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ScotFree:
I use glasses. But i'm not safe to be around. Forget that thing

one of the most notorious heart breakers I know uses glasses. He uses one of those thick glasses that look like the underside of a coke bottle. Without the glasses, he is blind.
Yet this guy can sleep with 2 friends at the same time, without each of them knowing. One in the parlour, the other in the bedroom.

efighter:
And Igbos are the best doctors and pilots in the country? You need your brain examined before you hit the streets nakked. If you talk of Igbos being the best in kidnapping, armed robbery, drug trafficking and prostitution, no one will argue that.

idiot!!!!
Fighting and talking nonsense over fake news.
That cannot be the presidential pilot. He is not an airforce man

Amarabae:
What evidence can you show that he is buhari chief pilot?

good question. I give up on nairaland
.the presidential fleet is Exclusively operated by the Nigerian air force. The pilots must all be airforce men.
That man in the picture is NOT a pilot in the presidential fleet. He is probably a commercial pilot or some other cockpit crew member (maybe the radio man) or the first officer
bloggers will all go to hell

Israeljones:
Am sure those sentences wasn't higlighted wea u copied it from.... . If you know you were not trying to spring up something here why highlight wah You lifted from that platform...
You can call it opinions that doesnt count when you know it doesnt suit ur lines...
Now that i have pointed out your ur dumb asss bias move, You shamefully highlighted everything to make yu look just...
MEDIOCRES like you are not needed here

u are officially daft and stupid bro.
The op did a good job by highlighting the opinions and diverse legal interpretation of the subject matter in different colors. Very good presentation if I must say.
And like he said, the law is supreme but the judge interpretation of the law is most supreme and final.
U don't have to attack the op. Just ruminate over ur dumbness.
And I am not an IPOB supporter, but I have had mixed feelings about the declaration of the group as a terrorist organization. Thanks to the op for giving me different perspectives on the matter and also the position of the law. At least I now know that the military is wrong (Going strictly by the provisions of the law). Though they wud argue (with a slightly valid point) that the introduction to that law define what construes terrorism and the IPOB meets that criteria (right too), but so does PDP, and other pressure groups all over the country. That is why
penal legislation must be construed (and interpreted) as narrowly as possible to avoid abuse of human rights of the accused.

myking95:
See ur warped mentality? Your points have a iota of validity, but what about the health risks to the woman?
God help you

l agree it is s warped opinion. It is twisted and unfair. But it is still the way of the world. It is still what u get in African culture. Men are still supreme and women don't just get similar rights and privileged as men.
Sad, but true

Mindfulness:
This is the kind of comment that brainwashes women to think that they are special even if their husbands come back home with herpes on their pricks.

Keep finding excuses why it is ok for you to cheat and not ok for your (future) wife. None of your excuses justifies and minimizes the damage that will be done.

Just do yourself a favor and tell your (future) woman what you have said here, if she decides to stay, she is a certified mu.mu. Congratulations!

my opinion may not go down well with u. I am not saying it is justified. Infact, I agree it is a very twisted opinion. But that is still the way of the world, especially in west Africa.
In these parts, it still remains a man's world

Pastor came to vent on nairaland. Its allowed afterall you be human being
Just tell them politely that there is no money anywhere in the church to settle their bills, if there was you would have willingly given to them.
Nobody will take you to jail for that

My brother, na wa for the OP ooo. What kind of pastor is this?
Why can't he just say "no" and drop the issue.? Why Come here to rant?. Giving is not by force na. I really doubt his maturity to lead his flock if this is the way his mind works.

Guitarlife:
Your assumption that the distance caused the infidelity is fallacious.

We have countless men working far away from home and are faithfull.

Its not everyone that is married that has that priedge of staying with thier families so try to expand your horizon.

People work offshore and are transferred to different locations and its normal so lets not excuse the mans infidelity.

Now to the OP. Stop listening to some fools here who wanna ruin your home.
Some of the women here asking you to divorce ypur husband take far more bullshit from their huabands to secure thier home.

From ur write up, your husband is apologetic so just be wise. This is the time to win him over. Let him know the implication and negative exposure his infidelity causes.

Do not leave your home after 3 children , that will be very stupid and the other lady would have achieved her aim if you did that.

