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YommyOG:
I work in a commercial bank. My gf used to live here in Ib where I live too. She has recently been posted to Lagos State for her Youth Service. Sometime ago, she's asked me to help her work on a reversal. A few days later, I checked her account to see if funds have been reversed but I saw an inflow of #8,000 from her ex. I confronted her about it and her excuse was she was stranded and she couldn't ask me cos we weren't talking at the moment. I let it go. A week after, I instinctively snooped through her account again and saw another inflow of #10,000 from the same ex. This time, I sarcastically asked if she was stranded again. Could this mean they are back? Should I just move on?. We've been together well over two years and half and I love her a lot.

I'll appreciate your responses and advise.

Warm Regards.

- Yomi

Let girls be girls.

Focus on your life.

HarunaWest:
Yomi. I was a banker like you in the past. Stop snooping through a customers account. If fraud were to occur in that account, I am very sure you are aware the auditors will check whoever logged into that account. Thats by the way. Well its obvious you lady friend still has an attachment with her ex. The fact that she still collects money from him means that they still talk alot. Sit her down and ask her what she wants in life? Cheers.

Didn’t even know about this. We learn everyday

ubunja:
they're fighting for their interests. For to acknowledge the red pill will mean they must stop being hoes, in other words they must say NO to casual sex with multiple men. Thats a tall order. Women love sex.
What men must do is we must double our efforts to make sure none of our gender is exploited. This is the very meaning of the gender war.

Dealing with hoes is not wrong but committing to hoes is wrong. You can't be paying top dollar for something trashy jerks have been getting for free for a decade.If only the average man can see the shenanigans the average girl gets up to between the ages of 17 and 27ish, guys wouldn't be too quick to dismiss our message of being selective.
Anyone who has gone to college or university knows what girls get up to while their male coursemates are struggling to get even a proper GF.

Top dollar information here

Probably his first time of seeing a woman cook for you?

Frankly don’t understand the flex?

pansophist:
You loose when you don't play to your advantage. Yes, women holds the power to sex, but only to broke men. Men holds the power to decide if a woman is getting married and is getting nacked if he is doing fine, and that's even far worse. If you're always rejected sexually, its a mirror to your sexual value as a man.

Besides, how long does that power last for women? Women's life are equally as difficult as men life, but in a different way. As I grow older, I see it clearly how the power dynamic is switching to men's favour. My age range of women all wants marriage, and they will get married tomorrow, but men ain't ready. True, men are sexually starved because women control sex, but women are equally starved of a home because men controls commitment, and time is not on their side.

Your only task as a man is to do well for yourself. its hard I know, but nature has compensated you with time. So if the sun shines on you in your 50's, may I remind you that Ned Nwoko is at least a decade older and well, not-so-fine? So Mr man, understand your place in the game and play to your advantage.

It will be depressing for me to know that my value is not as a result of my handwork, but as a result of a fleeting time that I can not control. To be practically smokingly hot this year, but ten years later, I can't get similar guys I easily attracted before.

That's the female reality and I don't want that. E worse pass, if na sex you de find, it has been democratised. Thanks to feminism, sex is the cheapest thing out there, even uneducated tout de collect, what more a sophisticated you? You gotta love feminism and democracy.

This is top knowledge

I love this place

CaveAdullam:
In trying to prove how smart he is, he ends up unleashing his dumbness. I can bet my balls that he is what he condemns or make a mockery of in others. In psychology, it is called projection. If he is not, how come he has enough time to spy and take a memory lane of all that is in opposition to his ideas? Even an established man will never have such a time not to talk of one that's building from the bottom or in the process.

I can bet you that this guy has scanned my moniker day and night to no avail. Because every one of my posts will end up countering his stupidity, delusion, and pure madness with every comma and full stop. He is simply not in touch with reality, wisdom, and respect. An id!ot in the making!

Let the dog keep roaming.

All I know is if this Transgender2345 bloke is not getting paid to do all these detective work then something is wrong somewhere in that lab project.

Wasting his/her life doing nothing on something you could be paid for.

I want to believe that moniker is heavily funded to disrupt the teachings of Red Pill which is fine. It’s a free world after all.

