Romance › Re: How Often Should A Guy Take His Gal Out by na2day2(m): 12:46pm On Dec 17, 2008 |
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Culture › Re: Men Don't Think African Culture Is The Best. They Like It Because It Favors Them by na2day2(m): 12:39pm On Dec 17, 2008 |
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Education › Re: Crazy Things You Did In High School? by na2day2(m): 12:36pm On Dec 17, 2008 |
desthan: After i was sexually abused by my anut, (she disvirgined me) and it felt really good i must admit, i became so obsessed about sex that my dad had to send me to all BOYS boarding school, but it became worst. ur aunt?  ur family get issues ooo desthan: we were giving a V portion of grass to cut, which never ended  i feel ur pain, been there desthan: One day, in ma SS1, myself and one other boy went visiting to a girls boarding school and decided use the bush track beinde their domitory on our way out at about 6.30, but we were stopped by some group of big girls, 8 in no, they told us that the exit here has been blocked but opted to show us another route, but rather, they took us to their refetory, over-powered us, and threathen that they will call the security and the whole school if we don't co-oporate and raped us mercilessly until i passed out, they later mixed garri with lots of milk and pour it into my mouth just to resuscitate me, they didn't release us until the wee hours of the following day phew, since that episode, the obsession died a natural death, believe me. LMBFAO  |
Romance › Re: Girlfriend Vs Fiance by na2day2(op): 12:27pm On Dec 17, 2008 |
u have said it all bro, u have said it all whitelexi: Guys don't talk, we act. . . and a woman who knows her man should recognise those acts from a distance. What did she think when their relationship became stiffled, for God's sake - what did she think when a brother was sleeping on a different bed for so long Such a woman irritates me! that was what i said! Moyola: Her loss!  |
Culture › Re: Men Don't Think African Culture Is The Best. They Like It Because It Favors Them by na2day2(m): 12:24pm On Dec 17, 2008 |
thank u oo jare  angelina08: How can you say that, if an African man don't like his culture, why are you called African. |
Romance › Re: Girlfriend Vs Fiance by na2day2(op): 12:03pm On Dec 17, 2008 |
****** scratches head***** so men are mind readers?  i hate to break it to u, he did communicate to his girlfriend and she admitted to that, the bottom line is, she valued her work and material things above her relationship and she tries to control the guy(that is a no no) and that led the guy to back away from her, and she knew it but was just in denial hoping things will change. she even insulted the guy saying all he could afford is a cheap walmart ring for his fiance. again, that shows how clueless she is about love and relationship, all she thinks of is wealth and the bling-bling LoveAlways: I agree. This guy was wrong for not communicating with her. Women aren't mind readers. What you are doing na2day is blaming the woman. It is not her fault that he cheated. First of all, he never communicated his needs to his girlfriend. Secondly, instead of communicating or breaking off the relationship in a respectful way, he choose to cheat and plan marriage with another woman while still in a relationship with his girlfriend.
Being as his girlfriend quickly admitted that she had been working too much and chasing her dreams, I'm sure that she would have responded in his favor, if he had of taken the time to just communicate his needs or give the relationship a break. Men usually cheat when they are seeking validation outside of a relationship/marriage. Because of the way he handled the breakup with his girlfriend, his marriage to the other woman will probably be doomed. |
Romance › Re: Why Does NYSC 'Kill' Relationships? by na2day2(m): 2:20am On Dec 17, 2008 |
u said it all dude, congrats! peeceelove: I left Lagos to Rivers state where i did my youth service with all the wonderful stories of the camp, but with one other mission not to fall. to God be the glory i spent the three weeks with a relax mind and got close to God on camp. In a nut shell i came back to marry my Girl of 5years and today as i am talking we have a bouncing baby boy. the life on camp and during you primary assingment depends on your own PERSONAL DECISION. NOT NYSC |
Romance › Re: Help A Friend In Need by na2day2(m): 12:20am On Dec 16, 2008 |
CodeRED: @Topic This one needs Jesus. Seems Allah and Buddah can't handle it. LOL.  |
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Romance › Re: Girlfriend Vs Fiance by na2day2(op): 11:38pm On Dec 15, 2008 |
tmoney11: If she call off the relationship before proposing to the other girl, the girl will not no what she did is wrong. I feel sorry for her and wetin the guy dey talk there be say body no be fire hood  |
