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Olatunjibaby:
Kindly advice in this matter.... My landlord increased the rent during the covid19 lockdown. My biz has bot been moving. My rent expired in August 2020. I wrote him of my intentions to quit the apartment since I cant meet up. I wrote in the letter that I will vacate the apartment on or before Jan 31st 2021. The landlord refused that I must pay for the months am staying. Pls what do I do. Thanks

The truth is you have to pay whether you intend to quit or he gave you a letter to quit.

You can try begging him sha if that will work.

The truth is if rofiat refuses too much to the hearing of her father / chosen husband she will be jazzified.

She can run sha

SaveMeLord:
Easy madam, why are you concluding that I'm blackmailing you, please o!

You could have simply said I don't fancy fasting or I'm not a religious person, simple. What are all these allegations for? Fasting is a discipline and used by some women to keep their sexual urges in check.

Imagine!

Is the bolded for a married woman?

Sleep pattern changes per time depending on the circumstances involved o jare.

RentedReality:
Red pepper - 100
Yellow pepper - 100
Fresh Afang - 500
Beef - 1,500
Waterleaf - 250
Unshelled Periwinkle - 400
Stock fish- 500
Onions - depends on area o
Palm oil
Spice
Crayfish

Portion is enough to feed four people for 2 days.

Bring the proteins to a boil with the stock fish, add the waterleaf, boil for 3 mins, add your spices- Maggi et al, allow to simmer for 2 mins, then add pounded Afang and palm oil. Allow for 5 mins, turn off fire and allow soup to settle for 10 mins before serving.

Thanks

RentedReality:
Happy Sunday guys

Lunch is Afang soup cooked with red and yellow pepper served with fresh beef. This part of the beef is the smaller foreleg muscle, it is extra crunchy, and easily dances down your throat in rich crayfishy taste released by fresh palm oil coloured like a Nnewi sunset.

Note the Afang is pounded, not blended. More than worth the effort.

If you are wondering the difference, think Poundo vs Pounded yam.

Receipe pleaseeeeee.

Thankyou

pocohantas:
It gets thicker when it cools. Yellow pepper is also nice in soups, same with oha + uziza combo. I am glad you enjoyed it.

Yeah thanks, I followed your receipe.

mariahAngel:
Looks really rich...I can almost smell the aroma

pocohantas:
Hello bae, I can see Maria has answered you well. Sorry, I was offline. How did the soup go?

It was very nice, added plenty yellow pepper so it was very pepperish the ogiri added this nice smell/scent/ taste I can't explain ( it sort of had the iru effect). The leaves had their own aroma I think, it was my first time of eating the oha or uziza leaves.

Picture was immediately after cooking, by evening it was thicker and went down with semo.


Pic 2 is the ingridents.


Cc :mariahAngel

mariahAngel:
They both go well, but the red cocoyam tends to thicken the soup more. So, if you're going to use the red type, use sparingly.

Okay, thanks very much sis the red one is not even very commom here.

Both are dark brown /light black in color but the one sold by the igbo women are smallerand the one we cook are bigger.

Please the cocoyam for oha soup is it the normal cocoyam we fry/ cook and eat or those small small ones (I think I hearwd they are different) sold by the Igbo women in the markwt

Pocohantas
MariahAngel

Everybody make una help me oo

banmee:
Na mackerel. I wan take am cook Egusi Ijebu. Its egusi soup but you roast the egusi before cookiing. Just discovered the recipe. Meeen, d tin bad no be small.

So how did it turn out, Egusi Ijebu is always nice.

Habayomie:
There is a General hospital there.

Where in Agbara?

Habayomie:
Is it compulsory they take him to state owned hospital,why not first aid from nearest government owned hospital,e.g Agbara,Atan.
I was mad when Atan community built a police station from scratch and donated it to the Nigeria Police instead of a standard hospital.
Yes the roads are bad,but we need to make some decisions to save lives.

Is there a govt owned hospital( not health center) at agbara?

Doradorwa:
. I don't know if there is any public hospital at lusada or Agbara . but I know there is none at Owode, Atan, Iju, Chelsea, Winners, till you get to Obasanjo and the roads are inaccessible....

There's no general hospital at agbara , let me even add down to lusada.

Most people at agbara side use general hospital badagry or Igando general .

Ogun state government is not helping this agbara , Lusada axis at all with the influx from LAGOS to that end it developing very fast, plenty towns on that axis, the roads are bad, no state owned hospital and the govt makes a lot of money from that axis. Very terrible.

mariahAngel:
Hello,

I hope you're still alive...

I can't believe I went to check his profile when I saw your post.

He's still active on NL joor

Donspicey:
By His Grace......

But must you know my religion bfr granting my request??

Since you are a christain you should know the verses that support sexual purity and those that speak against immorality.

Donspicey:
Yess Boss

Are you a Christian? I am female though

Donspicey:
Abeg show me d Bible verse


Virgin or No Virgin is a choice......

And only Gods Grace can see u through...

Are you asking for the bible verse that shows God expects us to be pure before mareiage?

Yeah it's a choice then people should leave the virgins alone, Virgin this and that.

Loool, the hypocrisy on this thread.

No matter how much you guys want to devalue virginity, it is still the best. Virtginity is just an addendum blablabla na una sabi.

Do what you want to do with your bodies and leave the virgins alone na.

And to think this thread is in the religion section, God expects his children to remain pure till marriage except those that lost theirs though circumstances beyond their control ( rape, peodphila etc) shikena

How people they to twist the word of God amazes me.

There is a reason why Mary had to be a virgin.

Abegi if you are a virgin continue keeping yourself and if you want to stop premarital sex you can still stop.

