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Family › Re: Is Age 2 Okay For A Child To Start Kg Class? by Nazgul: 10:17pm On Jan 18, 2023

Lamanii22:
Okay thank you I really appreciate your comment, I’m willing to sort the payment, the school is rather affordable and it’s close to our house… I just want her to start blending with other kids and learn more, it would also help her speech… plus we are expecting another baby soon and this pregnancy is not easy like my first…. So it’s really tiring, I can’t really teach her much, I only play coco melon for her… plus my toddler is too clingy, she rather be by my side than my mil…. This is why I need her to start school…

Discuss it with your husband then, and try to convince him to see things from your own angle. Hopefully he'll accept. Once he does, your MIL wouldn't object anymore.

Fashion › Re: Please Is This Jeans For Female? by Nazgul: 9:17pm On Jan 18, 2023

Barims:
Please I just got this jean today for the price of 6k, only for my brother to condemned it for me by saying it's a old fashion jeans and it's even belongs to the females, I don't know what to do, should I return it or I should use it

Sorry I don't know the right section to post this topic

It looks more like a jean for teenages than women. I prefer my jeans to be plain than having all this unnecessary markings and holed all over it in the name of fashion.

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Romance › Re: Do I Consider Her As Online Beggar, It's Very Disappointing, Pals Pls Advise by Nazgul: 9:15pm On Jan 18, 2023

You were jobless for 7 months without pay, you're currently at a very low period of your life cos you still don't have a dime on you, and rather than plan on how to improve your present situation, it's a girl whose sole purpose is to milk the little you don't have you're dying for.

Honestly, guys are the architects of their own problems.

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Family › Re: Why Do Husbands Lose Interest In Their Wives? by Nazgul: 7:04pm On Jan 18, 2023*

The problem here is that most women pay less attention to their bodies once they get married. They feel that they've gotten a husband, so why should they bother about their looks?

This makes them look unattractive to their husbands as the years go by. Imagine a girl getting married at 24, and by 28 she's already putting on adeiu papa T-shirt and wrapper to move around the house, and already looking like a grandmother, such woman cannot arouse her husband sexually, if he's having sex with her, it would just be to fulfill all righteousness. The sad reality is that he doesn't have any sexual connection with her anymore.

Men are moved by what they see, as a woman, if you want your husband to keep desiring you, you have to step up your game...see him as your boyfriend not your husband.

Make your hair, put on bum shots whenever you're in the house, take a bath and brush your teeth regularly, always appear neat and sexy before him. When you wake up grab is morning erection and give him a nice Mouth Action, then ride him till he cums...

And believe me, even though you guys have been married for 20 years, he would never get tired of you whenever he sees you. Cos you respect him, feed him, and give him great sex.

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Family › Re: Is Age 2 Okay For A Child To Start Kg Class? by Nazgul: 6:51pm On Jan 18, 2023

Lamanii22:
Hello everyone, my daughter turned two already and I’d love to enroll her in a school but my MIL is against such an idea… she was even authoritative about it. I didn’t respond but I just felt it is my decision to make not hers….

I don’t know if 2 years old is too early for school or my MIL may be right…

2 years isn't early for a child to start mixing up with her mates. It boosts the child's confidence. But there's a possibility that your MIL is looking at it from a financial angle.

That child is just 2 and obviously cannot pronounce words and communicate effectively, so maybe according to her (your MIL) enrolling such child in KG would be a waste of her son's (your husband's) money in this harsh economy.

If you have the finances and you're willing to sort out the expenses of her schooling, I'm sure she (your MIL) would shift grounds. If you don't, please listen to her and wait until your daughter gets a little older.

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Romance › Re: What Hurts More Than A Breakup??? by Nazgul: 2:22pm On Jan 15, 2023

Silentgroper:
i'd still have sixfeetbelle head on a spike for this...

Lol...what did she do?

You've been mentioning me up and down...There have never been anything going on between us.

Romance › Re: What Hurts More Than A Breakup??? by Nazgul: 2:08pm On Jan 15, 2023

Silentgroper:
I'll have her head on a spike for dz ...

Lol... don't kill someone's child o. You'd just have to accept your breakfast in peace.