Lastly some people will argue that if the tables were turned people would have advised the ma to leave the woman . YES! I would not hesitate to advise a man to divorce his cheating wife. Its not chauvinism its simply nature . A married woman cheating has far more dangerous repercussion than a married man cheating like risk of fathering a bastard because when multiple men sleep with a woman it becomes difficult to know whom the real father of the child is also men are not as emotionally vulnerable as women.

So OP be wise.

At the bolded, that is the simple truth. A man can cheat with 100women and still make his wife and family No1. The same is not possible with women, Cos they have emotions that are easily manipulated.
So a cheating woman must go. As for a cheating man, it shud be treated based on the severity and the circumstances on ground.

rafhell:
I think it's high time illegal emigration is criminalized

yes oooo
Like north Korea and the defunct USSR

smartty68:
All lies, nothing but lies.

Enjoy your shuga-mummy

we all know it is all lies.
By let us still pretend it is genuine love and praise him, cos this interview and the comments we made here will likely be cited as a reference in accessing his eligibility for green card.
Make we no fall his hand and force Oyibo to knack am "rejected"

harriet412:
That's because u don't understand the deep meaning of the scriptures. U shouldn't read the bible literally and expect to understand it. That's why we pray for the holyspirit to guide us and give us good understanding of the scriptures.

na that area u carry spoil everything

harriet412:
Will you get the Bleep outta my mention

Christian!!!!!
See as u dey type mess anyhow?!
Na so bible teach u?

harriet412:
Nawa o, atheist have taken over the thread.

They keep hopping on any Christian thread to spill their rubbish. Keep ur thought to urself, no one cares to listen. Biko, go and create ur own thread ,Its not by force to comment on a Christian thread.


Op, mine is Joseph and his brothers.
The song coat of many colours comes to mind.

These atheists are making a lot of sense. If not for my strong Christian foundation and an internal force that convinces me that there is God, I wud have followed the sound arguments of the atheists. There are so many conflicting and grey areas of the bible that any straight thinking person will contest it's authenticity

hopefulLandlord:
A man and his concubine are wandering the streets when they decide to seek shelter for the night, and find a man kind enough to let them stay. That night however, a group of men turn up at the door and demand to see the guest so that they may have sex with him. The owner is unwilling to let his male lodger be raped and so offers up his virgin daughter instead. However, this is still not good enough for the men, so the owner offers them his guest’s concubine and the men accept. The men brutally rape the woman and leave her on the doorstep where she bleeds to death. If that is not enough, when she is found by her husband, he chops her up into twelve pieces which he sends to each of the twelve tribes of Israel.
The moral of this story? I would hope none.

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second story is Found in: Exodus 33:23

It’s a big day for Moses. He’s finally going to meet God face to face and is giddy with anticipation. Soon the time comes and Moses positions himself on a rock ready to see the divine creator himself. But God backs out at the last minute claiming that no man can see his face and live. However, he has a solution. He will let Moses have a peek at his backside, “And I will take away mine hand, and thou shalt see my back parts: but my face shall not be seen.” Moses must be heartbroken. He was hoping to see God’s face not his bottom! Imagine explaining that to the wife: “Oh honey, did you see God’s face?” “Umm not quite…I got a great look at his ass though!” Moses most likely slept alone that night.
The moral of this story? God works in mysterious (and slightly gay) ways.

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U are so funny I had no choice but to laugh.
But u shud not play with divine issues this way. It is bad.

God forgive me for laughing

MrCuteking:
They should restrict the way some girls dress. If our girls can cover them selves properly well, this whole thing would reduced.

Don't bother thanking me. It is not ur fault. The foundation is faulty.

MissRaine69:
Having a point of view is permitted.
Those "female friends" were never wanted to be your friend in the first instance coming across as a friend was an easier option rather than say it like it is then be rejected.
I have male friends most whom I grew up with and no romantic notions have never surfaced.
That said to each their own

try to understand the difference between. "Friends" and "acquaintance".
Every human being has pple he/she became very acquainted with in the course of life. But it is not all acquaintance, no matter how nice, meets the definition of friendship, at least in the context the OP has in mind

Laveda:
I have a male best friend, there's nothing between us and our relationship has just been perfect..