Probably funded by a high power with deep pockets. I love the possibilities of this. Always imagine the elites don’t want people to know the truth so they send spies. Anything is possible. I feel this is it.

But if it’s Anything otherwise then you are a fool - Tranquility2345

OurTruth:
I'm not. Just that I don't think women deserve the amount of time and energy men devote to them.

Besides my instinctive attraction to womens bodies, which I would remove if I had the power to do so, there is no way I'll take them seriously. This is my own opinion.

Women are very shallow creatures and operate exclusively on instinct, not logic, even if they espouse logic through speech, their actions always deviate to instinct. I've done my research in this subject and I have my own personal experiences, so I'm very confident in what I'm saying.

100% facts. Men are a very stupid gender sometimes.

Follow some of CAPSLOCKED posts

OurTruth:
You were supporting what she was saying without clarifying whether it was valid or not. Lol.

Most of you see posts from monikers with (F) and feel the need to quote her and support her argument, and usually she never responds even after you've calmed down to type a comment that you think will impress her. I see many of you on my threads all the time. It's hilarious.

Women have a very privileged place in our world. I wish in my next life I incarnate as a woman. These people are practically worshiped as gods by most men. It's sickening

My nigga Our truth is now going the red pill way

Tell them bro!

Cc Ubunja Martinez39


Anyways bro just continue with the write up

Hezzyluv:
My mind is even telling me they can seat at their head office and be manipulating that virtual games.

No need for that. It’s programmed to give the betting company 70% revenue while the rest 30% is shared for the dumb fools playing it

OurTruth:
If you are still following and want me to continue, please like this comment. It appears you guys have lost interest.

Continue. People read without liking sometimes

Beebah2000:
Why una like to dey write this rubbish na??
Una mate dey invent new new things way go help their country, una dey here dey complain about women.
Na wetin no dey necessary, wetin una no go fit ever change na e una dey always complain about.
The ones way una fit change, na e una go dey ignore.

Nigerians and madness. 5&6.

You carry your two short legs come “nairaland Romance section” and you are complaining about the nature of the topic. Are you normal at all?

If you want to see where people invent things go to the general section or Reddit

Following

JESHAL is spitting a lot of facts

Read the previous page.

I can not believe for my life how you boys put yourself in a disadvantage position because of a woman.

Just how. Are you normal at all

This report is so irritating to even read.

Lagos State RSS failed on home soil.

This is a bad precedent.

Just have Big crowd and you can cause damage in Lagos.

Don’t pray for North.

Fear North. It’s even in the Bible

Wrong headline

Video of NAIRALAND Single women…

Go back to your ex. He owns you.

No matter the amount of guys you will meet he’s still going to be in your head forever. It’s a bond.

MrBrownjay1 said the current good guy is the “Toto Warmer” HAHAHAHAH

Silly boy

CaveAdullam:
DAY 127, REDPILL 2022

Simping occurs when men decides to fill the void of (regular) women. That void is a bottomless pit, you can't fill it neither can you satisfy it.

The best is to lay a passage across it as you savour the moment with her while protecting your sides.

Authority: Guard yourself.

Always

Smartb0y:
See this where we get it all mixed up bro.
It is as a matter of fact a fat deal.

When you operate on the grounds of cold approaching, you're working on 20% to 80% rule.

Even you're the softest guy in the whole world, that girl with no value can rubbish you anyhow she likes yet you talk about it raising your confidence.
I mean how does that even sound in your mouth

Confidence is gotten from within not without.if you're not confident talking to a girl,then something must be very wrong in your life.

Let's call a spade a spade.

Stop trying to fill a void by talking to multiple women, it's not going to change anything.

Work on yourself,is it money that's your problem.... hustle and get that bag,the confidence will come

Is it sexual (health wise), seek medical help, confidence will come


Always try to narrow down why you're having confidence issue.
It has nothing to do with that girl, the problem lies within your subconscious.
Until you stop deluding yourself, you'll think talking to girls is a problem.


When she gives you green light, your odds are greatly improved, we talking about a 60% to 40% rule here. 60% being yours, that's if you're not even all round sexy.

Let's stop deluding ourselves,the disparity between cold approaching and green light is enormous.

