ProfDview1:


Understand any shit u want to understand.. I don't even know ur father n mother from eve...


Reckon my foot,, let her come here n defend herself.. Or better else u shud marry her and if u a lady, try join her with ur brother.


Telling me on wat to do, bros.. I ain't marrying her n I told her. M

So bliv any shit u Wana bliv, owe u no explanation


See Grammer sef.. On top girl matter....

So my ex came here to speak ill of me, it even made front page and u want me to read and drink when my reputation is been damaged by a lady I termed as my Ex Cox I don't av any intention of dating her.


See just pm her and u guys can date


See English... Pls I don't need u to bliv me, I just came to speak and open up since she spilled all online

ProfDview1:
Sorry my previous account was banned.. I don't know if the mod are biased. I am creating this thread to clarify things.. Ineedtoheal is lying, she is lying I repeat myself, she is just lying to gain attention...
Do you think a 40 years old man will be living his life like this? Ineedtoheal, u need to stop this victim mentality.. Even ladies on nairaland are not helping the matter at all.. They support their wrongs, just imagine.

https://www.nairaland.com/5721583/been-him-5-years-no/16#87234266

1. Our relationship isn't up to 5 years like she claimed....

2. I will be 36 around this year not 40... She is already 30. If u think I am lying, I challenge her to post her date of birth cert and I will do mine too

3. She claims I have different ladies pictures on my phone. But she forget to say she chat with random guys online, sharing phone numbers to guys as if she is sharing business card. I have told her about her chat with different guys but she doesn't take me serious. Seen so many things this lady did but I over look it. Thinking she wud change but I was wrong.

4. Well she is also searching too coz I remember seeing some her chat claiming that she is single.. Tell most guys that she isn't dating any one, imagine my babe of 3 years then claiming she is seeing anyone.

5. 3 girlfriends? Two are my Exs and they expressed interest in coming. Not that I forced them to come.

6. All these burial money is fake.. Cmon I am comfortable enough to take care of my father burial.. My siblings are comfortable enough.. Why wud I confront u, how much do u Wana give me?

7. Rejected my suitor? By claiming u ain't single to guys u flirting with.. Even to my friends dt u slept with, had one night with.. Imagine, u never stopped flirting and u think I shud quickly marry you with all the red flags.

8. Am Gentle but pls ask her how many times she has hit me coz of simple issues... Imagine, u want me to marry you.. She takes my gentleness for stupidity, take my nice personality for dumbness and she wants me to wife her.




Now that she has painted me bad, it has gone viral here on nairaland, I hope many can come in and read this too.. I just wish but no wahala sha...


It's a woman's world like they say... Women get attention than men. Not surprised.


Ineedhelp pls goooo.. I don't need u again.. I av no intention of marrying you.... Go ur way lemme go mine..... U chose not to understand the writings on the wall after all I told u..


I hope u meet ur better man...... Thanks

Nairaland mods are sumtin else.. Imagine I wud nt have seen this if it didn't make front page..

Why post such on the fp ehnn? Just imagine

Kobicove:
This is one of the reasons why you should avoid situations where your children are left alone with unrelated adults

IntroVAT:
So, in church during the prayer session, and after the prayer topic has been introduced, I find I can't pray for more than 30 seconds, 1 minute tops.

After that, I have nothing else to say. Yet I see others praying until whoever is leading the session intervenes and introduces another prayer topic.

What exactly are they saying for that long or are they just repeating themselves. I can't speak in tongues too, so that doesn't help my cause.

I also cannot pray loudly, I always whisper under my breath even when the pastor says to shout at the top of our voices, because that's just how I am.

Do these things I mentioned n hinder prayers from being answered?

Help

engrchykae:
the creator is God and men are gods.
So men should start taking responsibility for this world.
God made gods to take charge of this world.
When men,small gods failed to know the law and constitution of this world, problems are inevitable.
The Bible should have come out more scientific than religious maybe that would have helped selfish humans to understand.
Majority of humans are silly gods who would retrogress back into dogs.
The difference between gods and dogs is just in orientation of the letters,the orientation of the mind.

MadeINchenzen2:

what do you think guys?

Is it okay for a lady to move-out to live alone on a rented apartment as a single person. Than stay with her mum, dad and siblings?

Usually it is prevalent with most guys especially when they get to a certain age, probably after school or perhaps because of an essential need for some privacy and a sense of responsibility.

In my own thought. I think it is dangerous and untimely for a single lady to leave her family to live alone before she s married.

dabeto:
When they put up buildings in 7 days we clap. This is the result.

Ineedtoheal:

I know coz I have a man that all these years I have been dating this guy, has not given up. He says one day I will come to my senses and come to him. I even get tired of his complaints and calls. He came for my sister's burial even without me inviting him. he only saw the poster on my facebook wall. he dropped everyone that came from my village that day in town, took my mom home. he's ever ready to do anything for me. he's 31 now, a senior colleague when I was in year 1. the thing is I don't love him. maybe my problem is spiritual coz I tend to love the wrong people.