The help we get from each other and all..

At the bolded, exactly why ur relationship is "perfect".
The day the help becomes one sided is the day other ideas already forming in his mind will start geminating.

sunshineG:
She wasn't specific because she didn't state the type of good guys she was referring to but instead she used the word "most" in her post

yes there is no full proof sign and yes ladies that treat nice guys badly are also wrong

But don't you think the mentality of ladies who treat nice guys badly is similar to what she wrote in her post

Don't you think those ladies believe those guys are nice because of the honey pot?

Do you think it is fair to the genuine nice guys ? Since there is no way of diff them from "bad" good guys

Because frankly I beginning to think most ladies prefer snobbish and proud guys

I don't get u. Except on religious grounds, can u be genuinely and totally nice to someone without expecting something in return? (Must not be sex ooo) cud be cash, companionship, connections, knowledge sharing and knowledge passing, mentorship etc.
If a girl is giving u neither of this and u remain nice, bro u are aiming for the honeypot.

NB. U will notice I struck out companionship, cos I don't even understand how I can enjoy continuously the companionship of a girl, when we hardly have similar interests. Except she is a tomboy, in which case I will find her amusing.

Oselu28:
99% of my frnds are guys,they all know my boyfrnd and i tell my boyfrnd abt them too,though he trust me but his always like a boy nd a girl can't be frnds just be careful...... girls will just be snitching upandan I will rather be with boys nd be called names than be with girls nd not be happy

ur saving grace is that dey know ur boyfriend. Just don't go cry to one of them the day u break up with ur boyfriend because is u do, jungle don mature for the kill.

Stellie:
stop sayin wat u dont know oga...nt all guys r lyk dat....it depends onn howw d frndship is okay....... There r som guys who r real frnds and not pretendin with an ulterior motive for sex......so stop generalizing

na lie.
Except the guy is so broke that he does not give u anything, in fact, na u sef dey spend. The guy will therefore behave in order to keep taking the freebies. Any guy who spends on u without ur reciprocation is nursing ambitions. Take it or leave it. Be wise, we guys are warning u.

Prec1ous:
You are very funny, you are actually the one not thinking.

If we go back to ask you so called male friends, 90percent regret not sleeping with you. Just try it.

The fact that they respected you enough or mis-timed there strategy towards you does not rule out the truth.

And you are not special, you must have been too unattractive or worthless for them to bother.

A guy is telling you something about majority of guys, you are here countering with female oriented arguments and what you like.

You are married right?

I guess you still keep male friends, continue.

You will swallow bone soon

Gbam!!!!
Me I can't imagine keeping a babe as my best friend ooo. E no work.
The only way a guy and a babe can be besties without se.x somewhere in the plans is when the babe is bringing something else to the friendship table....... Cash, connections, academic intelligence, .............etc............ Something the guy values highly enough to forget ya.nshing her.

josephine123:
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This Nigerian lady was spotted dancing to the pleas of some women soliciting help from her, some people are just so heartless ...

WATCH THE VIDEO


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FhpYHT2J_eI


SOURCE: http://www.nairanaijanews.com.ng/2017/08/nigerian-lady-dances-to-pleas-of-some.html

abeg free The babe joor.
If u grew up in the north and are used to these beggars, u will know that the begging song could be quite melodious at times. I use to drum for them while they sing it to me. It is just harmless fun to pass boring hours. She meant no harm and she likely gave them alms anyway.
Social media shud stop making a mountain out of as molehill

jaszplus12:
I was very happy when I saw your comments sir! Really there are many who are like you and may God continue to be your guide.
Really i wish not to draw flak from a people but honestly sir you need to visit the eastern parts specially the SE, it has become a norm and lecturers there have given themselves away to corruption!
Lots of them are blatant, they dont hide their desire to make money and collect in kind!
Coupled with the shamelessness of the ladies who even flaunt it in your face that they sleep around to pass!
Sir, just visit the places ive mentioned and spend 3 weeks i am sure you will see the case first hand!
Those who desire to work hard are frustrated because the lazy unintelligient ones have obershadowed them!
Sir, keep up wit your good work!!

I do not need to visit the SE. I live and work in the heart of the southeast. I live in owerri so I know all u are saying.

