₦airaland Forum

He treats people lower than him in a disrespectful manner

He's arrogant

He mocks weak people

ddippset:
America and Europe did not fix their health sectors in one tenure or even 8 years.

They did it over time, prolly a span of 50 years; they needed to provide infrastructure, train doctors, nurses and co, up the budgets.

You hypocrites should stop limiting this to Buhari.

Our successive governments have failed, led by the same pdp of which the same Reno is a member.

If Reno' s boss Jonathan had done anything tangible in the health sector, the idiot wouldn't be there in London carrying placards today.

Lol, if Buhari had left Nigeria the way it was, then you would have been right. No single improvement in any sector, the health sector is worst. He could fix presidential hospital within 4years, at least, he could have fixed ear health sector alone since he knew that is his major problem, and wouldn't need to waste our resources going abroad. If he had done just this, then you might have been right,and have some points.
You are wrong in all ramifications

southniyikaye:
Sometimes, I just think am not channeling my energy into what really matters to me..
Like not focusing on what am good at..

I just Sabi say this country no go kill my dream

Chat me up,let's discuss and solve the problem

Vaughanlanrewaj:
It really does not matter sir. It's just a matter of time, you will realise that you will get from Nigeria what you wish for Nigeria. You will get from Detroit same thing you wish for Detroit. I know someone who talks down on Nigeria like you and feels he has spent long enough overseas to insulate him from the curses he rains on his fatherland. When covid-19 swept people away in the UK, he was one of those who didn't make it back enough and the rest is history. He is 6 feet down below somewhere overseas not even his graveyard was seen by his relative here in Nigeria.
When he needed to run down to Nigeria, by providence, our airspace was shut and he was shut out. He got exactly the bad stuff he gives to the land and even both his living and dead did not make it back to Nigeria.
If you can't bless the Land, don't curse it because it will haunt you someday.
Money and character are two different things. If you don't have a proper upbringing, sadly, you can't buy it. Bibire o se fowora

Keep on decieving yourself and your generation

Vasgas:
okay, why the sudden switch

There wasn't any switch, I couldn't get it because I had ko connection

Vasgas:
Are they not well paid.

I finished with a first class, best graduating student in both bsc and MSC, yet I'm not a lecturer, what I wanted to become earlier

LadyTiannah2:
Babe did it work?

Of course

1. The award is politically motivated, trust me, they are not the best teachers
2. 13 people out of how many? Thousands
3. The pay of teachers is nothing to write home about, it's a slavery job
If you like yourself, don't aspire to be a teacher, or have your private school and teach. Don't think of teaching in public secondary schools

toplinetrtrend:
Please what exfoliation product/method do you suggest/recommend?

Chat me on what'sapp. Check my signature for my number

Nigeria can work, lol. You must be joking

If you are Lucky to read this, kindly know that the op has successfully written nonsense.

If you are not connected, know the VC, governor, Hod, you should forget it.
Also being a lecturer is a path to average poverty, with loads of works

I'm talking from experience, Doing PhD wouldn't help either

sinkhole:
I actually shed some tears reading this
The child is just eleven and already perfected the art of stealing and apparently has already known that the consequence can not pass beating and shaming!
My worry is, what will happen to this girl in the next nine years, when she will be twenty, I strongly pray by that time she wouldn't have added prostitution and the likes
To my own understanding, I think this girl is very active, very creative and daring to make her matter worse, it seems she is being less engaged and she has a lot of time at her disposal!
Besides those who had suggested therapy and counseling for her, I will also add that the parents should actively engage her in some learning activities, apart from regular schooling, such as enrolling her in sporting, music, computing, etc, activities.

Don't bother, they will not do that, they will keep taking her to pastors houses to deliver her of demons

What I'm seeing in the child is confidence and boldness, and she fears nothing, if only such power could be channeled to something else through psychotherapy, she would become great

Hmmn

airminem:
"We must work together to make Nigeria great because we must not fail, Nigeria must not fail, if Nigeria fails, the black race has failed and may it never happened."

He WHO has ear let him hear

So Nigeria has not failed?