Ineedtoheal:

Maybe I forgot to add this, he said its a spiritual thing. That it didn't start with me.

geosegun:


Just to mention that the word "we" was used in context. It represents Nigerians in general. Despite the fact that I don't live in Nigeria, however, I am still a Nigerian and will continue to count myself as one, hence the word "we".

Now back to your question in terms of the law. I think the laws are there, it is the implementation and enforcement, that is the problem. When the foundation is wrong, then whatever we build on the foundation will be very weak and wobbly. We have to go back to the drawing board, redesign the foundation based on good ethics, fairness and justice. If we enact, uphold and implement the law in the way it is done in saner climes, no matter whose OX is gored, then we are in for the right development.

Now let me tell you of someone's recent experience at the Ikoyi Passport Office. Do you know, that despite the fact that the government has implemented Online Passport registrations and payments. Those greedy immigration workers still find a way to charge extra #10,000 to #15,000 under the guise of requesting you have your documents signed before you can proceed for Bio-metrics? If you insist you want to do the 'supposed' signing yourself, then no one will show you any office or direction. You will be totally ignored and you may possibly never get anything done. It means one should be ready to part with #40,000 just for passport renewal alone. #25,000 goes to Government because you paid online and #15,000 goes to corrupt officials. Nigerians have seen such dubious acts as normal thing. Are they not supporting illegality?

If you tell or report to someone at the immigration office or outside, they will still ask you to go do the needful, if you don't want to waste your time? which seemed true anyway. As no one will border to attend to you, without parting with some money. Is that a sane country. Are those immigration workers at the passport office not humans? not Africans? and not Nigerians? The Implementation and enforcement is the problem. Nigeria can not grow and develop with such mentality.

Apologies, if I seemed to rant a bit. I'm just not impressed despite our potentials. I am happy to help in anyway possible if I've got the chance as a true Nigerian but Majority of Nigerians are not sincere and are not patriotic. This is the stark naked truth.

geosegun:


No, he wrote that 'alternatives' should be provided for those people before chasing them. I believed I interpreted his sentences correctly. However, your write-up was more sane and reasonable. This how it supposed to be from inception. However, Nigeria is such a place where we don't have ethics and we are so corrupt that everyone is a partaker one way or the other and everyone wants to be seen as a saint. We support illegality all the time and expect things to work out miraculously.

0m0nnakoda:

The solution is simple LASG has money.The north has land.
Sign some deals spend some cash and lease land for 100 years just like Guantanamo bay and so when LASG moved destitutes there then legally they are still in LASG jurisdiction . There they can build prisons, rehabilitation centres,education and training facilities farms cooperatives etc

Other states in the south should jey into that.


REVERSE RUGA

geosegun:


You people just comment anyhow.

Was it the state government that gave them that place originally? People do know that those illegal places' were not meant for such activities - that their staying in those places were temporarily - how do I know? because I have also passed through similar experiences.

I wonder why you would want government to provide alternative to such places that she never gave out initially? If Government provide alternatives then they are inviting anarchy as anybody can go find another place on the street or under the bridge and be expecting same treatment.

Please let us try be sane for once in this country. Such emotional ranting is uncalled for...

Sixfeetbelle:


I was in agreement with what you wrote until the last part. There will never be 'a good girl' for someone like the Op.

The problem here is that Op is full of ego and self-righteousness. He wanted a virtuous woman who would be completely loyal to him, despite the cheating on his part, despite the name calling, despite the threats to break up and such, forgetting that people deal differently with emotional issues. He fails to see that being emotionally unavailable was the precursor here (she cheated when they had issues).

Advising him to leave the relationship is good only if Op will endeavour to work on these attributes. Even if he leaves this girl, the cycle will repeat itself with another girl, and may even occur after marriage. If care is not taken, he may abuse her physically.

My two cents.

Wealthierboy:
Hunger in the land.... Very soon I'II join the business too

gypsey:
well... as much as i emphatise with her she is wrong for assaulting the girl even if she had a enough evidence, she should have vented her anger on her disloyal husband rather. or better still as i ve mentioned, get out of the marriage. her husband clearly will never stop sleeping around is she then going to go about assaulting every girl who gets aquinted with her husband?

gypsey:
Divorce her husband, simple!!! she is not nailed to wall in the marriage, is she? she should get out of the marriage and saved herself the humiliation.

who gave her the right to go about assaulting innocent girl with no prove that the girl slept with her so called husband.

Maxcollins042:
Dating a woman/man that has a leap year birthday will be fun. One won't be saddled with the headache of figuring out a birthday present to offer them annually.