₦airaland Forum

LaylaAli:
You can't talk for me and mine, but you can talk for you and yours. Africa is a continent with many different cultures and countries and what works in your little corner of Africa isn't what happens all over. Our culture and traditional beliefs wouldn't accept my husband to shout at my father 1. Secondly, only a disrespectful low life would shout at his father in law and I wouldn't pick such a man. My father is ex army man so trust me he would send men that would not be begging! Basically, what I'm trying to say is speak for yourself! Not me.

YIMU
So u are feeling strong cos ur dad is an ex soldier?
What if u were unfortunate enough to marry another soldier much higher in rank to ur dad and also with double the ego ur dad has?
In that case, I guess ur lot and that of ur dad will be bruises, brutalization and a disgraceful divorce (specially for u).

sparkleRed:
On no account can my husband shout at my Dad! is he mad? Will he allow dat if I shouted at his parent, height of disrespect imagine

Mtcheew I just can't imagine it when he is not high on paw paw leave mtcheww

u just dey talk nonsense.
What will u do if ur husband shouts at ur dad? Will u Leave the marriage?
Go right ahead. Six months down the line, that same father of urs will send pple to go beg ur husband to take u back.
2 years down the line, that father of urs will use every opportunity to remind u that u shud be in ur husband's house, seeing that u are causing him shame among his friends by leaving ur husband for such silly reason.

My dear, just borrow sense.

PaperLace:
Whatever.
My father is my father, husband is husband.

I don't believe u.
Except ur husband is a never do well, except he is not the breadwinner, u can't dare to take sides against ur husband in such circumstances.

Trueyarn:
I can tell that you are still single...

She is definitely still single......or she is just a nairaland troll.........maybe a man sef, trying to gather mentions

delishpot:
Na you be the only man wey Dey world? Why would you shout at her dad? Would you also be happy to see her shout at your mom?

@ the bolded. He is not the only man in the world. Oya let the wife try to go and marry another husband na. She will understand the meaning of second hand value and bad market

Xcelinteriors:
My loving and precious dad. Husband that will go out and sleep with other women, screw husband and he dare not argue with my dad sef shey he dey mad ni?

ur best bet will be to try and make peace there and then. But If ur husband insists that u get into the car, my dear, as long as u are an African woman living in Africa, better respect urself and obey ur husband immediately. If u lose ur husband over a flimsy reason like arguing with ur dad (especially when the bone of contention between them is not a life and death situation or some other grievous circumstance), na u shame go catch oooo.

When u dad's anger subsides, he will even swallow his shame and send pple beg ur husband to accept u back. Pray it won't be too late.

Modified:
Well unless na u marry ur husband and na u dey give am food Sha. Unless ur Dad sponsored ur wedding fully, In that case I can understand why u are now 'superior' to it husband

LaylaAli:
I will shout at hubby for even thinking he could shout at my papa

*Then call him big daddy when we get home*

that is, assuming u will ever be allowed to enter ur husband's house again.
This is Africa. As long as u are married, ur husband must come first (only in everything that is right and just oooo, as long as u are not asked to commit an atrocity).
Most husbands see this as a perfect opportunity to send a woman packing, especially if there are no kids to take into consideration.
If u remain in ur fathers house for such a flimsy reason, trust me, in the eyes of everyone in Africa, the shame is urs.
Hell even ur dad will feel ashamed when his anger subsides. He might end up swallowing his shame for ur sake and sending emissaries to beg ur husband.

Arewa12:
I concur

I don't concur.
There is a good chance he took advantage of judicial incompetence and judiciary corruption to get that ruling he got in 1997.
There is a good chance that his crime/offence is much more serious than he admits.
There is a good chance that the police has challenged the '97 ruling but the case file got lost in the sea of corruption.

If u work in the public service u will know that anything is possible

SalamRushdie:
That dismissal get as e be ..the police should just convert that dismissal to retirement and pay him his entitlement from 1988 to date because his dismissal look too weighty for the crime and besides he has a judgement in his favour

That is, assuming he was saying the truth when he claimed his crime was so simple.
In my experience, a lot of desperate pple get to set aside the truth and talk rubbish, just to buy public sympathy.
In my organization, a staff was dismissed since the early 2000's for fraud. He challenged it in court and lost generally. He now waited for almost 15 years and when a visitation panel came around and held a public hearing, he appeared and started talking bullshit about why he was dismissed, claiming to be innocent and hoping to buy the sympar of the panel.
Unfortunately, my organization do not joke with records of proceedings for dismissed staff. His records and his deeds were well preserved for posterity.

OAUTemitayo:
If dem born you well, show face for Deji Palace.

I don't like going the racist way. But sincerely, everywhere I go, the pettiness and the double standards of the average Yoruba man never ceases to amaze me.

