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FamilyRe: Is My Son Left Handed And How Do I Make Him Right Handed by occam(m): 6:19pm On Sep 16, 2010
@ poster

So this is still an isssue in this day and age? My goodness! I clearly understand your concern. Well, I'm left handed and growing up in Nigeria a lot of people made every effort to change me. Guess what? they failed. why? because the two most important people in my life - my dad & mum,  encouraged me to write, eat with my left hand. It's only natural.

Yes, amongst Yorubas it's a taboo to use the left hand; one of the primitive beliefs and supperstion in our culture. Don't let them influence how you raise your son.
TravelRe: Why Is It Difficult To Return Home? by occam(m): 6:11pm On Aug 26, 2010
Someone said this discussion is like a treadmill; going nowhere. Nobody is ready to raise the white flag. grin Still one of main topic but I expect it to fizzle out by this weekend. 

Ok let’s look at things from this angle:

The “return home, Nigeria is better, HEAVY Cash flow” advocates don’t seem to appreciate the benefit of strong and vibrant Nigerian communities outside the shores of the motherland. Tourism is one good example.  Some of us visit at least once a year, and by spending in Nigeria the economy benefits; I just can’t quantify the actual benefit. What happens if everyone decides to come back as you constantly preach? Yes, it’s always fun to visit and see my folks, but life is very good here as well.

I grew up in Nigeria, spent my years up till university level and it's etched in my heart forever; I will lalways love her regardless.  Just tiered of hearing this kind of talk:  igbawo lo ma pada si ile, oje se kia ko wa ri inkan mole (when will you return home; better make haste and build a mansion here) as if…
TravelRe: Why Is It Difficult To Return Home? by occam(m): 12:02am On Aug 26, 2010
buzugee:
grin treadmill ke ? you only have 27 posts. you need stamina to roll with the knuckleheads up in hurr. grin i am on 900 and something but about 800 of those was during the worldcup. i was the most obnoxious user during the world cup grin
so you're only trying to pad your "post stats" (Tracy mcgrady)
PoliticsRe: Us Grants Nigeria Direct Flight Permit ! by occam(m): 9:59pm On Aug 24, 2010
agabaI23:
That was exactly my thought when I saw the picture. So much excitement. That kind of shows the perception and acceptance of inferiority on the side of the fed. That's pathetic.

An Igbo adage says that in a house where no goat is killed for food, when a chicken is killed, the feaces is preserved and displayed at the entrance of the building.
;DI like this your adage; abeg write am for igbo too. I wan read am for the original language
TravelRe: Why Is It Difficult To Return Home? by occam(m): 7:45pm On Aug 23, 2010
The way I see things:

People tell you they’ve returned home and then 3 – 5 yrs later they may come back. Get smart and don’t make return home your goal.

Is return home really relevant today? The digital & mobile age is gradually making this an old phrase. 10 yrs ago communicating by email, phone or internet with Nigeria was a herculean task. Now, we can see the difference; even this forum was non-existent 6 yrs ago. The digital age has unleashed more business potentials and greater mobility. Sadly a lot of Nigerians abroad are still stuck in the past.

For me, the Yoruba adage: Ile labo simi oko does not hold true today.

Home they say is where the heart is. Why not establish “homes” in both worlds and take advantage of your contacts/networks in Nigeria & wherever you are abroad. I consider both places home, but plan to spend more time in “Nigerian home” as I grow older.

Some Nigerians come over here and set goals like: I’ll work abroad, save $ 500,000; build a mansion in Lagos (or some remote village) and go back home after 8 years. This is a retrogressive mindset and it’s holding a lot of people back from realising their real potential. They are influenced by snide comments by “friends” in Nigeria. (Comments like: you run go abroad; see your mates for home dey build mansion, buy Navigator etc)

Start setting goals based on increasing your net worth, working less as you grow older and generating revenue stream from a solid business/investment. 

Let’s stop thinking like migrant labourers and open our eyes to the vast possibilities of living in a truly global village.
PoliticsRe: Nigerian States From Richest To Poorest (ppp) by occam(m): 7:08pm On Aug 20, 2010
13volts:
The same applicable to all state governors, the current GDP is a far cry if prudent management of resources is enforced. is not a northern southern thing TRIBALIST
This is not about tribal sentiment. Yes, the current state of things is an indictment on all leaders of every state. However, compared to the south, the northern sates are not doing very well.

