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There was a time when I was visiting someone in Greenwich. While I was there, I wanted to snack on something and noticed that the University of Greenwich café was conveniently nearby, so I decided to head there for a snack. Once I arrived, I placed my order, but the attendant informed me that card payment was required. I explained to him that I didn't have a card. A male voice spoke from behind me and offered to pay for my order. He stepped forward, approaching the attendant. The moment I laid eyes on him, I felt an instant liking. He was speaking directly to the attendant. I turned to him and said, "I'll refund the money to you in cash." He turned towards me with a smile and replied, "Don't worry about it." I couldn't even decline his offer.

I just liked him; it wasn't because he paid for my snacks. He wasn't the first guy to offer such a gesture. My mind persistently urged me to ask for his number, but I continually reminded myself that, as a lady, I should not make the first move. So, I just watched him walk away.

Madam, you don't have matrimonial bed yet. Anyway, discard him; he doesn't deserve you.

Hustlerconnect:
It's only you.
You're just being weird and over exaggerating.
I'm sure you're an introvert too.

It is not an introvert thing o.

illicit:
Merry100

How are u today?

I'm good.

No

pansophist:
Eating healthy.

I don't enjoy it one bit. But I do it due to the understanding that a man must choose one of two sufferings. The suffering of discipline, or the suffering of regret. You want to eat healthy for your health, to look better, to help with confidence, and make old age easy on you.

But on a good day, I love icecreams, chocolates, and drinking beers. I love KFC chickens, milkshakes, parfaits, donuts, and fast food. Who enjoys eating cucumber, raw vegetables, with water being the only liquid you drink?

I love junk food, a lot. They are so delicious

Me too I hate healthy food but I take them sometimes. I remember the first time a friend made oatmeal for me, he was like it's very delicious and healthy. I was like yeah it's delicious.

Some of the things I pretend to enjoy:
Drinking black coffee
Eating oat meals
Eating salmon
Boring jokes
Going to cocktail parties.
Outings with people I don't vibe with.
Listening to compliments or advices from some senior relatives or family friends (Old school aunties and uncles).

fineboynl:
Be careful if your plan is driving on main road. I had to sell my bike because of the careless way Nigerians drive no regards for bicycles riders. Also the roads are not well planned. When i’m driving and sees bicycle I always give them space.

Using a car despite the fuel price. 3k each day i use the car.

Thanks for the advice.

clockwisereport:
Why are you making it a public service announcement.

Go to the market and buy it ASAP

Mr instructor come and help me remove the announcement.

Let's persevere for a while. I have a dream that Nigeria shall be great. Due to the current price of fuel, I have decided to get a bicycle.

How many black men does this to their wives? He deserves some accolade.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bXdEqOt0c8c

😂🤣🤣

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dealer10:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GSU43ylia0Q

It will be wise to prioritize the character, values, and compatibility of a potential partner over their religious affiliation or level of devotion. Lukewarm Christians may grow in their devotion over time but attempting to change someone's behaviour or personality might seem difficult or impossible.

This story deeply moved me and reminded me of how fortunate I am to have avoided a similar situation. Stories like this should serve as a powerful reminder to single ladies. No matter how kind and accommodating you may be you cannot always appease or change someone with a negative personality or character. Faithfulness should not be the only trait you are looking for in your potential partner because faithfulness alone cannot sustain a marriage. The very same individuals who are encouraging you to ignore the obvious red flags you are currently noticing in your partner while you are still dating will undoubtedly emphasize, after marriage, that according to Biblical teachings, marriage is intended to endure for a lifetime. They will ask you to learn how to cope and endure your marriage, regardless of the challenges you might be facing.

Even his previous threads are about dick. You guys that are always saying the female gender are the ones with fish brain. Come and see your brother o.

Happy Birthday! May you have many more wonderful birthdays to come. Enjoy your day to the fullest!

occfx:
With the level of AI and digital businesses... I don't think there should be anything like full time house wife again. Your wife can be in the house and still be controlling mega businesses. I am currently targeting to be a full time house husband after setting up my business structure. My phone and laptops does a lot for me

You made a very valid point. I don't even have any objections to a woman choosing to be a full-time housewife but women should not be coerced or manipulated into such a role. Women have to discuss this topic with their potential partners before marriage because marriage is not supposed to compromise a woman's dreams.