I will have u know that I opposed the eze ndigbo when he went to the Deji palace with his crown and all, knowing it was against the Yoruba tradition. I sided with the Deji.
But this case is plain stupid. Nothing is Being contested here. The Deji is just worrying his stupid head over nothing.
And take it or leave it, there is nothing the Deji can do, constitutionally, if the eze ndigbo refuses to drop his title. In the eyes of the law, the Deji has no case. Except he will go the toutish way as usual

Jaideyone:
good you are the eze of your family not the eze of akure. some of you are just not smart enough to get it. disrespectful iPod yoots and empty pride are like bread and butter.
if you like call the obi of Onitsha he-goat and greet him with a sliding tackle but the moment you get to Yoruba land respect our customs and tradition

@ the bolded, that is exactly my point. If I live in akure, I can go around and proclaim to the world that I am the Eze of my family and my compound in akure. As far as I don't usurp the authority of the Deji of akure over the akure pple, I am entirely within my rights to rule my compound and my family.
That is exactly the circumstance we are looking at here. The eze ndigbo is not usurping the authority of the Deji. He acknowledges that the Deji is the monarch over all akure. His pple however selected him and said be our leader in akure. Be our representative in front of the Deji. As our tradition demands, we will call u 'Eze'. That is all. If not for spite, the stupid Deji need not worry his petty head over what the igbo chose to call their leader, as long as they did not crown him another Deji and as long as his activities does not usurp the authority of the dDeji.

Jaideyone:
which one is jealousy there? the Deji is constitutionally empowered to give and take chieftaincy titles as he so wishes within his jurisdiction which is akure. if your ibo brothers can't respect other people's tradition then he's free to leave akure. you can't wear your own crown to the Deji's palace and expect him to give u a pat on the back

tell the Deji of akure that I am the Eze of my compound and family.
Let him come and dethrone me if he feels so badly about my position.

Idiot useless he-goat of a monarch.
Afonjas and pettiness are like bread and butter

Robbin7:
Please NL my dad just disowned my elder brother because he came back home after 6:30pm on the day of his matric. This is the 5th of my siblings that my dad is sending away. I'm confused, I hate to think this trend may continue please friends advise me on what to do.
Legal and candid advices please.

@ the bolded, how many Una dey for house?
Don't forget we are in a recession. Ur dad is just trying to cut cost by doing population control.

Ugosample:
Nigerians are among the most Ungrateful people in this world.....

Just look at the useless comments up there from useless people.

Sojaman take this from me....

Your service is well appreciated by sensible Nigerians, and may God keep you all for us , and take care of your families you left behind too.

Keep talking nonsense until a soldier assaults u unjustly simply because he carries a gun and moves with his colleagues. That day, ur opinion about those idiots will change.

dillinger:
Now boko boys know you guys dig shallow graves wherein you sleep. What an irresponsible way to pass vital information. I thought military should be all about covert ops but Naija military lacks sense.

Don't mind the idiot soldier

Lordave:
Pity who?

The senseless animals in Kaki that brutalised a physically challenged folk for putting on a camouflage?

The ill mannered he goats that assaulted a young lady for talking to her friend in a commercial bus?

The cursed fool that shot Mr Izu of Shooting Stars dead?

The 17th century idiots that tell people to swim in gutter for cutting their hairs Mohawk style?

The uncivilised baboons that strip nàked ladies for sagging their jeans or putting on a bum short?

You mean the power drunk bastards that brutalise motorists for overtaking their patrol vans on highways?


Why should I pity someone guilty of the things I mentioned above?


No way, I lost human feelings for NA the day I witnessed just one out the crimes they commit on daily basis.

Seconded!!!
If u want to find out the majority opinion about the crap that fool of a soldier posted on social media, just check the reply with the highest number of likes.
Your reply and other replies like yours has the highest number of likes.

NurseEze1:
You are ignorant of what patent medicine mean..
it is diff. from pharmacy store and even uneducated person can be licensed to do it

u are the ignorant one my dear. NAFDAC has outlawed operation of patent medicine stores. Open ur born again eyes and get ur facts right.

seunmsg:
If you can chop out of the loot, you can do worse than celebrate a criminal. You just don't know it yet or you are denying the obvious.

bro, I am not so shameless to openly celebrate a criminal. Of course hunger can make me chop out of the loot. But I can never find the boldness to openly celebrate a thief. Why can't u understand the difference?

seunmsg:
I am not surprised at all. If we turn the table, the same people criticising those celebrating Ibori's return will do same for criminals from their hometown. Even people who still refer to Jonathan as hero are criticising those celebrating Ibori.

As a people, our values are extremely crooked. So, let's stop the hypocrisy. This is exactly who we are. Corrupt values=corrupt citizenry=corrupt leaders.

u are wrong.
I, personally, will never celebrate a known criminal, even if he is my twin brother. I can't even find the face to say good things about him publicly.
The worst I can do, (if am so hungry), is to chop from his loot if he gives me, and then, for the sake of blood ties, I will just keep my mouth shut and ignore him and say neither good or bad concerning him.

Jayson1:
God bless Chief James Onanefe Ibori, the Odidigboigbo 1 of Africa.

God bless the good people of Delta State.

I am sorry for your generation!!!
If u can actually descend so low to celebrate a criminal, I really wonder what u are. I really wonder where ur brain traveled to. I really wonder why u expect our country to get better when pple like u are still alive.

