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Romance › Re: Never Have High Hopes / Expectations From A Nigerian Woman You Just Met. by Nazgul: 8:47pm On Mar 31, 2021

Ilekokonit:
Never have high hopes / expectations from a Nigerian woman you just met.

Nigerian women are not that trust worthy.

No matter how honest you might think a Nigerian woman is on first meeting them, sooner or later, their mask will slip to reveal them for the dishonest, double-dealing FRAUDULENT LYING TRICKSTERS that they really are.

Thank me for the above insight later

Lol... how can you have high hopes on someone you barely even know.

Truth is any girl you meet for the first time is fúcking someone else, even if she agrees to date you, that won't stop her from playing the whóre role with random guys for the fun of it.

Once you possess this knowledge, you'll have peace of mind cos no woman outside your mum, sister (for those that have) and daughter is worth your happiness.

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Romance › Re: My Girlfriend Is Just So Perfect! by Nazgul: 8:26pm On Mar 31, 2021

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Soooo, *asks poke-nosing-ly* you don wife am?[/color]

Are you planning to occupy her position if he hasn't?

Romance › Re: How Can I Escape Marriage? by Nazgul: 8:21pm On Mar 31, 2021

Become a priest...just enroll in one of the seminary across the country and you're good to go.

Romance › Re: Would You Honor The Wedding Invitation Of Your Ex? by Nazgul: 8:16pm On Mar 31, 2021

englishmart:
My ex invited me for her wedding. I knew it was to spite me. But whatever be the case, I'm not attending even for $200,000 voucher.

What about you?

Get over it bro...me I'll happily attend, I was even chatting with one of my ex some weeks back, she was telling me about her upcoming wedding, she even told me to buy her washing machine as my wedding gift to her when coming.

Life is very short, don't stress yourself to an early o, if one relationship doesn't work out, don't kill yourself, just remain friends with her and move into the next available girl, you can keep hopping like a frog until you find the right person.

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Properties › Re: What My Tenant Sent Me This Morning by Nazgul: 8:05pm On Mar 31, 2021

Your tenant is working towards becoming a landlord very soon, so he's treating you (his current landlord) exactly how he wants his tenants to treat him.

Crime › Re: Father-Of-Six Arrested For Sexually Assaulting 9-Year-Old Girl In Adamawa (Pix) by Nazgul: 8:04pm On Mar 31, 2021

EmekaA125:
Is panties the plural of pant?

Crime › Re: Father-Of-Six Arrested For Sexually Assaulting 9-Year-Old Girl In Adamawa (Pix) by Nazgul: 9:27pm On Mar 30, 2021

This sexual assault on minors is seriously getting out of hand. It's high time the government begin to enforce strict laws against rapists and paedophiles.

What does a married man with six kids want in the panties of a 9 year old child? That man should be jailed.

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Romance › Re: Funny Relationship Breakup Story You've Heard Or Did, Here's mine by Nazgul: 8:59pm On Mar 30, 2021

SmellySperm:
so u no wan follow give ur life to christ?

It happened years ago when I was still schooling. And at that time I used to see most religious people as hypocrites (I still do tho) so I just couldn't stand to endure a pot calling me a kettle black. undecided

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Romance › Re: How Much Is Expected For A Man To Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage by Nazgul: 10:08pm On Mar 29, 2021

emperorsversion:
Exactly, I see your points really... Truth is you hardly find such supportive women these days. They milk their husband and stretch them to live a life of debt even at the early stage of marriage.

I also think you have the best clue to if a woman will be financially supportive before you wife her. Is she the one that contributes not a single penny to your wedding preparation yet she piles up list and expenses that should be met.

Such a lady can be a disaster and a stronghold to financial leakage to the husbands finance, whether working or not.

Advice to single men, look out for these little signs and do not be disturbed by the cliché criteria of photoshoot and all of those vague merriment, cos the real koko comes when married.

The problem is that most guys ignore all these obvious red flags, many damaged marriages today showed signs of possible collapse from the onset but most times we choose to ignore them with the excuse of being in love.

I do tell myself this...any girl who can't spend her money to by me gifts isn't worth my time, regardless of how much I'm earning. This idea of trying to play Mr nice guy has lead may young men into taking their own lives, cos when reality dawns on them, they'll discover that they were investing in a pit and not a safe.

I've seen families where the combined salary of both couples (husband and wife) isn't even up to 300k, yet they're comfortable and happy.

And there are other families where the man earns over half a million, yet stress, depression, nagging...etc from his so called wife is pushing him to an early grave.

The rule of the thumb is to go for someone who understands the meaning of marriage and is ready to give her best in order to make it work no matter the cost.

