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A standing ovation as we welcome Futureisfemale

Pocohantas

Candidlady

Iyaebe

Magnolia

For their Presentation on Female empowerment.
But before they come in,i just have to say that "The future is Femail"

adeniyi65:
i no dey o.if dey all reason for your matter.

oboy me sef i dey fear that Pocohantas o she dey Sabi voltage follow person ehnnn

Ammishaddai:
By the grace and mercy of God , you will recover just like Job . Stay safe and trust in the Lord

Why didn't the grace and mercy of God Prevent the miscarriage in the first place?

anochuko01:
Why didn't your father use a condom when you were conceived 21 years ago?

You can go to your mythical Heaven and ask him Yourself

Johndagr8t:
Send me your account details bro, I love your mentally

Sir i have sent it in my previous mention to you

Davash222:
Are they all not "PROSTITUTE" in disguise?

Exactly!

They "give" out sex in return for favours,money etc. Even those ones who cloak under the guise of Girlfriends/wives are also PROSTITUTES.

But no one wants to talk about that

Another one bites the dust! You men just won't listen.

Davash222:
I can still fathom why a sane guy should send 200K to a Nigerian girl for doing nothing.

I support the girl's actions. Whatever it takes to restore sanity to these SIMPle guys is totally unacceptable.


The future is femail.

And when she "gives" him sex for the money, she becomes a PROSTITUTE.

Either way,she wins and the FOOLISH man loses his hard earned money

Magnoliaa:
Yeah. Go try shaming the Pablo Escobars and Shina Rambos and mafia lords of the world.


Lol. After you'll say you're not an asslicking attention-seeker.

Ehen? Why are you telling me this again? Have we not settled it? What's the point of you quoting me exactly to say this? You can't shame the shameless- thief, prostitute, beggar. EOD.

Please, it's an early working Tuesday morning. Try to find something productive and engaging to channel your energy into. Ciao.

I wasn't the one who called you a PROSTITUTE. take your frustration to him

Tell the person to send me the money,and I'll buy them for you here in Nigeria

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truthsayer009:


Why are you angry, you're basically paying for sex, companionship and the stress of taking care of children. Nothing is free my brother. That's life.

That's why some Igbo women know their husbands have side chics, they don't bother because they have basically taken care of the home front first.

If he's "basically paying for sex", doesn't that make His wife a PROSTITUTE? i mean that's what prostitution is, isn't it?

prettysassygirl:
Take care of your children,show them love and affection and they would treat you right too. Simple

It doesn't always work. The wife can still turn the hearts of the children against their father. And another thing, children "love" their mothers more

Magnoliaa:
E no dey ever pass this one for una. Very unimaginative and stale lots.

Na money I wan collect. I tell you say I wan use my puŝsy get am abi I wan dey fk your papa and male relatives? If I come cash out without ever opening my pant, nko? What will now happen?

When you have something revolutionary to say, let me know - 'olosho' stopped being an insult since 1412.

You can't shame a thief by calling him a thief

Same way you can't shame a PROSTITUTE by calling her a PROSTITUTE.

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Johndagr8t:
Send me your account details bro, I love your mentally

Thanks man,nice to see a man of similar thinking as mine.

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peace0813:
There is a saying that age is a number.

I have a friend who got married to a younger guy, she complained of not been taking care of by her husband and said that her husband gives his salary to his mother but before their marriage the guy was always there for her but now his mother is the one in charge.

Is there any issue with marrying a younger guy.

What nonsense is this? Why is she complaining that he isn't "taking care of her"? Isn't she a Complete human adult with 2 hands,2 legs and a Brain that she can use to take care of herself? I thought feminists said both Genders were equal and men shouldn't be the heads of the home.

Well,as for me,my Mother comes first above every other person (my dad is late) because of the sacrifices and love she has done and shown to me over the years. So my mother will ALWAYS come first before my wife(assuming i ever get married). call me immature or mummy's boy, I don't care!

And as for the "responsible and real men" in the house, I'll leave you with this:

"In your entire Family,the only person not related to you by blood is your wife" while you go about doing all sorts of unprintable things for her,ask yourself; "would she do same for me?"

Final note: "you can have a 2nd wife,but it is Virtually IMPOSSIBLE for you to have a 2nd Parent"

placeofallure:
Yes your woman can take care of her own needs because she's working and responsible and wouldn't spend all her own income on her own family because she has a home to keep, neither will she spend it all on human hair and mascara.
But what happens to the utility bills that you both enjoy when you pack all your salary dash your mum? I bet she'll be sorry to have raised an irresponsible boy who will forever be tied to her apron strings. Your attitude should depress any good mother. I'm sure your late father took care of her before he passed. Why would she unleash a simp as you on the society? Mtcheeew!

I didn't say I won't take care of my home,i will of course take care of my kids but I AM NOT PUTTING THE NEEDS OF MY WIFE ABOVE MY MOTHER'S. Men and women are equals right? So my wife can take care of her own utility bills.

