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If that how he is comfortable...live and let live...

However there is a particular trans agenda that is sweeping the world...

Some of them don't need to go to this extent...some intensive counselling would do the trick

Tehila07:
We got married while I'm in my church.

Please you guys have witnessed how many times I have asked this guy a crucial question...please help him, amaro m

Tehila07:
She was still visiting her church many times after marriage

So what exactly are you saying, did you discuss all this with her or not?

Did you marry in her church or your own?

To my knowledge she's supposed to follow you to your church unless you say otherwise, I don't understand your narrative...

Tehila07:
She just doesn't like our church. For instance, will you expect someone from a church where prophets always tell them prophecies to like RCCG? But she said prophecies revealed I'm the one before she agreed to marry me.

Therefore she's married to you so she should like it...sorry I don't get..which one is don't like it...she has accepted the prophecy already...

I know i can't cope with pentecostal stuff myself that's why I won't follow anybody there...she's married to you so she has taken on your burden...

Anyway I have read some other responses, have you considered keeping on as a teacher in the school and gradually building a ministry as a second business? Maybe that one would be better since she says she will not follow you

Tehila07:
She knew I would become a pastor. My main church is a Pentecostal one. But where I met her, I was attending orthodox to hide from those who know I had been resisting the calling. When I finally made up my mind, I returned to my church. But she doesn't like Pentecostal churches because her church is orthodox.

I don't mean to sound harsh but you haven't answered the question... I am an orthodox worshipper myself and visiting pastors come to my church from all over, equally trainee pastors will also be posted to another place where there is a vacancy. That's an obvious thing about being a pastor...

Did you guys discuss the possibility of moving around? Cos if you arrive in my church without your wife they will tell you to go and resolve your issues before you resume your duties

Excuse me, does she attend your church with you at all? What do you mean she doesn't like it...

When did you people realise that she doesn't like it and what does it have to do with being your wife....

majamajic:
even u can't watch fight in peace ,

they will pick your pocket

my friend received a hug at bus stop ,

phone gone !!

If you get to those kind of stupid places you have to stop browsing and push your phone deep into your bag

Amumaigwe:
You get small pen!s. Check am well.

Are you referring to the clitoris? I don't think drinking that crazy concoction will do anything there

Tehila07:
I'm a pastor in one of the biggest churches in Nigeria. She started a school. Profit can't be in school business at the beginning. So I'm helping with teachers salary at times. But in ministry, if I'm transfered, she must follow me. Now the school is growing fast and she said she won't follow me if I'm transfered.

I've been a school teacher for years and I'm the academic backbone of the school.

Ok I understand it now.

Hmm it's a tricky one but tell me, before you married did you discuss the possibility of having to move to some other place for ministry? That is a big consideration when going into marriage with a pastor.

From a Christian perspective, she is supposed to follow you wherever you are called. That's the essence of being a pastor's wife.

I've seen people move to all sorts of places and wife has to follow. Maybe you should get to the bottom of why she refuses to join you .

How embarrassing.

Maybe they should call buhari to come and whip them so they will stand in line

wisdomhuz:
Go to the nearest state, maybe Bayelsa, that was were I got my early this year when Port Harcourt was short of booklet too.

I don't understand...after all that oil no paper in Niger delta or what?

Lol revolting... aren't they supposed to be wearing safety suits...

Logobenz:
The bolded cannot be trusted.No good businessman leaves a going concern for uncertainty.
His wife's might make more money later sounds like a bullshìt business plan to me.
I clearly don't think that is the case because I will like to believe someone smart enough to build a yielding business should be able to know that is a wrong move.

Sorry I made a mistake. I have modified

His wife just doesn't want to leave her own to support his even though it's making some money

Logobenz:
but he said without the wife,his business isnt going anywhere.
Maybe I understood wrong,someone please clarify.

He said his own is making profit but his wife's own will take a while to warm up

And without her support his own business will crash

He doesn't want to expose himself but its making it difficult to understand where he is coming from

What kind of business do they do

Lol and that hawking doctor stuff is so disgusting...they will be blasting symptoms and causes of erectile dysfunction from a loudspeaker not minding who may be listening

The people selling that tonic have the best marketing strategy I've ever seen..I don't even have a pen!s but the way they emphasise that stuff I just feel like drinking it

Why can't he just be the president...

