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dabling:
Hi,

I need advice please. My fiancé only wants to have 2 kids. But, I would like to have 4. But I'm willing to compromise to having 3. I told her that I can compromise to having 3 kids, but no way I'm just having 2. She doesn't want to budge on having just 2 kids. My question now is, should I end the relationship because of this? I don't know what to do.

Btw, I'm very very comfortable financially.

Stop all these unnecessary arguments. Shebi you would both get married, once you're married she won't deny you sex. So after 2 kids just keep releasing inside her till you get the number of kids you want.

It's not everything you must argue about.

The thread about homeless people on the home page some days ago was California. If you must know California has the highest homeless people in the whole America.

This is because of the presence of high tech companies in silicon valley. In case you're not aware all the richest men in the US from Elon musk to Mark, to Warren Buffet...etc. have their tech companies in California.

This made the cost of accommodation to hit the heavens. For example, a very tight 2bedroom apartment in California would be selling for over a million dollars. That same apartment with enough space would be sold for less than $300k in places like Wisconsin, Wyoming and Texas.

With a salary of $80k annually in California you'll definitely be homeless cos you won't be able to afford their outrageous accommodation, but with a salary of less than $60k annually in states like Wisconsin, you'll live comfortably with your family.

The open secret is that Democrats states are more expensive than Republican states. Why because Democrats states charge you for income tax, property tax, state tax... etc. Most Republican states like Wyoming don't charge for all those, so cost of living and accommodation there is relatively cheap....run a Google or YouTube search and you'll confirm this.

What I advise people going to the USA to do is to have a proper understand of the state they're planning to settle down in, and things would be much easier for them.

A helicopter was used by terrorists to attack Southern Kaduna and the people who said GEJ must resign because of Chibok are saying APC deserves another term. No outrage. Many even acting like they didn’t see the news...may God help us.

So how does her kind gesture towards you make her dumb, confused and clueless?

WhizdomXX:
Mods take down this page.

Are you scared to face the truth? The buhari you were ready to kill us for isn't it all of us that's suffering in Nigeria together?

Now you're planning to do the same thing you did for tinubu. You're already planning to threaten and attack Igbos if we don't vote for him.

Exactly. Clearly the southwest is his strong hold and he won't even get block votes there. I can confidently tell you that any state he wins in the South West (Lagos inclusive) would be with a very tight margin because of the presence of other tribes there.

Then there's the north where votes would be massively shared and the SS and SE where he won't even get up to 20%.

The toxicity from Nigerians especially from the south west against Igbos for not standing behind Buhari in 2015 was horrible. Even the oba of Lagos threatened to throw the into us lagoon

Jonathan was called so many unprintable names, a coffin bearing his name was buried, he was called a pig...etc.

I wonder why we're always referred to as children of hate when you can see the hatred from this people against us.

Sadly most of this people have ended their lives in the same lagoon their oba wanted to throw us into out of frustration caused by the same Buhari they were willing to kill their fellow southern Igbo brothers for.

Look at the pictures below and see the level of hatred this people harboured towards us in 2015.


https://twitter.com/francis_az1/status/1535605014990831619?t=jLw6hhfC4mVfoFQjjEVP7g&s=19

BestDicker:
Of all places, naira land where many are mad.

She's advertising her olosho business to potential sexually starved customers on Nairaland please let her be.

9jii:
You should have known that when you were saying Hausas-fulani are canals, rulers as if we are immune to the bad leadership in this country.
To us it's about paying back to our good allies

Can you quote any post I've made on Nairaland past present and even future where I used unspeakable names to represent your tribe?

Stop this your childish ranting cos it won't take you anywhere.

ATTENTION!! ATTENTION!!! If you are yet to register for PVC, please, kindly print this form and fill while at home, then take to any Registration Centre for easy processing.

Pass it on to your friends and family who haven't done theirs.

We must get it right in 2023.

olisaEze:
A goldfish in his limited thinking always believes the world is only as big as his glass bowl. They’re talking about the nation and u can’t see beyond ur locality!

Wike demigod in SS?? Your brain cells need more exercise walai ni fa!!

Which bigwigs betrayed Okowa when his preferred candidate, Sherriff, won the party primaries with a landslide?? Don’t confuse wishful thinking with analysis brah. Also, can you explain what you mean by Gov. Okowa’s so called tribalism?

Leave him alone, most Nigerian youths don't understand what's going on in the country.