European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Chelsea Vs Crystal Palace (1 - 0) On 15th January 2023 by Nazgul: 1:43pm On Jan 15, 2023*

I see Chelsea loosing today... This I have foreseen. grin

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Romance › Re: What Hurts More Than A Breakup??? by Nazgul: 1:37pm On Jan 15, 2023

Another break-up. undecided

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Romance › Re: Why Do Guys Castigate Girls For Wanting To Date Only Rich Guys? by Nazgul: 1:36pm On Jan 15, 2023

Dating a comfortable guy isn't the problem most guys have with girls. The problem is lacking the intellect to relate with him on his level.

Most comfortable guys are exposed, so they have vast knowledge about things. They go to places, they keep up with recent happenings in the cooperate world. Now imagine finding an average regular girl who has made up her mind to date rich guys. Obviously you cannot discuss work with her, you cannot discuss happenings in the IT world with her, she basically wouldn't be able to relate with him on his level.

All she would have to commune with him is money, sex and outing... nothing more. Sooner or later, the guy in question would leave her to look for someone whom he can easily relate with on his level.

I can basically tell you that if you meet 50 average Nigerian girls, 30 would have no idea of what LinkedIn is, 18 would have heard it before but don't have a profile there, only 2 would tell you that they have a developed profile on LinkedIn.

The solution to all this is to date someone within your league (whether you're male or female). That way, you two can work towards developing each other and not taking advantage of each other.

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Romance › Re: Help My Life , Am Confused by Nazgul: 1:04pm On Jan 15, 2023*

Go and confront the guy and warn him never to step his foot inside your kitchen or else you'll lock him up. And when he's rent expires, increase it by 200%, and tell him if he doesn't pay in the next two weeks you'll padlock his room. In fact, anything that has to do with contribution in that compound, make his own share the highest if he complains, tell him to park out...Frustrate him in that compound until he gets the message and leaves. Believe me, the next place he'll rent he'll run away from married women.

Now to your wife...give her a strict warning that if you find her with that guy, whether talking on phone, smiling, greeting... etc, you'll send her back to her people. And stand by your word. Any day you find them talking, give her transportation fare and bundle her things out of your house. Women would only respect you if you use an iron hand on them. If you keep being soft and tolerating nonsense, she'll get pregnant for that guy and pin it on you.

Even the Bible said the violent taketh it by force. Sometimes in life you have to be violent, if not, people you're far better than would take you for granted.

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Nairaland General › Re: How Do Wee Do It by Nazgul: 12:48pm On Jan 15, 2023

Commendable:
My babe just received some money from her uncle abroad

Where can we find Bureau De change in ikeja or computer village

So as to change the money, at black market rate

I'm not really familiar with ikeja like that. But you can always find mallams at yaba. Once you get to the railway don't even ask for them, they're the ones who would be running after you.

Another place you'll see them is Akerele (Surulere). After the post office.

Also you'll get them on the island...around Wilberforce house on broad Street.

One advice I'll give to you when you eventually see a mallam to change the dollar is that you should reject cash and tell him to make a transfer directly to her bank account.

Most mallams are fraudulent, they'd either mix condemned #500 or #1000 notes in between the bulk money or give you fake notes that might be up to 5k or more.

So the safest thing to do is to hold your dollar, till they make the transfer and you confirm the alert, before giving it to them.

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Family › Re: My 3 Year Old Child Was Beaten And Injured By His Bursary School Teacher by Nazgul: 11:41pm On Jan 13, 2023

Just go to the nearest police station pay them and have them arrest the teacher. From the police cell they would charge him to court. Obviously the court would find him guilty, pass a sentence along with the option of a fine of not less than 500k.

By the time he's done paying that fine while being remanded in prison, he would never hold a cane in his life. He's lucky it's not my child he disfigured.

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Romance › Re: case closed by Nazgul: 11:05pm On Jan 13, 2023

dabling:
Wife is from Kogi. We are newly married. The parents of the girl said that since wife was a virgin when I met her, I need to send them money to buy some stuff as a token that I married a virgin wife. Is this a cultural practice? Should I adhere to their demand? Need advise please.

Are you worried about the amount in question they're demanding for, or that they asked you to pay them for giving you a brand new wife?

Romance › Re: Why Haven't I Killed Myself Since by Nazgul: 11:04pm On Jan 13, 2023

SenecaTheYonger:
I'm so intrigued by this user.

https://www.nairaland.com/ilamina/posts/203

These are your post from 2012 and you seemed like a normal, regular person. Where did it all go wrong? You're obviously truly a girl. But you act like you're insane. What happened to you?

