Offpoint:


Actually it's PESTLE.

It's actually spelled *PESTEL*

magicminister:
With due respect to everyone's opinions; i think whipping a child is tantamount to child abuse and a centimetre shy of slavery.

The average Nigerian child experience their first abuse in the hands of those that should protect them. I might get insulted for this but ever wondered why the average Nigerian is so aggressive? If you disagree with them, they retort to insults? Even wondered why the average Nigerian is very afraid of telling the truth?

It all boils down to upbringing like the one we saw in the video posted earlier. Children are individuals with minds of their own and the best way to raise a child is to win that mind over with any means but intimidation and force.

We have to break the cycle of Abuse!!
We must evolve to a better and greater society!
When you flog a child, you are not teaching them to not repeat same mistake, you are teaching them to make sure they don't get caught!


I challenge every Nairalander to take a different discipline approach this week! If your child mess up, call him or sit, sit them down and explain to them why what they did is wrong and why they must never do it again!! Give them one week punishment of dish washing and take away their phone or game or whatever they really enjoy with the promise to return when they behave better!!

tiswell:
Those flies are called AKU in Igbo language

Fry it and enjoy the sweetness, and it's also rich in protein

HandsomeBlack:
1. A phone is supposed to be a private property.

2. If you two are married however, there shouldn't be any secrets between you two.

3. As a gf, Where she went too far is by posting it herself. She should have politely asked you to post it if she wanted to prove your faithfulness to her.

4. It's good to define certain boundaries that are important to you in a relationship. For instance, you may be a very private person that doesn't like your business partners knowing about your relationships and family life.
5. If you love her, you should be able to forgive her and make her understand why you're not comfortable with such.

here:
Your picking wrong fight
Your brother is your only challenge. Do you want to be poisoned there or accused of rape. Your brother added 5yrs to you serving him and you dont see anything? What business is this and what is your plans if you go to the village? What has your parents said? What skill can you learn to become independent. Can you raise money from home to come start yours. I would have said ignore and focus but your brother arbitrarily changing when he settle you is wrong and you might serve and be sent out eventually. Try to figure out a way for yourself that makes you make progress as i see no future with your brother

Championxxx:

Thanks I agree with you because he promised to settle me when I am 25 years old with a huge amount of money to start up my own business and then he changed his mind that he has had spent a lot of money during his wedding and building his house that he don’t think he will be able to settle me again in 2 years time that I should wait when I am 28-30 he will give me double of the amount he promised me . But the way things are going I don’t think I will get anything from him I can only leave for the village I don’t have any trusted friend to stay with in Abuja I also don’t have any money to rent my own place , village is my only option . Yes he is my blood brother we are 5 in total 2 boys and 3 girls he is our first born and I am the last

Championxxx:

They were doing all this to frustrate me I think she brought them to the house with a mission to frustrate me so I can leave , the funny part is they don’t come to clean only to watch tv and making all kind of noises to disturb my sleep and if I am awake they will go back to their room to sleep till noon. These girls has never help around the house when I am around , I do everything mopping , sweeping , washing dishes when they around pressing phone my brother doesn’t say anything to them. I asked him if he is right for me to do all these chores when we have his wife sisters at home , he said before he married I was the one doing it and why am now I complaining , I told because it doesn’t sound right for me to be doing chores when the girls are busy pressing phone, anyway there is more but not everything is good to say on social media. If he refuse renting a place for me I think I will go back to the village because I am short tempered I don’t want to stay in the same house with that mannerless small girl because I don’t want to do something stupid that will land me to prison for life . I prefer to be in the village than staying somewhere where I am not comfortable

hush15:


Nobody talking about black man saving white kid. That's not the emphasis. I only pointed to that just to let people know that color or race should stop us from being the best of ourselves, even when push comes to shove....

