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What do you all have to say about Simps? Are they the "Real men" you want Every man to be?

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takimsipho:
lol. You girls are just hilarious. I am not a fan of red pillers or radical feminists cos both groups are bitter and preach hate and fear. But the truth be said, men need women and women need men in their lives. And talking about standards, you girls over exaggerate things. How many women are there compared to men in professional roles, or own estates, industries or companies. Apart from hair salon, selling bags, clothes, shoes, what other business do women dominate. How many female billionaires do we have compared to men. Small money some of una see and person will not rest. Women are financially dependent on men world wide, there are only a few men who depend on women. And a side note, men don't date women because of their material possessions but character and fertile body

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Debbe:
I dONT KNOW WHY MEN ARE LIke this

Only a Foolish man would agree to That "no sex till marriage" nonsense.

But let me ask you this, What's the point of being in a relationship if you don't want to get intimate? What's the difference between that partner and all your other male friends?

Beckysexy:
I doubt if this one is 28. Who are this people deceiving sef ? This one should be in her late 30s.




I guess you must have seen her pussy before coming to this conclusion, right? I don't know why some of you guys talk about ladies in such a mannerless way.
Smh

Why do you women always so desperately want it so that Men respect ALL women?

We have both seen ladies talking so badly of men(their height, financial status,penis size etc) but I've never seen a Man Nor a woman for that matter,rebuke any of those women that they shouldn't talk about men in mannerless ways.

Earning one's respect is on the basis of merit,not by What's beneath your legs

siofra:
It's so bad. And they are now very stingy too.

The Ability to Give does not rest on the Male Gender alone! How many times have you sent 100 naira recharge card to your Slave boyfriend?

She just Put a bounty on herself. May the Highest Bidder win

Runo15:
Tecno spark go 2020

I'm using Tecno Spark 4

My phone's better than yours

Just joking bro

nathantope:
Which one should I choose between Nokia 1.4, Infinix smart 5 and tecno spark go or itel p37pro? All fall in between similar price range

My roommate is using a Tecno spark go and he's loving it. Spark Go is the better phone of all the one's you listed.

It has 2gb ram,32gb ROM.
5000mah battery plus 4g connectivity.

You do Know that not every Guy on Nairaland "hates" women right?

As a matter of fact,no guy really hates women here. Everything is just pure cruise,na mumu dey die untop cruise matter

And because some Foolish simps disturb women here daily on their mentions and dm's, doesn't mean that ALL guys do it. Please don't count me and other respected members here among those disgrace of men

garriAndsugar:
Fine girl

Why waste you time man? the only reply you're gonna get from her is "lol thanks" and that's even if she has the time to reply you.

Magnoliaa:
How are you?

I'm not fine,send me money pls

Richywiz:
its a bitter pill to swallow.
Women use men cos men are stupid.

I'll have to agree with you on this.

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Another question is,how will they have the access and control over your phone in order for them to be able to lock it?

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Iyaebe:
Tell them baby girl,haters shall be blind towards your success, your only offense is been a biracial you no kill person.

Hoes birds of the same Feathers,flock together

Eyinju112:
Guy go and hustle, stop deceiving yourself, no body want to live in abject poverty, you’re broke and you’re thinking of proposing? How do you wanna build your family? How do you wanna raise your kids? Don’t their future matters to you?

Do you even have dreams atall
A man with dream will never think of proposing while broke....

I’m not saying you have to be rich, please be sufficient at least...
The broke part issa no....
I’ll automatically conclude you ain’t a dreamer if you propose to me while been broke

This Should also apply to the ladies because we are now in the Era of Gender equality where Men and women now have the same roles,rights and Opportunities.

So a broke woman shouldn't even put marriage on her mind.

"I want A Man who is 6ft tall,had 38 packs on his chest,has 6 cars and 9 mansions in lekki and banana Highland"

Ok so what do you have to offer him?

"Care
Love
Support
Advice
Prayers
Motivation"

Most Nigerian ladies subconsciously see themselves as Sex objects,though they won't admit it. That is why the Emphasize so much on their Physical looks. They pack pounds of Make-up on their face up to the extent that they start looking like literal clowns.

