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rman:
If your man has not cheated on you or he has not been caught, you are indeed lucky.

This issue realy is beyond us( humans) and I strongly believe it has come to stay. Our great grand parents asked the same question and the next generation will also continue to wonder why.

I am not in support of cheating but as I grow older and begin to face and accept reality I wonder why:

1. We have more women than men in the world?
2. We preach monogamy but ladies willingly follow married men that care for them?
3. Naturaly God made men visually stimulated and women emotionally stimulated?
4. Men want intimacy more often than women under normall situation?
5. What we call cheating or multiple partners is common in all animals but only man try to balance things up through monogamy?
6. Men remain sexually active throughout his liftime but ladies crave for intimacy deteriorate seriously with age?
7. Men can have intimacy with no emotions at all attached?

We can ask a thousand and one question but the ans is starring us right in the face.

Naturally, I seriously feel man is not made to stay with one woman. Those that did made serious uncomfortable sacrifices and on their death bed if they were ask if there is one thing they would miss in the world.

I'm sure all would say: I WISH I HAD S3X WITH MORE WOMEN.

stop generalizing. I am pretty damn sure all wouldn't say, I wish I had intimacy with more women. Thats a shallow way of thinking especially on your death bed? I willing to bet that the many of the ones that were with more than one woman regretted it on their death bed when they began remenencing on their foolish past. Women cheat also. There was a Poll conducted in the US and the result was that 40% of women cheat and 60% of men cheat and when both are working 51% of  women cheat and 49% of men cheat. Stop the biology excuse. Men are not animals that can't control their behavior. They are human beings that have senses to do whats right or wrong. They are capable of controling themselves and for people to up with your kind of reasoning, I will say it's actually insuting. If it's so natural, why do men bother getting married? Why don't they stay single and live their life having t.h.r.e.esomes and o.r.g.i.e.s

illusion2:
How do you know? please don't make assumptions. Cheating no de show for face !

Some men are SERIAL cheats & do so ever so often. . . .others only do it when the opportunity presents itself.

So you cannot say of a certainty that your dad never cheated.

Most married women would never believe their cheating husbands are having affairs,by its very nature ,adultery is meant to be secretive

everytime I say that, why does somebody always ask that question? is it that hard to believe that a man can be faithful for almost 25yrs. Trust me, I know my father. He is a man of his word. please don't compare my lovely father to useless men out there that allow temporary pleasure to ruin their life. I know he has never cheated. blah, blah, adultery is meant to be secretive, but many still find out about it. Men are not that good at lying as you are making them to be. Most women can tell when their husbands are cheating, they just ignore the feeling. My mother has no reason to be suspicious. He come home on time. My mother is his best friend and only friend. The only other person close to him is his brother.
Abeg, just because your father has cheated, doesn't meant mine has o and you have to be suspicious of every man.

To the men justifying cheating as a biological thing that every man wants to do, you are pathetic. Stop justifying your lack of self discipline and self control. Life is about choices. We all choose to do right or wrong and when you decide to cheat on your spouse after commitment on the alter, then you are nothing but a liar. Maybe if you think with your brain than what's between your leg, you guys will be able to make better choices.

First of all, all married men do not cheat. My parents have been married for 20 something yrs and he has never cheated and I know countless other men like that, second,cheating is not worth it. Especially in America. If a man cheat on me, I will pack my stuff, receive custody of the kids, receive child support payments, get the house, and probably the car. and some alimony. Just look at the whole Sandra bullock mess. Five minute of intercourse is not worth it. The annoying part is when a man cheat, 90% of the term is with a less attractive female. WTF?

