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critique2:
You have your point, that's why I want us to agree on the better. I've told her she won't suffer, I've given her the assurances. I just don't want to be a partner to bloodshed, that's my main concern. I told her my conscience won't ever forgive me, not knowing would have even been better.

She wouldn't suffer as in how??

If you are in control of anything at all, then in the first place, we wouldn't be here discussing this.

Bro, your assurance means nothing.

I understand your strong moral standing against abortion; it's even illegal in Nigeria but so long it is her body, it's her choice.

Not only that, from your post you made it clear you're not ready to keep a child or buoyant for marriage and setting down; how will you cope?

You lots that talk about risk whenever abortion is an option seem to forget child—birth is riskier.

Anyway OP, you are being selfish.

You wanting to be a father shouldn't over—ride her unwillingness to become a mother. It's not your life that's getting torpedoed by pregnancy.

Unless you somehow can carry this pregnancy and birth the baby yourself then it won’t happen.

And she'll HATE you if you contact her folks.
Make a baby with someone who's ready.

No. The penís doesn't come with an extra life.

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Shit.

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But it's not rocket science man.

Díck pictures, calls and texts can't impregnate a woman. What can though, is unprotected coitus with internal cum shots which you're guilty of.

My grades and my “school mother” made me popular. She literally turned me to her shadow.

Wherever you see her, just look behind her!

It was very bad popularity for me as my seniors didn't let me rest. Black scars coloured my butt.

Hushpuppi has spoilt the name of Nigeria, Especially for Legit Nigerians Hustling Abroad, foreign Companies now think all Nigerians are scammers”.

The stereotyping DIDN'T start yesterday.
And it's not the work of one man alone.

Hundreds of fraudulent Nigerian princes; yahoo boys are to blame. Mr Hushpuppi spoilt nothing.

He can't take the “glory” of a kingdom.

lexdany:
Even here in nigeria the same people posting #Blacklivesmatter on twitter hate other tribes and can't marry certain tribes all because of some fable or rumour they heard..

True. But this is simply intolerance.

The 'hate' in this case isn't generated because tribe A believes it's superior or inferior to tribe B.

It's because of different beliefs and views.

At some point and still now, we do fuel racism.
That much I agree. But we're NOT the instigator.

Our ancestors didn't voyage to other continents to enslaving others because of the color of their skin. They didn't abduct people of different color and forced them to work on farms or lock them up in zoos because of the color of their skin.

Our ancestors never tried to colonize any race.

They never considered themselves superior to others. It's the opposite infact as majority of them suffered from “racial” inferiority complex.

We cannot take the credit or the blame.
We didn't instigate geo-racism.

TheSourcerer:
Well Sorry You cannot be the bread winner if you are a chistain and a woman.
it literally says women should be silent and in full submission to their men , it clearly shows your place as a woman

Ephesians 5:22-24 ...wives should submit to their husbands etc.
1 Timothy 2:11-15 A woman should learn in quietness and full submission. I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man; she must be silent etc.
1 Corinthians 14:33-35 ...women should remain silent in the churches (and following).
1 Corinthians 11:3-16 Now I want you to realize that the head of every man is Christ, and the head of the woman is man (and following).
Colossians 3:18 Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord.


Alot others but read your Bible yourselves, I wonder how a woman would proudly say she's a Christian

I'm sure you spewed all this nonsense because you do not know the “definition” of breadwinner.

Lmao. Henceforth;
She can only date guys bearing Anjola.

My favourite person is me, myself and I.

I love spending time alone. I enjoy my company.

askings:
I have done all these. I have taken her to see my immediate family. And I have taken her to see one of my aunties (extended family). But he insisted, he want ALL the uncles and aunties to see her before the introduction.

You've completed the BASICS of introduction.
Any other thing is unnecessary.

This is a man that doesn't want to marry you.
But you want to coerce him into it.

Are you that desperate for a ring?
A superficial deception to paddle a lie??

You talk about wanting a good home;
But here you are, ready to build one on a straw.

If you have to BEG and CONVINCE him to marry you, then surely he DOESN'T see your worth. It's all a facade; He will never be committed to you.

Your goals do not align. Find a new path.
There are men out there that'll tick your box.

I hope those cuffs are made by Gucci.
We'll protest if it's an ordinary handcuff!

The way I see it, simcard or not; you're giving her the opportunity to be addicted to a phone at such a young. So know what you're getting into.

With supervision, it can aid her development.
But if you neglect this, it'll backfire so bad.

Lol. You're asking if it's edible like it matters.
You guys will still eat it anyways.

Riele:
Shut up !

You're the most idio.tic moniker i've ever come across .

Don't take it personal. Scum.

It's just that I lost a few brain cells reading your post & I am sure everyone on this thread is now dumber for reading it too. Adios, simpleton.

You're promoting infidelity. You're a scum.
This is one of the most idíotic post I've read.

Nothing but incoherent nonsense.
And can never be considered a rational thought.

May God have mercy on your soul.

Should I talk to her boyfriend about it?

Misplaced priorities and worries.
You will only instigate suspicion and distrust.

Eventhough she's in a relationship, your sister is still her own person. She can talk to other guys.

If you suspect she's cheating;
Then talk to her and advise her accordingly.

But where's the pot?

No pot. No party.

Out of anger can you believe this girl jump of a moving bike and landing on the road just because the guy refuse to drop her where she wanted?.

Shít. What??

Only a mad man would try taming a rabid dog.

He should take a page from her book and JUMP out of the relationship before it's too late to cry.

Be who you are, don't go back to being a simp.

Follow your purpose and never be afraid to call out her nauseousness. If you fear upsetting her, she'll soon upset up & dump you like potatoes.

Now the problem is; I only get attracted to older women who act mature, I don't want to marry and older lady.....

You're subconsciously looking for your mother in other women. Blame it on emotional bonding.

It's a sign of immaturity. It'll wane as you grow.

Shut it.

Courtesy demands that she collects the bag from my mum not because she is her mother-in-law to be , but she is also well older than her mum.

Courtesy is not an obligation, it's consideration.

Your mum carried her bag to church.
She should be the one to carry it back home.

NO shades of disrespect here whatsoever. So why must she kneel & beg just to feed your ego?

I kept pestering her for the real reason she broke up, she just keep on saying the relationship is not going to work out.

You pressured her to give you a reason for the break-up and she had no choice but to conjure something up to fill the gap. That's what I think.

If I am to guess why, I believe she is probably in love with another man and she wants to be with that person but cannot tell you this to your face.

Set those birdies free.
Figure out your own path first.

You clearly don't know what you want.
You are not ready for added responsibilities.

Oluromantic:
He already said he'll move out when it's time. Means he's working towards it. A mother shd not find that difficult to understand.

True but not all “mothers” are understanding.

That house belong to your parent.

It wasn't built in your name.
And neither have you inherited it.

You are an adult, under her stewardship.
She CAN send you out.

So make it a priority to leave that house.
Strive to be independent. Establish your own.

Respect yourself.

Do not become an annoying fool who can't take a NO. Delete her number before your ancestors disown you. She doesn't want you. So move on.

I'm attracted to younger women.