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IkeIgboNile:
NobleAngell
My hope is leaning on yours.

Biko nne, don't lean too hard on this my hope because it's too fragile .

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United States will be brought down, thanks to Biden,. World power will definitely shift to another Country

yinkaOdutuyo:
So the main issue that led to me denying her food this night.

I asked her for the two of us to go and get ingredients for food, she said she's having serious headache so I went alone.

When I came back I washed the rice and put it on fire and I also start grinding the pepper and tomatoes with manual grinder.

After few minutes when the rice was done I asked my wife to go and put down the rice from fire, and fried the stew afterwards.

She just started shouting she's so tired, her head is hot and making hefty sounds inside that she can't stand up from this bed.

I insisted and she went to put the rice down and off the gas, instead of her to start frying the stew. She just came and meet me on the bed.

And she started shouting I didn't tell you am hungry, am not even eating this night at all. Do whatever you want to do, I'll never stand up to make any stew in this house. If you want to eat go and make the stew yourself.

I just stood up and enter the kitchen to make the stew. As I was making the stew, my wife that said she's not feeling fine was busy watching film om her phone. She complained earlier that her head is hefty and aching her that she can't stand up from the bed, but she stood up and start looking for the BT Audio to connect to her phone so that she'll be able to hear the film audio very well.

Immediately I finished making thr stew, I served the food on the table and the next my wife wanted to stood up from the bed to join on the table so that we can eat.

I just told her that You can never eat from this food this night and tomorrow morning, because you were the one that said you were not hungry that I was troubling you to make food.

I also told her that the headache allow you br watching films and also allow you to be looking for BT Audio. But denied you to cook for me.

So house I want to know if this is right or wrong pls or what can I do.

To all moniker saying have I ever helped her before this is for you below:

BTW I have cooked many times in the house, there are times she'll go to work before she comes back I'll have prepare good foods, that will atimes takes me 2 or more hours to prepare and she'll come back and eat and smile and say thank you. I use to get home between 5pm and 6pm latest, while she'll be coming home by 7pm, 8pm or latter.

At times the two of us may be at home and I'll be the only one cooking, while she'll just lie down watching films or doing another thing while I do the while cooking.

I think I have being helpful to her in cooking and other chores in the house. There are many times I'll be the one washing all the clothes in the house, while she's sleeping or doing something else.

I literally do almost 80% of everything in the house if not more than.

But me doing all those doesn't mean am a fool or I don't know what am doing.

Bit I think as a man you have to man up.

yinkaOdutuyo:
But am having a conscience like am starving my wife or being wicked.

TkhGuy:
It's hurtful, I don't know which side of the coin you guys want to follow but, she came that day, uninvited like she use to & know I have to tell her when she starts touching me & reaching my sensitive zone, I held her hands for a while & broke the silence,

I did tell her that we aren't going anywhere after noticing how flirty she is from first 1 month of our date, but she kept coming back, I have broken up with her prior to this, but she still comes to my place uninvited,

She is curvy & seductive, she is beautifully personified,
I don't have time to chase after girls due to the nature of my job, so, she has been the only girl I have all along,


I have carefully made my choice, ladies you all need to learn this cos most Nigerian guys will not tell you this or force it on you..

I can't marry a girl who doesn't trust me, or projects condom forward just at the point of having Bleep with her,

I can't have a girl who can't cook as a wife but gf yes,

I can't harbor a girl who questions my authority as my wife, but as gf yes

I can't take a girl who challenges me even to point of picking up a fight with me as a wife, but as girlfriend, yes

I can't take a girl who disobeys me as my wife, cheating will be nothing to her,

I can't marry a girl who is unapologetic, for girlfriend, yes but not a wife

I can't marry a girl who's 80% contact is raging with boys, even if there are all her cousin, or she doesn't sleep with them I don't care,

I can't marry a girl who wears make up 247 when coming and going and always on a tight body revealing clothes, what that means is she is not done advising herself to highest bidder

This are the conditions & challenges that i tried hard to stop my girlfriend from but she wouldn't let go,

