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Deepthoughts:
No qualms,but when you are sent packing to your father's house don't complain,you think life is an ideal setting,Oya carry on n compete with your man ok.

Emaprince:
That's the rule of Oloshoism. If you are proud to be tossed around and fukced by several men, then you are worthless and...well, deservedly fukced, used and dumped by several men.

However, a man can proudly lay as many women as he wants and still feel like the king of the jungle. Its not easy to be a hunter and nail so many bush animals in a day.

Do not compare because at the end of the day, women loses and cries.

seguno2:
Do women pay dowry to marry their husband?
Do women go to their husband’s family house to marry him into hers?
Do women marry more than one husband?
Do women pay when out on a date?
Do women pay for housekeeping?
Etc.
Does he who pays the piper no longer dictate the tune

omoagbeke:
Fact! If you see me with another woman, I'll say I want to marry a second wife, but if I catch you with another man.......

couragemurphy:
Omen see finishing. Why are you wicked like this brotherly?

Grace001:
You're just saying rubbissh, that's the problem most of you girls of now a days have. You want to hold on to our African culture yet mixed it with western culture hence it brings about confusion.

So because there is DNA, the men should supply fatherly care to the child born by a sluut/dog of woman that has lost her dignity all in the name of westernization and brought shame and reproach to her family. God forbid a daughter like this.
Spit.

PatrioticNaija:
abeg leave cococandy abi na cococandle alone; she is just a confused olosho looking for online justification for he profession

cococandy:
The ones liking it are the same one that shed buckets of tears when they hear of women cheating on their husbands

Shibaraba:
Find another pussy

TotoNaRubber:
My broad, after 5 children you still wan pour again for the six unfortunate child. haha !!!
This is pure abuse of toto, for the fact that you don't have a job doesn't mean you should produce children back to back, you making it seem like you are releasing music albums haha !!!

Just buy sex doll full stop.

whiteeyes:
The way some men even approach the sex thing sef is annoying. how can you be having pre-intimacy and rubbing the woman's nipple like say you dey tune radio station it'll naturally put her off off course!

Nipeks:
Even you must have a level of cognitive dissonance towards this illogical phenomenon. But you can believe whatever makes you happy.

Omalee:
thought I've heard the worst break- up story after my mum told me the story of her friend's daughter who was with her boyfriend on the night before the morning he travelled to his hometown to go pay the bride price of his wife- to- be, the poor girl was relaxing in the guy's apartment while he was in his wife- to- be's house negotiating with her family,paying her bride price and fixing a date for her traditional marriage.

I was upset with myself for not turning off my phone before lying down to take my siesta, due to the nature of my job, siesta means a lot to me, it helps me clear off my head and get ready for the remaining hours before dusk, so you can imagine my frustration that moment my phone buzzed and notified me of some messages,

I picked up my phone and scrolled through, then my eyes fell on a particular mail because of the subject, it read "Help Save A Soul",guickly I rushed to my gmail and started reading, what I read on that mail will be in my memory for the rest of my life.

I say this everyday to people around me, "don't love anyone so much that you will be blind to red flags!! Please don't, I'm warning women everyday because they are mostly at the receiving end.

And to whoever it may concern, please if at anytime in your relationship you have to walk away, please kindly call the attention of the individual you are in the relationship with and tell that individual that you are ending things, tell them in which ever way you deemed right but not by giving them poison through shocking acts,

If anyone is going into a relationship, that individual should know that even relationship with self is difficult talk more of a relationship you are having with a whole different person,someone you are just meeting,falling in love and getting to know and understand one another is not enough to make it a heaven without odds and difficulties, every individual should be ready at anytime to accept the truth no matter how disappointing it may be.

Understand that knowing a disappointing truth is better than wondering forever, often times people feel it will be hard to bear if the person who loved them so much have them call off the relationship they are in with them so they decides it's better to hide certain things and get them to find out the truth by themselves, how about the situation where the person has soft nerves and cannot take in shock?

Emotional attachment is very deep and sensitive, it connects the brain and soul, this is one reason a lot of people can't bear or handle break -ups. so the way you go about it matters a lot.