NurseEze1:
I am a nurse and certified to practice

go check the laws and regulations.
Being a nurse is not enough to rub medicine store

NurseEze1:
Is It Good For A Christian To Deal With Condoms In His Shop

Please I need advice from born again Christians. I opened a patent medicine store for about 2 weeks now, but there is some issue here I want people to address... Is it good as a Christian to be selling condoms, Viagra or do think its a way of encouraging immorality.

As a Christian, I hope u know u are breaking the law by operating a medicine store when u are not a pharmacist or at least appropriately certified.
So, are u a pharmacist? Do u have a valid licence to operate a medicine store?
Una wey dey claim born again sabi select the sin to commit and the one not to commit.

sassylaw:
Good Morning Folks,
Thanks for your time. If you need more information please whatsapp or call Michael on 07037961196. And if the number is busy, please call again.
Thank you
Michael
07037961196.

U go wait for call tire.
No sensible farmer will call u.

But of course u are really waiting for the foolish ones. I hope all the foolish farmers have lost their phones.

obamd:
Sir, it is VERY IMPOSSIBLE to find the cure for HIV and not receive a Nobel prize at the every least.

Ablaka's was a false claim. A simple Google search will explain. This is Science, your results must be evidence based and reproducible.

Gbam!!!

Lanty01:
He's a scam and that's why the government has ignored him.
If was is sincere with the discovery, he knows better the right channel to follow.
This guy is just out for free money.

seconded bro

AgamaHub:
Can't understand why some of you here just love to hate. This discovery had been made some years back by this Prof, he has been trying to get the attention of the appropriate body like forever. Any persons in the ministry of health claiming not to be aware of the claim is a blatant liar. It's just that we live in a country where things don't work and we don't love to see people grow if its not directly involved with us.

trust me, this man is a professor of a federal university, he should know the rules and process of announcing such discovery. If his claims are true, it won't be hidden. The ministry of health will be glad to announce it. They will commission research in tandem with major pharmaceutical companies to develop the product. The minister of health (regardless of what tribe he hails from) would do everything to make the discovery and the subsequent development count as part of his tenure's achievements.

HELL !!!!THE UNIVERSITY AUTHORITIES WILL DO EVERYTHING WITHIN THEIR POWER WITH THEIR FEDERAL MIGHT TO ENSURE THAT THIS NEWS GAINS THE RIGHT AUDIENCE.!!!!! After all, the prof is one of theirs.

Conclusion: either the professor is lying, or his research has a lot of loopholes (I.E could not be verified extensively), or he is simply stupid.

NB. I am igbo so I am not hating. Moreover that school is presently my almamater. I am running a PhD program there.

Tbillz:
FG should give him contract to import for them because he knows the right mafians to buy from, instead of those rusted iron Nig police are hanging around!!!

don't joke with those "rusted irons" oooo.
In this life and the next, an AK47 assault rifle will always be better than a pump action shotgun, in everything u can imagine. That weapon is

Royalfurnitures:
So terrible ,that's the risk of roadside shops.


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@the bolded: That is exactly what I want to say. all this people who chose to set up shops so close to the edge of the road, this is the risk they face.

i feel so sorry for her

curvilicious:
DD, why did you not graduate sir?
Op why didn't ask him dat?

probably because of the impending civil war in 1966

sipsip:
Noo. That know protocol na. It's always just one lady who sits there. She's to direct new comers and all that... Moreover, she only sits when new comers are being announced. No one was sitting there when I did. An elderly woman sat with me, they didn't say nothing to her oo. What if the church was filled up? Won't they create that space for people?

Ok lemme help u.
When a church reserve seat for protocol, that means such seats are reserved in case some VIP (governor, commissioner, ambassador, pastor from another church etc) visits the church. It will guarantee that they get a place to sit no matter how late they arrive. And the pastor would like to accord them some respect and maybe recognise them in the course of the service.

Now take that ur personality disorder, enter the nearest vehicle to bar beach, tie the disorder around ur neck (am sure it must be quite heavy) and then just jump into the ocean.

Estharfabian:


You're A guy, So, You really do not know the length some guys could go to get An Orgasm.



PS -You could've easily passed your point across like a sane human should without necessarily throwing shades at my ass. please, Atleast pretend to be civil next time, Kay?

He is right my dear. If u believed that story, then it is either that your logical thinking is seriously twisted or you are physically deformed (ur pus.s.y and ur arse is located by the side of ur thigh instead of between ur legs, and then also hanging about 10 inches from ur thigh, cos that is the only way a pe.nis can reach that far to rub on u, if u are seating BESIDE the man.

dacovajnr:
But seriously how come anyone isn't seeing what am seeing..There's no way his Dicckk would've made any contact given that you were both seated on separate sit and not on His laps neither were you both standing with him standing behind you...#OmoAleOniro

I would have smashed my phone if I went thru all the comments without seeing one person sharp enough to point out the obviously next to impossible feat of a joystick touching another person seated BESIDE and not in front of the transgressor