spiceadole: That was how one teenager insulted me with "old cargo" on Facebook because I cautioned him for abusing a man, old enough to be his father... I told him I agree I'm an old cargo, no problem.. but this my old age, he will not experience it. Dude raised alarm. He pain am!!
AdaNri1: If 36 is old to you that means you’re still a baby. What are you doing on NL? Are your parents aware you’re here? Child, this is an adult zone, hand the device back to mummy and don’t come here anymore ok? You can play Roblox if you like but leave now.
Didnt u check the name? It says admissionclass. The way people castigate old age like its a bad omen. No one stays young forever. Old cargo, u don old, evening newspaper etc. Like they are cursed to live long. Its great to be advanced in age becos lots of people dont make it to a certain age. So lets all celebrate advancement in age. Babe abeg leave dem small pikin wey still dey suck bress
Cashsteady: Bicycles are seen as an essential means of transportation in most European countries and Asian countries and some few countries in America and Africa,not that they don't have cars but they see it as a faster means of moving within the city..But still don't understand why people here don't adapt the method... Here in Nigeria if you ride bicycle on major roads people just keep staring at you because they don't see it as common thing. Some even see it as a sign of poverty, everyone wanna drive exotic cars so they can get noticed...
What people don't Know is that bicycle is actually a faster means of transportation to move within a city rather than waiting all day long in your car stucked in traffic. A journey you Would spend 2hrs With your car stucked in traffic you would spend less than an hour with a bicycle..
I strongly think Nigerians should adopt this method most especially in Lagos.. fancy cars is not everything.. bicycle saves time and it's cheaper to afford..if we adopt this method I can tell you traffic would drastically reduce in Lagos and Nigeria as a whole
On which road? Do we have marked space for cycling? U want to leave the country worse than it has been. There must be adequate plan for it. The roads are not even aide enough for vehicles. Give us like 1000 years from now.
threegees: Teamie, we're in the same shoes here o. She rejects every other food now. Even the noodles, and semo and soup she was taking before Only takes custard, and cereal. I had to introduce tea, as well. She'll be 11 months old tomorrow. I'm honestly tired.
Just yesterday i blended different veg and it was in the right consistency. Oya na come and take, it was a battle. She ended up regurgitating the little one she took in and I was so frustrated. Im also in a group called what to expect. Its a foreign group like this. I read that kids her age feed themselves already but not perfectly and are taking different types of food. They also take their milk in between meals.
Good day mamas, pls help me oo. My 10 months old has refused to take the normal food we eat. Its so frustrating because i read they are supposed to be eating what we eat by now. She only takes pap that consists of millet, corn and guinea corn,a mixed with milk. Cerelac is what she started taking recently. Pls how do i make her take what we eat? Thanks for your help.
Lamanii22: I noticed recently that whatever my husband likes is what I like, for example, I originally use FCMB and my partner uses zenith, immediately I opened an account with zenith... Another one, I listen to foreign classic songs basically while my partner's more into Tupac and Orlando owoh, I totally love those songs now... I don't eat fufu before but I'm liking it now lol.....
Its a beautiful thing. But babe, how old is this relationship again?
Created an account today to tell the story of how he set up a business for his wife which has gulped over 30 million naira and has failed.
"My dad had to sell his house in lekki and is in the process of buying a house in Ajah because he needed only 10m to complete his house in the village which I could have easily provided if it wasn't for my indebtedness through my wife"......Who sells prime property in Lekki because he needed to complete a village house?
Thank u jare. See as e dey even call money anyhow. Which woman will act like that? The story looks fake to me. And as usual, people have already started fuming
Most Of Nigeria Ladies Has Nothing Good To Offer To A Man.
Back To This Thread, Why Will MR COVER, Give That Lady 40million naira, Instead of MR COVER Giving that Lady that money, I will use the money and donate it to motherless babies home.
The 10,000naira, I collected from her beg, that's what I will give back to her.
There are so many ladies out there, with that 100million naira, that I won, I will buy any type of lady of my choice.
The Day, Nigerian Ladies Has Something Good To Offer To A Man, I, Mr Cover, Will Also Change This Mindset Immediately.
There is no single blessing that will come from the so called motherless baby's donation. You think he is helping God? God does not need his money becos he is denying some one that gave him the opportunity of earning that 100m her right. Causing her pains. What is there to give her more? Im not saying he should give her 40m. To me its too much. But they are dating and he could not have seen such amount in his life if not for the lady. Mind you, this is gonna be my answer if the reverse is the case. Chai, 100m minus 10,000k. God knows if he gives some people money in this life ehh, what they will do their fellow human being devil sef go shock!
He even stole the 10k. Nairalanders, una dey go church or mosque so? Haba!
Neddstark: Nigga is a simp. If you leave cos of finances, he'll come back begging. That is a weak man. If every Nigerian soldier were like him Boko Haram would have conquered Abuja
Sorry i didnt read the trash u posted. But learn to widen the scope of ur knowledge to decipher different ways to understand simple statements. I dont have time for ur ignorance
ceeceeuwa: Everyone's mother is the best, yet they say Nigerian women are bad. Abeg, did their mothers come from jupiter?
No mind them, funny enough, the man's mum might not be able to take care of the kids oh. The bottom line is, we are just readers that do not know the full gist
bukatyne: Prior to this job loss, how was the relationship between the both of you?
If you have lost your job, why does she still expect you to foot the bills like you normally do?
Does she earn? If yes, does she contribute to the family pot?
What have you done to secure another source of income? You have five kids which is a lot in today's economy and everything is freaking expensive in the market right now.
What should you do?
Ignore your family and invite her back home to discuss the your issues.
I believe she told you she was going to her family house during the misunderstanding that's why you immediately knew where she went to with the kids.