8 years of misrule is enough to reset someone's Brain and he's here talking about a cultist like wike who uses threats to rule his people see what he did to Farah Dagogo. Then an Atiku that couldn't stand his ground to condemn the death of Deborah. What does that tell you about the faith of Christians under him?

Are those the kind of people you'll line up under sun and rain to ensure that they get to power, do you think Atiku is interested in your Delta State?

If you must know he's representing the northern interest. And the wike you're barking about would become a house boy like Osibanjo was to Buhari cos when it comes to power, northerners don't share it with anyone.

9jii:
That doesn't mean OBI can get close to 2% from the North West.
We only know him as the One from the people that hate us so much and call us names. It is payback times.

If you're planning to use next year's election to settle scores, I'll tell you to sheath your sword. Most of the hausas I've met here in Lagos over the years are lamenting bitterly about Buhari.

Suffering does not spare any tribe, region or religion. If you vote wrongly because you feel it's pay back time for a particular tribe, when the suffering starts you would partake in it.

CAN and PFN should mobilize massive support for Peter Obi across Nigeria cos there's an ongoing genocide against Christians. It started in the North, now they've moved to the South.

Christians would not be safe under this people, we need a Christian in Aso Rock to fight for our interest.

We need Peter Obi.

Sixfiguresmart:
He is a better candidate but right now, the level of corruption and rigging brought about by that old druggie is overwhelming. Tinubu has enough bribe to go round the country right now. He had this planned out. Peter has lesser chances.

I would prefer a non-conventional candidate like Osinbajo whose record is unknown and his moves are unpredictable. I love how he held his ground and slugged it out through the primaries. That is a man of decision and belief. I prefer such a candidate. If he could decamp and team up with Peter, they will surely pull a force.

I am tired of having sick old patients running this country. It is not about one's tribe. I need a vibrant and progressive man to run the show.

Your one vote would go a long way for Peter Obi. I don't hate tinubu but he's health is calls for concern like you rightfully pointed out. Let's give Peter Obi a chance.

The train is moving...my PVC is ready I'm ObIdently waiting for February next year.

The north would be a serious Battle ground cos they're the greatest casualty of Buhari's disastrous government.

ogaontop:
Nice analysis here!

Thanks.

The battle ground is the north, let's get it right this time.

obynzo:
Honestly most people are not tired of suffering. The sad part is that they groan and grumble under the tax regimes and unecessary levies yet they are inching to vote the man. Suffer never do Nigerians at all, a clear case of Stockholm syndrome.

Nigerians are crazy species of people.

Look at what happened during End SARS, we've forgotten all of a sudden.

Today you can hardly chat with an old friend (Male or Female) without them trying to directly or indirectly beg you for money. People are suffering, traffic robbery is getting worse everyday, Yahoo rituals on girls is at its peak.

When I was in school I do receive 10k monthly as bursary from the government as an indigene from one of the oil producing states. I was paid 15k by the federal government for partaking in SIWES, today tell me what the average Nigerian student benefits from the government aside recruiting them for thuggery and the girls for prostitution.

In 2015 a guy on Facebook was calling that Igbos should be murdered because we refused to stand behind Buhari to unseat a seeming corrupt Jonathan. 2 years into Buhari's reign he was murdered on the road by fulani herdsmen. His Facebook page was flooded with RIH (rest in hell)

I'm not even troubling myself if Nigerians choose wrongly next year, heavens knows I won't be in this country to experience the kind of suffering that would hit them.

bluefilm:
The south east is powerful.

Very powerful.

We will show how powerful we are when we come out en masse to vote for Peter Obi.

Yes o Peter Obi is winning next election despite the odds not being in his favour.

IjawRep:
MARGINALIZATIONS ON IJAW.


I greet the Ijaw Nation.
Those who see this write up should please foward it to the next Ijaw and to different Ijaw groups.
With our joint efforts nothing we cannot achieve.
There is nothing impossible if there is enough force into it.
Even the word impossible say Im-Possible.


The problems of Ijaw have always been Ijaw.
Ijaw have been their own worse enemies.
If Ijaw want anything and work on it, there is nothing that Ijaw can't get.


We were unjustly balkanized into 6 States when all our areas are fully together and share perfect boundaries with each other to weaken our unity.


We produce over 90 percent of Nigeria's crude oil but are being given less than 5 percent of our own money including amnesty and other money being given to us all are still under the 5 percent.


The Creator of the Ijaw tribe gave us crude oil to compensate Ijaw because of our difficult terrains that are not at all easy to develop like other areas, those who have better terrains take their resources and take Ijaw own too.
Their Gold, their Limestone, Tin,Bitumen, Coal, etc are being taken 100 percent by them and they take Ijaw oil too.


