importexpert:
This is our problem. Glo currently has 1 of the worst network in nigeria. Instead of perfecting their services in areas they hv occupied they r xpending.

Well in large scale business you do things in parallel. I do agree, Glo needs to do more to take hold of Nigeria market.

Great to see Nigerians making waves. Glo needs to do more to win the Naija market tho. How about investing more in infrastructures Mr Mike Adenuga?

robosky02:



did you say starved?

and you think rape is the way to get it. when there are numerouse people ladies praying to give itfreely.
all you need do is to pay a token called bride price. yet some will not.

Yeah sure, some might be willing to give it freely but not to a dud. The expectation of the average Nigeria girl is just really high, and rightly so. To a sane person rape might not be justifiable, but the average guys tend to think through their dik.
Anyways, there should be more crack downs on rapist and molesters, starting from workplace.

robosky02:
the question i wish to ask is what reason do men give for raping

i understand that women rape too, what could be thier own reason too

hello house, please straight to the matter give your opinion lets stop this madness

Because the average Nigerian guys are sex starved with little or no game. Thus, any presented little chance could lead to desperation.
Nl is the perfect example with the weird and quite frankly embarrassing fetish of some guys towards certain girls on this board.

The reality is, the number is a lot more than the official figures.
Edit: 12k plus rape victims and just a measly140 convicts? That exactly is the problem. It shows the attitudes of the government towards rape cases.
Nigeria government surely needs to do more to protect girls and women.

lordthree:
op your girlfriend isnt fine facially, but she has got a nice body, enjoy
after this girl drops 2-3 babies You'll hate her body, enjoy while it lasts.

Nigga you have issues. How will you feel if someone had said that about your gf?
I pity your girl.
missclassy sort him out.

DoTheNeedful:


Checked your picture. You are ugly by the way . No reasonable guy will travel hundreds of miles to marry a she-ape like you. The funny thing is that you hardly see a pretty Igbo say the trash you have up there. SMH

That's harsh na. Calling her ugly is not nice. I understand your anger though.

Reddit:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xaGmHm7CUuM

Forget tribalism. Though I am successful in my own way, but I still got inspired by that video.

kodded:





my yoruba brodaz una dey ?

Some of us are worth some few millions in dollars you know? This is nothing. I know a man called Mr Akinola, that made $70 million dollars from his hedge fund last year. The point is, Yorubas abroad are just as successful as igbos.
Anyways, fair play to the brother and God bless his and other fellow naija citizen's hustle.

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ddippset:
But Really what's the difference between having sex with just one man 60 times and having sex with 60 different men just one time each? Everyone who keeps a boyfriend with sexual activity before marriage is a prostitute.

Bruh, you just fall my hand.

Crystal83:

Hello. Firstly, I would like to preface this message by saying that I am not a Nigerian, I am from a Western country but am married to a Nigerian. Sometimes things can be taken out of context so I would like to say with absolute sincerity that I mean zero disrespect to anyone. I am just writing to gather extra thoughts and comments on my situation. My husband and I have not been married long, 2 years. We separated recently after an argument which involved him saying that his loyalty to his naija buddies was more important to him than his loyalty to me. This really breaks my heart, as I chose him for life, I put him first in every way, and he does not feel the same for me. And to make it worse, this friend is not a very close friend. He only calls when he is need of help. My question to you all is.. can this ever change and is it a Nigerian trait for a man to have more respect and loyalty to his friends or is this an individual choice? He is the love of my life and I do not wish to divorce, but I do not think it is too much to ask for a man to respect his wife and marriage.

Okay, a more pragmatic advice.
In a way, we are all selfishly motivated, in as much as we all like to deny it. In view of this, you need to establish whether he wants the marriage as much as you do.The narratives about the Facebook and cheating... just set my alarm bells ringing, and it appears he doesn't love you as much as you do love him. This is very common among interracial relationship involving NIGERIAN guys, looking for permanent resident and many more, which I won't go into. Make of that anyway you wish.
I am not qualified to give a good advice, but you need to communicate with him, ask about his opinion about the relationship.
My rule of thumb. If he doesn't care about the relationship, and you think you will be happier being single than married then the answer should be conclusive. Life is too short Ma'am.
Good luck

Crystal83:

Hello. Firstly, I would like to preface this message by saying that I am not a Nigerian, I am from a Western country but am married to a Nigerian. Sometimes things can be taken out of context so I would like to say with absolute sincerity that I mean zero disrespect to anyone. I am just writing to gather extra thoughts and comments on my situation. My husband and I have not been married long, 2 years. We separated recently after an argument which involved him saying that his loyalty to his naija buddies was more important to him than his loyalty to me. This really breaks my heart, as I chose him for life, I put him first in every way, and he does not feel the same for me. And to make it worse, this friend is not a very close friend. He only calls when he is need of help. My question to you all is.. can this ever change and is it a Nigerian trait for a man to have more respect and loyalty to his friends or is this an individual choice? He is the love of my life and I do not wish to divorce, but I do not think it is too much to ask for a man to respect his wife and marriage.

I think you need to dump his sorry aass. Some guys needs to realise 'Bros before hoess' doesn't apply to your finance or wife. To answer your question. Most Nigeria guys (abroad) are not like that. Yours was an odd one.

coolhamid:
it pays to marry a virgin, she would never compare and contrast your skills on bed with that of her Ex....

I pity men that ends up settling down with a woman with borehole kind of pussy...

It comes down to an individual. If you are great at it, then you have no qualms. A girl that slept with one guy can also compare you and feel unsatisfied. Guys should work on themselves and be great at whatever...