I would have said you go to your in-laws house however, if they did not deem it fit to intervene/resolve the issue, then leave them out like your parents. Both in-laws seem to have given up on the marriage which goes back to my first question:
How was the marriage pre- job loss?
During your engagement, also assert that you would not tolerate her leaving home for issues anymore except they are life/death and she is willing to end the marriage.
With hardwork, you will break through.
Amen.
The inlaws are already shouting that he should leave the wife. The woman is even kind enough to take the two youngest kids. They are not ready to help out in any way but to instigate matters. Bunch of useless set of people. I believe they were dependents when the man had a job but see their contribution. Like they are ready to step in. They are useless and i say it becos when hubby had issues, non of them stepped in to help. My family did everything including returning the C of O the bank took. This was few weeks after i got married oh. Meaning i wasn't there when he was 'loaded' like they said. We separated. Only for me to come back after we settled and started hearing that i came because things are better. Ahh, egbon shebi i follow una eat the money? Bunch of parasites that do not care about you when u are down. Thank God hubby knows better. Op, born again u hear? 5, and u expect her to stay. Rubbish
First, I don't support the way she left. Marriage should not be all honey and darling when the going is good.
You guys didn't have any outstanding issue apart from the money thing? No quarrel ...no beating?
If that's the case, I think you should call her mobile phone.
I think you should try to meet her and discuss issues together.
Crowdfunding for public advice may not be too good sha. Awon redpills are coming to tell you to take in another woman.
Wouldn't another woman leave too if it is unbearable?
You don't need to be a redpill. You need to be an alpha gentleman. You need to know your responsibilities as though they were your body parts.
I must say... I hate it when families know husband and wife are having an issue.
We shouldn't listen to our family sometimes.
Check: they are all concentrating on the woman but none of them is telling you be more responsible. Of course, they'll support you with words. Will words help you take care of your family?
When I mean trying your best, I mean living up to the expectations of being a man; it is your responsibility to take care of your family! You don't bear children more than you can take care of.
You may rightly argue differently that you work hard. Sure, you do. But you aren't working harder enough for the family. You need to man up.
Bring your wife back.
Be the husband you'd want your daughter to have.
Be like the man who was sent to the lions to be eaten but came back leading the pride.
Please don't forget to buzz me when she is back make I come chop nkwobi biko.
You are welcome.
Nothing more to add here. But for entertainment purposes, let me read other (ignorant) comments. May God continue to give u wisdom and bless your home. You are a good person. Bia, op, embrace this comment like u do to your wife when producing 5 kids this period. Make sure you born again u hear?
Kobojunkie: She is much better off managing a bit longer in that house than rushing into marriage in a bid to save her "mental health".
A bad marriage is a whole 'nother level of mental devastation that should be avoided even more than the plague.
You are perfectly correct. But in dire circumstances like this, what do u think is the best thing for her to do? staying there isnt the best for her but moving out, she might succeed and breakthrough. Its good atimes to leave our COMFORT ZONE to breakforth.
Juliusdaughter: He is actually a good person, unfortunately my mum has refused to see beyond his 'government worker' pocket.
The grass is not greener on the other side but since he is a good person, honestly u do not have an issue. If one can get a good person as a partner in this wicked world, ur problems are slashed in to half. The sky is ur stepping stone. I sincerely wish u well my love. Take the bold step and know that life itself is a risk.
hilltop007: With the situation of the economy and the increase in prices of commodities, I am always wordering how parents (especially teachers) with children survive.
I am a single corper and the monthly 33k is not enough for me. Many of my corper colleagues are also complaining. WHAT ABOUT PEOPLE WHO HAVE CHILDREN? Does your family eat three square meals a day? What do you do when your children fall sick? How do you pay school fees. How?
You need to watch ur lifestyle if 33k isnt enuf for u. Outside hard o. 30k is poverty level
I had same experience while growing up, mum was always on my neck for every reason.. I made up my mind to leave.. Rented an apartment, furnished it and just left. She wept wen I told her my reason for leaving... But I earned more respect from her which has continued to grow uptil date.
Meaning she was doing it without realising she was hurting u. Hmmmmm. U have a point that leaving is the ultimate solution. I pray the partner doesnt treat her bad becos of it.
Kobojunkie: Please, do not let this cause you to rush into marriage. Instead, try to get yourself stable even before you marry so you are able to be an equal partner in your marriage.
Ofcourse, she is leaving the house to protect her mental health when she might not be well quipped to do so. Thats the irony of life. Pressures like these is what makes one decide to marry and then, fall into wrong hands.
FutureIsFemale: A Nigerian human rights activist and lawyer, Rene Omokri has taken to the social media space to share a video of his 6-months-old daughter, Ebele Omokri performing push-ups exercise.
Reno, in a post he shared, his daughter, Ebele, could be seen doing push-ups. Reno said he does push-ups every morning and whenever he does push-ups, his daughter sees and tries to mimic him. Finally, she was able to do it.
On explaining how his daughter of 6-months could perform push-ups, the human rights activist said that his daughter has been on exclusive breastfeeding and has never tasted cow milk.
Mr Reno claimed that not taking cow milk has been the secret behind his daughter’s intelligence and strength.
In a follow-up post, Reno recommended that parents feed their babies with breast milk instead of cow milk. “My daughter, Ebele, is exclusively breastfed. She has NEVER tasted cow milk. I spend hours each day talking baby talk with her. Everyday, we take her out to enjoy the sun and play. Something my wife and I recommend to one and all”, he said.
Pls help me beg Reno to stop making noise. It is recommended that babies start taking cow's milk from one year old, which we mothers all do. So whats all the fuss? so women that cant breastfeed for some health reasons or those of us that cant do exclusive breast feeding but augment with formula should do what? One day he will tell us the best style to give our spouse in bed