So many Ijaws, out of not much knowledge of the size of Ijaw always join themselves to minority groups when we are not minority.
Where Ijaws occupy in the Niger Delta is as big as Igbo land.
We Ijaws are not minority.
Igbo's and Yoruba's are not larger than us truth be told.
Central dialect gives them more popularity that we don't have because we haven't 100 percent settled that central dialect issue
And they don't cross creeks to know us more when it comes to population census.
They calculate Ijaw by proxy.


Its of no use asking for Toru-Ebe State (Ijaws of Ondo Edo Delta) or Oil-Rivers State(Ijaws of Rivers Akwa-Ibom States) because these guys enjoying Ijaw oil in the name of one state will do all in their power to keep those Ijaws in that state with them there because of the crude oil.


The marginalization on Bayelsa Ijaw is so much.
Bayelsa is 873km² bigger than Imo and Anambra States put together, Imo and Anambra have 48 LGAs Bayelsa have 8.
And its mainly Ijaw oil money they use in paying their politicians.
They don't cross creeks to count Ijaw they only count Ijaw by proxy.
Population figures are being rigged in Nigeria because of political reasons.
If they rig population figure in 8 LGA headquarters of Bayelsa they will rig it in 48 LGA headquarters in Imo and Anambra.


Bayelsa is bigger than 10 Nigerian States.
Theyve marginalized Ijaw so much that its too numerous and all can't be said in one write up.


NNPC is now more like Northern Nigeria's Peoples Company and its leadership is filled up with Northerners even when we produce the crude oil.
Will they allow us to take over their Gold Mines like that and rule all of it?
We all know that the answer is fully no but they will be shouting crude oil thief on Ijaws when it's not even their property.


The other day, they said that crude oil belong to the country and not the people but it seems that the environmental degradations belong to the people and not the country.


The ten richest people in Nigeria, seven have crude oil as part of their main income but not even one Ijaw there and Ijaws produce over 90 percent of the oil.


The only thing they leave for us to take alone is the environmental degradations crude oil exploration and exploitation brings alone.


Freedom is never freely given by the oppressors.
It must be fully asked and forcefully taken by the oppressed first.
No one allows their perceived slaves go free just like that.


If we Ijaws don't stand up, we will never stand up.
The change begins with you.
We cannot say because of betrayal Ijaw won't stand up for Ijaw.


In the re-building of this new Ijaw rights struggling spirits,
If any one betray, that person must be dealt with in a way that they will never forget it.
Even if they bribe you with money, it doesn't give you the guarantee to betray Ijaw.
They are only giving you very little out of the money they stole from your people.
So it should not make any one betray the tribe.
Any one who does that will pay a great price for that betraying of Ijaw and will pay through the nose.


Not even one Ijaw signed the 1914 amalgamation documents of which the documents itself stated that Nigeria will expire after 100 years 1914 to 2014 because by then the people would have been wise enough to know what they want for themselves.
The ones enjoying Nigeria know this but won't allow Nigeria disintegrate as being stated in the documents because they enjoy lording it over other groups that are suffering in the curse called Nigeria.


We must stop living on past glories so that we can move forward.
If we Ijaws can gather ourselves, plan well, and work on the total defence of Ijaw we will end the curse called Nigeria and go to the promise land of which is Ijaw Republic.


Ijaw Republic is bigger than the 51 smallest countries in the world including Isreal.
All hands on deck please.
Always do what you can, wherever you are to move the Ijaw Nation Forward.
To see things happen we must join hands and make things happen.


Thankyou all.

One Tribe
One Ancestor
One Ijaw.

Ijaw Republic the final home of all Ijaws.
Ijaw Republic or nothing else.


General Ditari.

Vote Peter Obi and we'll give you whatever number of LGA you want in Bayelsa

isan:
1, Yoruba has never voted based on religion sentiment .

Very true, but a Muslim Muslim ticket would change that. In case you're not aware, there's an open genocide against Christians in the North. And it's gradually moving down south look at the incident that happened in owo.

Kaduna State in the past usually rotate power between Muslim and Christian. Now they choose Muslim governor and Muslim deputy, loot at what Southern Kaduna is today. Terrorist are using Helicopters to strike at unarmed villages, Bandits are blowing up trains and abducting people. How many arrest have been done so far...none. Why? Cos their leaders who are Muslims are protecting them.