This is the reason why some girls lie . You have the average guys smashing 30 girls easily before age 30, and not extending the same privilege to girls. Daris God

falconey:
maximum 26 men

Yup. Based on most guys, 25/26 are generally the acceptable number for girls between 21-30.
The hypocrisy from my side is strong with this one.

greatgod2012:
Yesterday was my daughter's birthday, she just clocked 6. We didn't really plan any party, we just wanted to have a session of prayers to be followed by just eating and giving her siblings some biscuits with sweets, until hubby surprised us with a small cake and a pack of fruit juice made for kids. So, we didn't have choice than to involve the neighbour's kids to celebrate with us. So, after dressing up for her and was time for her to come out, i just noticed that she came out late and when she was coming out, she came with a bag of clothes. She called me aside, and said........"mummy, please help me to give out these clothes to those who doesn't have as much as i do, that is how i want to celebrate my birthday."

i was dumbfounded, i was humbled, infact, i don't know how to describe what she did. I know she has done beautifully well, but never expected such from such a very young girl of 6.


I'm proud of you, my angel!

Your daughter surely has a good heart. You should be rightly proud of her

HoseaAudu:
A real woman looks at your potential and not whats in your account.

Only a Runs girl will run when she sees that balance in your account, pun intended

True that.

tafabaloo:
Only a real woman would see this balance on your account and still stick to/with you.

True or False ?

Oh boi. This is kinda sad. God's blessing to that person.
Back on topic. I think some girls are smart enough to know the account balance doesn't make a man. Your attitude to life and future prospects does.

DeeTus:
Write down her name again. She has really improved now but helping a guy like me sounds somewhat funny.

Cool. See her subsequent replies to my comments to see what I mean. She needs to start respecting people with opposing views In order to get any accolades.
The quote 'Play the game and not the man' comes to mind.
Anyways... she is cool still.

MrsChima:


Thank you for your opinion. You can now sleep wella!



Jealousy is a bad thing ooo

why should I be jealous? Give me a valid reason. Better education? More money? Higher IQ and EQ? Higher status?

Your gratitude is not welcome woman. Don't want to be distasteful and go for the kill, so I shall let it go in peace. I won't take your b.s

missclasssy:
Mizmycoli
Ishilove
Chiam55/dimples192
Beamborla
Vickybee
Idowuogbu
Mrschima
Rocktation
Cao
Cherlene
Xiadnat
Standd

These are intelligent ladies. Most of the other ones I know have deactivated.

(Need to get a record straight)
Don't know much about the others, but MrsChima? Do you even read some of her posts? She couldn't even distinguish between semantic and pendantic arguments for flip sake.
Just to recap on the meaning of smartness-Having or showing intelligence.
You don't need to look far enough to see why she shouldn't be on that lists. Check the first page of https://www.nairaland.com/2265521/nigerian-guys-wiser-more-knowledgable
If a lady can't differentiate between intelligence and wisdom, then calling her one of the smartest romancelanders is pushing the limit of subjectivity.
Double facepalm.
Oh yeah! Vickybee is definitely smart and coherent in her reasoning.

Crowny11:
hey friends! am new here,I love this section,can some one tell more abt romancland.

cc omotayoy123

welcome to the forum. First and foremost, don't take anything too seriously here. It's a fun place.

Loyalblak007:
YOUR NOT NEW...
ITS JUST UR MONIKER DATS NEW

Damn. You guys are not smiling .

cbrass:


You must be a mayweather fan

Lol Yes Sir. I do admire his skill, talents and intelligence in the ring.

obstead200:

You are right. The problem is dat Floyd refuses to hit. He only boringly focuses on not getting hit,..............as if he is reserving his face for a beauty contest

It wasn't quite a master class or a clinic. But it wasn't that far off. Before the fight I said that deciding the winner was close but that the fight wouldn't be. I stick to that view. Pacquiao had a few rounds of success but that was it… a few rounds. Mayweather outboxed him. He came close to giving him a boxing lesson. Pacquiao had no way to consistently land offence, no way to pin Mayweather down and no way to stop Mayweather picking him off. There was no controversy, no real drama, nothing that would demand an immediate rematch. Mayweather simply did what he has done to so many other boxers who came in with dreams of winning. He crushed their dreams and outboxed them.This was the Hagler/Leonard of this generation… but Mayweather never let it be as close as that classic. This was a classic performance by Mayweather. It was not a classic bout to remember through the ages. That, perhaps more than anything, sums up Mayweather's brilliance. He's so good that he takes the drama out of bouts. He's so good that even landing a single punch on him gets a roar from the crowd as it's such a rare event.

Allocsoluwatosi:
Micktoxin u need panadol for declaring floyd the greatest in history. well sha hw old u be, small kid

Small kid has been registered on nl since 2007. Work that out peasant. I doubt you have as much money as me either. Don't talk to me like a punk, because I will boi you. Check my post history to know who you are talking to.

I don't mind you disputing my points, but don't insult me young man. Tread carefully son, before I take you to cleaners.

jnrbayano:


Your opinion (Floyd being in "the greatest" bracket) could be close to being a solid fact only if you added the phrase below:

......"of his generation"

Perhaps... Then again, it will only be an opinion. Generally speaking, sportsmen of different generations are not easy to compare, so it will always be a never ending argument.

Lordabas:
second overhyped disappointment this year after 50 shades of grey

I think your visual expectations for this fight was too high. Though, this fight was not great on the eye, but it was nevertheless a very good technical fight.
BTW dude! Why did you go and watch that 50 shades of crap in the first place? What did you expect? The clue was in the name lol