Loneliness. That's the harsh reality of Nigerian girls living abroad. Most of them are lonley.

Family › Re: Is 500k Income Really That Small?? by Nazgul: 9:46pm On Jan 13, 2023*

Tired2022:
I'm single and I earn a little over 500k but my biggest worry right now is how little that amount is.

Here's the point, my monthly expenses is around 300k which leaves me with around 300k savings. That should be around 3.6 million in a year.

How you wan take buy land of 10million, build house, even buy a decent car of 6m?

In other words, it will take me years to achieve anything tangible.

To be frank with you all, I really hate my income. I wish I can increase it.

I'm just wondering how people cope with similar income especially for family members and still achieve life goals.

You're single but your monthly expenses is over 300k. Believe me even if you're earning 5m, it still wouldn't be enough for you.

You have to first minimize your spending.

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Romance › Re: I Need Advice On My Girlfriend Schooling by Nazgul: 9:41pm On Jan 13, 2023

Nogoschool123:
My girlfriend just informed me that she wants to write jamb. I don’t want her to write jamb because when she goes to school, she will be more exposed and breakup up and even do runs there. What do I do to stop her? I only want her to learn handwork

You want to stop a girl who you're not married to from attaining basic university education simply because you feel she would leave you.

Better focus on your life and leave that child alone to pursue her dreams.

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Romance › Re: The Dilemma Of Growth: Love Relationships (the How's Of It) by Nazgul: 9:14pm On Jan 13, 2023*

I find it weird whenever I see guys trying to upgrade a girl to their taste. The problem with this is that your efforts would always meet stiff resistance regardless of now Noble your intentions are. Constant stiff resistance would lead to regular quarrelling, which would make her seek comfort elsewhere leaving you heartbroken.

My advice is that you look for someone that matches your taste or at least ticks 70% of your boxes. If you want a business oriented girl, keep searching until you find her. Don't settle for a lazy or materialistic one and try to change her because she's good looking. Believe me you would fall and end up tagging all girls bad.

See relationship like a market where you make up your mind to get a black polo shirt, once you get to the market, you'll see various colours that are even better looking than the black you had in mind. But because you've made up your mind that it's black you want, you can leave the shop of the dealer without look back and move to the next shop if he doesn't have what you came for.

Be determined to pursue your taste. Never settle for less.

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Romance › Re: What Do U Need Most Now? Someone Might Just Surprise U by Nazgul: 11:57pm On Jan 11, 2023

American Visa to leave this shithole.

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Romance › Re: How Possible Is It?? by Nazgul: 11:47pm On Jan 11, 2023

dollytino4real:
ok thanks so wat should i increase in the chemicals soda ash or texapon, pls teach me am willing to learn

If you read the very first post I made on this topic I said I have very little knowledge about liquid soap business.

I do buy it, though and I noticed that some sellers make their own thick while other make theirs watery.

My suggestion is that since you know the various components to add to the mixture in order to get the end product, dilute it in such a way that it would increase in quantity and still be slightly thick.

Family › Re: Affordable 2 Bedroom At Ejigbo, Lagos. by Nazgul: 11:31pm On Jan 11, 2023

kingviny:
Some Nigerians are just so funny. Instead of praying to live with a good landlord who can maintain law and order in the compound, you want to live in a no man's land, God help you that some of your co-tenants are kolomental people, then you would cherish peace and cleanliness as they would elude you.

My former residence was a Fuji house of commotion because there was no landlord. I have a landlord in my present place of residence and we mutually respect each other, no issues.

There are exceptions though, you can be lucky to live with civilized co-tenants in a house without landlord. But the chances are few.

In a standard flat you don't need any landlord to police you up and down, and you'd care less about kolomental tenants cos everyone minds their business in their various flats. It's in mini flat or face-me-I-slap-you where you share toilet, bathroom, water, electricity...etc. that's where you experience that kind of commotion.

Where I live we hired a cleaner to sweep the compound twice a week, and the money for the cleaner alongside our LAWMA and security bill is posted on the compound's WhatsApp group by a tenant who volunteered to do it. All we have to do is to make a transfer to the account number, screenshot and post on the group. We barely see each other.

So how would a kolomental tenant disturb anyone?