So if any policy maker sees this number, the logical question is why do we have this regional disparity? And if I’m the state Executive of Taraba or Gobe, I want to know how I can improve; same for Ekiti state. Sadly, any discourse about our country somehow leads to charges of tribalism.

looking at this numbers, Ekiti should never have separated from Ondo state.
PoliticsRe: Nigerian States From Richest To Poorest (ppp) by occam(m): 5:12pm On Aug 20, 2010
The top 5 are all southern states; and of the top 10 only 2 (Kano & Kaduna) are Northern states

Those northern polilticians should focus on getting their people to work, instead of trying to grab power by al means
RomanceRe: My Fiance Says Am Fat. by occam(m): 2:19am On Aug 19, 2010
chiogo:
@poster, I won't tell you to cancel the marriage because you're most likely not going to. Many people won't. . .
Quick question though: What does being a Christian have to do with accepting his looks which are otherwise unsatisfactory to you? Obviously, he has his own flaws too in the looks department maybe it's time you told him too.

I can tell you one thing though, any relationship whereby your partner makes you feel uncomfortable about your image, body or whatnot, is probably starting on a wrong foot. People should marry people they're attracted to, call it superficial, doesn't mean their spouse is Denzel or Beyonce in the actual sense but to them, they are. Are you willing to bend over backwards and take his constant verbal abuse for life?
hmmn! oro agba (words of wisdom) @poster, this is the simple truth
Christianity EtcRe: Christian Student Disrupts Jumuat Service At UI by occam(m): 2:13am On Aug 18, 2010
Great points. Why is religion such a divisive topic with us? I don't get it
bodejohn:
Waoh, it was intresting reading through the past 10 pages.
As usual i have seen Nigerians divided along the lines of religion and tribe.
While some comments were funny, others were very very thought provoking.

A friend of mine once visited Thailand and made a passing comment about a friend of his becoming the next king in the country.
He was quickly tongue lashed by his friend and warned that any other comment like that could land him in jail or even death.

But I ask myself, what is it that we plan to gain with all these religious sentiments.
A lady dressed up like a Muslim going to a mosque during a jumat service in the month of Ramadan?
That to me is the height of insanity, what was she thinking? Trying to convert all of them to Christians?

This is my grouse with all these churches who will not allow their members to mix freely with the society.
They are the only holy ones, they wear Christianity on the faces and everybody must fall down by fire!
They have misguided a soul just like mutalab was misguided even if she wasn't carrying an explosive.

'Bout the reaction of the Muslim faithfuls? I have no comments as i am still shocked with the behaviour of the girl.
AutosRe: WANT TO SHIP YOUR CARS VIA COTONUO PORT TO NAIJA FROM ABROAD PLUS ADVISE by occam(m): 10:17pm On Aug 17, 2010
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PoliticsRe: 'We Don't Allow Nigerians In Here' - Port ElizaBeth by occam(m): 8:55pm On Aug 17, 2010
@ AMAKA

anyway your points are noted, but I disagree completely…that’s the way you see things
PoliticsRe: 'We Don't Allow Nigerians In Here' - Port ElizaBeth by occam(m): 7:40pm On Aug 17, 2010
@ Amaka,

well, are Ghanaians, Ivoriens or other African countires constantly in the headlines

listen, i feel your pain as well. sadly this constant bad news affects us all. thats the fact
PoliticsRe: 'We Don't Allow Nigerians In Here' - Port ElizaBeth by occam(m): 7:28pm On Aug 17, 2010
People, we know why these things happen to us. It’s the same reason that our sorry arse green passport attracts suspicion.

If an alien drops to planet earth today, I can bet you within a month it will come across this kind of news headlines:

Lagos, Nigeria ---- Top Chief Executive of bank steals $2 billion & flees to the U.K.
Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia ---- 50 yr old Nigerian woman caught with 6 kilos of cocaine
Amsterdam, Netherlands ---- Nigerian gang arrested with 1,000 fake passports
New York, U.SA ---- 4 Nigerian nationals charged with $17 million credit card fraud
Naples, Italy ---- 30 Nigerian women to be deported for prostitution

Need I say more? Bad behaviour is so synonymous with Nigeria. My people I beg make we change or talk about something
SportsRe: Siasia Wants N15m Per Month To Coach Eagles by occam(m): 7:21pm On Aug 16, 2010
Why is Siaisia making dumb statements? Now I know he’s not smart enough to manage/coach a national team.  According to NEXT News he said: 

“Of course I am not saying they must pay the 12 million naira; we can negotiate and come to an agreement but I won’t take peanuts,” So N2 million per month plus benefits is peanuts in a country like Nigeria?

And he goes further with this embarrassing statement “When the players know I am well paid they won’t be coming with five thousand dollars or whatever to come and bribe me,”   
So you won’t be offered (& possibly accept) bribe from players if the NFF pays you more than N2 million?

Coaching a national team is more about leadership, inspirational and communication skills, and less of technical expertise.  As a coach you can bring in attack, defensive and scouting experts. 