We come on here almost everyday talking about how we must rise above women and be better but we still keep using the tools that enables them to best us most of the time.

Come on man ,we can do better.

See when you start doing this cold approaching thing you tend to over talk, show off, and even spend more.

I always see it as degrading to Men, no offense.

Nothing will beat when a woman is really interested in you. Even if it’s just one woman. You have nothing to lose. You are the winner here.

You go to a market place, you see a girl you like. At your school there’s a girl you like. What you like is everywhere. What is everywhere has no value - Ubunja

Ok

APC from top to bottom

AntichristXXX:
The Game of Investment.

No, not the monetary kind, but the emotional and energetic kind.

Look at relationships around you, or in your own relationship.

Who is investing more in who?

⁃ Who is sending longer texts?
⁃ Who is trying more to be around the other person?
⁃ Who is devoting more time and energy?

Chances are, it’s the Man.

If that’s the case, the relationship is doomed to fail.

This is because women want to be the one CHASING.

Women want a man who is always on the move, never fully within her reach.

When you steal that away from her, not only does her attraction for you fall, but she also starts despising you.

A man who has nothing better to do than chase her is a low value man.

So, start leaning out- metaphorically and literally.

From Masculinity brotherhood.

Tell ‘em. Lucky men are seeing these things for free.

Hidden knowledge - Red Pill.

drealbenard:
Well, what happened is quite simple. The homeless was her type, He turned her on. It didn't matter that he was homeless or poor. What mattered to her was that he turned her on.

This should be a lesson to all men. You might be able to convince a woman to be with you, but if you are not her type, she will easily cheat on you with a man who turns her on. Your physicality doesn't matter because inrespective of what you might have been made to believe, all women are not the same and all women do not want the same thing.

Some women want a slim fit man, while some might want a chubby dude. Others might prefer tall men, while some don't. What you need to do as a man is to figure out which type of women are most turned on by you and then focus on them only.

Lol facts bro. I hope men continue to learn these things.

How many times have we told them to leave the attraction thing to women. They dictate everything. What they want.

Sisora:
Actually, everything is about ME in a relationship.

That is why you can't go into a relationship with just about any girl.

We all are GOLD DIGGERS. But the gold we are digging might be different.

Enjoy

Sisora:
your problem is laziness and pride.


Pride that you can't work for love. Well, no girl will walk right into your bedroom just because you want them to.

Everyone want to feel valued. Everyone wants someone to cherish them.

So until you are ready to come down from your high horse, get your hands dirty and really work to keep a girl, you'll continue to remain alone or possibly get a gold digger.

Oh now you have accepted we have girls that are gold diggers

But Isnt that all about the female species really?? It is always ME ME ME ME. If its not financially, its time and s*x.

Even the deluded claims that Females will do anything for a man they love is still sandwiched with manipulations and agenda.

Any man that keeps his hands dirty to keep or please a being wearing 5 different masks and can f*ck a Chad by the next week is an idiot.

Men, keep working hard to keep your life in shape. Always remember this, you are mostly degrading yourself whenever you have any dealings with a modern woman - How you learn to manage this is your personal problem.

shaggy007:
All the people that died in car crash today didn't have good livers and kidneys?

The girl that her leg was crushed by a Lebanese driver in Lagos didn't have good liver and kidneys?

Mr man, live your life to the fullest.

If you drink, drink well.

If you smoke, smoke well.

If you fvck, fvck well.

If you make money, make money well.

If you don't do any of the above, then what's the point of living?

Lol do you know how many times i have explained to people that this life dont have any script.

Ofcourse not supporting living recklessly but people need to remember that even if you do or dont everyday you are faced with 1000 ways to die.

They don’t know Some of these guys are very racist

I understand you have feelings and stuffs and like her.

But bro it’s not in your best interest to do these things. A man that tends to love a woman is setting himself up for manipulations.

Leave those things for women. They do it better. They are emotional creatures.

Even if you want to like a girl, follow the code: “allow nothing to be in your life that you cannot walk out on in thirty seconds flat if you spot the heat around the corner".

All these whatsapp updates and balling is baseless

I have to leave Nairaland for my own sanity

internationalman:
Talking to myself. One of my favorites..

Eminem has a song for any mood or any situation

Yes bro