We have dated for more than 3 years but this attitude never changes,

I found someone whom all this came from without me pushing for it, now she is crying out her eyes,

lilmax:
well I didn't read your story

but the comments here says you're foolish


I believe those comments

Logobenz2:
Woman insult your family in your presence you no jam am till she collapse
Bros you dey fall hand o
Please no one should advise this kind of weak man.spits!
Who wouldn't know what to do at this point?some people dey born sha
Just look at someone's son.e be like na pap den use raise you.
Your mom comes to your own house and your wife not only mistreated her but tried to insult her in your presence?you know why?she knows you are a weak man.
That was your golden opportunity to teach her a bitter lesson that will be justified anywhere in Nigeria.
I wonder what she will do to you if you take her to the US.
Better cancel all plans of that visa,withdraw the application,divorce that woman whether the child is yours or Not,do not care!just be sending upkeep money for the child and get yourself another woman.
Jesus Christ!

scrolldown88:
The west are master manipulators. But I also don't blame them.

I don't blame Putin (at least not 100%) or even Ukraine either. It's a power tussle, and it's logical for both sides (west and Russia) to try woo as many countries to their side.

While the west has effectively use her media and other means to paint Putin and Russia in unflattering Color's, this wooing Ukraine to want to join NATO, Putin strategy for winning Ukraine over has been to threaten then and outrightly question their sovereignty as an independent nation.

Now we know nobody likes to be bullied. So naturally Ukraine is inclined to side with the west.

Putin should have chosen a more subtle and tactical strategy to win Ukraine over instead of threats.

This war currently has all the ingredients to
escalate to something global. Putin is clearly cornered, and now it seems there's no limit to the amount of brute force, and possibly war crimes he is ready to commit if it ensures him victory. The sad thing is the more atrocities committed by Putin, the more sympathy it draws to Ukraine from the rest of the world.
He certianly could have handled this crisis better.

Now he knows the world is watching, and since he has been bragging of how much militarily might be has, he will do everything to win this war so as not to be seen as a leader of weak Russia who could not defeat small Ukraine.

If the Ukrainians keep resisting, Putin is clearly ready to use any means necessary to win... and he will win, given the high millitary might of Russia.

But at what cost?

The Russian economy will be crippled

He will have to occupy Ukraine and maintain order in a country amist incessant qeurilla attacks from Ukrainian militias, resisting Russia occupation of their land.

Ukraine will remain ungovernable for any puppet government Putin installs.

I'm not quite sure Putin thought this war through, because right now everything is a mess

naija4life247:
Bring it on. The boss is prepared for the worst.

Putin is ready for heaven to fall. He is an ex KGB, not a comedian like Ukraine clown and soon to be former president. He has planned this over the years. He is prepared to take the world including China if China decides to die with the enemies in the West including US, whole of Europe, Canada, Australia. Putin is ready to end the world, after all everything that has a beginning must surely has an end.

If Europe and US continue their nonsense, we will all wake up one day in Hell Fire because Putin will nuke all of us.

lekkys:
Sold

BloomingDale:
What countries are still colonizing Africa? You as a man must wait for America to protect you from the Fulanis? Ayam not understanding.

BloomingDale:
Russia must stop western expansion. If not, Africa is doomed. Russia and China are the only countries keeping them in check. That’s why they are trying to get rid of them to usher in total global domination aka the NWO, but God pass them.

Zonefree:
The trainer might be professional, can that be said about his penis?

There's no professionalism when it comes to Tot0 and Gbola matter.

Walkee:
I stand with Vladimir Putin, the greatest man in the world. The West with the help of their media propaganda machine have turned the weak minded against a man fighting their empire of death and destruction.
They want to establish bases in Ukraine which is a stone throw from Russia with lots of Soviet Union equipment and you expect Putin to look away?

naija4life247:
Story, Story, Storeeeeyyyy.

If Putin likes, he can invade the whole of Europe, and you lazy idiots will do nothing. Continue making friends with Russia's enemy in far away America. Canada and Australia and watch how Putin will treat your fucckup. Traitors oloshi.

backbencher:
The case is getting more and more interesting.

Purge comming.

shantti:
See how the Dynamics of world powers are being discussed by we the undeveloped nation. When are we going to be powerful enough to be discussed by other nations. Imagine future American students and diplomats saying something like "oduduwa republic and her Ally arewa republic are scared of invading the middle belt cos they are scared of the influence of biafra

imadiyi:
I am also interested. Have you gotten any reply or response from him? Please if you do, kindly link me up to the WhatsApp group. Thanks