well let's see according to the CIA fact book. 70% of nigerians live below the poverty level. You google it yourself. I google Ghana and it says 28.5% of the population live below the poverty level. Chai, Nigeria is on Haiti's level because in Haiti, 80% of the population live below the poverty level. 80 or 70 what is the difference? Let's stop lying to ourself. Whether GDP is high or not, 70% of the population is living below the poverty level. Another thing is that Ghana is safer than Nigeria which is why Ghana is having a booming tourism industry. America doesn't send their population to where is not safe, so Nigeria is not even consider a country that Americans should go. It's actually on the warning list on the state department website. I plan to study abroad this summer and i have never heard of a study abroad program in Nigeria from the US. The ones that the government allow their citizens to study in is GHANA, TANZANIA, SOUTHAFRICA, KENYA, EGYPT, SENEGAL, etc. Nigeria is not on the list. The point is Ghana is hanging with the big boys now. In the eyes of the rest of the world, Nigeria is a big country, but it's not respected. I have met a lot of people that travel abroad and I have never met a non nigerian that travel to Nigeria for fun, but I have met many whites and blacks and students in my school that have been to the countries listed just for fun or education.

beauty is subjective. A guy will only approach a girl if he thinks she attractive now, what's attractive to him might be ugly to you, but the point is attraction is the main key. You are not getting handsome guys attention because they are not attracted to you. Not to be mean, but it's the truth.

wow, why exactly are they banning it? Thank God I live in the IS where anything goes. This is silliness. There is nothing in that song that warrant banning. Nigeria and their conservative mentality is so annoying.

I mostly watch Yoruba movies because I find it entertaining and I also learn my language more by watching those movies. English Nollywod movies are bad. They bored teh crap out of me.

lol @ this topic. I only hear this issue around Nigerians. Africans are hillarious. To hear a whole pastor preachng about crap like this is mind boggling.No wonder Africans are still stuck in the past while Europe and Asia are by passing us.

I left with my parents when I was ten yrs old and I have been living in the US ever since then.

yawn

riversman:
nice attempt but seems like a what a student at a film school will do for a final project, not on the level of a movie, more like a school project, am not bashing, but not impressed that they rushed to release this clips that leave soo much room for critics like me

GO HARD or go home and eat amala!!! and plizzzz why does the name have to be KAJOLA ?? YORUBA peeps think its all about them, hiss!!!

why the yoruba part? what language do you want it to be in? English? for what? There are thousands of useless Nigerian movies in English. Go watch those if it's that bothering you.

anyway, the movie could be better, but it's a nice attempt and when it comes out I want to see it.

Mend is nothing but a terrorist group and should be classify as such.

karo93:
1.peter.3.3-4
You should not make use of outward aids to make yourselves beautiful, such as the way you do your hair, or the jewelry you wear. Instead your beauty should consist of your true inner self, the ageless beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of the greatest value in God's sight.

your version of the bible is clearly skewed. Since the bible say we shouldn't worry about our hair does that mean we should walk around looking homeless with uncombed hair and claim you are doing it for God. The bible claim you should not worry about the outside beauty at least thats how most christians around the world intepret except for some hard core Africans.

karo93:
1.peter.3.3-4
You should not make use of outward aids to make yourselves beautiful, such as the way you do your hair, or the jewelry you wear. Instead your beauty should consist of your true inner self, the ageless beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of the greatest value in God's sight.

your version of the bible is clearly skewed. Since the bible say we shouldn't worry about our hair does that mean we should walk around looking homeless with uncombed hair and claim you are doing it for God. The bible claim you should not worry about the outside beauty at least thats how most christians around the world intepret except for some hard core Africans.

one way to to leave Seun alone is to stop with the topics. Just let the topic die.

I will like to be a moderator for the entertainment section.

to any body that have something negative to say about yoruba

can someone please give me the summary

who cares why he did it. He did it. He is not going to go back and undo what he did. suck it up. Life is not fair. Some people on this site really need to get a life.

enomakos:
i just did not understands all this,i think it is about time we christains shall start butching any muslim we see around us

what the hell is wrong with you? did a rational mind just came with this comment? If you want to kill any muslim you see, does that make you any better than them? You are just as evil and devilish. Remind of when the Nazis wanted to kill all jews because they believe the jews were the cause of all their problems. Now we look back and wonder how that could have happen. Reading some of the responses here really make me feel sorry for the state we are in. You want to start another Rwandan Genocide? will that finally shut half of you moronic fool in here up? Not every victim in this were christians. Some were also muslims, but you are quick to want to kill muslims? Hate doesn't bring any positive. It only brings more hate.