U1:


Huh, what if she was already on fire? You think the strength and coherence of thought to do that would be there?

hush15:


He still deserves some accolades. He is only bewildered that he himself could make such move and I hate to bring this into the discussion but that guy is black who just a white kid. Americans should forget race and kick out racism cos its the only thing that's keeping them from being truly great.

lekki1444:
he shoulda let that coloniser child hit the pavement

UyaiIncomparabl:
Who can proffer a solution for me? I am totally tired! I usually cannot seem to have a goodnight's rest. If I am not in a pool of different species of large snakes, I am always on the run because one is always after me. Fortunately for me, I am never harmed by them.

Dream interpreters and what have you, I need help. I have prayed countlessly but prayers don't seem to be working because the dreams usually resurface. I have suffered from this dilemma since I was 10. I really need help, please.

Someone made a sly comment of either being an "ogbanje" or a snake goddess but I can't still seem to wrap my head around such erroneous suggestion.

Makavelli25:
Help house,everybody is complaining I am too thin. Some even said its because I have sex too much "( its been up to 4 months I did it last).
Even my mum complains. I have been to the hospital,did a lot of test including HIV but it all came back negative
Please I need suggestions
Drugs
Food anything that can make me gain weight

Lalasticlala seun please fp

Makavelli25:
Help house,everybody is complaining I am too thin. Some even said its because I have sex too much "( its been up to 4 months I did it last).
Even my mum complains. I have been to the hospital,did a lot of test including HIV but it all came back negative
Please I need suggestions
Drugs
Food anything that can make me gain weight

Lalasticlala seun please fp

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BluntNigerian:
Copied From IGBO RANT HQ Group on Facebook



Please ma post and hide my ID... Notify me when posted...

I don't know what is happening to me, I don't know if it is a curse or a blessing. I want to know if there's anyone in the group who has similar case or knows anything about it, because I am tired of this...

Okay this is it, any one who hurts me end up meeting terrible fate in a short time. I can count alot of them, it is more than a mere coincidence.

If I cry because of someone, I end up hearing a negative or Terrible news that concern them sooner than later. I remember when a man lied to people in his dialect against me, in my presence o. I didn't understand, when I later found out, I was bittered, I cried that night and went to meet him the next morning, i told him, sir because you lied against me, someone that is old enough to be your daughter, you caused me tears, you will shed double. It didn't reach two months, his two daughters died, I regretted my statement. I have been robbed in my house where I live alone, I cried terribly and cursed those people that they will never know peace, they returned my property by themselves and as I speak to you, they are behind bars. I can only mention but a few, there was also a period my ex slapped me publicly, over something that isn't serious, I cried bitterly and he was too proud to apologise, he had his Visa then, he travelled and he was sent back in less than a month.

This is serious as I speak to you, I don't know if this is natural, I know things happen coincidentally but in my case, it keeps repeating itself... I can't count all of them. When I was a kid I didn't take it serious, it even made me laugh but now It gives me great concern.

Okay the last one that happened now is this, I am dating this guy for a while now, his business was blooming well, I do come around and do some chores for him and sometimes use my money to cook for him but one day, in a middle of an argument, he called me a prostitute in front of his friends which I am not, I didn't know what gave him the motivation. I cried so much, I used sell stuffs on pre order then, and it pained me that I used my sweat to cook for him and he ate it that may all his sweat yield no effort. I said it in private. After a couple of time we reconciled but now, his business has died off... Nothing he is doing seems to work. I can't even tell him anything about it.

This is really more than a coincidence, it has repeated itself time after time. sometimes I tend to forgive people quickly and overlook things because I don't know what might follow if I think it too hard and cry over it...

Please, I want the group to tell me what to do? I don't know if this is a blessing or a curse. I need answer

EzzyCarter:
I killed this Python in my street this morning after having swallowed a goat

Bros why now? If you'd lie at least lie responsibly. Where's the goat the python swallowed? Audio goat

tevinsolt:


That's interesing. I was looking at it from supply and demand viewpoint, but you're right it might necessarily work in this space.
Who knows how innovation in solar technology would change how power is distributed in the not so distant future. In fact, homes will be able to engage in power-sharing in the future. Something I just got to know about a week or so ago.