Collinsaik:
Oga as far as say na you senior her, even if with just a day, u are good to go. But if the reverse is the case, abeg comot body. Make she no go "jokingly" call u "you this boy" in the present of your friends and family. .

It is natural for couples to get accustomed to respecting each other regardless of the age distance between them, similar to how individuals respect and adapt to their younger boss in the workplace.

philo3:
Hey Good evening , please I need experienced and matured minded answers on this thread
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I have a girl I love and if God willing marry her
She's humble, submissive , and posseses good qualities of a wife material.
I senior her with just months in age . same year of birth.
Can that marriage work out well because I have this ideology that the husband should senior his wife by some years at least 2years.

If she was even five years older than you, it wouldn't have made any difference because age is not the determining factor in a successful relationship. What truly matters is maturity and understanding. Based on your description of her, it appears that she possesses all the qualities you desire in a woman, so I would advise you to consider marrying her.

enemyofprogress:
okro soup post yours first

Us we no get na why we dey admire, you wey you get post.

NewDea4:
I cannot start my week by arguing with a subhuman emilokan slave like you.

Cheers!

NewDea4 I guess my previous thread is what is making you cry. You go cry cry cry taya, bitter leaf oshi😂🤣🤣

Merry100:
My petition is out.
https://thenationonlineng.net/group-petitions-tinubu-on-discrimination-against-left-handed-persons/

https://von.gov.ng/tag/young-queen-innovation/

https://www.thepointng.com/forcing-left-handed-children-to-use-right-hand-can-cause-psychological-distress-low-iq-medical-experts/

https://healthwise.punchng.com/stop-discrimination-against-left-handed-persons-group-tells-nigerians/

You can also view it on today's newspaper (Tribune and The Nation)

NewDea4:
Oloriburuku wetin concern agbado-eater for my post? Na guilty conscience go kill una

Brainless zombies

😂🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣E pain am.

enemyofprogress:
Boat of them no even fine self. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew

Bitter leaf go and post your own.

Acidosis:
You know any married woman in that category? Many are out of job because of the situation of the country. The few "housewives" I have met, they are either looking for a job or trying to figure out a business.

😂Mr statistician, so you concluded that full housewives don't exist anymore based on the few housewives you had a personal encounter with.

Wow, this is beautiful.

My petition is out.
https://thenationonlineng.net/group-petitions-tinubu-on-discrimination-against-left-handed-persons/

https://von.gov.ng/tag/young-queen-innovation/

https://www.thepointng.com/forcing-left-handed-children-to-use-right-hand-can-cause-psychological-distress-low-iq-medical-experts/

https://healthwise.punchng.com/stop-discrimination-against-left-handed-persons-group-tells-nigerians/

You can also view it on today's newspaper (Tribune and The Nation)

My petition is out.
https://thenationonlineng.net/group-petitions-tinubu-on-discrimination-against-left-handed-persons/

https://von.gov.ng/tag/young-queen-innovation/

https://www.thepointng.com/forcing-left-handed-children-to-use-right-hand-can-cause-psychological-distress-low-iq-medical-experts/

https://healthwise.punchng.com/stop-discrimination-against-left-handed-persons-group-tells-nigerians/

You can also view it on today's newspaper (Tribune and The Nation)

NewDea4:
Stupid threads for stupid people, to complete the dumbing-down of the Great Unwashed

Bitter leaf no need for all this big big grammar jare. Just use your eyes to look around for the post that suit you.

GreatAchiever1:
I'm speaking the truth as it ought to be. Yes, they were the jobs accessible prior to industrialization. And sure, both the husband and wife were more focused on the home; but, although women handled the more feminine tasks, the husband was in charge of providing for the household, which is more concerned with what to eat, wear, stay etc. When industrialization first began, men were paid to take care of the homes, but when war broke out, they had to hire women. After the war, they resolved to hire both men and women since doing so would increase tax revenue and the advancement of women's rights would advance the cause. Feel free to read up good books or even videos on this to gain more insights. Probably on the waves of feminism.

You don't have to clarify that career is more important than family or not, with the way you keep making more emphasis to career than family, it clearly shows where your priorities lie.

😂You are a clown. From quoting the Bible to recounting the history of gender roles during industrialization. I get you, you will say anything just to feel right.

The good thing is that being a working-class woman is not a sin, nor is it a crime. Just do what is best for you and your partner, and let others also do what works for them. Case closed.

Allisgud:
People wicked o,even the the travel agent don collect him own for back

Azzzzzzzzin.