Richy4:
Even the ones that doesn't read will comeout and point their fingers @ him...

my Brother, na that one dey pain me pass sef

mccoy47:
Yh but but coming to publicly to admit bribing a lecturer and then condemning the lecturer for collecting bribe simply shows she's not smart.

By the way back then in school a lecturer once told us.
sucess has a price, either u burn ur midnight candle or u spend ur pocket money!"

u can be exceptionally good that even the most randy lecturer cannot afford to victimize u!

At the bolded, Gbam!!!!!
U don't have to be exceptionally good sef. Just be serious, read ur books, do proper research pass ur exams averagely (at least at par with the highest 40% of the class). No lecturer will dare victimize u

jaszplus12:
It pains me so much that most secondary schools colleges of education and universities in eastern Nigeria have such "lecturers"!
Hardly you find students that have scaled through unscathed! Its either money or your body!
And unfortunately many ladies are VERY willing to give their bodies just to pass!
When it becomes the norm, then the honest ones are in trouble! The result? Under baked and half baked "graduates"!!
Its a very sorry situation that needs to be dealt with severely else the future of education will be bleak!
Go to the college of education ikwo and see the level of victimization! You will weep for the students!
Karma is a bitch the saying goes...
Nemesis will soon catch up with them...
May we help ourselves!!!!

I am a lecturer, so I feel I can comment from experience.
Trust me, most of the ladies hating on that man deserve to fail. Students no longer wish to study, they only seek the easy way out. If an unscrupulous lecturer wishes to give them the easy way out in exchange for cash or sex, I don't think he alone shud bear the blame for being tempted.
I just finished administering my exams. After each paper, a horde of ladies keep calling me and saying the same thing; "sir, I did not write well in ur course, pls help me". Of course they get the same answer; " no problem, come back and rewrite it next year " the general opinion of students towards me is that I am wicked and mean, just because I refuse to help them cheat. If I ask them for sex or cash now in exchange for a pass mark, they will still say I am randy, corrupt and greedy and that I failed them intentionally. Can u now see the lecturer's dilemma?
I find it hard to believe that a lecturer will intentionally fail a student that deserve to pass (I might be wrong though), but for me, everyone knows I have a soft spot for the brilliant students in my classes, male or female. I overlook some minor exam offences they might commit, while I wont brook any nonsense from the others in the crowd.

Coldfeets:
Not impressed in any way at all.

Aesthetically speaking, this is bull_shit!

How can I walk into a room and be seeing colored tyres everywhere?

Is that not childish?

Trust me, if the colors and paint job is done right, u will love this furniture.
My sister used to make them.
I plan to construct some, using Keke tyres and glass tops, to serve as side stool in my house

hisdon:
Thank you. Did you mix them together and
in what ratio.

one tablespoon of each drug to 20litres of water

kioboy:
treat CRD, tylodox

I had similar issue. Used ciprofloxacin and viracid, It cleared within a week. Except one bird that became chronic. Finally had to cull the bastad

Blue3k:
Kanu's lawyer's legal argument is shaky at best. His client held multiple political rallies one in port Harcourt and Anambra. Why would he claim AGF can't request for clients bail to be revoked when it's there in black and white.

[b]The only thing I'm wondering is if court will put him in jail or simply vary his bail conditions. I'm guessing jail since Kanu flagrantly disregards court conditions. The prosecution proving BSS is public threat makes jai[/b]l likelier.

But I read that he successfully challenged the bail conditions. So maybe some of the conditions were relaxed somewhat

Nairaboi:
All those shouting Mayweather, and Anthony Joshua are from different boxing category should also know that MacGregor is a UFC fighter. A different category from Mayweather too, but was man enough to face Mayweather. So it Mayweather think he got ball he should be bold enough to call Anthony Joshua out and see if them no go beat craze commot for him body.

I won't encourage Anthony Joshua to fight mayweather. The money man matches are usually fixed and strictly business. Joshua no need any type of hanky panky in his career just yet

IamPatriotic:
They took their celebrations to the extreme, it's unfortunate that they don't know that like ab average Nigerian politician, Buhari doesn't care about them, their celebration is borne out of bigotry and nothing else.

u said it all.