Hmmn

pocohantas:
Total waste of time. Any of them quoting me is just wasting his time. I rather watch paint dry that have a conversation with 99% of them, let alone the slow and predictable ones on NL.

Most of them are BROKE and DUMB. Ignoring them is best

Hmmn, see comments
This is only typical in an African setting, I could post same in an international group, and you will see how comments would be different. Body shaming is normal in these people's village

Sometimes I wonder if its illiteracy that Nairalanders male suffer from, or just pure hatred for women including their mothers and sisters.
According to commentators here, its the woman's fault to have gained weight after giving birth to the children they both have, and the best way the husband can use to inform her is by abusing her(emotional abuse), comparing her with their pastors wife who has given birth to 5children.

One idiot even said protein causes diabetes and thus the husband is helping her by emotionally abusing her.
In reality, I do not speak with an average Nigerian, some call it pride, I don't have time to waste with a dumb irrational wanna be dumb person

Op I would help you with tips to reduce your weight in a sustainable way, and I hope you serve him Emotional abuse by comparing everything bad about him in a very playful manner and laugh about it. By then, he would realise he's not perfect as well
Even if you mistakenly compare me as a friend, that would be the last time you will hear from me, and if that happens to be my husband, I will punish him for a year after he apologizez if he doesn't, that would be the end of the marriage. Nothing would make me cry over a body shaming wicked man. But I can only do that because I'm self sustained, and I'm a rich lady on my own, an introvert and a genius in the making. And that's why we preach women empowerment, don't copy me if you are a LEECH, a PARASITE, and you can't BREATH without a MAN, you can't buy CAR without a man, you can't eat without a MAN. Ladies should learn to be independent, that way, you will be respected

LadyTiannah2:
Why is it that many Nigerian men are fond of trivializing the act of carrying a pregnancy to term and giving birth?? Like do you men think that thing is easy?? Carrying a baby for nine whole months, having your body change drastically --the weight gain, painful boobs which start to sag, frequent urination, cramps etc-- then pushing out the child, not to mention the depression some women feel afterwards. Has any of you ever bothered to watch a video of a woman in labour to see the agony she passes through?

Yet one entity with an appendage dangling between his legs will come online and show so much disrespect to women, they'll say things like "and so what, is she the first woman to have a child?", "there's nothing special there", as if its easy. She'll take care of the child, clean the house, cook, yet a man will make her feel inadequate and that she's not contributing to the home because she's not earning money. Let me tell you now, being a mom is a full time job and any woman who is able to combine rising a child, taking care of her home and adding a paid job yo it is a goddamñ super hero in my book. Learn to respect women. As long as a woman isn't showing you disrespect or causing you harm. show her respect and stop being a fúcking asshóle. Period.

And before some of you start yarning dust, I'm not a mom or pregnant. Not even considering marriage yet, cos to be honest, the thought of marrying the present day Nigerian man scares the crap out of me

Lol, you don't know African men, most of them are dumb,selfish and irrational. Their pride is in shaming women especially this present day generation of men, its a waste of time discussing with them or making them reason things out.

They are not capable of matured discussion, they just want to shame woman,without thinking of their mothers and sisters at home

Hmmn, all these wanna be bloggers

You went online to download images and wrote, warning, graphics contents

Well, I'm sure 90% of what you wrote is nonsense and not true.

Africans generally have inferiority complex with white people, that's why they worship anything white
Africans need to stop longing to be involved, because whites see us like slaves and thus they won't include us.
I repeat, those whites sing nonsense compare to what we sing in Africa here.
Tell me what Cardi B sings please if not rubbish compare to Qdot and that old Apala man, I don't even know his name.
Whenever I listen to Oyinbo people's songs, I usually hear noises and grumbling, and yet those nonsense will get awards.

WalexyWWE:
my bad indeed. my atm pin is very easy to remember once you are close to me my brothers and sisters know it as well. it is my date of birth, same as my phone and PC password.