Like the saying of old

"a FOOL and his money are soon parted"

Iyaebe isn't that your idea of a "real man"? Men are supposed to do unprintable things for women right?

Magnoliaa:
Men that can cum in seconds and feel alright are who sex isn't satisfying for?

So, wait. You don't gain any benefit from sex, yet, the sex industry thrives because of y'all, the ashawo thread of NL has about 5,000 pages, with 99% of commenters who share sexcapades being men, and you say you are polygamous in nature and you have non-degradable, elastic dìcks that can never be over-used, yet - the sex is not about your satisfaction? So what are the side chicks for?

Abeg, dey lie sofri.

I've never seen a gender that carries so much wahala on their heads, yet turn around to complain about the wahala and its uselessness. Tueh.

I believe the above questions were directed at men.

And even if you wanted to answer,you should at least try to address the questions like a Normal human being who attended formal education. This is not a place for the Uneducated please

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Nnnena:
so what if I'm not.
Face the message

If you can't/won't use the product,then why promote it?

The day that happens, I'll Quit this Forum and move over to Reddit.

Can't have an Insane,bias and ridiculous feminist overseeing the affairs of a predominantly male section of Nairaland

I bet you aren't even using any itel product

siofra:
You people should be deceiving yourselves. Time will tell.

You should know by now that women are very boring and dull set of creatures.

99 percent of the people in those Twitter posts are all guys.

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Sadly,these foolish men will never listen. They will keep on being Slaves to their wives all in the name of being responsible and Gentlemanly.

Now let me tell you this,foolish men our there. "Real man,gentleman,God fearing husband" are just terms used by women in order to make you do their bidding. As a gentleman,you open doors ror her,you buy gifts for her,you sacrifice your seat for her,you put her on your will... someone who literally isn't even your blood, someone who is just out for what she can drain from you.

You can get married,no one's stopping you. But please do not allow a woman Boss you around like you're a child. Your NO must always be NO!

Only FOOLISH men cry because a woman broke their hearts.

That girl you are killing yourself over for is probably choking on someone else's Rod in his apartment somewhere

BABYharder:
Op you can actually become a Reverend Father, how you take see am?

The alternative to being married isn't celibacy or priesthood. I can have all the sex or children I want without Marriage,while still safe guarding my sanity,peace of mind and resources. A married man is at a Disadvantage,while i have all the Advantages

Sluacoast:
This Sunny afternoon, I went to Maza Maza park. I was earlier informed by my aunt to deliver a package to someone at the park who's about travelling to port Harcourt.

I went there on time because I prepared earlier rather the time I was told to leave home. Initially my Aunt insisted that I should get there on time, she even gave me some money for transportation. She instructed me to make use of a motorcycle rather than a bus. But you know, man must look for a ways to cut the cost. I ended up going with a bus.

On getting there, I sauntered to the park and I decided to give the person I was supposed to deliver the package a call. Immediately the phone rang. The man has already sighted me and wave at me to come over. I greeted him and we exchange greetings. The man was probably in his late 30s. We spoke for some few minutes and he told me he's in a hurry because his bus was about leaving. He grab the package from me and handed an 100 hundred note in my hands. I was angry and disappointed at first. Haha, because my aunt has spoken a lot about him and I was surprised by the little tip he gave to me.

As a guy man. I didn't complain, I wanted to return his money back to him But I didn't and i silently watched him as he hurriedly ran back to his almost departed bus.

On my way home, A woman phone fell off from her bag. She was ontop of a moving motorcycle. There's no way I could have stopped her and returned the phone to her. but I just told myself that this phone is a blessing in disguise for me since I didn't even have one Kobo in my account. Lol. When I pick the phone. Behold. It was an iPhone SX MAX.

I gladly pick up the phone on time before any passerby will see it.

To cut the whole epistle short. On my arrival home. I have already gotten over 13 miss calls from the phone. The phone rang again in my present and I pick it. The voice I heard was the voice of a young lady sobering in tears already. In the background was a cry of a little child. She told me how important that phone is to her business. She was actually a makeup artist. I felt Pity in my heart. Phone that I've already concluded to sell off. At least I will make like about 150k upward.


Seriously I was so broke Even after I've concluded of returning the phone to her. Something was still telling me not to. But I ended up doing it.

I couldn't even tell my friends about this because I know too well I'll be insulted and mock.

Nigerian is hard but I cannot removed food from the mouth of a struggling young woman. Well, my struggle continue and I pray God help me out this December and next year.

I am still open up to any job opportunities if you have any for me thanks

While your Intentions were noble,you sir have been decieved.
A Struggling woman wouldn't be using a Phone worth over 150k. She's most probably a "runs girl" or her Yahoo boyfriend bought it for her.
Now I'm not saying returning the Phone to her was a mistake,it was actually a good thing. But I just don't want you to believe she was a "struggling" woman who would go hungry if the phone wasn't returned to her

virginprincess:
If she doesn't call you call her, it as simple as that or you buy her airtime for her to call you, i personally can stay a month without calling anybody maybe she's that type of person.

