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N.B: This post is not for everyone. It is for born again, tongue-talking Christian men going through financial shame. It is also for any other tongue-talking Christian, male or female. If you don’t belong to the above, please get born again first and be filled with the Holy Spirit.

I won’t waste your time. Sometime in the past my wife insulted me multiple times for not being able to pay my children’s school fees among other financial incapacities. She was the one paying the fees and feeding my children. I cried most times in secret and lived in shame and reproach.

But brothers crying does not change anything. I simply told God that though my wife’s insults were painful, she was saying things as they were. In tears, I begged God to enlarge my capacity. Remember I was born again and tongue talking. I used to pray occasionally.

I lived in shame till I was introduced to a group of Christians that believe in not just prayers but consistent and extended times of prayers. These prayers are 99.9% praying in tongues. I joined them and we pray in tongues for hours.

In praying for such extended hours, we build capacity to do what God has called us to do including taking care of our families. That capacity acquired through praying can manifest in diverse ways. It can manifest through your business, your job, favors etc

Don’t just cry, brother. Please enlarge your capacity in extended times of praying in the Holy Spirit. Start by praying for an hour and increase over time. You can also be praying while at work, bathing etc. Please put the gift you already have at work. Give yourself time and you will see Jesus Himself come through for you. As you pray, read the Bible in between. He will open you up to other areas with time.

Today, my children’s fees are paid before time, there is provision for their food. My wife is amazed. She is yet to understand the change. I won’t stop oh!! I will keep praying. I will keep building capacity through the spirit. I thank our God for this wonderful gift of praying in tongues. Brothers please let’s do this and get down to doing our works efficiently in the name of our Lord Jesus Christ.

In all you wrote I did not see any God factor. Life is spiritual. Regardless of what you do, that domineering evil spirit will never allow you peace and joy.

Why not run to Jesus? He is the father of all spirits. He will build and strengthen your spirit while subduing and dealing with the spirit operating in your wife.

My brother please turn on the light in you through Christ and watch darkness fade away.

She definitely learnt that act from her mother or neighbor’s wife.

Interesting read. Just wondering if you made this up.

Nigercity:
Igbos keep beating people in there homes
People wey no even get mind to play away

One of the reasons for the intense hatred against them.

essenjack:
I was born and baptized as Christian, then I wasn't so exposed to life to make a choice of my religion, growing up I see things differently.
Currently I'm considering changing my religion, Hope there wouldn't be any dire consequences for chosen a different religion & denying the allegiance I once swore before baptism in the Christian religion?

Rather than changing, try going deeper into Christ. The untapped dimensions in Him are infinite.

Why forage with chickens when you can soar with eagles?

Congrats!!!

Your first mistake is having confidence in yourself. You should be confident but that confidence should hang on something bigger than you.

Life will continually flog you and push you down if who you flaunt as your confidence is just yourself.

The question now is in who or what should your confidence hang?

Mine hangs on Jesus Christ my Lord and Saviour. Feel free to choose yours. But I plead and pray you choose Christ.

Colleagues think I am an unserious person. They marvel at my excellent results even with their assumptions thinking that I succeed by mistake.
They have no idea that I am the most serious person I know.

The journey through this earth can be very hard without spiritual backup.
Show up in your duty place but constantly remain in the secret place. I am talking about consistent prayers. Getting born again is the first step.

NB: Spiritual backup can be from anywhere— juju, Alfa, secret societies etc. But I encourage you to choose JESUS CHRIST who is light, life, way and truth.

hopefulLandlord:
Someone who believes himself to be god is NOT an atheist. such a person is an AUTOTHEIST

Thanks for adding to my vocabulary. I am only pointing out that men must worship God or something else. We are beings of worship.

There is nothing like being an atheist. You now believe in yourself therefore, you have become your own god. Just say you stopped being a Christian. You’ve just started worshipping yourself.

Imagine yourself as god. But a god that does not even know the color of the air he breathes, is that one God?

This is the funniest thing I’ve read in a while.

Pidgin English is a language of its own in your hands.

Please do not underestimate prayers. The devil is out to destroy men and marriages.
Women easily give him (the devil) listening ears and allow him to use them.
Your duty is to camp in God’s presence and watch as light disarms wickedness. Go for the secret place.

seyz91:
read the thread again and understand

He committed suicide after failing his exams. His mental health couldn’t have been normal.

If you work and also have to write professional exams under the Nigerian medical system it truly takes a toll on you. Hazard allowance is not for exposure to diseases alone. Suboptimal mental health is hazardous both for the patient and the doctor.

Don’t beat her. Abuse the devil in her when she’s not talking. Most women cannot take the same thing they dish out.
Moreover learn to pray. The devil spoke to eve and she obeyed. That same devil is still speaking to your eve today. Don’t make the mistake of Adam. Stick to God.

The doctor’s health should be a priority.
With all they are exposed to, their hazard allowance is still N5,000. So sad.
RIP Doc!

What did I just read bikonu

Move on. Make money. Don’t tell your future partners about your breakup history so they don’t use the same format.
Above all, find peace with yourself and don’t be too emotionally needy in any relationship.

Vinnie2000:
Hmmm..
Could one of Diz be D Reason why Temitope Refused to gimme KongoMeat Even after some Kissings and touching!

Most likely. Give her some time. She will arrange herself and come for the show. That’s if she fancies you.

1. She’s wearing a torn pant
2. Her bra is dirty
3. She has an ongoing infection
4. She’s menstruating
5. etc

He had a good outing. But it’s over bro.
Please don’t lead him to court to contest the results. He has spent enough on this already. Game over bro.
He can now channel his resources elsewhere.

I really would have voted for him if I were at home. But I know we will hear more of him. His pockets will never run dry.
Years ago he said that people struggle and chase after hundreds and thousands of different currencies but millions of dollars chase after him. I remember he said he is a millionaire in any currency in the world. These sayings were about 20 years ago. I believe Nigerian politics will not stop him from being who he is.

Iyaebe:
Virginity is Godliness

It’s not. Some are virgins due to lack of opportunity among other reasons.
Godliness is built over time. A non virgin can be very godly.

Just move on with your life bro. Find another love if possible. Live like she’s not there. When you return, if she’s still there and you still want her you can then start afresh.
Don’t give yourself heartache abroad. Concentrate and achieve your goal there.
I speak to you from experience.

Iyaebe:
Maybe you are right, I always believe a virgin prick still has all its nutrients and sweetness intact than a community prick.I'll go to any length to marry a virgin good man.

The magic is in godliness not virginity.

Did I read okuko?

Maduka might win. He is a fighter.
Be careful of a man that left his father’s leaking hut in a sleepy Village and found his way to America.

Observe carefully, a village boy that got to America and became a pharmacist.

Still not satisfied he successfully went on to become a Harvard trained medical doctor. He went on to become a professor while setting up businesses in America.

Deal carefully with that village boy that finally made money and returned to singlehandedly transform his village along with numerous other acts of philanthropy.

Now he has set his eyes on leading his Nigerian home state though an American.

I am not saying he is the next governor but observe him carefully. He has been a winner all along. He has succeeded in everything he set his heart and eyes on. Remember that his name is God-WIN.

If I were his opponents, I definitely know that it is only God that can stand in this man’s way. If I were his opponents I’d be very careful.

By the way, I support him and I think he has won already.

Fine woman!
Happy birthday mama!

Beautiful daughters of men.