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crackhouse:
....but let truth be told, that girl was confused and don't know whether to plead or to leave. She was pleading but wasn't too serious about it, I am sure she was reasoning whether the guy is actually a yahoo boy or not when the officer was trying to arrest him and she don't actually know whether to defend the guy or to just keep her cool and watch things as it play out......

TRUE... She looks more confused than loyal

CAPSLOCKED:
YOU'RE EMBARRASSING THE CREATOR OF THIS THREAD WHO HAPPENS TO BE THE CHIEF SCOUT OF "MEN ARE BORING" FC.

THERE'S NO NEED FOR ANY HEART TO HEART CONVERSATIONS. MARRIED WOMEN (ONLY, NO MEN ALLOWED) SHOULD STRICTLY LOOK FOR FUN BY JUMPING FROM MEN TO MEN WITH THE CLAIM OF BEING BORED IN THEIR MARRIAGES.

Lol . ain't embarrassing anyone,just stating the obvious. Afterall the said husbands are busy doing their possible best just so their families can have a comfortable life without hitches.
It's expected of the woman to be supportive and if she feels the marriage is getting boring then its her duty to challenge the Man and spice up their marriage.
In marriage,there's no reverse nor U-turn except there's physical abuse!!

CAPSLOCKED:
DONT BLAME THEM. IT'S NOT THEIR FAULT.
IF ONLY THEY HADN'T MARRIED SCUM MEN WHO ARE CARRIED AWAY WITH WORK TRYING TO PROVIDE FOR THEIR FAMILIES, THESE WOMEN WOULDN'T BE BORED.

Still not enough reason to dive into the guy's timeline like that.. Whatever happens to having a heart to heart conversation with your partner?

This people are just disgracing us each passing day

I do that alot hence I stopped watching emotional movies.. I can't deal biko
3 idiots did a number on me... If I watch it 100 times, be sure I'll cry that 100 times..

Shibaraba:
Wish them a nice day and leave....
Make I employ messyless Messi Wey go spoil AC for me? No way. Carry your mess belle pak and go

Lmao... You don kee me with laugh oh

Beautiful girl...

eduman365:
This is all I have to say... Cheap scammer!!!

You're still learning work

Chei... See casting

midnitestar:
Dear Jzhane,

Do you really help people with marriage problems? Can one actually make marriage work when your newly wedded wife is cheating in less than one year of marriage? I do not know the woman I married 10 months ago. I swear,I now live with a stranger…

My wife and I dated long distance for 2 and a half years before we got married. When we were about to get married,I got her a job here in Lagos. The job is with an advertising firm cos she read mass comm. Being a media person,I know how late work can be for them.

Many times,my wife will come home late,I had no reason to suspect her. She is a nice and well mannered person. And very intelligent. It did not take long for her to get promoted. With the promotion came a car but more traveling and meetings and all that.

I am an understanding husband,I do not feel insecure and I want my wife to succeed and reach her full potential. I will always support her career goals and ambitions.

You can imagine my surprise when my wife was fired from her job last December. I could not understand it. Her boss,an half American loved her…praised her ..she was his best staff.

My wife told me it was a misunderstanding,that the man’s wife saw her as a threat . Like she was growing too big and it was like the man could not do anything in the company without her. I believed my wife. I was pained.I could see she too was not happy but that is life. We are looking forward to her getting another job.


And then,I was at the mall, just a few days to Christmas. I noticed a lady coming out of a branded vehicle. The vehicle was from my wife’s former office. I greeted the lady and she looked at me and asked if we knew each other before..

I said no but my wife used to work in that firm. She asked who my wife is,I told her: Gina. She looked at me in surprise and said :oh my God..so you are the husband of that slut…she apologized for her cursing but she said to me that my wife almost broke up her marriage.

This lady,also a black American seemed like a well traveled and educated lady told me she is the wife of the MD of my wife’s former company. She and her husband built the company together. They have a branch in America but they started the Nigerian branch together about 2 years ago.

That my wife came in,they liked her and trusted her. But when she went back to the US to continue managing the US brand,my wife and her husband started having an affair. To her,it was my wife that threw herself at him. She had text messages and whatsapp messages to prove that.

And she showed me the messages. Dirty sexting… I was shocked. I was ashamed. I was speechless. Of course,the lady found out and fired my wife when she returned. I told her I did not know. I asked her to forward the messages to me.

Getting home,I showed my wife the messages…she started crying. She said she does not know what happened to her..it started as an office flirting but they made a mistake by having s*x and she could not stop. And the man promised to make her head of the company when he returns to the US,so she wanted to please him at all cost…


Now,I know why my wife was always coming home late and traveling. The only question I asked her was: was I not enough for her? Was I not a good husband?…she said I am a good husband but she fell for her boss charms…he was always being kind and romantic and caring..she could not explain herself…


My marriage is just 10 months…the affair lasted almost 3 months..truly,maybe I did not really know who I married because we dated for 2 and half years but we were in different cities…maybe that was her lifestyle but I never noticed.

How does one recover from this kind of situation…I personally think our marriage is over…my wife is begging and she almost took her life. I see that she is sad and repentant but is she sad cos I found out? What if I never found out…I do not know if I could ever trust her again..