Even if he gets the job, this guy won’t last 3 yrs
SportsRe: Eagles Remain Static On Fifa Rankings by occam(m): 4:21pm On Aug 15, 2010
we'll always rank low because our current players lack the passion to play. Period. The talent is there, but don't bring their "A" game.

they should view this interview by one of Nigeria's all time greats (Haruna Ilerika), to see what it means to be a Super Eagle

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MRb14tOwy58
SportsRe: Siasia Wants N15m Per Month To Coach Eagles by occam(m): 7:14pm On Aug 14, 2010
The $1 million sign on fee is a non starter; rather they should agree on a contract based on performance only. And why is he asking for a new car and house. Strike that off.

They can start him with $30,000 – $50,000 per month with yearly increase and bonus based on actual performance. This salary will put him in the top 5% of earners in Nigeria. The performance index can be determined by a combination of number of wins, new player development, Nigeria’s FIFA ranking and so on. Both parties should agree on the percentage increase.

The last year of the contract can then include a $500,000 bonus if we reach the quarter final of the 2014 world cup.
PoliticsRe: Why Bankole Disembarked from BA Flight by occam(m): 7:05pm On Aug 13, 2010
For security reasons, everyone should be searched except the top 4 leaders mentioned (Bankole included). I agree with that. And I’m almost certain there are diplomatic protocols in place to ensure the four mentioned leaders bypass security and board their flight freely.

The general assumption is that the BA Manager recognizes or knows that this Bankole. Maybe so, but I believe the necessary protocols should still be applied at all times. Was BA informed that a top Nigerian leader exempted from security will be on that flight?

Should the BA Station Manager be expected to waive security search if a) an individual can identify himself as the Speaker or b) if he (the BA Manager) knows that the person in front of him is Speaker of the House Bankole? The Manager is not even a Nigerian. How many Nigerians living in the U.K can recognize the Speaker of the British Parliament?

There is a difference between “citizen” Bankole or Speaker “Bankole”? He can’t simply show up at the airport and say “hey I’m Bankole and you can’t search my hand luggage”. I’m the Speaker of the house.

BTW, This is a dumb statement by Bankole’s staff. “We are at a loss at the attitude of BA local officials wondering if it has to do with alleged refusal of Speaker’s aide to ‘tip’ the BA officials.
PoliticsRe: Why Bankole Disembarked from BA Flight by occam(m): 7:02pm On Aug 13, 2010
For security reasons, everyone should be searched except the top 4 leaders mentioned (Bankole included). I agree with that. And I’m almost certain there are diplomatic protocols in place to ensure the four mentioned leaders bypass security and board their flight freely.

The general assumption is that the BA Manager recognizes or knows that this Bankole. Maybe so, but I believe the necessary protocols should still be applied at all times. Was BA informed that a top Nigerian leader exempted from security will be on that flight?

Should the BA Station Manager be expected to waive security search if a) an individual can identify himself as the Speaker or b) if he (the BA Manager) knows that the person in front of him is Speaker of the House Bankole? The Manager is not even a Nigerian. How many Nigerians living in the U.K can recognize the Speaker of the British Parliament?

There is a difference between “citizen” Bankole or Speaker “Bankole”? He can’t simply show up at the airport and say “hey I’m Bankole and you can’t search my hand luggage”. I’m the Speaker of the house.

BTW, This is a dumb statement by Bankole’s staff. “We are at a loss at the attitude of BA local officials wondering if it has to do with alleged refusal of Speaker’s aide to ‘tip’ the BA officials.
CultureRe: Directed At Nigerian Teenagers In Diaspora by occam(m): 9:42pm On Aug 10, 2010
@poster
Your drive to change the current political system is commendable. My grouse with you is that you feel people over 25 should be excluded, because in your own words they are too scared of reprisal or have become part of the corrupt machinery that will eventually move our country into obscurity.

I encourage you to read the story of Rosa Parkes, who at 42 started the civil rights movement in the U.S.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rosa_Parks

As well, Mrs Funmi Kuti fought tirelessly for women’s right in Nigeria well past her 30th birthday.
RomanceRe: Where Are The Quality Single Nigerian Men Hiding? by occam(m): 8:45pm On Aug 10, 2010
@ Ladyjide I don’t have the right answer to your question (honestly nobody does) but this is the way I see things:

Fact: most men (including Nigerians) are playas. That’s undisputable. You need to show a guy that you are the woman that he’s willing to spend the rest of his life with. Sistas, you’re not doing enough in this area. Guys need to feel that the girl is not a shaje , or club girl that will disappear after a huge pay day.

Nigerian guys are playas because most girls only want to go out with men that can pay their bills, buy them some bling, bling… you get my gist.

Listen, the journey of life is not linear, but one of mountains & valleys with speed bumps to test you. A guy may have a solid career today (with nice wheels of course), before getting married and 3 years after the marriage, he’s riding “okada” Guess what? He’s family will blame the woman for his downfall due to her witchcraft. End the marriage; stick with the “quality” guy or what else?