Nairaland General › Re: It's Not A Crime To Be Ugly And We Ugly Girls Need Some Love! by na2day2(m): 4:12pm On Dec 15, 2008 |
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Romance › Re: Girlfriend Vs Fiance by na2day2(op): 4:10pm On Dec 15, 2008 |
Moonstone: Oh wow, in that case, the woman should be blamed. She should have known the guy was running games on her behind. a guy that sleeps on a separate bed foe one year and doesn't want to talk to u, maybe that is not any game that is his sign to tell her he is frustrated with the relationship and wanted her to get a hint and end it nicely but she would not |
Nairaland General › Re: It's Not A Crime To Be Ugly And We Ugly Girls Need Some Love! by na2day2(m): 2:03am On Dec 15, 2008 |
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Romance › Re: Why Does NYSC 'Kill' Relationships? by na2day2(m): 8:17pm On Dec 14, 2008 |
@ poster have u served? if u have, u will understand why.NYSC was one big hell for me  |
Nairaland General › Re: It's Not A Crime To Be Ugly And We Ugly Girls Need Some Love! by na2day2(m): 8:11pm On Dec 14, 2008 |
michelin89: Honestly speaking I don't use photoshop!  who dash u the ability to use photoshop? we did it on ur behave b4 we allow the pic to be placed on ur profile, the original u na horror movie  |
Romance › Re: Help My Sisters Boyfriend Is Killing Me by na2day2(m): 8:08pm On Dec 14, 2008 |
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Culture › Re: Men Don't Think African Culture Is The Best. They Like It Because It Favors Them by na2day2(m): 8:06pm On Dec 14, 2008 |
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Romance › Re: Girlfriend Vs Fiance by na2day2(op): 8:01pm On Dec 14, 2008 |
the other lady knew and even visited the house he shared with his girlfriend Moonstone: I do agree that the man should have broken up with her first before proposing to another woman. Did the fiancee not know that he was living with another woman? Did she even know him well enough to say yes? I don't know why any woman would allow her man to sleep in the same house with another woman. That aside, the woman should have gotten the hint when they started sleeping in different woods. Body no be wood. He can't just be suddenly tired of sex. She should have known something was up by then. 2 months no sex, should have been a big clue. |
Romance › Re: Help A Friend In Need by na2day2(m): 7:53pm On Dec 14, 2008 |
Cayon: My friend sent this to me -so I am asking you on behalf of her
Peace
You and a friend have decided to go to the movie. Your friend is Moroccan, She is 25 and MARRIED. She is 100% Muslim. So Muslim that she wears a scarf.
So you are at the movies watching Quantum of Solace. Your friend leaned over and whispered something to you so you turned towards her and say "huh" The next thing you know- your Moroccan friend pushed her tongue in your mouth and kissed you. You were caught off-guard and your body froze. You then realized what is going on and pulled yourself away and said "what are you doing" You sat for about five minutes after the kiss then walked out of the movie You are shaking/very nervous because you don't know what to do or say You are very upset because you know you are STRAIGHT. You are guys. You are not a lesbian (gay) You head for the bathroom and cried and cried Your friend came in the bathroom and wiped your tears and gave you a peck on your lips and said "its okay" You pushed her away telling her to stop, and you want to go home. You are driving home and your hands are shaking and full of sweat. No one saying anything to each other - so quiet you can hear a pin drop Your friend is like "you know my husband wouldn't mind if I stay at your house tonight" You said "No" quickly and angrily You dropped your friend at her home. You don't want to look at her or to say good night. Your eyes facing front holding the staring wheel real tight. Your friend touched your breast and you began to cry and begged her to stop You got home and you just can't sleep You can't stop crying because you don't know how to handle the situation You thought about calling her husband but you don't know how Your friend called you in the morning and apologized. You told her your thought about telling her husband and she begged you not to You finally told her that you are not gay and she made you very uncomfortable You told her to leave you alone and to stay away from you She doesn't want to because she'll have to explain to her husband why you are not talking You told her "better her to find a reason than for you to tell him" You can't stop crying because you feel so UNCLEAN and you can't even focus and get to sleep So now you are thinking of telling her husband even though you made a promise not to tell her husband.
