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majamajic:
Kai

This is good example of rape story , [s]am tired of reading
He invited me , we go chop catfish we go club , he took me home, remove my jeans and rape me , in the morning he raped me again , next week he invited me again and raped me , imagine ! The kind avoidable rape stories I read this week in Nigeria.[/s]

What is good about this story?

So in your sick and twisted mind; this is HOW rape should be like and other stories are invalid?

Something is obviously wrong with you.

I went through all the comments and it's so sad that Nigerians believe doctors enjoy examining their privates or asking sex related questions!

C'mon guys, how could they?
If anything, they are VERY uncomfortable.
It's just that, they are “trained” not to show it.

Pls, let's drop this “dangerous” misconception.
Medical practitioners are not perverts abeg.

Death to simps abeg.

Who was it that ordained men to be providers?
Marriage is simply disadvantageous to men.

OP, do not marry until you are STABLE.

If you must, marry someone that can take care of her own needs but that's an impossible task because most ladies are like CYNTHIA.

You made a good decision. Don't rescind it.

Your mother is an ignorant woman, sorry to say.

If only she knew it's the sperm that determines the gender of a child, she would have laid her hands on your husband's crotch and prayed.

Or maybe not.

Anyway, her opinion shouldn't matter.
Stop being so hard on yourself. Be HAPPY.

The next time you see your husband, tell him.
Hopefully, he'll give you the support you need.

As for your mother, stop inviting her into your home. It's your life and your marriage. Not hers.

GodPunishBiafra:
Ignorance!
You just sit in your cave and type rubbish!

Go to LUTH to make enquiries then come back to modify your post.

“Readily available”

GodPunishBiafra:
If he allows it.

Let ignorance not kill you people...

Let's not pretend oga. This is Nigeria.
IVF genetic screening isn't readily available.

Advancedecomm1:
Zombie


No one is silencing rape victims, my post didnt either. Its obvious you didnt get my point... Victims should speak up when events like this occur, like immediately. Why wait for years before speaking up? Don't tell me its out of pity.

SPEAK UP WHEN IT OCCURRED! There are People who will listen to you.

#SAY_NO_TO_RAPE

Oga, your previous post made NO point.

It was a subtle attempt to discourage pent-up victims from opening up. What more, you make a jest of their pain; saying they enjoyed previous carnal act with the culprit so it doesn't count.

Anyway, good to see you making a point now.

I just don’t know what to tell her or should I let her go and wait for her to speak for herself when she will start abusing her.
What should I do please.

What?? Don't.

As a man, your priority is to protect your family from those who'll harm them. You better speak up and pour out everything like a broken tap.

How can you be comfortable sending your sis to a “slaughter” house?? What if she bottles it like you did and refuse to open up?? Talk Bro.

Infact, sing like a canary.

zionmde:
RUBBISH
So the person raped is a kid that she doesnt know wat men can do under the influence of alcohol, or was too weak to give the drunk guy a beating of his life.


its still on hiding identity levels, once the guy blows like Davido, the so called victim will now start blackmailing him.

Ndi ara

Yes some actually use it for blackmail.
That's true.

But we shouldn't be quick to dismiss victims.
We are only helping rapist to get away.

Let's hear their stories and the accused should defend themselves. And if it's blackmail, they'll be dealt with. People should get a fair hearing.

Advancedecomm1:
We don hear! All of una dey claim RAPE now. This guy raped me that guy raped me. Even your ex boyfriend that you enjoyed doggy style with, you also claimed he raped you. Where were you this girls before #UWA rape issues

We don hear oooo

Mumu.

Is there any accolade given to victims of rape?
Is the govt giving them special privileges?

So why would anyone want to claim victim?
As if it comes with a badge of honor!

Stop trying to silence rape victims.
Let them tell their stories & spread awareness.

Castration is not the solution.
You don't need a díck to rape anyone.

Ishilove:
As in ehn...A full blooded straight guy will punch that marrafugga in the eye. It's an instinct

True.
He'll need a facial transplant to be recognize.

Two things are involved;

He's either a rapist or a rape apologist.
Those tweets are true reflections of his ideals.

He should spare us the bullshít please.

She's cheating.
And you are “comfortable” with it.

So who is playing who??
You're both playing yourselves bro.

Don't break-up.
Continue sailing that ship.

After some time this guy came to cuddle me while I was still on the phone call and out of nowhere he pulled my shorts down and started giving me head.

Shít.

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Powerful pictures.

I don't know what he said but I agree with him.

Why not send them on an exotic vacation?
Let them meditate & do some soul searching.

Your children will “rightfully” hate you.

So in summary;

1. Women should not visit men alone because such visitation is tantamount to an obligated consensual sex with a clause option of rape?

2. Women shouldn't accept gifts from men. If they do, they should expect to be raped by men?

OP, clarify unless;
This is A confirmation that MEN are rapist.

How do i cope with a proud girlfriend
she always believe shes right
shes unapologetic even though shes wrong

All these are red flags. Abandon mission.

Don't even try coping. Once you can't dominate the relationship as man, just quit. Don't stress.

A proud lady will never admire and respect you.
Someone that cannot apologize is TOXIC.

if you cope, you'll be relegated to a simp.

blogger10:
If you're held at gunpoint by armed men... "Money or your life," I hope you will choose to react irrationally.

Stupid analogy.
Don't go around comparing “robbery” to rape.

First of all, I can't believe I have such an animal on my contact list. How can you hate rape and try to justify it at the same time!!!!

He's not an animal. He's a man.

The sooner you accept the capabilities of what a man can do, the safer you'll be. See him as a man and nothing else. Don't pretend abeg.

I hope you will keep your emotions in check and make a rational decision not to fight if a gay guy tries raping your anus after overpowering you.

Amazinggirl95:
we are looking for solutions because the above u stated is not available..so what the solution now..your there busy talking about the obvious problem..thus going round circles..smh,I wake pass sha

So both mother and daughter names & photos are unavailable for upload? You're a comedian.

SirWhiteFish:
do you really think it's a good idea to pull a plug?

YES.

It's always a good idea to do the right thing.

No names.
No pictures.
Just a vague “third-party” narration.

Talking about fetching water with a basket.
Thread should be in the comedy section.

Janeberryy:
I don't want him to leave first, I can't take it. What if he won't wait till I'm free. I'm feeling like the earlier the better for my heart. Thank you anyway, will think about it.

It's not a race.
It doesn't matter who “walks” away first.

The PAIN is the same as long as you care.

Trying to seek comfort by convincing yourself that you made the choice to quit when clearly your hands were tied is delusional. Seek HELP.

Lol. Don't remove yourself from the picture.

Face your fears. Don't chicken out like that.
He'll only quit if you stop trying and give up.

The fact that you're not free around him means you're not comfortable. That's okay. Stop being hard on yourself. With time, you'll be “free”.

I suggest you only visit places with intention to have fun. Like parks, cinemas, art galleries etc.

lightangel65i:
Exactly he is indirectly saying its not a crime to rape women as far as you make them get wet or orgasm. Cause if they didn't consent they wont get aroused

There's no hope for that guy.
It's impossible to convince him to think.

Enwhen:
U don't even have a brain...which stupid physiology stronger than ur feelings...you don't want it , but your stupid John T , arise to the situation and u are blaming Physiology, banza

Shit. You are ignorant.

Does your “morning” erections implies you want to have sex?? Don't you know what consent is??

You are a dumbàss nincompoop.

As a man, can you control your erection?
Don't you know it's very possible for a female rape victim to get wet & even achieve orgasm?