Even in my place of work, we talked about the insecurity in Nigeria and how Buhari's government is very slow to act whenever it involves Muslims and fast to act whenever it involves IPOB Christians. And the yourba Christians amongst us where of the opinion that they would stand behind Peter Obi cos if a Muslim Muslim gets to Aso Rock, Christianity in Nigeria would be on the verge of going extinct.

2 , Adeboye and Oyedepo won't support peter Obi publicly they didn't even drum support for Osinbajo

Lol... Osibanjo campaigned openly in RCCG camp he even came with Buhari. Go to YouTube the videos are there. Both were on the camp ground, if Daddy Adeboye didn't support them, he wouldn't have given them his altar to campaign on.

And mind you Bishop Oyedepo is a son to daddy Adeboye, so whoever Daddy follows all PFN follows.

3 , APC and PDP will play the tribal card they will divide and rule

PDP will obviously win in the north because of the high level of illiteracy there. Those ones vote based on what they're being told. That's why I want Peter Obi to pick a very vibrant northern who will get him a reasonable number of votes from the north.

Then for the South South, if Atiku picks wike, it's game over for him, Okowa would never stand behind Wike so Peter Obi can capitalize on that to get Delta and Bayelsa, as for cross river and akwa ibom, we see ourselves as one, hard work and playing the religious card to them might just work out in his favour.

[quote author= post=113663916]Sanusi former CBN governor, former Emir of Kano has the contacts in the north[/quote]Very true let's pray Sanusi agrees to pair up with him.

Islandlady:
One thing I so much like about Tinubu is his ability to strategize, plan and he has visions!!!

Nigerians should just give him a benefit of doubt, and see the positive things he will do!

We already did that in 2015 when he presented us with buhari and asked us to vote for him cos he (Buhari is the Messiah). He told us that Buhari would bring down the price of fuel, Buhari would make N1 to become $1, Buhari would defeat Boko Haram...etc. He even said that if even though it's NEPA Bill Buhari presents as his certificate we should vote him like that.

From 2015 till date, how many of those promises where they able to achieve. Even tinubu himself has never criticized Buhari's government, all he's after is that after Buhari it's he's turn. Is that the kind of person you're asking dying Nigerians to give a benefit of doubt?

Mr Macaroni said on Twitter that if by now as a youth you don't know who to vote for between the 3 candidates then you're not tired of suffering.

I'm an Igbo person but I don't hate tinubu, I respect him as one of the most successful Nigerian politician. I also respect his ability to handpick technocrats for the growth of the economy. But you see this his 2023 ambition, he's going there for himself and not for Nigeria.

Tinubu invested so much money to get Buhari to Aso Rock in 2015, he spent another billions to retain him there in 2019 despite how badly he (Buhari) performed. Then in Ogun state, he was given the opportunity to talk to the delegates, what manifesto did he present to them...he told dapo that he was the one that made him governor, also said it's because of him that Buhari is president, and that it's he's turn to rule.

When someone starts talking like that you don't need a prophet to tell you that he's ready to fight dirty and even kill to get what he wants. And if he eventually gets what he wants, it would be looting galore.

A 2 bedroom flat in Gbagada is over a million naira, rice is over 30k per bag, beans, yam, garri...these are commodities we grow here in Nigeria, yet their prices have all reached the heavens. How much is your salary?

Everyday we're greeted with new tax, no light, yet they keep increasing tarif. Before 3k recharge gives me 90 units of electricity now 5k recharge doesn't give me that same unit.

What of gotv, it used to be 1,200 when I bought my decoder, now it's over 5k per month. Whereras your salary is still the same.

Look at Nairaland back then in 2015, Nairaland use to operate a charity call TEHN they were assisting sick people and those who have financial issues. It was easy for them to operate then cos there were no beggars on the forum.

Today you can hardly come across any thread without seeing an account number and the user begging for 1 or 2k.

The youths have been robbed off their destinies, and you want to give someone who literally controls Lagos treasury the benefit of doubt. Are you not tired of suffering?

Look at that APC primaries, Tinubu was the only candidate who read from a book and even at that he's hands were seriously vibrating. What does that tell you? We're going to have another president who would be patrolling UK every now and then while the country keeps getting worse.

Please if you love your future vote wisely.

Gentlerespect76:
With Kwankwanso we are obidiently moving to Aso Rock.

Exactly. But he'll need a hell of a conviction to do. It's not going to be an easy task. Kwankwaso should know by now that Southern Christians are solidly behind Peter Obi.