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Romance › Re: Funny Relationship Breakup Story You've Heard Or Did, Here's mine by Nazgul: 9:43pm On Mar 29, 2021

She told me that she has given her life to Jesus Christ and therefore we can't continue seeing each other. I didn't want to be an obstacle to her newly found faith so I withdrew. undecided

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Romance › Re: How Much Is Expected For A Man To Earn Monthly Before Considering Marriage by Nazgul: 9:26pm On Mar 29, 2021*

If the girl in question which you plan to marry is supportive, then regardless of how much your salary is, you guys can work things out.

But if she's the selfish and self-centered type, you'll have to work and work and work, and she still wouldn't appreciate your efforts cos to her you aren't man enough and don't deserve her love and care.

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Romance › Re: . by Nazgul: 9:15pm On Mar 29, 2021

Do you trust her?

Has she proven beyond every reasonable doubt that she can be trusted?

If yes...then relax and stop worrying yourself over nothing.

If no...leave her so you can have peace of mind.

The ball is in your court.

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Romance › Re: Can We Smash And Still Be Friends? by Nazgul: 9:07pm On Mar 29, 2021

BaddieFreak:
Can a Nigerian guy and lady smash and still be good friends. I have noticed that this is nearly impossible in Nigeria. It is either the guy leaves after tasting the coochie or the girl starts misbehaving or both sef.

So can a 9ja guy and lady smash and still be good friends like nothing happened?

It depends, if the guy in question is only after the lady's body and the lady just wants good sex, then it's possible, cos the guy wouldn't commit and they lady won't bother either.

Romance › Re: What Exactly Do These Ladies Want? by Nazgul: 8:47pm On Mar 29, 2021

This is a million dollar question which 99.9% of girls cannot answer.

Romance › Re: Pls Does Been A Girl Means Been Disabled by Nazgul: 9:52pm On Mar 27, 2021

My brother, guys are the ones making them behave the way they do.

When a guy starts paying a girl salary for dating him, what do you expect?

I met a girl who told me point blank that her ex was paying her 100k as monthly upkeep, that if I want to date her I should improve on it.

I laughed and changed the topic instantly...many graduates with skills don't even earn half of that, yet some STD infested girl who's faithfulness I can't guarantee wants me to give her such amount for her to date me.

Guys are the ones who makes these girls lazy...the stingy guys association that was trending a few months back wasn't actually promoting stinginess it was a protest against guys who encourage laziness amongst girls by depriving themselves of basic needs just to satisfy a girl who might obviously be cheating on them.

The cry was a wake up call to guys to become wise and learn to invest more in themselves than in ungrateful leeches, but some guys prefer to learn about women the hard way, hence encouraging laziness among them by funding a lifestyle which will leave them penniless, depressed and sucidial.

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Food › Re: Food Prepared By Your Dad by Nazgul: 9:25pm On Mar 27, 2021

DannyG8:
have you ever eaten food prepared by your dad? please share your experience

Sadly I've never. embarassed

Family › Re: What Is The Purpose Of My Life? by Nazgul: 9:18pm On Mar 27, 2021

godsplan123:
yes before I got a job and married.

Then continue back the same way you did in the past...cheap Pam's aren't that costly to make. Just some cheap leather, gum and one or two things and you're good to go.

Also if you're a Christian, engage in prayers, I believe that you'll get back on your feet.

Family › Re: What Is The Purpose Of My Life? by Nazgul: 8:45pm On Mar 27, 2021

godsplan123:
I don't have the tools anymore things has been very terrible.

Have you practiced the trade independently in the past?

Family › Re: What Is The Purpose Of My Life? by Nazgul: 8:41pm On Mar 27, 2021

godsplan123:
qualification nce

handwork shoes maker

I lost my job.

Why not fall back to your handwork which is shoe making.

You can make cheap slippers pams and display. If it's affordable, people will patronize you in mass.

Family › Re: What Is The Purpose Of My Life? by Nazgul: 8:32pm On Mar 27, 2021

When there's life, there's hope.

Don't give up, what's your level of qualification?

Do you have a hand work?

Are you working currently?

Answer these questions...

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: . by Nazgul: 6:30pm On Mar 27, 2021

StacyO:
I disagree with you on this one.

I see very valid points however.

Which areas do you disagree with me...?

Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: . by Nazgul: 6:29pm On Mar 27, 2021

StacyO:
Sorry for my delayed response, work stress...I would have preferred it much better if we had this debate on a weekend.

@nazgul
I understand this clearly, life itself isn't easy.

Anyway, how's work and life in general?

Fine my dear... we thank God.

