions in the south east and west for the next election? At least 2015 proved that the core north can not singlehandedly make a president. Has he raised more funds to outspend GEJ in 2015? How many campaign offices has buhari opened in the south east and south south? Has he found answers to why he lost most northern states where he was supposed to be comfortable? Questions and questions everywhere.

Honestly, I will slap anybody that bring sai buhari idea to me this time around. Mi o raye iranu nitemi.I will rather sit out the 2015 election if the opposition can't find a better candidate. Hisses and walks out.
FamilyRe: I'm Fed Up by meine: 11:00am On Jul 27, 2013
Sister the only advice I can give you right now is to keep praying and praying.this man has fallen out of love with you. If he loves you he won't do this kinda stuff. However if he turns violent at anytime you can ask for separation.

The only good thing is that he still seems to respect your family. So a separation may jolt him back to reality. Life is too short to keep living in misery. So he needs to change for this thing to work.
FamilyRe: How Are Nigerian Weddings Funded? by meine: 4:27pm On Jul 11, 2013
Kajiang02: My Ideal Wedding. (If the lady go gree too ooo)
1. Tuesday during lunch at work, = We go to the registry with 2 friends and family members and back to the office.
2. Wednesday morning Mass( 6-7am) we wear the gown and the priest pronounce us, in the evening we do the whole traditional dance thing. i had always wish i'll do everything same day.
We spend so much in ceremonies on marriages that may not last sef.

Imagine some one who did these;
1. Knocking (To knock door for the babe house).
2. Introduction. (To let the people know you).
3. Traditional marriage (Make the parents bless you).
4. Registry. (To make it legal).
5. White wedding (To bless the union in the church).
i pity my guy......
Which one be knocking again? someone should please tell me its a lie cos i have never heard of this before lol.
PoliticsRe: Massive Protest At The Rivers State House Of Assembly. by meine: 12:15pm On Jul 10, 2013
Billionaires: That is what happens when a Governor can not manage his own state, he stubbornly disobeyed the PDP leadership in his state and was suspended alongside some state house of assembly members. So, apparently, PDP can not help him with this. He can no longer manage his own state but he is thinking about managing Abuja. This is just a prove that pride goes before a fall. I can assure you, that since PDP suspended the other members, those 5 can legitimately impeach the government, cos I am very sure that the impeachment must have been communicated to the State chapter of PDP before it was authorized and the court will always respect the decision of the PDP State Chapter. Amaechi needs to kneel down and beg, cos he made so many strategic enemies, from his own cousin he uprooted to his former allies. Pride goes, fall comes! Hahahahahahaha
Uncle, you are an embarrasment. Did you go to school at all? If you did then your certificate should be properly vetted. Its because of people like you that Nigeria can never grow. When did the constitution of PDP become the constitution of the whole country?. Those officials were elected by their people and their suspension from PDP does not disempower them EXCEPT THEY ARE RECALLED BY THE PEOPLE WHO VOTED THEM. Go back to SSCE government studies Olodo Rabata shocked shocked shocked
TV/MoviesRe: Big Brother Africa "The Chase" Official Thread by meine: 6:09pm On Jun 16, 2013
Please house, what time is the eviction party starting this evening? Is it 7pm nigerian time?
FoodRe: Governor Rochas Roasting Corn By The Roadside (Picture) by meine: 9:09am On Jun 15, 2013
Is this all the show the governor can put up? I am really disappointed here. Next I want to read stuffs like "Gov rochas washes baby nappies" or " Gov rochas prepares baby Food" then I will believe that he is humble o. grin grin grin

Wonders will never end on nairaland.
CrimeRe: 9 Including Students Arrested For Internet-Scam by meine: 3:27pm On Jun 07, 2013
lol @ awon boys

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