Lol, you are so funny, you are even typing it to the world. Don't you think you can be tracked down, its better you go and change all your passwords please. I understand you are a simple man, but this life requires us to be able to thrive in all dimensions, sometimes simple, hard or average depending on necessities

Please finish this nolywood story for us

Radarada, arrant Nonsense

How many Africans won? No, he didn't win because he merited it, he won it because the white folks felt like let's give these animals one award this year so they could rejoice and feel they have achieved

Comparing Nigerian Music to all these nonsense music is an insult. You want to tell me Cardi B sings better than that old Apala man? Abi Wasiu Ainde? Well, they organize it and they distribute it as they wish. That's why, after 30years since Sole Soyinka won Nobel Laurette, we are yet to see another one.

Nigerians are thiefs

This is why I hate Christianity. How can a prophet, pastor, woman tell you your mama dey do you, and you go believe/accept?

Yes, serves the woman (your mother) right because I'm sure she go believe in all these useless future seer's as well who can't see their own future.
As for being fetish, well, majority of Africans are fetish because they want to prevent one evil or another or because they think another person is fetish. Fetish doesn't have to be associated with witchcraft alone because both Muslims and Christians are fetish, all in the name of one useless dream, or future seeing they have encountered

This is African leaders, this is the stupidity they engage in and yet wish to be like their fellow white Humans, nah, it's not possible. This is one of the many reasons Africans will always remain at the bottom of human pyramid and would be likened to nothing but an Animal. What a shame!

How is this an examplary for the younger ones? Kings should be role models, how's this role modelling? Well, this is the face of Africans with irresponsible leaders up and down, every nook and crannies

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Akamariner:
Quite modest, lol.
I understand you sha.

Go and get yourself a job and try to be real. Even if na cleaning Job, just go and do. Do away with anything fraudulent, including lieing up and down, and your life would become better. Wise up and enter the street to hustle, finally, leave Nairalan alone, stop wasting your time to be creating 1million accounts on nairaland and faking. A word is enough for the wise, and henceforth, do away with my posts, I dislike frauds and liers

Noblejay7:
The truth is their are no jobs to go round. so please hide your certificate and enter the street. Hustle like you never went to school.

If you will keep pride aside you will definitely find what to do. Example;

1. Learn to code,
2. Tailoring
3.POS
4. Phone charging business
5. Extra lesson centre or run a maths cafe
6 teach musical instruments
7.learn to produce music
8 learn how to run a barber shop
9.learn a to drive earth moving machine
10 learn welding
11. run a mini business centre in a university
12. enrolled as a apprentice with a Igbo trader


By all means wake up in the morning and get going. Do the available until the desirable comes by.

I remember when this used to be my thoughts. About 5-6years ago. This is a true path to POVERTY and looking haggard. My statement is deep,so don't bother to think it over, you may never understand my point

Heathrow44:
"Don't wear expensive clothes to impress people because nobody really care about your appearance. You can use the money for expensive clothes to better your life. You don't need to be buying plenty clothes, you can manage the little you have, iron it and wear.



I used to believe this way of thinking that people don't really care how u look, so I "used" to dress haggard and unkempt bt the truth is that looks is important, ur appearance matters, u need to dress like someone that has a proud home, someone that's alive, u need to appear that u have a family and u represent the image of how ur family is, u re a special ambassador and envoy of Nigeria to the French High commission that's how u dress! Remember, that phrase " U are addressed the way u dress" rings true to me! Looks matter than u think, even looking good makes u feel confident, important and welcoming! I discarded that old way of thinking, besides life is short y dress like a dead man while u re alive! Even if u re poor and wretched, nobody needs to know that!

Me too, I used to not care about how I dress and look. But now, I package where I need to and trust me, even people would do favour for you because they will think, oh! She's a senators daughter and thus let me help her. They will help carry bags without asking, in fact some bank workers would come meet me and ask me what I need when I'm the last person on que. Nigerians are stupid and funny, they worship rich & influential people, and thus, once they sense you are one of them, then they get to help you without asking.
An average Nigerian is dumb, quote me any where. That's why they worship their oppressors

Op is 100% right

Hmm