Romance › Re: My First Date Got Ruined Because I Don't Have Chair by Nazgul: 7:54pm On Mar 25, 2021

BonPatrick:
I have been crying �� I invited my new girlfriend to where I leave she found out I don't have chair she left thinking I want to take advantage of her. I feel so bad I was planning to buy chair as soon as a get money. What should I do?

Your first date with a girl was in your house, and she was completely comfortable with meeting you in your house for the first time?

My brother don't worry yourself over her, let her go...such a girl will kill you before your time.

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Romance › Re: After 6 Years Of Marriage To My Wife, I Never Knew She's Building A House- Man by Nazgul: 7:52pm On Mar 25, 2021

Zzor:
Somehow the husband's behaviour towards her prompted her decision of keeping it secret, men are mostly responsible for women misbehavior in marriages, bitter truth.

As harsh as this sounds, sadly I'd have to agree with you. So many men over react over nothing, this will in turn make their wives hide certain delicate information from them.

I do tell people, if you want to enjoy your marriage, be your wife's friend, best friend in fact, let her feel very comfortable in letting you into her deepest secret, and don't in any way use the little she tells you against her, this will make her completely open with you.

The man in question is to blame for this.

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Romance › Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Nazgul: 3:22am On Mar 23, 2021

Sixfeetbelle:
How is she greedy? He offered, she accepted. Explain the greediness here

She's greedy because she knew the guy couldn't afford that money he gave to her. She knew the guy was using it to woo her but choose to play blind so as to get her supposed phone.

A guy spends almost the whole day in your shop, and then proposes to get you a phone... shouldn't common sense have told her that he wants more than just friendship? Besides, who discusses her Virginity with a casual friend, how did the guy come to know that she's a virgin? She clearly told him, which made him desire her even more.

If he was genuinely helping her, he won't be coming there to check up on here on a daily basis like she stated, and their discussion wouldn't get to the stage where she'll reveal her sexual status to him.

Secondly, in case you don't know, gifts makes you indebted to the giver, I don't know why it's so difficult for you girls to say thanks and move on. It's not every gift you must collect cos some are traps aimed at luring you into doing what you had no plan of doing.

Last December a senior colleague in my place of work gave me some gifts, I respectfully rejected it because I knew clearly that accepting such gifts will make me indebted to him, I wasn't ready to gamble my freedom for something I can afford.

Sixfeetbelle:
Quick question: are there not guys that can give a lady gift without expecting anything in return?

They are...but as a lady it's your responsibility to be able to read the mind of the guy and know that he's geninuely helping you with no strings attached.

Next time you see a hungry and tattered looking cultist offering you what you know he can't afford, simply tell him thanks and move on, it's not so difficult. You ladies should learn it. This issue of seeing every guy as a potential maga should stop, cos it has landed many girls in trouble and it's still putting more in trouble.

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Pets › Re: My Dog Has Refused To Eat Because We Travelled by Nazgul: 8:17pm On Mar 19, 2021

Chie I miss my schooling days...see 404 wasting away. sad

Back to the topic, ekuke don't have any problem, maybe he's fasting...once he's done, he'll sort himself out. Don't worry.

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Romance › Re: I Think Of Committing Suicide Because Am Being Threatened by Nazgul: 8:14pm On Mar 19, 2021

husseinaaa:
he is a cult member, he is threatening to kill me if I don't have sex with him or return the money he dashed me.

I didn't ask him for the money .

when he offered to buy me phone I told him not to buy if his intention is to have sex or use me but he told me it's a gift.

they will kill me.

I have no peace, I have nobody to stand against him.

and I don't have money to pay him.

but as am going to take my life, remember I did it for the fear of my life. I did it because I can't take it anymore.

You're a very greedy person...don't you know that gifts makes you indebted to the giver, meaning no one gives you something without expecting something back from you in return.

How can you collect 50k from a struggling guy without knowing that he's expecting you to submit your coochie to him?

I'll advise you to return his money back to him, since you've decided that you won't date or have sex with him, borrow, beg, sell your belongings... etc, just raise his money and give back to him so you can have peace of mind.

Cos struggling guys can be very dangerous when it comes to money. I've read countless stories here on Nairaland where people kill for sums which are far lesser than the amount in question. You don't know what he went through to get it, the menial jobs he must have done...so kindly give it back to him and use your head next time.

Good luck.

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Romance › Re: He Vowed To Destroy My Life Either By Charm Or Any Means. by Nazgul: 8:11pm On Mar 19, 2021

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Politics › Re: Jonathan: El-Rufai Lied That Oritsejafor And I Are Boko Haram Sponsors by Nazgul: 7:44pm On Mar 19, 2021

Jonathan wasn't sponsoring Boko Haram but he was too weak to fight them cos he didn't want to offend the northern cabals. So technically he contributed to their growth and expansion.

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