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siofra:
Don't generalise abeg.
Not every girl is like your ex

Many of women offer emotional support, comfort, peace of mind, status etc. But you wouldn't know that because you're busy running after kids.

Swears, you made good sense, I nearly took interest in the author of this comment...until I saw Siofra.

You have quite a reputation here.
...and it's not a good one.

Great point tho...women of substance still exist among us, if we search well enough.

Have you noticed that these rich guys don't really want to serve this country.
Almost all of them don't show up for service until they want to eat from politics.
The same politics/government they've been living fat on, yet they find it denigrating to partake in the NYSC for just one year.

BennyDGreat:
Then she couldn't have been able to get to the police station. Her escape is what led her to the station

Or maybe she call the police with another person phone...na one of her customers.
That's what the husband was suspecting....wetin give you moral?

That's another angle of thought which I'm not exploring...buh, dangers of one-sided story

Kobojunkie:
So why exactly do you feel guilty for having him arrested for 2 days? Would this all had gone better if he had taken to smashing your head after smashing everything else?

Now that you are obviously aware the man has taken to acting out violently, don't you think it makes sense at this point to distance yourself and your kids from him instead of worrying whether he is in speaking terms and if he has eaten or not? Please, separate yourself from that man asap. The space might do him a whole hell of good..

Well said.

Usually when it gets to this point...that's the last straw. Separation aka DIVORCE

But if I'm the man hitting my wife, I'll advice her to get me arrested to restrain me.
It is the right thing to do.

A reasonable man should be able to live above this.
The police are just reminding him to be disciplined and act within the law.

It's a mindset something.
The police is not your enemy.
Every thing is not violence.

Her using the police against him, doesn't mean he cannot use the police against her someday.
The police is for everybody.
It doesn't really give her an upper hand.

Take responsibility for your error, forgive yourself, ask for your wife's forgiveness too...and go back to being a loving/supportive father and husband.

[s]Some of us did these things at adolescent...these guys are all below 25yrs.

Everybody blood dey hot for man and women matter....we eventually panned out good.
E fit be say she no even dey date any of the guys...and only one of them has probably seen her pant.

It's just spur of the moment...and her age allows her to live free, mk she no carry belle or disease sha.

I wouldn't judge a lady this age by this picture. [/s]

Mod

I just saw the full picture....how do I delete my comment?

Where

Humbrown23:
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Is the investment not tied to a physical building apartment?

96ACE:
Gather here if you’re happy england didn’t win the cup

It's not happiness per se...we're just glad


...we will not be counted under their Conquest to the Title.
That would be a long time shame on highlight.

Storypot:
Very Nice. Thay reece James sister stomping on our dear baby was the height of it and their undoing!

How?

They still got to the finals!

Did the match ban affect her till the finals?

-I've not been following since our women lost.

England reach final?!

So if to say we beat England, na we for play final?!

Damn!

(Some Nigerian reasoning)

PlayboyCarti:
Man dey plan, God sef dey plan.

But always wake up with your own personal plan daily.
Sometimes, it keeps you in the right place and with people of same vibe...less time open for trouble.

Hopefully, God's plan helps us grow.
We grow when we overcome.

Omo na discipline o.

Self discipline, dedication to task, excellence in execution and pursuit for knowledge...intentional living.

You just have to wake up, and live a planned and organised life.
Live everyday as you've planned..if not, life will keep happening to you.

Ff...

dontrulee:
Dey play.
And you think he'll change the mind and habits of his over seven million followers?

If Bill Gates or Mark Zuckerberg start professing the Christian faith, will they change the mind of some of their followers?

It time we engaged repentant smokers to start using the media to teach people what has worked for them...how they stopped...coped with withdrawal et al.

A repentant smoker has been there and out...follow who know road

Lol...una wan form Union against a private business?!

If you don't like their terms, go patronise their competitors...or start the business yourself.

Same argument for Multichoice- DSTV

Goodness91:
I appreciate but let's have more options

I'm open.

Reach out when you can.
Esp for the NYSC.

They are in camp now, Redeployment is on-going.