Why are you women just so heartless?

Your monicker doesn't suit you,you may be a princess of one random remote village located in the middle of nowhere,but you are most certainly not a Virgin

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isaiah4life:
This won't stop me from getting married.

Marriage sweet abeg if na de right person you waka with down de aisle.

Why do you want to get married though? Just an honest question.

And like I said in my post,DEM NOR DEY WRITE AM FOR HEAD. The "right person" you talked about may be the Devil in disguise and you wont know.

Fortunately,more men are Breaking free from their Mental Cages. Marriage may not be a complete scam in Africa YET, but it sure as hell is one if the worse fates a 21st century man will ever meet in the Western world.

I mean,think about it! A Poor, tattered and Unintelligent woman really have no worries,all she just needs is to be a woman,look for any Well to do "Real man" and lock him down with marriage. Maybe in a few decades later,the man dies and she gets to Inherit EVERY DAMN THING He had Ever worked for. All the products of his Sweat and hard labour would go to the woman.
And of course if the woman can't wait for the husband to die soon enough,she can just file for a divorce and collect Half Anyway. I see it as an Absolute win.

But let's take away the Gold-digging aspect and look at other matters shall we?

Another Thing to note is the constant stress,nagging, literal Hell,and Emotional manipulations SOME married men go through. You can't Stay in the Same house with a person who has no control over her emotions and expect to have peace. She will nagg you to death if you don't succumb to her Wishes. This is one of the reasons many men die young. They've endured emotional nonsense for almost half their lives and it seems their poor hearts just couldn't take it anymore. There are of course other disadvantages of getting married today like;
1. She MAY try to cut you off from your friends,close allies and family so she can have you all to herself. I have an uncle who handed his balls over to his wife to hold for him. Today,he and his elder brother are not on speaking terms because of his wife. And don't even get me started on Psquare and their wives wahala (there were rumors about one of their wives being the reason for their "quarrel". I DO NOT KNOW FOR A FACT,I JUST POINTED OUT A POSSIBLE CASE STUDY)

2. most men get married because of the Thought of Endless sex. This is really laughable because most of the time,their wives become lazy and sexually unresponsive to them after their 2nd or 3rd child. So getting married because you want an endless supply of sex is Foolish and very short sighted. And don't forget,that Sexiness you see in her today will fade away before she Hits menopause,or when/if she Gets Fat after her 1st baby.

3. Feminism! The whole purpose of marriage have been defeated by 3rd wave feminism,and it's even worse if you are a Christian or Muslim. I just watched a video today on youtube where a white woman said "breastfeeding of babies is not natural,and women shouldn't be tasked with it as a responsibility" because after all,there are milk formulas children can be given. What is being implied here is that imposing that kind of responsibilites on women is sexist and demeaning. Now tell me if you'd want a woman like that as the mother of your kids. Granted,not all women are feminists,and certainly only a small percentage of women think like that. But...DEM NOR DEY WRITE AM FOR HEAD

I know I will be called all sorts of names like "alfa male", small boy,broke and frustrated, mummy's boy etc. But it's all just shaming tactics and emotional blackmail really,a Logical thinking person wouldn't give in to all that nonsense. So my fellow men,i employ you today to GIVE ME JUST ONE BENEFIT OF MARRIAGE THAT IS EXCLUSIVE TO ONLY MEN.

And before you give me "the joy of having children" as your answer,just remember that you can most certainly have kids without getting married

Finally,more men are being to Break free from their Mental Cages. Marriage may not be a complete scam in Africa YET, but it sure as hell is one if the worse fates a 21st century man will ever meet in the Western world.

I mean,think about it! A Poor, tattered and Unintelligent woman really have no worries,all she just needs is to be a woman,look for any Well to do "Real man" and lock him down with marriage. Maybe in a few decades later,the man dies and she gets to Inherit EVERY DAMN THING He had Ever worked for. All the products of his Sweat and hard labour would go to the woman.
And of course if the woman can't wait for the husband to die soon enough,she can just file for a divorce and collect Half Anyway. I see it as an Absolute win

Finally,more men are being to Break free from their Mental Cages. Marriage may not be a complete scam in Africa YET, but it sure as hell is one if the worse fates a 21st century man will ever meet in the Western world.

I mean,think about it! A Poor, tattered and Unintelligent woman really have no worries,all she just needs is to be a woman,look for any Well to do "Real man" and lock him down with marriage. Maybe in a few decades later,the man dies and she gets to Inherit EVERY DAMN THING He had Ever worked for. All the products of his Sweat and hard labour would go to the woman.
And of course if the woman can't wait for the husband to die soon enough,she can just file for a divorce and collect Half Anyway. I see it as an Absolute win