MedicH:
HIV doesn't need to survive outside a living host because there, it only crystallizes and become a non living thing only to becoime active and start recplictlating when in a host. Aa long as the conditions outside a living host remains favourable, HIV can stay there for 100yrs waiting patiently.

For this reason scientists thinks a virus is between a living and a non living thing.

Got that?

You're just describing the general characteristics of a virus. Of course if it's kept refrigerated and at pH7 then it will survive

As such HIV is a fragile virus that quickly becomes damaged after exposure to air, water or direct sunlight

So worrying about getting it from barbing is not necessary

You can be worried about contracting hepatitis C or ringworm though

lamalang:
Thanks for opening eyes about it. The truth is Igbo women are strong and hard working

Yes

GODPUNISHALABI:
The dream of every Yoruba guy is to marry Igbo.. but seriously I no blame them Yoruba girls no fine ....and them come carry rudeness and weak kitchen skills destroy their market... tho there’s is one from Kogi I met in law school wey fine die but she always claim she not Yoruba but kogi

They are not Yoruba but they answer Yoruba names and speak Yoruba plus their own native language. I served with a lot of them but can't remember the name of that their tribe

I think it's called 'Kaba'

PastorandMentor:
Run from Anambra, Imo, Ebonyi girls.

Oh. What did we do

I just need this current dispensation to end so we can get some fresh people

This government no get style at all...

Every day we will be hearing rubbish...

Aurielfinizu:
But the one we are into now is worse than that of Abacha..

Someone will soon die... Infact two other pple will join him

Yeah but we are used to it....that's why nobody wants to challenge it

I think the abacha one was too much of a shock

Well i wouldn't like to wish death on anybody but at least we need this country to get back to normal.

Aurielfinizu:
No we hardly lose former president..

Na sitting president always die in Nigeria..

Abacha comes to mind..

His own was just getting too much,even by Nigerian standards

If he could have just calmed down small he wouldn't have died so disgracefully

As in his reign was what turned Nigerians to refugees...too bad

cenaman:
ZIMBABWE former president is dead, FRANCE just died when will NIGERIA former presidents die? jona and obj.

You forgot Ben Ali of Tunisia

AgentNairaland:
Who Next President To Die??

It's becoming strange...season of dead former presidents

ednut1:
Rituals are scams and dont work

Some of the more complicated ones do work but carry a very high price

Kylekent59:
You should have asked the guy if he does eat with canteen spoon or if he kisses his gf who has a bleeding gum.


Some people are funny.

Lol there's so much hysteria about it to the point where even the government has been giving wrong information

k2money:
There's no way a 76 year old will be competent

Yea you are right. I just want pmb out lol

modelmike7:
Singing Happily , as i didn't eat the forbidden fruit or take my head to a shrine call barbing salon.

It's actually very difficult to get hiv from barbing...that's a huge misinformation and I don't know where it comes from . That's how I was always afraid when getting weave-on in the salon

It can't survive for *long* outside the body *when exposed to air and water*

Even during the HIV talk at camp they were peddling this lie

**You can still get hepatitis C, tetanus + ringworm from them though...shout at the barber if he doesnt clean/replace his clipper**

But at least the responses to this thread are encouraging.

Even 10 years ago depression and mental illness wasn't taken seriously in Nigeria, even by doctors. The only one people recognized was the "raving' type shown by homeless people

At least people are more sympathetic now, that will lead to more people opening up and asking for help.

Albinoflash:
Pls i have been depressed for over 10years now,even though i live like i aint worried,but its obvious i can't take it anymore.anyone who has been here should pls post how he fought through

Sorry OP. Hope you feel better soon

Have you tried improving your diet and taking up some exercise? It may improve your mood.

Do you have a particular issue that is proving difficult to overcome or you just feel drained with everything?

Do have any individuals in your life or relationships that make you feel bad?

I would not recommend taking any type of anti-depressant drug if you can solve the issue organically

But if you find that you truly need them after consulting a psychiatrist then it's ok

Mummyimbecile:
you are right my sister,another reason,is when their is too much corruption in the system,they use that as an excuse to step in by force,that is why presidents of african countries who are so corrupt,retire military Generals they dont trust,and make their right hand man(Business man in army Uniform) Cheif of Army staff,and make sure that their trusted allies,head various command,so that in such a situation,a coup attempt is made almost impossible,because they will get the information on time,and arrest the coup Plotters

Yeah you have a point.

Hmm so that means no more revolutions in African again.