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imitateMe:
Hmmm...how can I get more secrets from you?
Be my Personal advisor on female behavior and investigation (FBI)

Burgcudi:
Most of the time it is better to quiet than to speak... don’t argue with a fool cos you just made your one once you do. Illiterate person are the cos of conflict most times.

Ifemide123:
I had to create this account today for this. It's really eating me up and I am tired.
I am 24, will be 25 soon. I am this indoor person and so I hardly meet people. My first relationship ended like two years back and I haven't been in a reasonable one since then.
I meet people online cos I don't get to meet them offline, most of the guys I meet are based in different state from mine and they don't mind me visiting, but once I tell them I live with my parents and would need their permission to come visit, they just stop getting in touch. I have lost over 5 potential partners because of this, they all feel we should be comfortable with ourselves first before putting parents matter into it. Some don't see it as a big deal living with my parents, they just find it funny that they wouldn't allow me go visit my boyfriend(note that they wouldn't know him bfr I go visit)
I can't even think logically anymore that's why I am here to ask Wether the problem is with me or them. The only one I met that has travelled to come visit me is verbally abusive. He met my mum and wants things done the proper way.
I am really exhausted. I guess gone are those days where you have to meet your potential wife in her father's house.
I told my mum I want to start attending youth church and she object to it saying I can only change church after I get married.
My sisters are lucky tho, they got a job outside our state and moved out of the house

gift01:
You are a big slim fool just pray you don't get fat so you won't be anoda example of a big fat fool. I felt led to dish her a slap but I prevailed my temper

Guest007:
My sister told me: "You can do whatever you like now that your mother is dead" She meant that I wished for our mother's death. I began questioning myself and fell into depression.

I didn't speak to her for 10+ years after that.

We cool now but that's the worst thing anyone ever said to me...

ayusco85:
You can counter with a superior statistics

Nooneonline:
so u no see any other way to get rich dan to get belle? Be delivered...

yazga:
I have learnt to ignore

Nooneonline:

Nooneonline:

ayusco85:
1 out of 5000 get rich through this means.

Nooneonline:
continue

IamBenita:
Love is a beautiful thing and one of the most astonishing feelings but it’s beyond saying the three letter word “I Love You”.

When you love someone, your action speaks louder than your word, you would do anything and everything in your capability for them. The feeling should come naturally, you don’t need to go out of the way to show your love. Simple things matters a lot.

Here are easy and effective ways to show someone you love them
1. Remind them that they are very important in your life. Use words like, I miss you, you’re special to me. Love

2. Spoil them with your attention and presence. Love

3. Sing their favourite songs with them occasionally. Love

4. Don’t ever ignore their calls, if you are busy, leave a short message for them. Love

5. Listen to them and be on their side whenever they have a bad day.

6. Let them be themselves, it makes them feel more relaxed when they are with you.

7. Hold their hands when you are walking in public.

8. Go for a driving together.

9. Introduce them to your family and friends, it makes them feel more safe around you.

See More proven ways here > https://www.plumdynamic.com/fun-ways-to-show-someone-you-love-them/

imitateMe:
What if she is married, wealthy and powerful? Lol

ThatFairGuy:
Exactly. But once you're not or seems not interested, the hatred they'll have for you won't be describable... Sad

olabrinks:
I’m sorry but not all women are destined to be career women. Self accomplishments are very personal, and what might seem silly to another might be huge to others. To some women, raising children in a stable marital home is their biggest achievement in life. They are happy and fulfilled with that and nobody can take that away from them. They might decide to have a small business on the side but taking care of their home is their biggest career. They are happy. Some career women are forever unfulfilled chasing insatiable dreams. It all depends on the individual. Let everyone do what makes them happy.

imitateMe:
So you're one of them .. Ladies who look in the opposite direction lol

But what if a lady looks at a man and smiles at him?

kay29000:
So true. Chai! I miss my youth... Love is so sweet when you are young.

goat22:
Missjo why are you angry?! Eh why! its not correct!!!! Drink garden egg for the umbuna

samuelchimmy:
chiii, I wonder when Nl will update its emojis, I would have given you knuckles to chop, chiii

Badboibipo:
Lol let's start a WhatsApp page where u would interprete all things female?

Jordanbelfort07:
only an impotent or extremely inexperienced wimp would accept those terms
No high value male with a functioning prick will put up with that bs!!

tescoman90:
Una sure say behind the moniker na Nigerian woman be this?

mafiano1986:
What about you? you are a girl, probably with a nice ass too, if a guy tells you to do it to him with your ass all over his face, would you?

Breaststroke:
OP,

I perfectly understand you and I don't think you're being insecure, my cousin and a childhood friend are the same way as your wife and it bothers me.

My childhood pal has always been a high flying, slay queen long before the term 'slay queen' hit us. Even her mother once said calm down, you want to walk before you crawl.

She's married now but there are rumours of her dating one of her organization's top clients.

Sorry I don't have any real advice other than to say, you're not insecure or crazy for wanting more and better from your spouse.