It's no long news that the Peter Obi movement is seriously gaining momentum. Recently Apostle Suleman a popular cleric openly threw his support for Peter Obi, and I can confidently tell you that with the loss of Professor Yemi Osibanjo in the APC primaries, a lot of South West Christians would rally behind Obi to give him their support. I see daddy Adeboye and Bishop Oyedepo endorsing him (Peter Obi) very soon.

So this leaves us with the north which is going to be a fierce battle ground between the 3 major candidates.

1. Atiku who is already a northerner would want to use his indigenous and religious advantage to gather bulk votes from his region.

2. Tinubu. He would clearly want to go for a Muslim northerner so as to spilt Atiku's votes in the North. This move wouldn't bade well for him in the South cos southern Christians (CAN and PFN) are already against a Muslim Muslim ticket.

3 Peter Obi. Who is also looking for votes from the north, to balance with whatever he gets in the south.

For Peter Obi to at least get a reasonable number of votes from the north, he must look for a Muslim who is also a very popular figure.

The possible pics I'm looking at are.

1. Adamu Garba. Adamu tried purchasing the 100m APC form but was unable to raise the fee. He ended up raising about 80m and withdrew from the race. Weeks later he officially left APC. He recently congratulated Peter Obi for LP's factional victory. That speaks volumes that he's open to negotiation.

2. Kwankwaso. Yes you heard me right, I don't see him as someone who would fight this battle till March next year. From the look of things Kwankwaso would either step down and join forces with Atiku or if Peter Obi can strike a good deal with him, he might just join the moving train. The open secret is whoever wins or at least pulls reasonable votes in Kano is already on cruising altitude to Abuja.

3. Sheu Sani. A lot of people might say he lost his senatoral primaries, but he's a Muslim and can possibly gather support for Peter Obi. Yes he recently mocked LP by saying they gave birth to twins but we've seen politicians who openly criticized candidates and years later they ended up standing behind them. Obsanjo and Oshomole are typical examples.

As the race gets hotter I still see more prominent northerners pitching their tent with Peter Obi.

So that's leaves us with the ultimate question as to who his running mate would be....You can add yours.

mods help us for wider view.

Lalasticalala, Dominique Mynd44.

Op his account wasn't restricted, there are procedures that must be taken before an account gets blacklisted. Besides you must provide evidence of fraud.

If he's claiming that someone here reported his account, he's nothing but a chronic liar. I told you yesterday that his deactivated account speaks volumes.

Go to the bank and make an official report...today is Friday and Monday is public holiday, stop wasting your time chatting with him. He has withdrawn and spent that money.

Meself:
If at 50 a woman is not married is there.any hope for her? How do u encourage such person?

Tell her not to give up, also she should look for widowers who are looking for company in their old age and get married to them..

But on a serious note what was she doing in her teenage age that she got to 50 as a single woman?

I stand with Peter Obi

Men are egoistic in nature and some will even argue that it's wrong for a guy to collect or request for cash/gifts from women they're in love with. I have friends who reason this way.

Women on the other hand see it as the responsibility of a man to provide for them in a relationship, so when the guy isn't forthcoming, they tag him as a stingy fellow.

Takeit2017:
Uodate:

So guys he messaged me that he would refund the money that he went to site to work
Am waiting his refund

And his phone went off

He has deactivated his Nairaland account. That should speak volumes.

Just go to the bank and report. The longer you wait, the more difficult it would be for you to recover back your money.

Nigerians aren't nice people, tomorrow we would beging to blame our leaders when we're worse than them.

He will just die of an incurable STD. He doesn't know that girls cheat raw, meaning if one of the multitudes of guys she's cheating with is infected, then you're as good as dead.

Thank God for myself. I don't send money to online beggars. Most of them are scammers, a quick background check here on Nairaland would reveal how many of them have been bursted time and time again.

If you had taken that money and given to a widow in your church, she would have blessed you from the bottom of her heart.

Since his details are online, just call your bank and call his bank, show them evidence of your chat and they can place restrictions on his account. Whenever he goes physically to the bank to make enquiry about, he'll be apprehended.

Sorry for your loss.

RichProminent:
Sometimes I login just to read the daily lies posted here.You would see blatant lies posted with thousands of views and hundreds of comments.

Here in romance section one would victimize oneself to paint one's partner/spouse black just to atrcat attention and win sympathy.

Redpillers and feminists are other groups that wins attention.Some are simps but would claim redpills here just to attract attention.Some go as far as creating alternates so they can achieve different goals simultaneously.

Stop the lies in this forum please.

It's a faceless forum, what do you expect.