Don't even get me started on the extremely foolish ones who undergo surgeries to make their Boobs and ass bigger. The low budget class Wear what is known as "yansh pad" so as to Decieve Unsuspecting foolish men into giving them Money. Then there is the bleaching of their skins up to the extent they start looking like rainbows .

They wear Short and tight fitted gowns and skirts so their shape "will come out well".
Now what's the purpose of all these? To attract Men,milk them dry and move on to the next Fool who is ready to part away their money for 10 mins worth of Mundane pleasure

Now dare call them sex objects,and they'll rain hellfire and brimstone on you

Siofra
Iyaebe
Baddiefreak
Futureisfemale
Candidlady
Autochick4u

Slawomiir your attention is needed

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sirjamesjnr:
There is no sure thing as a sexual quota. And there is no such thing as a ‘hoe’. Men that slut-shaming women are not mature to be in a grown-up relationship. No lady is not accountable to any man for her past. It's none of a man's business.
That lady A has one guy she sleep with when she was 15 till she clocks 30 and married, lady B has a body count of 100 before her 30th birthday. The truth is the two ladies have sex and they don't owe you any explanation.


If you are going to marry for 'purity" look for a virgin girl. Do not condemn a man who wants a team player, homemaker, companion, and someone who can resonate with him. A virgin girl can tick all the boxes agreed. If you found that virgin girl with these qualities good luck. There is a lady out there for every man. Time is hard, while the world is moving forward, the Average Nigerian man is talking about body count. Shouldn't you be worried about a lady who can build a great home with you so your generation won't abuse you? Whether you are wealthy or you are coming up, I will like to think you need a proper woman to build your home with you.


My time in this uncertain world, both in the corporate world and among great minds. What we care about are ladies with decent character, basic moral values, ethics, cleanliness, abilities to accept responsibility, and willingness to learn something good. Never for once within this circle of friends and learned mind do we care about what a woman does with her body. What you do when you are in a relationship with me is what matters.

To that man who is in a decent relationship:
I know how you feel. When you develop strong feelings for a girl, it’s hard to think of her being with other guys. Even though you can rationalize that her past relationships happened before you met, it doesn’t make it any easier to accept that there were others who had been intimate with her. But you can’t dwell on this. It will destroy you, and it will destroy your relationship with your girlfriend.

Unless your girlfriend is the kind of girl that is very flirtatious, and who loves all the attention that she can get from guys, you probably don’t have anything to worry about. If she were a “hoe” she wouldn't want to have a decent relationship. So how do you get over this? There are only two things that I know of that you can do:


1. Don’t torture yourself with the details. There is no reason for you to know with whom she did it, how many times they did it, what positions they did it in, how big the guys were, and if they were better in bed than you or not. As tempting as it is to ask her these things—don’t! And stop her from volunteering that kind of information. Knowing these things will not help you or your relationship with your girlfriend in any way. They will only become mental and emotional burdens to you—obstacles and barriers that you will constantly have to overcome in order to treat her the way that she deserves to be treated. You protect yourself and you protect your relationship when you avoid rubbing your nose in her past.
2. Change the way that you look at people. Start realizing that every one of us is screwed up in some way. There are no perfect people. Every single one of us does dumb things and makes mistakes in our quest to find love and belonging. Your girlfriend is no exception. Choose to see her through the eyes of love and compassion, rather than through the eyes of judgment and condemnation.


To our ladies. I have one thing to say to you. You don’t need to apologize for your past relationships, and you don't need to explain yourself to any man. Simply understand that all you need is to be loved by someone, and if it didn’t work out, move on and build your life. Hopefully, your next relationship will work out for you.

Me personally? I’ve never longed to be with a virgin except for an ex and my girl(I am not with her because of sexual purity). I prefer my sexual partners to already know their way around their own sexuality. That means they’ve gotten some practice. Now I understand that as a man you need some certain confidence that some of you may are probably still forming. But when someone says something derogatory about the woman I’ve chosen to love I don’t reconsider my love. I conclude the person saying it is an idiot and ignore them in the future. I have faith in myself which leads me to have faith in the people I choose as partners.
Ladies out there, know the class of men you allow into your life. Be responsible for your actions.

