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Vikkygeee:
She's not someone, she is my blood that I've looked after all my life,If I see something that is going to lead her astray I have the right to do anything that will keep it from happening. However this situation is not a grave one that is why I decided to support her.

She's an adult and her own person first.

You are wrong to believe outing her will make everything to scatter. You'll only be giving her a choice; to deny her sexuality and to resent you.

Try putting yourself in her shoes.

You can encourage her to come out though.
Don't spill out her secret without permission.

It's NEVER in your place to out someone.
You can encourage her to come out though.

But that should be HER decision alone.

spartan117:
Kid.

SIMP.

Joycekkh:
Why is it disturbing? [s]you are so broken that you dont know how to love. Leave me that wants to love and pamper women to do so and get the fuq out of here.[/s]

It's disturbing because he's encouraging men to put themselves in a subservient and submissive position under a woman; from worshipping her to living for her alone. That's utter nonsense.

Men should respect their women not worship.

And they should live their lives for themselves and not to please the expectations of a woman.

If you consider boosting your baby's immunity by feeding him nature's balanced nutritional diet as spoiling then well yes. Too much breast milk will spoil him. She's not a witch but she's right.

Poloyanabo2:
What do you mean?

Exactly what you deduced from my post.

Stay put. Don't accept the new offer.

With no job security and it's only a slight salary increment, it's not worth risking your stable life.

I believe the free accommodation will be invalid the moment you're fired, so it's not really a perk.

There's nothing like marital rape.

It's simply RAPE.
Be it in the confines of marriage or not.

Oh well, good news for yahoo boys and SARS.

Giving tips on a successful union, 'FFK' states that "if you want to keep a lady, live for her alone, worship the ground she walks on, treat her like a Queen, tolerate and accept her idiosyncrasies, weaknesses, and excesses and love her for who and what she is, warts and all!".

This is disturbing.
His article should be titled; How to be a simp!

Men should acquire wealth and forget woman.

Move on.
There's a new rough rider in town.

It's obvious her celibacy only applies to you.

Taking care of your girlfriend is entirely different to playing professional football for MAGA FCB.

There's a clear distinction between the two.

There's no formula to getting over heartbreak.

But one thing common in all successful stories is a conscious DECISION to accept reality and move on with life. This with other actions like;

- Cutting off total contact if possible.
- Reaching out to others to help you fill the void.
- Getting busy with life and hobbies.
- Having fun.
- Going to a shrine and bottling his picture.

The goal is to create new memories in order to over ride & destroy your emotional attachment.

baralatie:
the thing about reporting or intervening is that you don't know whether you are dealing with a snake, a monkey or leopard hiding in the bush.
if he reports and both adulterers change story,tactics and get him burned what happens then.

I don't see how he can end up getting burned.
But I understand your concern.

Anyway, anonymity is an option he can explore.

Lordfranklin:
Mind your business and live long OP.
There are lots of evil going on in this world even as we speak.
Minding your business requires no starting capital.

Na only you come today?
Ambassador of mind your business crew.

Lots of evil going on in the world doesn't mean we should condone or accept it as part of us.

Nothing wrong in OP contacting her hubby.
Or appealing to his friend to stop this evil.

But as always... You lots only encourage evil.

A moment of silence for that unfortunate man.

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esky158:
is it right to marry someone baby mama

It's ONLY right if you love her and her child.

If you despise her child, don't attempt.
Abort mission.

Why?

Because no woman stays in love with a man who despises her child. Her natural maternal side will always win. She'll start hating you.

So it's up to you to decide if its right or wrong.

Macphenson:
After chopping her for years with it's attendant consequences, you now realise you are not ready.

You should have told her from the very first day you were approaching her that you were not ready for marriage, so she won't invest her emotions in the wrong person.

Now you have eaten to your fill, you realise you are not ready for marriage.

Nonsense.

Bros calm down now.

We are in the 21st century.

It doesn't make sense to start reciting poetry on the first day about not being ready for marriage.

People have different goals for getting into a relationship; financial benefits, companionship, sex, security etc. It must not end in marriage.

Adult know this.

Before or immediately after first coitus.

It's never too late to seek for justice.

I encourage you to sue his arse even though it'll be a very tedious task. Bro, your late dad might not even be the only victim to this wickedness.

There might be others out there.
And unless you try, you'll never know.