How do you handle this situation? Should you follow your mind and tell her husband or break off the friendship PERMANENTLY? at any point in this drama was a gun close by? especially if u r in texas, kindly use ur gun right to terminate the threat to ur social well being  |
Romance › Re: Girlfriend Vs Fiance by na2day2(op): 7:45pm On Dec 14, 2008 |
wow! just like i thought, no girl in this forum is looking at this objectively. the guy messed up but what led him to that state is the main issue which was lack of communication and attention from his girlfriend, she clearly confessed that she was much into the material things and she thinks that what made him back away from her, the guy also complained about her being a control freak. i have told my female friend a million times, u never win a battle with a guy that is ur man by shouting, he may keep quiet but that battle will come up again. trying to control any guy never ends well, i can assure u girls right now. u can make ur guy be what u want him to be but at anytime he feels belittled then u have a problem on ur hand. as for the other girl, what i sensed out of this drama is that she knew the guy's state and started acting the very oppose of what his girlfriend was offering, and that won his heart. generally though i think the guy messed up big time; i couldn't believe it when i saw him go down on his knees and proposed to the new chic, i thought my old tv is playing tricks on me again, broadcasting false information but since this cheater episode was on a local channel, i couldn't go check G4 to verify, so i had to believe my TV. one thing i like america for is that i don't have to waste my money on movie tickets all the time, there is always free movie some where in ur neighborhood happening live. in these economic woos it comes in handy  |
Romance › Re: Girlfriend Vs Fiance by na2day2(op): 8:36am On Dec 14, 2008 |
@ lacrimose
do u live in dallas? |
Romance › Re: Girlfriend Vs Fiance by na2day2(op): 8:35am On Dec 14, 2008 |
i honestly think the guy was kinda scared of the girl for some reason, but the girl sef, if a guy u live with does not sleep on the same bed with u for a whole year, shouldn't that cause u to stop and think?  lacrimose: I just saw the episode u are talking about but he should have broken the relationship first before proposing to another girl. He was rude to her on the phone yelling"I am in a meeting" but hey he was on a date with another girl. Anyway, i get ur point that she should have paid more attention to him but still if he didnt want her he could have called the relationship off. |
Romance › Girlfriend Vs Fiance by na2day2(op): 6:33am On Dec 14, 2008 |
b4 u think u know what the topic is all about, i recommend that u read the post to get a grasp of the story line.
today is 12-13-2008, i was watching the show cheaters on the local channel and this amazing story showed up. i have watched many cheaters' show but this one was beyond me. this lady claimed that her boyfriend has been cold towards her for about a year, even sleeps on a different bed now but they still live under the same room. she claims to be a workaholic, and always traveling. she thinks this might have affect his attitude towards her but she said she is not sure. now she is fed up on the whole deal and called cheaters to investigate the deal. cheaters did and they found the guy on one knee proposing to another lady while is girlfriend was out of town. now this other girl is now is fiance, while is girlfriend is clueless on this whole new deal. when she came back from her travel, cheaters showed her the video and she almost passed out. they took her to meet the guy and his new fiance and the girlfriend went for the fiance and attacked her and they had their cat fight but what struck me was the fact that the guys complain is that the girlfriend works too hard and have no time for him even though he has complained about her workaholic behavior (now this complain usually comes from the female side) but her defense was that she has to paid the bills (the guy works also) but the guy fired back that there got to balance then he fires another accusation that she always try to control him, that she is a control freak, he said she is way to domineering and cant come off her control issues (the girlfriend is actually on anti-depressant). ok, this guy i think foul up badly but the girlfriend didn't help her case from the way she was talking and acting. she finally confessed that she was too much into the materialist things and allowed her business to take the better of her life. now she has handed her biz to her sister while she has gone for some spiritual counseling while the guy is now living with his new fiance. ok b4 u start pointing fingers, please think about the story again and give ur comment. the floor is now open NLders |
Romance › Re: Bust It Baby- The Nasty Black America Girls by na2day2(m): 6:03am On Dec 14, 2008 |
obviously u were watching the video with one eye close, most of the judges and crew were women, they only showed one guy. tpia: do you have any words for the men who shot this video?
were the girls shaking their butts for women?
you're gay and shopping for male partners on nairaland. They're female and shopping for fame and a quick lay. What gives you the right to badmouth them? |
Nairaland General › Re: It's Not A Crime To Be Ugly And We Ugly Girls Need Some Love! by na2day2(m): 3:22am On Dec 14, 2008 |
kai! that one na JAMB question  [quote author=n-guage link=topic=205642.msg3221787#msg3221787 date=1229219929]Hello ugly girls, I have a question for all of you self-confessed ugly ones. How does it feel to wake up in the morning and hate your own reflection in the mirror?[/quote] |
Romance › Re: She Broke My Heart: She Calls Begging by na2day2(m): 3:17am On Dec 14, 2008 |
even chicken will decline the generous offer  [quote author=Ebony-Silk link=topic=206035.msg3221669#msg3221669 date=1229216435]lol, chicken!  [/quote] |
Romance › Re: Bust It Baby- The Nasty Black America Girls by na2day2(m): 3:16am On Dec 14, 2008 |
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Romance › Re: She Broke My Heart: She Calls Begging by na2day2(m): 1:53am On Dec 14, 2008 |
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Nairaland General › Re: It's Not A Crime To Be Ugly And We Ugly Girls Need Some Love! by na2day2(m): 1:51am On Dec 14, 2008 |
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Nairaland General › Re: It's Not A Crime To Be Ugly And We Ugly Girls Need Some Love! by na2day2(m): 1:30am On Dec 14, 2008 |
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Romance › Re: She Broke My Heart: She Calls Begging by na2day2(m): 1:27am On Dec 14, 2008 |
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Romance › Re: Women Cheat More Than Men by na2day2(m): 1:24am On Dec 14, 2008 |
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