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Men una nor go ever hear word.

Get married to a retired prostitute if you want,no one's stopping you

You ended up not Stating the punishments

One thing I know is,it is impossible for a woman to truly Love

Magnoliaa:
Sorry, sis. I feel your pain. Who knew he'd turn out to be an oil well and money bags.

Hoes birds of the same Feathers,flocks together

Magnoliaa:
Thanks for the compliment. I like to learn and I'm only trying to be better in hoeing after all.

At least you are Honest about it. I wish you well in your Clitocurrency trading

Magnoliaa:
Thank you and God Bless You.

Small girl with Big God

BonPatrick:
Good evening guys, I am in a relationship and i love her so much and she love me too but the problem is that she is always being the one in command whenever I correct her something she will not do it or cuddle on me. It all started after two months into the relationship we are both final year students. I was broke though we have bleep but since 1st she refuse to give me sex. I didn't disturb her I always send her sms morning and night but she never replied, she said she doesn't have time to stress her head. I feel sad. This october she no give me sex even when I touch her she will shown me as if I am a stranger. I don't know the reason why she is acting that way and she refuse to tell me. What do you think is the problem. I am feeling so unhappy.

I'll go straight to the point and tell you the Hard truth. She doesn't love you,in fact,it is Actually impossible for a woman to Love a person who is not her Offspring. You see,women are very selfish creatures and only wants what's best for her,so they go about looking for foolish men they can Leech on to.

The fact that she's denying you sex should tell you that you are the only one in the Relationship situationship. Want my advice? Break up with her and Delete women from your mind for now. Work on your Physical,mental, emotional and financial development. Become fit,hustle for the bag and learn to control your mind and emotions.

My Biggest fear is between Loosing my Mother to the Clutches of death or Becoming Blind,deaf and dumb all at the same time.

I honestly don't know which is worse.

I can't even stand the thought of loosing my mother she and very few other women are the Only Females in Nigeria who actually are not Useless. These women are strong and independent,some of them are even the heads of their homes and you won't see them boasting about it. These are the women who should be proud of calling Themselves Women, and not all these useless girls on Instagram and TikTok that are twerking away their usefulness

Longsleeve:
It's nothing new . Guys have been doing it to ladies too..

That's why I do tell people not to put all their eggs in one basket..

@bolded isn't necessary. You are trying to Absolve the girl in question of any blame or criticism because apparently,men also do it too

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Me way dey bang and move on....you think say I nor know wetin I dey do...



Abegii...make I light up my weed while I bomb and huzzle

I wonder the time you have For Bombing when you are Always on every front page topic. I told my guy who is also a yahoo boy about you and he said he doesn't believe a Bomber would have the time to be that frequent on a Website that doesn't pay him money

siofra:
Today I was passing by two boys and one of them was loudly bragging about 'chopping' a girl. He said "I chop am well, she no too fine but she get money and she get nyash. She don spend for my head well well" I turned to look at the goat that was talking. If ugliness was a person, it would be this boy.

But he looked like a yahoo boy and girls these days have a weak spot for yahoo boys. Piercings everywhere, baggy trousers with cross bag. Trademark of a yahoo boy.

I would have told the girl but.... I don't want somebody to remove my teeth. I'm a trouble maker online but not offline.

What have Nigerian men women turn into They no longer want to spend on women men or work hard. They want fast money. It's so bad they now brag about spending a woman's man's money. It's truly pathetic!!

So let me get this straight. You and your Likes here on Nairaland and in Nigeria generally see no problem in A foolish man wasting his life savings on an ungrateful and entitled Prostitute. But now that the Bad boy has done what is just miniscule in comparison to what you Women always do,it is now a problem?

Unruly7:
I only cancel those I start seeing their posts while they're yet to accept my request I will cancel

Secondly if you accept and ignore my message I will unfriend too

My fb of 12 years have just 89 friends

Boss dash me your account abeg make I use am bomb

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