No matter the outcome, you'll find solace in the fact that you didn't turn a blind eye. What more, the evil man will know that there are people out there watching him. So he'll be forced to repent or risk falling by the edge of the sword.

Research bro, research about him!
Also compile all your dad's medical records.

You need to prove that your dad went under the knife with two healthy kidneys & died as a result of organ rapture due to medical incompetence.

Goodluck man.

It's okay for a man to help out with chores.

Don't listen to others saying it made you a simp or cost your manliness in her sight. That's a lie.

It is a man's responsibility to take care of his home; you did that financially and domestically.

She didn't appreciate that because she's toxic.
No man can lead or dominate a toxic woman.

Divorce is the only solution here.

I can't believe you paid a ‘bride price’ for such a disrespectful, unsubmissive, toxic and financial burden! What were you doing during courtship??

Bro, there's nothing good about this woman.
How did you MISS all the red flags??

Don't ever try coping.
She'll kill you before your time.

For your peace of mind and sanity, divorce her!

Eulalia:


So after explaining he killed it in defence they still want to sentence him? would it have been better if the gorilla had killed the man? How some countries reason baffles me at times.

How can you place animals above humans? So preposterous. They should free them with immediate alacrity. And try to control their wild life from wandering out of its boundaries.

Killed it in self defence??

Running away is also a form of ‘self defence’.

The gorilla was killed in the park. Not outside.

Ariza:
Something triggers a rapist. What differentiate a Rapist from a Man who's not is the ability to take No or ignore the trigger. You don't have to ignore facts just to sound politically correct.

However you don't really have to wish anyone raped to pass your point. You aren't held at gunpoint to accept a different opinion. Last response to you on this.

Provocative dressing doesn't trigger a rapist.
Grandmas, babies and minors can tell you that.

You presented a baseless myopic assumption.
Not a fact.

A rape wish? C'mon that was metaphorical.
Who walks around in iron pants?.

Oh, I see. OK.

Ariza:
Reality is, there are rapists everywhere. When we are told to dress decently it's for our own good. If a lady decide to throw caution into the air and the dress seductively to arouse Men. If among these men there is or are rapists then it's her doom.

Let's be factual. The world is what it is. On the part of the Rapists it is unjustifiable and maybe punished for it, on the woman's part she will live with a scar she "could have" avoided. That's the plain truth.

A rapist doesn't care how you dress as a lady.
It'll NOT influence his decision or action.

You just need to have a vagina & be vulnerable.

Dressing scantly doesn't make you vulnerable.
You just have to be alone with a rapist.

When that happens, tell me how your dressing will save you unless you're wearing IRON pants.

So there are no “avoidable” encounters.

Ariza:
If you say a woman's dressing encourage rape, you are wrong

If you say a woman's dressing does not have effect on a "rapist'. You are wrong too.

Just like rape is a decision, instigating rapist is a decision too. However Rape is unjustifiable.


Please read the above analogy with sense try not to hump on my mentions to hyperventilate

Instigating rapist is a decision? Really??

So rape victims made a decision to instigate rapist into raping them? Wow. Enlighten me.

Oluromantic:
If you dress that way in the public, I will await you at a corner cus that dressing has ignited a thought I can't rid off my mind.

What THAT dressing incited is sexual arousal.

It's an entirely involuntary act.

But choosing to wait in a corner; to commit an act of sexual violence is a conscious decision that only a rapist will make. Are you ONE?

Her dad and her paternal side are non-existent.
Do with what is available. It's OK.

Please go ahead.

CANDYDADDY:
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A lazy,useless and unproductive youth that give no second thought about conserving and saving the wildlife from going extinct just because of 2 minute of gulping nonsense down their long throat

STFU Bro.

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Then he calmed down and then told me never to get close to his daughter again except I have something strong for her. I was just dumbfounded and didn't know what to say or do.

This is a WARNING.

Or call it an ultimatum from an unpredictable & very hostile military man. Take it very seriously.

If you see a future with her, proceed. But keep it at the back of your mind that he is watching one thing & that only; How you'll treat his daughter.

For your safety, know what you're getting into.
Inquire about her ex. Find out IF he's alive/well.

critique2:
As broke as I am, I can do some things to stay afloat, it's just the lockdown. I can place her on a monthly stipend. We can be broke but still covered...grab?

Hmm. I've heard this before.

Yes.
It's a very common line from dead-beat dads.

Wish you the best Bro.

The last bull in my story will have a tail.