Broken2020:
She was raised by her mom, her dad was not part of her growing up, her maternal uncles said they won’t allow her father to give her out for marriage.

so have they settled who will collect bride price?

Can you come to naija and settle this matter once and for all?

Cantonese:
Your judgement is completely one sided.

You did not hear from the man's family. You did not hear from her how she related with her inlaws. You did not hear from her if she encouraged the man to cut off his family? You do not even know whether she charmed the man into marriage with her. Don't forget that some women get juju to make men marry them?

The woman said in her statement that she travelled to be with her mum when her husband was in crisis. That's very sad to hear. Who did she abandon the man for? The siblings obviously covered up for her when she travelled as her children were too young to play the role. I take it that there was no good relationship between her and her inlaws for 13 years and they cut her off in their pain.

The woman then turned sentimental and has tried to blackmail the Igbos. If she married a fellow Yoruba would that not have happened to her? The Yorubas are known to battle it to the last over properties of their deceased sons.

It is very important for women to have good relationships with their inlaws. Do not wish your husband's mother to die. Do not wish to marry a man without a mother. Do not stop a man from relating with his family, especially if the man comes from a united and peaceful home. Do not carry the war in your own father's house to your husband's home. Try to make good friendships with two or more of your husband's people. In the sad case of a loss or battle for properties, your friend's within your husband's siblings will fight for you.

Yorubas prefer to marry Igbo men because they feel better taken care of. You may verify that. Please erase your sentiments and let's all live in peace.

Why did you omit the pregnant with twins part?

And you just assumed he didn't develop the sickness after she left.

Nawa

thorpido:
Those saying she abandoned her husband when he was sick,i don't know how some of you read!
She travelled to be with her mum when she was close to give birth.It is not stated that the husband was sick at that time.He most likely developed a crisis after she had left.

By the way,is that why she would even be denied access to her husband's remains in the mortuary and even denied burial presence?Uwa mmebi.

Lool you even have time to explain, they didn't see the part where she was pregnant with twins and needed to be taken care of too.

They should continue justifying barbaric acts of their people.

Let them continue.

Blue and black

SSpeter:
Something is wrong. You cannot be best in your class and graduate at 19-20 and not get a good job. Aunty don't lie. Access bank recruited every year from 2014-2019, fbn 2016 to 2018...same with kpmg, PWC deloitte, Unilever etc..were you not applying? It is either you are lying or not smart. Cc ednut1 and other nairaland auditors abeg make una come audit this case

Nothing is wrong ooo,I realized when writing those tests back then that there's a skill needed to write and pass those tests, especially that SHL, GMAT and it really has nothing to do with being the best in your class.

One thing about all these coys you continue till you get the job.

I can't even remember all the companies I wrote tests even the ones I was interviewed.

Delta state Liason office in Lagos


A relative got that of another state from the liaison office in Lagos.

9icetoo:
You do not bury someone at the back of his house in igbo tradition.

Ohooo Its good I asked, now I know

PowerGlory:
I was in the said burial a d witnessed everything that happened.
1. The man died mysteriously in the house with wound on his head and the wife and children never told the man's brothers after 24hours but hurried him to the mortuary.
2. The man was a retiree of CBN a d pays the wife N100k and children N50k each every month but they starved him of food. It's his brothers that feeds him.
3. This same daughter asked his out of their house when he came to ask them why they beat up their father.
4. The said girl is in Law School and still behaves stupidly.
5. The man built a house but the wife a d children insisted that he'll be buried behind the house which his immediate brothers and kinsmen object that he be buried in front of his house.
6. Despite the money given to the woman she cooks with firewood upstairs.
7. The woman and children were asking the man's Will to be read while the corpse was still in the mortuary.
8. Anyone that cares should come to Oguta, Imo State to verify for himself or herself.

So you are saying they killed their father?

How did you know how much they are giving to wife and children

Is it culturally wrong to bury someone at the back of his house as long as its the same compound

koladeken:
To my good people in Ekiti, please the silos that hoodlums just attack at Erifun Agric centre Ado Ekiti contains chemical treated maize for planting.Its not advisable for consumption. There shall be no untimely death in Ekiti state as a whole. Regards!

*Dr Olabode Adetoyi Hon.Commissioner for Agriculture and Food Security Ekiti State.*

Chai ,

friday2011:
Nothing is wrong with your boy...

Tell your wife to stop beating him, he will not learn by beating and shouting... Go to the school and talk to the class teacher to help you put more efforts in teaching him...

I will also advise you change the school and also confirm that the boy is not passing through stress, A child of 3yrs old should not be spending more than 5hrs in school (8am to 1pm)


I hope your wife is not the type that drops him off in school as early as 7am and pick him up by 5 or 6 in the evening?

Try and see things through by yourself... Sometimes all in the struggle to make ends meet, we tend to do it at the expense of the care and conducive environment that this innocent kids need.

Thank you.

You have raised an important most of these private schools that have little kids hardly provide the right environment for this children, they are not even supposed to be in a 'school structure' till primary 1 maybe. They should be in a sort of home/school learn/play environment and very few preschools, nursery, creche provide that.

A child of that age should be able to have nap time, watch cartoons, take a bath , things he can easily do at home. You now take a little child to a school where he can't even rest and he will stay there for 7-8 hours, the child will be so stressed.

I understand that we parents have to work hard but the least we can do is take those children to a place that has a homey feel.

Stop beating the boy baba, he won't learn anything that way, its like you are forgetting these children stayed at home for 6 whole months lost the whole of third term and some weeks in 2nd term. Learning should be fun for his age now, he can read numbers, he would get the letters too.

Besides at that age they are still working on his writing skills lots of 3 year old can't write well, their writing skills are still being worked on, some are even still scribbling.



Leave the boy ooo ehen.

Chai Twins Faja ooo