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Southampton Vs Manchester City: EFL Cup (2 - 0) On 11th January 2023 by Nazgul: 11:17pm On Jan 11, 2023

Before Erling Haaland joined Man City, they used to be at the top of the league and at least Carabao Cup semi finalists, now they’re out of Carabao cup and 2nd on the league table. Why is nobody talking about how he’s made City worse or does the rule only applies to Cristiano Ronaldo huh

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Romance › Re: Who Is Available? by Nazgul: 8:33pm On Jan 11, 2023

advanceDNA:
Man is asking for 32 year old virgin in nigeria... is that not witchcraft....

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Family › Re: Affordable 2 Bedroom At Ejigbo, Lagos. by Nazgul: 8:27pm On Jan 11, 2023

QuinModah:
Run from Landlord that specify the tribe they want

Better put...run from any accommodation that the landlord is living it. It would be more like a prison yard than a home.

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Family › Re: How Long Have You Been Married? And How Is It Going So Far? by Nazgul: 8:25pm On Jan 11, 2023

I'm here to learn...

Family › Re: Bad Parenting: Child Destroy TVs On Sale In Shoprite Because He Was Upset by Nazgul: 8:24pm On Jan 11, 2023

Well, since he's from a rich home, his parents should be able to pay for the damages. The total amount of TVs he broke shouldn't be up 2m. They can make transfer to the cashier and carry their wayward kid home.

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Family › Re: How & Why do siblings fall apart? by Nazgul: 8:17pm On Jan 11, 2023

yazga:
I've been hearing frequent tales on this issue between siblings and its been making me wonder how it all starts.
I love my siblings to pieces and I'm sure they feel the same way towards me so I can't really imagine why anyone would hate theirs so much they do neither see nor talk.
Some even turn their lives into competitions with their brothers/sisters.
A friend once narrated to me how her immediate elder sister treated her while they were staying together and how the sister stylishly threw her out of the house for no real reason asides petty issues.now that she's even married and her elder sister is not,they are sworn enemies!
Two of my aunt (sisters) and at war now-for petty reasons!
One of my friends doesnt know ANYTHING about his brother and they don't ever call each other for no reason!
Why oh why!

Siblings don't just fall apart for no reason. Possible reasons why they do include...

1. Polygamy.

2. Poverty.

3. Divorce of parents.

4. Loss of one or both parents.

Your friend's who's elder sister maltreated her, if you dig deep into their family, you'll discover that they fall under one of the reasons I mentioned above.

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Romance › Re: I Haven't Received Any Help For A Lady In My Entire Life by Nazgul: 8:09pm On Jan 11, 2023

Babara1994:
I'm just wondering if there are other men in my shoes.

No lady has ever given me anything like a gift or rendered any assistance to me. I'm 30 years old.

This is probably why I avoid women. I don't benefit anything from them - just losses. I lose money, time, energy, reputation and my precious semen when I get so unfortunate to make friends with any.

If you've received any gift or money from a lady let's know how much so far.
PS: Except my precious mom of course.

Stop going out with secondary school girls and jambites and start going out with working class girls and your story would change.

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Romance › Re: Why Do 80% of Young Ladies Of Today Don't Have Patience Like Our Mothers. by Nazgul: 8:07pm On Jan 11, 2023

ZINNYBANKS:
Girls in other countries don't beg the way Nigerian girls beg . I honestly don't know what went wrong.
Relationship wasn't like this back then in 2007 upward .

Don't blame them, blame silly men who encourage their laziness by constantly succumbing to their endless demands.

If you beg 10 people for money as a guy and they don't give you, your survival instincts would tell you to carry head pad and shovel to the nearest construction site to work and get money.

The reason why most girls are idle and unproductive is because guys are ever ready to carry their burden. From iPhone, to rent, clothes, shoes, hair even car...

Nigeria is the only country where a guy would place a jobless girl on monthly upkeep money for dating him, upon all that, the girl wouldn't even be faithful to him.

The day silly men or simps emancipate themselves from being pússy slaves, believe me, our girls would become hardworking.

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Romance › Re: How Possible Is It?? by Nazgul: 7:57pm On Jan 11, 2023

dollytino4real:
increase profit n buying reduce which one is beta?

You won't make it mmiri mmiri...it would maintain it's thickness and at the same time increase in quantity. This way you can still maintain your customers and boost your income. Your profit margin wouldn't hit the 4-5k target of your friend, but it would certainly be above the #1,200 you're currently making.

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