Will our marriage ever survive this…your group advice is welcome.



Thank you



Eddy (Not real name)



Lagos

Thank you Bro for posting the full story, no mind the Op

Robi65:
Was chatting with ma friend yesternight (just normal girls stuff) .. and she tend to bring it up .. I’ve got not much clue and so I decide to bring it here .. who’s got hints

Send me a DM... Have something that works wonders

row2ray:
Am I the only one who saw 7 kids from her four brothers... please explain... this part got me confused....incest?

Her brothers kids( what she meant is her nieces and nephews)

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Fake... Don't bother

They are simply cute... God bless their new age!!

Meanwhile, I don't wish to have twins at all.. Their wahala no be here abeg( David and Daniel) comes to mind.. I hear am when I encountered those two dem nearly rearrange my life

Op thank you for the healthy laughter you dished out.
What's the name of this movie and where can I buy it please?

This Una English no be here oh.. Make Una kukuma write for pidgin make we for understand una matter wella.
But seriously you have no bleeping business with her current boyfriend, you were the one that broke up with her, I see no reason why you kept the communication link active and going.
Ex simply means Extinction!!
Apologize to her while she does likewise and move on amicably with no bitterness in your hearts towards each other.

All this children love sef tire person

Yes... Very possible...

It all boils down to you and your partner, if she's the type that likes low key occasion then you are good to go..

Pay the bride price and the necessary items( TM don settle) there's no need for loud music and if the people complains of no rice and all, tell them to come back for that during your post-wedding celebration. The only thing worth celebrating is marriage anniversaries and not wedding.

Court wedding if you are both cool with it with few family and friends as witness OR you can opt for blessing of marriage if you are catholic, then go home and entertain your few invited guests.

What's the point of wasting resources unnecessarily when there are 1001 things to do with money after wedding.

Excel in Silence and let your success announce you

Nigeria is always lagging behind even on fireworks .. Chai!! God help us

Happy new year everyone

This year is yours okay... BTW, marriage is never an achievement sis, do whatever makes you happy and leave the rest for your Maker.
Have a friend who's 34+ she's not married, yet she's happy and living her best life.
Don't let societal pressure drive you into depression(at the end of the day, you are only answerable to yourself and Maker)
Note: dem no dey catch latecomer for husband's house
When it's your time to get settled, you will definitely be.. Delay is not denial!!

ZzZzzzzzzzzzzzz:
Where tf are you flying to

Lol.. To your village

I can not come and carry last...
Thank you nlanders for making this year a memorable and laughter filled one.
Danke!!

Home..

Is cheating the new way of earning money now? Because it's becoming the newest trend in town.. If you know that one woman/man won't be enough for you, kindly leave the relationship and be on your own.
Tired of hearing this kinda news, no longer interesting

I thank God for life, good health and for keeping my family especially my mom from harms way

This is not good at all ... What do some women really want?

God will bless you with your heart desire but be careful with NL Bleep boys my sister.. They are not smiling

Stories like this gives me more reason to be grateful to God for making me an only child.. Really can't deal biko.

How can one's blood sister be that cruel to snatch her sister's bf( ain't cool at all).

The lady should just zero her mind on the relationship for now.. If he comes back to her after everything,then they are certainly meant to be but if not... She should dust her cute ass, wish them well and move on.
It simply means that the guy isn't hers for the keep from the beginning!!

NwaAmaikpe:




First and foremost I'd love to say a huge thank you to the commenter above me.
With that done, over to you OP.

For you to disregard the basics of personal safety by going on a date with a random stranger you met off Facebook shows how desperate you are to settle down.
I also admire your honesty about it as seen in your closing paragraph.

But I'd advice something

Because a woman's greatest laurel is a husband, do everything and anything in your power to secure one if age is already doing an Usain Bolt on you.

A once-married is even better than a never married so stoop low to conquer.
Forget about ideals because life is not yet ideal to you.

If he wants you to be fair, buy all the bleaching creams in the market and feast on them.
If he wants you all natural, shave off everything, look like a Shaolin Monk for him.

If he wants more flesh on you, go to events and ask for leftovers and feast on them.
When you've gotten into his house as a wife, only then you can turn the tables.

But it isn't fair to judge a man who was honest about his preferences.
He didn't lead you on, you led him on by misrepresenting yourself and that was a subtle way of telling you that you did not make his cut.

Quit looking for love on the internet, spend more time in gatherings like Shiloh.
May the good Lord not make you end next year as a desperate spinster.

Shalom.

Be nice mister

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Happy birthday to you.. Age gracefully

Shibaraba:
Good points. Some though can't be feasible.

I've not seen me landlord since I moved in. Na agent dey collect money. Landlord wey dey Yankee. Where he get time?

Important!!!!!!
If na storey building check If those wey dey upper flats na ondo. Trust me this information dey too important.
Once dem be ondo collect your money run. (with respect to them o. I'm not been tribalistic)
Those guys can pound yam for Africa. And na when you dey reason the pounding dey start. Kpom kpom kpom kpom. It was so bad I no dey sleep house again that year. The man comes late. And na late hour he dey pound. And once the sound wake me no more sleep for me.

You got me laughing so hard... Oya ondo people coman deal with this our brother w