Bring work come, make we raise capital.
I'm here in Abuja, so we can meet physically...I'm 100% legit.

Why are they appealing?

Are they not suppose to uphold the result of the constituted Disciplinary committee?

Why dem dey find wetin no loss?!
Why are they witch-hunting our gurl....tomorrow if we shout Racism, they'll say its victimisation mentality...but this is looking like colonial imperialism.

Goodness91:
A driving job private or commercial, sir/ma. I can relocate if necessary

Relocate go where?

I dey Abuja.

You go do Dispatch rider?
Or Field Marketing for Pure Water company?
Or bring clients for NYSC direct posting/redeployment.

These ones na journalists abi terrorists?

Person dey shout Olè for background

ravensckar:
Judging from the way you sound, one can conclude that you're an APC supporter. You supported Buhari's eight year's misrule, yet you didn't learn your lesson.

You carried Tinubu's matter for head like gala, insulting innocent hardworking people on this forum. Now that your saviour's policy has come back to bite you, you became too ashamed to chew your words and seek genuine repentance. Dey play!

Let me ask you OP, do you know the first step in problem solving? It's admittance. If the one suffering from a problem can't admit there's problem, then, he's not ready for any solution. Until you use your main moniker, no one will take you seriously.

Na them.
I know if an OBIdient was in this kind of distress, they will understandably ask for help...with their real identity.

This one seems to be ashamed of all his old posts.

#RenewedShege

What do you want...you didn't mention in your post.

You want your post to get to front page?

Is that it?

kayperry:
what perks can a woman singlehanded initiate kiss, romance or sex without a man playing along, how can you forget sex take two

A boyfriend is not recognised by law, regilion or culture until he takes major steps therefore no boyfriend owe any gurlfriend anything ... its just generosity don't feel entitle

If we are to learn from our parent, naija gurlz won't get most of the goodies they get freely today, our parent were more conservative, prudent and above all there was no yahoo yahoo or easy cash to blow around

Maybe DMW is not telling the full story but one truth is every single gurl remains her father/parent responsibility until she is married, whatever you get from dating is just simple generosity

What should a good wife-material woman bring to the table?

Her father feed, clothe and shelter her...despite his broke-ness.

If you can't feed her, cloth her and shelter her...leave her be.

Dating is also a responsibility on the MEN, else don't blame her, if she's not loyal to you. She has needs too.
Women, on the larger scale, were not trained to MAKE money and RAISE a family.
They were trained to make themselves fit for a MAN, who has made money and is ready to Raise a family.

Poor people have no business chasing gurls...they should be chasing money.

Make we see whether them manhandle you

U actually want us to watch the full match...?

Spend data in this our economy?
What are we going to learn from it?

Chummynoni:
A supportive woman is all you need to avoid depression in this trying times. I am married with a kid. Biz is being shitty, but my woman keeps assuring me that the storm would be over soon .

You didn't say she was giving you money or handling some responsibilities...which she's probably doing.

You said she keeps assuring you...

What most ladies do not know is that, this assurance, support, positive vibe, believe, commitment, respect, emotional intelligence et al; are what a man treasures in a woman.

Things will get better...keep pressing forward.

Judolisco:
Toor maybe una family get money... Na Sega dey rain 4 my side them ps2 ke?

Well maybe 🤔 🤷

Judolisco:
150 back then na big money oh.. My primary sch fees na around dis amount... And na d best sch for my local government then... Some people go still owe sef

E no big like dat.

2001, I dey play PS-2 for N20 per game.
5 games +1 free game na N100.

So how 150 take big?!

kayperry:
if her father could afford the 150 would she have asked a Bf and even deem it fit to breakup with her Bf because of such an amount

a gurl can excuse her father's failure but she can't tolerate her boyfriend failure

She's not giving her father all the perks that come with dating.

The way a husband is responsible for his wife and children, is the same way a boyfriend should be responsible for his girlfriend.

You guys don't learn anything from your parents?

A man starts providing when he is dating...but it becomes binding when they are married.

Date your level....and grow together.

I don't think DMW is telling the full story tho.
150 was too small back then.
That was my TP to school...and we were not at the wealthy level then