Just like Kate's story, it was her traditional marriage day, guests have arrived, her family have been busy since the day before , the ground was ready and everything set ,the cooks were busy cooking and serving different dishes, the cooling van parked and drinks were been served chilled,

Read Full story here https://www.omaleeblog.com/2019/01/i-thought-ive-heard-worst-break-up.html?m=1

Maychang:
Where is the story?

LordKO:
Malleable nature of personality makes it so. However, innateness and uniqueness of character makes it an abomination to link it to zodiac and astrological signs. Absence of personality cannot invalidate a belief systems, however there's no belief systems where there's no character.

Happy Sunday.

UyaiIncomparabl:
NO. You always claim to know too much.

Narcissists have an inferiority complex with all people. In particular, narcissists are jealous of anyone and everyone, any time they see someone having something desirable. Because of their high sense of entitlement, they think that, regardless of what the thing is, it should be them that has the thing, not you.

This jealousy must be unconscious, because to consciously be jealous would be to acknowledge inferiority. Consciously a narcissist will not acknowledge inferiority. Part of their complex is a feeling of superiority, which is necessary for them to feel special.

Nipeks:
Listen

Zodiac sign personality suggestion is simply a manifestation of the law of probability. It does not do what it claims it does and there is nothing sophisticated about it (except for the simple minded).

Statistics says there are 7.5 billion people on this planet. That means more than half a billion people were born the same month as you.

Scorpio and other zodiac signs consists of just few lines of personality traits summary. So it makes sense that out of 625,000,000 people there will be millions of people that will possess those traits and you just happen to be one of those people by chance. There are millions others born the same time that do not have these traits.


Confirmation bias is the tendency to search for, interpret, favor, and recall information in a way that confirms one's preexisting beliefs or hypotheses. It is a type of cognitive bias and a systematic error of inductive reasoning.
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Confirmation_bias

Just look at the other Zodiac signs sincerely and see if you won't find other signs that speaks about you, just as much as the Scorpio sign does.

LordKO:
1) Yes. There's a big difference between character and personality.

2) Yes, personality has ALMOST everything to do with zodiac and astrological signs - however, it can be altered. You'll understand this better if you've an in-depth knowledge about metaphysics.

Meanwhile, I intentionally skipped the last question on the last quote. . . Your aura is quite great.

LordKO:
Lol. I'm so tired now to the extent that to string a complete sentence together is a herculean task, but let me try.

Innateness of character and personality - they can be acquired in inform of attitude but not attribute - have nothing to do with zodiac and astrological signs automatically, but they've everything to do with individual's uniqueness. . . Especially character. Separate the two and you'll understand better. Talk about personality alone and I'll agree with you that it has almost everything to do with zodiac and astrological signs.

LordKO:
I remember saying that "they've nothing to do with character and personality automatically." Emphasis on the word "automatically." The easiest way to fall into the hand of a toxic person, is to erroneously assume that because both of you share same birth date automatically, that both of you equally share same ethical leanings. Parents hardly share same ethical leanings with their offspring, then how much more people that share mere zodiac signs.

Meanwhile, the word "altered" rather than "affect" sits well in the context I used it because of my concept of nature/creator of the universe and destiny.

Zodiac/astrological signs don't dictate one's ethical leanings/belief systems.

Meanwhile, you remind me of someone.

DonroxyII:
Your fellow friends have advised you and I am doing the same here ....

Valerie abi wetin said it .... Most of you girls don't know what desperation is but a smart guy knows what it is ....


Redflag one : You shouldn't have opted to come to Lagos at any reason unless you have an event in Lagos and you wanna cease the opportunity to see him , he should be the one to come to Abuja . .....
Then , when both of you established comforts, then you can travel to Lagos as many times as you desire..... That is African woman !!


Red flag 2 : You shouldn't have asked for tfare, he should be the one to provide it of he really want to see you.....

.... You were more faster than the relationship and your partner .... Both of you should be running side by side but you already have a pictures of Disney lands while your man is still reasoning whether you are a good deal or not .....

My sister was matched with a babynigga working in Abuja and the nigga is from our place and we are his KING (Royal).... Nigga said my sister should come to Abuja, she outrightly rejected and ask him to come to our base ....

Around that time , she went to Abuja for visiting VISA into US and I told her not to branch the guy except the guy show face, guy said she should branch for his office .... I said she shouldn't go ........