You can find a right Nigerian man anywhere. Even your thread has generated email responses from some great guys. Follow them up; you never know. Best of luck and hope you meet the right man.
RomanceRe: Latest 419 By Girls by occam(m): 9:27pm On Aug 09, 2010
great! now I can add this to my watch list of 419 fraud, along with email scams, fake job offer,  grin but em, what do I call this one? any ideas, so i can update my list quickly
Car TalkRe: Flying Car To Be Launched Commercially In 2011 by occam(m): 8:48pm On Aug 09, 2010
Here is the  NTA news at 10:

Two cars were invloved in a ghastly air accident today, along Lagos- Ibadan, air-press way Both cars fell to the ground; luckily everyone escaped with slight injuries grin
TravelRe: Shocking Article About Dubai by occam(m): 7:06pm On Aug 09, 2010
I’ve always been amazed at the huge influence Dubai has on Nigeria. We visit the place for business and tourism; invest in real estate there; import all kinds of goods and it’s becoming the playground for our politicians.

In less than 15 years, we became dependent on this small desert town for every consumer goods and never stopped once to ask how come. Using Mohammed al-Mansoori’s phrase (in the article) "why do we follow the herd and do not think for ourselves". Well, Fela Kuti was right all along: we be follow, follow

@Babzilla, birdman et el, this article is not only about poverty in Dubai, but to highlight an unsustainable model of economic development.
PoliticsRe: Dame Patience Jonathan And Her Poor Communication Skills by occam(m): 5:39am On Aug 05, 2010
Very funny grin. sometimes it's difficult to change from pidgin English to English. ppl, no need to sweat this; we understand what she's saying.

he carry second (this is old pidgin)
this is funny too: go siddon my friend (go and sit down). very common expression during a heated discussion
RomanceRe: When The Wife was More Educated And Richer Than Him! by occam(m): 12:47am On Aug 01, 2010
Excellent story; great stuff! I’m sure the wife will have a different perspective. There are always two sides to a story.

My thoughts: Self-pity gets you nowhere. The guy should change the dynamics of the relationship by taking charge. Take some risks: change jobs, self-employment or training. Don’t get too comfortable; there are boundless opportunities out there.

BTW, he should have ditched the Range Rover SUV long time ago.
PoliticsRe: Hon. Patrick Obahiagbon Vs Pastor Chris Okotie by occam(m): 4:48pm On Jul 30, 2010
How did this comedian (Patrick Obahiagbon) get elected to represent people who do not understand what he's saying? This underscores the comic state of Nigerian politics.

The guy seems to spend is time reading the English dictionary only. My goodness!
PropertiesRe: Discover The Goldmine In These Real Estate Offers! by occam(m): 4:29am On Jul 16, 2010
@opportunity et el

you've posted this for 3 months; no one is bitting. no mugu dey for NL
PoliticsRe: Bbc Again! In Pictures: Going To School By Canoe In Nigeria by occam(m): 5:47pm On Jul 14, 2010
@ beaf
I don’t mean “roll over and give up” I say hit them where it will hurt most: Their pocket. The less audience to listen, view or read their message, the less revenue they make online. Pay less attention to their garbage message and let’s focus on creating & distributing content that shows positive stories about Nigeria people.  

Al- Jazeera, for instance tries to put out positive messages of the Arab world, regardless of what CNN or BBC thinks.  Our media needs to do the same.

Yes, BBC & other western media do portray African countries in a derogatory way. Why is this? The typical western audience has a stereotypical image of Africans as being primitive & poor. Western media companies are business driven and will put out messages that appeals to their core audience.
PoliticsRe: Bbc Again! In Pictures: Going To School By Canoe In Nigeria by occam(m): 3:50pm On Jul 14, 2010
@Beaf
The best option is to stay away from BBC website if you dislike their message.

The irony is that you are helping BBC drive more visitors to their site. BBC wants the audience to see this type of content and share the link amongst their friends through forums like this. Those friends then click the link to see the photograph and may view other content on BBC (online advertising 101). Like other media companies, BBC is also generating revenue from online. More visitors = more revenue

You can also create content (videos or photographs) that shows positive things about Nigeria, post it on this forum and we’ll help spread the word. Now I don’t mean pictures of houses in Abuja or Lekki.
TravelRe: How To Fly With A Small Dog by occam(m): 8:44pm On Jul 09, 2010
Are you taking the dog to Nigeria? well, best of luck with Custom

na wa o! Man never get space to sleep, dog dey snore  cheesy
Nairaland GeneralRe: Nairaland/Nairalist Maintenance & Upgrade by occam(m): 4:52am On Jul 07, 2010
ok. now i know the reason for error mssg I've been getting all nite.

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