This is a guy who wants to marry her as a 300l student and still want our parent to be paying her school fees , I told her to drop his head and number in a trash and trash the trash away .... If he can't pay school fees, then he shouldn't marry a student but he said he can't wait and can't afford school fees .... we dropped him ... we can pay our thing ourselves !


You see .... Don't let your brain deceive you, Be an African woman and respect your womanhood, Guys will respect you ....

But if you assume the role of a man , you will suffer psychological disorder when you womanhood and ego get bruised and shoved !!

sassysure:
The pain reduces as one age, believe me. Mine was case study.
The fear of experiencing pains like that again made me opt for cs during pregnancy even if there is no complication.

I faint anyhow or near fainting. Long circle. Heavy bleeding and the worst is that my body is allergic to pads.
During my first cs while I was still semi unconscious, pad was used. By the time I woke up the rashes was out of this world.
The Dr was wondering how I have infection and it wasn't detected before surgery.
Had to tell her it was allergy. Either tampons or good old toilet tissues.
Life of a woman

sassysure:
The pain reduces as one age, believe me. Mine was case study.
The fear of experiencing pains like that again made me opt for cs during pregnancy even if there is no complication.

I faint anyhow or near fainting. Long circle. Heavy bleeding and the worst is that my body is allergic to pads.
During my first cs while I was still semi unconscious, pad was used. By the time I woke up the rashes was out of this world.
The Dr was wondering how I have infection and it wasn't detected before surgery.
Had to tell her it was allergy. Either tampons or good old toilet tissues.
Life of a woman

LordKO:
Yes. Actually, they are akin to destiny and prophecy that can be altered wittingly or unwittingly.

LordKO:
Zodiac/astrological sign has nothing to do with character and personality automatically.

funmisticqueen:
cancer can be narcissistic supply for leo

kinzation:
why not

kinzation:
why all these long post in lasisi Elenu voice ARE YOU MAD

dapotemi:
Pls Call 07046066641

Sirpaul:
20k ! Euro calculate am shiooooooooooooooor

dapotemi:
You will get it at MONTAIGNE PLACE. Kindly visit any shoprite mall and ask for MONTAIGNE PLACE

Timisamd:
oh! To you ..

Ranchhoddas:
How I love planes.

adonainana:
Based on my experience, being middle ground is the best option,so provide rooms which can boast of the basics,( air conditioners, water, desks ) like the basics even yahoo boys have in thier rooms or houses. There is nothing special about a big massive hotel designed with glass and has all the facilities and is a simple hotel design and also has the facilities
When you building a hotel, carter for extra big big rooms for richer clients and something very small for those who just want to sleep and wake up
I am not a fan of classy hotels because there are few great locations you can build them in, also Nigeria is the poverty capital of the world, very few people have 20k to spend on a hotel for the night.
The trick is to make people come to sleep there per night. So you must be middle ground.
Also with regards to location, you must be located near a university,polytechnic, college of education or boarding secondary school. Or near where factories or companies are. Its not the end of the world if you are not, but in business you must be able to help yourself to make money as much as possible. Add me on whatapp if possible.

adonainana:
Ha bro the reasons are plenty, its the safest most direct way of generating income from real estate. Like 5 houses cannot ever match the money making power of a hotel. The one i am currently involved in was built 20 years ago in 1998, believe me it still has an average of 3 customers every day till this day. its net profit in the region of 400,000k every month. 400,000k after 20 years bro. Imagine the equivalent of how much money it first made in its first 5 years. I have never seen a business where i can be 4000 miles away but i still know how much money every month it makes.

The only downside is that it must never be neglected, it must be renovated every year with particular mandatory changes to its bathroom facilities.

I dont mean to be too dramatic but What this 14 bedroom hotel has done for me within the last 20 years cannot be emphasised. E.g School fees, visa, surgery, shopping.Its such a solid business like no matter the day of the year it is, someone will always come to the hotel and give me a minimum of 4,000 naira for me to sell a room to them. Like no matter what.

I have never seen a solid business like this in my life ooooo

Gratefulheart01:
Lol, alright dear.

Majority of people in life spend most parts of their lives working and looking for money rather than living and enjoying life or even the money.

People work to get money while some other set of people work to take the money away from people.

It is well.